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Compatibility The importance of knowing each other offers many benefits to the person who wants to learn more about compatibility with a specific person. Some of the questions to be answered in this are: Do the two of you have the same wiring? And are you on the same wavelength? If so, will the chemistry last? Do you enjoy similar interests, activities, hold the same opinions of others? Do you have the same level of integrity, compassion for others, and willingness to compromise? Are your aspirations and goals similar? Will the two of you meld together as a united front, or will you become polarized in time with significantly different outlooks on life? Will you forge a permanent bond, or will the two of you slowly pull away and eventually become strangers in the same house? Are you already noticing faults that you are repressing, perhaps even being in denial, for fear that this relationship won't last? Are you thinking clearly, or is your quest for settling down overriding your common sense? When encountering difficulties, will the two of you be able to work things out in a calm, rational manner, or will it lead to heated debates and unrelenting arguments? And, finally, will the two of you grow more in love, or will the opposite occur? In effect, is this a good match? What can be more important than a marvelous partnership between two loving, giving people? This is what each and every one of us strive for. Therefore, it is imperative that you explore every aspect of this relationship, to learn as much as you can, so that you know what lies ahead in your future. Only by exploring in depth whether or not this is a workable compatibility, only then can you make an educated, rational, and heartfelt decision. |
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8/19/2006 9:28 pm |
This is true, compatibility is a prime factor in a lasting relationship.
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8/19/2006 9:30 pm |
It is a good point to stress too that the quality of the relationship is important that the length. What good is staying together if you are miserable with each other?
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8/19/2006 9:32 pm |
There should be respect and a real effort to bridge the gap ... don't let it widen or don't bear in silence while seething inside, like a dormant volcano waiting to erupt.
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This is true, compatibility is a prime factor in a lasting relationship.
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It is a good point to stress too that the quality of the relationship is important that the length. What good is staying together if you are miserable with each other?
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There should be respect and a real effort to bridge the gap ... don't let it widen or don't bear in silence while seething inside, like a dormant volcano waiting to erupt.
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Those are quite a lot of questions. Maybe a lot of things are not compatible between two people but if they are willing to compromise and adjust, there should be a meetin gof the minds.
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First a meeting of the hearts is more important. Many things are over ruled by the heart. When there's love, the heart conquers the mind.
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It is for the good of the partner when we point out faults to him. He will listen for sure, esp. if he feels the sincerity in it.
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Love and concern for our partner makes us want to be a better person for the other, in the way our partner has that kind of feeling too.
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Couple compatibility determines the mental wavelength of each person and the ease with which they can get along while respecting each other's feelings and opinions.
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This is true, compatibility is a prime factor in a lasting relationship.
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It is a good point to stress too that the quality of the relationship is important that the length. What good is staying together if you are miserable with each other?
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It is better to talk it out and discuss rather than appear cool and silent. It is not healthy to harbor ill feelings without ventilating it to the partner.
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Love and concern for our partner makes us want to be a better person for the other, in the way our partner has that kind of feeling too.
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Compatibility should also include the couple's willingness to make the relationship last.
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The problems can arise due to the difference of opinions, ego clashes and a host of other such problems.
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You should be living your life happily with your 'significant other'. When problems arise, know exactly where is the problem, and remedy and overcome the problem at once.
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Do the two of you have the same wiring? And are you on the same wavelength? If so, will the chemistry last? Check this out before you tie the knot! The beloved in your life is a rigid disciplinarian, fixed in views which are largely out of date. An inner mistrust or reserve will hold back in day-to-day life. He/She believes his/her way is the only way.
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Do you enjoy similar interests, activities, hold the same opinions of others? ================================================================== Mutual understanding may be missing. The boy may be puffed-up with self-importance. He will be boastful, domineering and an incorrigible spendthrift. He may over-eat, thus have health problems, which he cannot understand. He may be constantly borrowing money from friends and will be always in debt. You want more? You tend to avoid responsibilities and project your troubles on others. Life goes on like this.
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Do you have the same level of integrity, compassion for others, and willingness to compromise? ================================================================= How far you will be successful is doubtful. She may be impatient, and argumentative. You are a serious-type, with good powers of observation. You are burdened with unavoidable responsibilities.
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Are your aspirations and goals similar? Will the two of you meld together as a united front, or will you become polarized in time with significantly different outlooks on life? =================================================================== There may be misunderstandings in sharing of household responsibilities. The boy will want to remain free. He will be too independent and unconventional
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Will you forge a permanent bond, or will the two of you slowly pull away and eventually become strangers in the same house? =================================================================== With some attitude adjustments from both sides, you can run a smooth family life.
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Are you already noticing faults that you are repressing, perhaps even being in denial, for fear that this relationship won't last? ============================================================ You cannot blame somebody else for your misfortune.
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Are you thinking clearly, or is your quest for settling down overriding your common sense? ============================================================= The beloved may be stubborn, unable to see another person’s point of view. With some attitude adjustments, you can lead a smooth life.
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