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jane82 110F
6529 posts
6/8/2013 4:38 pm
Lambingan

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within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/8/2013 5:14 pm

Man Hid Cold man hiding his feelings maybe.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
6/8/2013 6:01 pm


All true Janey, Been there Done that. Luckily I'm still afloat and enjoying life :
)

I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
6/8/2013 6:29 pm

Hehehehehe! Janey, I thought, familiarity breeds contempt..

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
6/8/2013 6:30 pm

By the way, I am super Malambing, although people think, that I am mataray..

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
6/8/2013 6:32 pm

    Quoting jane82:
    Man Hid Cold man hiding his feelings maybe.
Hahahahaha! Manhid is not cold...He is "numb) or "apathetic"..

ELZ


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 1:30 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    All true Janey, Been there Done that. Luckily I'm still afloat and enjoying life

You've graduated and retire whenever kuya Bert. Keep it up!

I was going to add variety adds spice. Seems to be happening in bloglandia. Multiplicity.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 1:31 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Hehehehehe! Janey, I thought, familiarity breeds contempt..
That is one, but I prefer this in relation to relationships Miss Elz. You know being taken for granted and such.

Good morning to y'all.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 1:33 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Hahahahaha! Manhid is not cold...He is "numb) or "apathetic"..
That is translated in my first comment which won't show up as it's mostly in Tagalog using a guy's blog whose blog is appearing here somehow in another form.

I shall copy it again if it makes a difference. It's the trend this past few months.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 1:35 am

    Quoting  :

Sometimes those aren't enough in itself. At least you can you did your best Joi.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 1:46 am

The picture is a tribute by BSG fans. It will make sense if you saw the show.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 1:47 am

    Quoting jane82:
    Natatawa ako kay Kuya K. Lalo pa ako natatawa at nahihilo kasi may kunwaring babae tignan pero lalaki ang nagsulat at tapos lalaki na babae ang nagsulat dito. Hayzz nakakalito. Muntik na maniwala rin ako.



    I find what kuya K wrote funny. What's funnier is when....

    Minsan ang mga babae ay nagtatapang-tapangan para lambingin ng lalake. "

    Sometimes women put up a brave front, so men will show affection.

    Gustong gusto naming mga lalake na lambingin ang mga babae. Kaya minsan natutuwa kami na kailangan nang ilang mga babae na magtapang-tapangan o galit-galitan para lambingin naming mga lalake. At satin namang mga lalake, wag po sana tayong maging MANHID

    Women really admire men who are affectionate. That's why sometimes men are glad to see men who put up a brave display and anger, so men will give affection.

    And to us guys(Kuya including himself) is hoping that men will not turn numb.


    Yan nga masarap lambingan pero ayoko siya mahawaan ng sakit ko

    Yes it's sweet to be shown affection, but don't want to make him sick too.
Quoting myself.

* you can say to Joi.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


enrique2012 48M

6/9/2013 5:46 am

Now now people, nothing wrong kung manhid ang tao ( whether boy or girl) its not necessarily a bad thing. While it may not work for most people, for some it does. I'm fairly indifferent and apathetic myself and I prefer it to the time when I was more touchy-feely and open.

On topic, people in general like it kapag malambing yung partner nila. It makes them feel loved, secure etc.. I've found out though, sometimes women want you to make lambing ( and not make lambing )at certain times as well and that a barometer of how well you know them. Kapag naglambing ka at the wrong moment...oh yeah you get the cold shoulder, and if you fail to be malambing at the right moment, lagot ka rin. One needs to learn how to read the cues to act accordingly.

Myself, I don't really need any kind of lambing..that would kind of ruin my fabricated image of a cold, distant, bad mother......although admittedly pag nilalambing ako with " calm down my big bad wolf, tahan na" well...wait, did I just say that out loud?

My will is unbreakable. Simply put, I cannot be broken - Enrique


enrique2012 48M

6/9/2013 5:47 am

Oh yeah btw Jane, I just might do that toronto thing..sige ka

My will is unbreakable. Simply put, I cannot be broken - Enrique


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 6:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Renewed, time to rejoice in the Lord always.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 6:21 pm

    Quoting  :

nakakaloka.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 6:33 pm

    Quoting enrique2012:
    Now now people, nothing wrong kung manhid ang tao ( whether boy or girl) its not necessarily a bad thing. While it may not work for most people, for some it does. I'm fairly indifferent and apathetic myself and I prefer it to the time when I was more touchy-feely and open.

    On topic, people in general like it kapag malambing yung partner nila. It makes them feel loved, secure etc.. I've found out though, sometimes women want you to make lambing ( and not make lambing )at certain times as well and that a barometer of how well you know them. Kapag naglambing ka at the wrong moment...oh yeah you get the cold shoulder, and if you fail to be malambing at the right moment, lagot ka rin. One needs to learn how to read the cues to act accordingly.

    Myself, I don't really need any kind of lambing..that would kind of ruin my fabricated image of a cold, distant, bad mother......although admittedly pag nilalambing ako with " calm down my big bad wolf, tahan na" well...wait, did I just say that out loud?
heehehe defensive Enrique?? Sounds awfully familiar to me, especially that fabricated part.

