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Would you let someone else decide...? This post is only viewable by Filipino FriendFinder members. Join Filipino FriendFinder now!    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time. |
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3/14/2013 6:59 am |
Ahhh! it's a lengthy blog that makes sense...First, I thank God, I do not belong to a culture where I need to be "pre-arranged" to live the rest of my life with someone. Secondly, even if that is the case, I'll probably break the rule.  Third, yeah, movie stars get involved with each other when they've the same projects and say buhbye when the movies flop... ...But honestly, I will "listen" to my family as to who and what qualities of a man I should be with, and really pay attention to details...but, in the end, I will "decide" if that person, indeed, is someone I deserve to love and cherish..Hayz!  Just call me ELZ 
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3/14/2013 7:00 am |
As to friends matching friends? Hmmmm?  Just call me ELZ
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3/14/2013 7:01 am |
I'll see you all again on Saturday...I'll be out of town (San Antonio, TX), and I won't allow FB nor FFF to be a part of it.. See yah!  Just call me ELZ
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Janey, so true in the showbiz world. Pairing one after the other to make money. Like a contract to the stars. Elz, Enjoy and have a great time!!! Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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3/14/2013 7:59 pm |
I'm on my own when I decide on personal matters especially when it comes to my love life. Magandang araw, Janey.
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Janey, ...and the answer is NO. It's my heart, my life, therefore I'll choose who to love and to live with. If it didn't turn out right, I only have myself to blame. So far, I haven't come to that point yet - blaming and regretting. For everything of my past mistakes, there's also part learning and growing, which makes me a 'wise' woman in my own standard. Happy weekend sis 
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3/15/2013 2:45 pm |
Ahhh! it's a lengthy blog that makes sense...First, I thank God, I do not belong to a culture where I need to be "pre-arranged" to live the rest of my life with someone. Secondly, even if that is the case, I'll probably break the rule. Third, yeah, movie stars get involved with each other when they've the same projects and say buhbye when the movies flop......But honestly, I will "listen" to my family as to who and what qualities of a man I should be with, and really pay attention to details...but, in the end, I will "decide" if that person, indeed, is someone I deserve to love and cherish..Hayz!  reading. heheheh Not sure how I'd be to live in a culture where my partner and path in life is chosen for me. Maybe I'd crack up from the lack of freedom.  But then again I'm used to being a free spirit. It might be different if I was brought up more restricted. Who knows? hehehe I do take in consideration what other people share whether it's positive or negative and more likely to listen to, be convinced and influenced by someone who frequently gives a sound advice and is a good judge of character.  But as you said, it's us who ultimately have to live with the result and consequences, so we might as well have a say in the matter. Hence, why I quit my first long-term relationship. Couldn't take it any more. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 2:47 pm |
As to friends matching friends? Hmmmm? I pay attention to the little details now from the supposedly insignificant details such as the way the man treats others, the manner he drives etc.within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 2:49 pm |
I'll see you all again on Saturday...I'll be out of town (San Antonio, TX), and I won't allow FB nor FFF to be a part of it.. See yah! Have fun this St. Patrick weekend. Lucky you in Vegas. Thanks very much for your visit and quick farewell. Hasta luego! within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 2:51 pm |
Janey, so true in the showbiz world. Pairing one after the other to make money. Like a contract to the stars. Elz, Enjoy and have a great time!!! As long as you're happy. Those stars can do whatever money can buy. Have a lovely weekend to you all! within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 2:53 pm |
Dunno about KStew and RPatz relationship if they're meant to be. But at least the writer intended their characters to be together. Which team do you root for Tinks or is it a silly question?? within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 2:55 pm |
I'm on my own when I decide on personal matters especially when it comes to my love life. Magandang araw, Janey. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 2:58 pm |
Janey, ...and the answer is NO. It's my heart, my life, therefore I'll choose who to love and to live with. If it didn't turn out right, I only have myself to blame. So far, I haven't come to that point yet - blaming and regretting. For everything of my past mistakes, there's also part learning and growing, which makes me a 'wise' woman in my own standard. Happy weekend sis ....'For everything of my past mistakes, there's also part learning and growing, which makes me a 'wise' woman in my own standard.'  Better to blame ourselves than pass on the blame to someone else. I've felt regret before, but I'm coming to terms with life in different ways such as becoming more tolerant. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 3:03 pm |
Very cool sis. You and your family are certainly jewels. It's wonderful that you share the same taste and values.Thankfully, my parents mainly just want me to be happy, successful and mom wants a grandchild. If they had anything in particular that they'd choose, they'd like the guy to be financially stable and better still, wealthy. I've the former, but not the latter. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/15/2013 3:47 pm |
Apologies for the blurry text on the image. Tried to sharpen it, but didn't work. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/18/2013 11:00 am |
I understand Merian. Very happy for you too. Nice to see you again. Pray that you've decided what's best for you and your family. Are you staying home or going away for work? within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/18/2013 11:01 am |
hehehe learning each day. Thanks for our visit Tinks.  within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/18/2013 11:02 am |
hehehe you aren't that old. Your mind can be young. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/19/2013 3:11 am |
Since 13 year old, I got my freedom already. I married my ex. w/o my siblings or family`s approval, I only invited them for wedding party not common in Filipino culture I know...But I do respect those bound to culture arrangements, just pity as the basis mostly is not love 
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3/19/2013 4:51 pm |
Since 13 year old, I got my freedom already. I married my ex. w/o my siblings or family`s approval, I only invited them for wedding party not common in Filipino culture I know...But I do respect those bound to culture arrangements, just pity as the basis mostly is not love Brave woman to respect the convention of marriage and go beyond the convention. Kudos sis.  Arrangements aren't what they always appear. Some work and most don't. Guess like any other marriage. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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