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mandy1935 70M
19 posts
8/7/2006 11:53 pm

Last Read:
8/23/2009 4:28 am

don't judge me for who i am


well here i am , what can i say ?
ok , i'm as you can see in my profile / pick , that i'm a male , and i sometimes wear female clothing .

It does'nt mean that i'm gay , according some books that i did read about transgendereds ( CD's , TV's , shemales tranny's , ladyboys , transsexuals falls under that same umbrella )but in those books for those who don't want a sexchange , it seems that i'm " bipolar ".

that means that i can see things , understand things and situations, just like a woman does , but i can also understand the vieuw points of a male .

the female clothing is only an expression of my inner femininity ( wich actualy every man also has but mostly don't know or don't want to recognise it )

in some cultures it's seen as a special gift to to a person like me , but in cociety today it can be rather a curse , because the church created centuries ago a taboo around it , and made it like it was a sin

united we stand divided we fall


pax506 67F
958 posts
8/8/2006 9:09 am

People are more broadminded nowadays even in highly conservative countries. It is the way a person treats his fellowmen that really counts. The person may be straight in his physical & outward appearance but if he is mean, cruel, arrogant and boastful, proud and uncharitable, his being considered as "normal" has no value.

Above the storm the smallest prayer will still be heard.


gerico61 62F
980 posts
8/10/2006 5:45 am

    Quoting pax506:
    People are more broadminded nowadays even in highly conservative countries. It is the way a person treats his fellowmen that really counts. The person may be straight in his physical & outward appearance but if he is mean, cruel, arrogant and boastful, proud and uncharitable, his being considered as "normal" has no value.
It is true ... How you get along with people is more important than how you dress up ... Dressing differently by itself will not cause any harm to anyone, but having bad manners and being mean certainly does!

Forever's not enough for me to love you!


fraz2000 45M
348 posts
8/10/2006 8:57 pm

    Quoting mandy1935:
    thanks pax , if ALL people where broadminded things in life would be much easier then
Here in the Philippines it is easy... And accepted to do your own thing as long as it doesn't harm anyone. They respect the church and clergy but they do understand the "human" side of each of us as a UNIQUE individual.

LaCE ... LOVE and CARE EVERYDAY


liveforlove 57F
13 posts
5/28/2007 5:00 am

you can't possible judge a person by seeing them only on physical aspect, for me and i'm sure for the most of us... that doesn't count much coz someday it will fade.... what counts most is the person behind and inside....you are more beautiful inside and im sure people will see that in you...don't let people's negative judgement affect you and your chance of happiness....you'll gain respect by being you being you are a good person.... and i love you (of course in a normal way between friends..hahahaha)


ambrans 63M

4/22/2008 6:50 pm

Hi Mandy, you`re really one of the nicest person i`ve had the pleasure to know.. You are very well rounded in life, and a good person at heart..