There's a time and place for everything perhaps. Depends whether you're comfortable showing affections in public or private.

Does it matter to you? Is it because you don't want people to know what you're really like and you'd rather let people think what they want than show who you really are inside?

It can be poor timing to be silly when in the middle of a serious discussion or sometimes when your partner is not in the mood or huffing (nagtatampo) because of a disagreement.

Maybe you can think of other reasons when and where you should or shouldn't hug, kiss and make-up. How do you read the cues huh? Through obvious or subtle hints in the body language, tone of voice....??



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 6:37 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    By the way, I am super Malambing, although people think, that I am mataray..
I believe you're indeed passionate and super sweet (malambing) with a person you want to be with.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 6:41 pm

    Quoting enrique2012:
    Oh yeah btw Jane, I just might do that toronto thing..sige ka
that's up to you Enrique.

I'll be there with bf and meet up with relatives in early autumn.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 6:54 pm

A few comments appeared late. Better late than never.

Nothing will ever be smooth sailing. Sometimes we'll have to ride the rough waves and be ready to endure whatever comes along and progress onwards and upwards. It doesn't come with a guarantee. None of us knows what's in store for the future. The future doesn't always belong to us. Contentment can be achieved, though it shouldn't make us complacent that nothing will ever go wrong as it can and will repeatedly until the end. Each day will be altered and recycled. Some days will be exhausting and uninspiring. Other days will be wild and vigorous. Another day could be mundane and dreary.

Look within ourselves and guidance from Heavens above.




within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 6:55 pm

For now, Love me tender, sweet, long and true.

Good night. Sorry dear can't kiss you nor hug you at the mo' until I feel better soon hopefully.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/9/2013 7:06 pm

    Quoting enrique2012:
    Now now people, nothing wrong kung manhid ang tao ( whether boy or girl) its not necessarily a bad thing. While it may not work for most people, for some it does. I'm fairly indifferent and apathetic myself and I prefer it to the time when I was more touchy-feely and open.

    On topic, people in general like it kapag malambing yung partner nila. It makes them feel loved, secure etc.. I've found out though, sometimes women want you to make lambing ( and not make lambing )at certain times as well and that a barometer of how well you know them. Kapag naglambing ka at the wrong moment...oh yeah you get the cold shoulder, and if you fail to be malambing at the right moment, lagot ka rin. One needs to learn how to read the cues to act accordingly.

    Myself, I don't really need any kind of lambing..that would kind of ruin my fabricated image of a cold, distant, bad mother......although admittedly pag nilalambing ako with " calm down my big bad wolf, tahan na" well...wait, did I just say that out loud?
Your comment reminded me of an amusing comic strip I read today by a woman in her 20's.

Messages that are sent can be quite confusing and mixed up.

"You don't want to seem insecure. So you need to appear confident! But not too confident, lest you come off as arrogant! So you should be confident and modest. But not so modest that you look insecure!"

No wonder nobody knows what to be. Best advice, be yourself.
Who gives a toss what anybody else thinks?
Everyone will be judged anyway in some shape or form whether to your face or the back of you.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


enrique2012 48M

6/10/2013 3:39 am

    Quoting jane82:
    that's up to you Enrique.

    I'll be there with bf and meet up with relatives in early autumn.
Well well well....perhaps it is time I met this mysterious Z in person huh...hmm....

My will is unbreakable. Simply put, I cannot be broken - Enrique


enrique2012 48M

6/10/2013 3:42 am

Hah, defensive ba....you know me enough by now so shush and tigil dyan..

Personally, it matters not a whit to me - whilst I am more comfortable in private ok lang even in public. It is as you say though, people can think what they want of me as I do not show how I really am inside, except for a very few people. Like I said in your other blog - night and day difference and it can be...jarring to see it. Otherwise, people are free to speculate or affix designations on my person. Ayos lang.

I think once you know a person well enough, you develop a "feel" for them and act accordingly. At least, that is how it is for me. I suppose visual cues like their eyes or the tilt of their head, or how their breathing is helps as well. Like I said though, most times I can just sense it from them. Sometimes, when they say " Just leave me alone " they mean " Leave me the $%^& alone".

Having said that, I'm usually quite reserved when out in public. Although one time, naghihimatok yung girl ko and she was quite irritable and short-tempered so I just grabbed her and kissed her there sa mall. That got rid of that, quick. Although it got replaced by something else....ahem

My will is unbreakable. Simply put, I cannot be broken - Enrique


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/10/2013 5:27 am

Janey,

I like the last part best, clearly the message was - to have fun loving: for love and pure happiness comes from the heart...other factors such as jealousy and mistrust - the by product of a corrupted mind.

Enjoy loving sis...its the most wondrous feeling on earth.


jane82 110F

6/10/2013 4:01 pm

    Quoting enrique2012:
    Well well well....perhaps it is time I met this mysterious Z in person huh...hmm....
Not so mysterious. You know some things already.

I just choose which part to share and the rest will be easy enough to find later.

I'll be there for a few days only and will be here once more.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.