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jane82 110F
6529 posts
9/12/2012 11:54 am
I love ya mate

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within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/12/2012 4:21 pm

This is taking longer to come out, so maybe I shall add some more to bring it to life.

Mom doesn't approve of one of my bffs. Mom thought ma mate did something bad. Nonetheless I didn't take any notice and told mom that there's nothing wrong with my bff. To this day, she's one of the 3 most loyal friends I've ever had and her mom recognises that long distances and years passing by our hearts remains the same.

The same goes for our mutual friend which her mom doesn't approve of after he lived with her family, which he took for granted. Nevertheless, bff sticks by his side forever his best friend.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
9/13/2012 6:10 am

Janey,

You are the perfect meaning of "mate". Truly blessed...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Bebong2010 56F

9/13/2012 8:10 am

Bright light almost blinding, black night still there shining,
I can't stop, keep on climbing, looking for what I knew.

Had a friend, he once told me, "You got love, you ain't lonely,"
Now he's gone and left me only looking for what I knew.

Mmm, I'm telling you now, The greatest thing you ever can do now,
Is trade a smile with someone who's blue now, It's very easy just...

Met a man on the roadside crying, without a friend, there's no denying,
You're incomplete, they'll be no finding looking for what you knew.

So anytime somebody needs you, don't let them down, although it grieves you,
Some day you'll need someone like they do, looking for what you knew...

well Z... i'm still__ can't say looking for i ain't__ waiting?
don't know much about friends

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 4:13 pm

    Quoting  :

hahaha mahhoy matey you're getting mushy on me. ayayayay dunno what to say

thanks I love the range of mates here you've Ate KJ. Appears to be a lot of mates mating.

By the way where's your blog? We're waiting. We as in other bloggers and mates here M8.

Did you send a text message by chance? If it isn't you then I'll have to ask someone else. I don't recognise the number and I've no idea who it is and have barely any money on my phone right now. Only 15p.

I've heard the same fear from other online mates and their families. They think why bother entertaining someone you don't know and what if they turn to be a psychopath?? Each of us have our reservations about it in some shape or form or from our friends and family. They worry for us that's why I'm discrete about it and say I know you from the other side rather than purely state that you're from a dating site because it rings alarm bells for other people.

But and a BIG but, we kinda know what we're getting ourselves into and have use a bit of our common sense and intuition. Who knows what's out there until you try?

My first eb I've my chaperone and my travel partner in crime. It wasn't because it was an eb, but because we enjoy spending time together. As he's part of my life, he can get to know who I let in my life and get immersed in our culture. That way he doesn't turn out to be ignorant of it.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 4:25 pm

Exactly that's what friendship is about sharing a moment or if you're lucky, a lifetime's worth of memories.

I'm sure you're definitely good at that, which makes you a valuable and caring friend people would want to be around.

I'm glad too that our sense of humour is on the same wavelength, so we can share more experiences and have a lotta laugh.

But I've got to admit when it comes to feelings and the trials and tribulations with guys and courting and all that you win hands down. You've got so many things floating on your head about anything and anyone until you fall asleep.

You definitely needed some sleep. While I can carry on until I'm rest assured I've done what I needed and wished to accomplished. There's no rest for the wicked. I appreciate though that you were looking out for me.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 4:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Lol akala ko secret natin yan temab.
I've been good I didn't mention te and I've keep mum until you have. Now it's not much of a secret.

How about we sit beside facing towards the screen imagining you're looking right now?

You know I don't really use Skype or ym video, except with an old blogger and FFFriend, but she has left. Add to that my bff and the bf.

Indeed you've so many mates add the drinking mates, shopping mates, driving mates, brother's gf mate, swimming mates and the almost soul mates. You're just missing a prison mate.

I won't gain anything from being deceitful, but it's very common on the web. Many are married and have relationships and want an open relationship or no strings attached marital affair. It's a huge booming business because it's very discrete and unlikely to be discovered, so they say it's harmless fun and nobody has to get hurt. Fair enough if that's one's prerogative as long as they don't involve others who don't want to be part of it.

It's unfortunate sometimes that I'm sensitive, but I've learnt to curb it and control it and grow a backbone. It's simply in my nature. From time to time I'd wonder what it would be like to not feel a thing.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 4:57 pm

    Quoting  :

I just type what comes to mind. Nothing out of the ordinary. Sometimes dark stuff creeps in, but usually sunny.

Te Lau is so cool. Tell her she's such a cool geek chic. I was surprise at the interesting stuff she watches that interest her. There are few Pinoys I've come across who are even aware of Dr. Who, her preference for British comedy and programme rather than American and enjoys cult stuff, nature and documentaries. She's full of smiles, patient and is easy going. If she's single by choice, it's cool, but if not, why are the men not appreciating you sisters enough. I dunno where the good men are hiding.

I'm still in awe of Jay's cooking. My favourite was his ginataang hipon. Men like him deserve a seksual mate for life. He's a passionate cook and funny too. Tell him not to be dismayed with his previous attempts of hooking up with somebody. There's always someone else ready to pounce on. Plenty of fish in the sea. He's younger than us, so he has more chances of getting a new partner. You know after he finishes his career he'll be even more sought after. He'll be like a sugar daddy.

You're so lucky to have each other. As others have commented you look like sisters to me.

I'm more lucky to have you as a mate.

I can be off sometimes if provoked. If I ever do have those moments, just let it slide and I'll get back to norm.

I hug my mom earlier is that ok?
Kiss your mom too.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 5:07 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Janey,

    You are the perfect meaning of "mate". Truly blessed...
Thank. I beg to disagree Ate Tess. Like my friend I don't feel at ease with compliments. I still disagree even with my bf. He'll tell me well I believe so, even if you don't. I retort well you don't take my compliment for you either.

As I'm not used to friends making the first moves, I can feel guilty about it sometimes if I can't be there because I'm at my bf's or somewhere else at work or whatever or if I can't return the favour or the stuff they give. It's oddly overwhelming.

It doesn't always have to be a lifelong commitment, at times a sincere friendly gesture and smile is enough to make an impact.

There's no doubt it's nice to get treats when you least expect it from meeting people I wouldn't have dreamed of or anticipated to meet and the time they commit towards a healthy relationship.

Like any relationship, friendship needs nurtured, fed and watered for it to blossom eternally in our hearts and minds.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 5:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Ahhooy matey you're my text mate, message mate, blog mate, seat mate, next door sleeping mate, cook and eat mate, rant mate and warbling and crying on the phone mate.

Thanks for being one of the most supportive emotionally when I needed it most. You're a saving grace.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 5:19 pm

    Quoting  :

Do American ever say it to each other kuya Jeprox??

I reckon you could get away with saying broski, bro, bra, dude or brothers to end to fellow male friends.

Do you find it easy to show physical affection (get touchy feely) and show your emotion towards other men without being made fun of (jokingly or serious) as being a h*mo or thought of as a soft touch?

Just wondering.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/13/2012 5:24 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    Bright light almost blinding, black night still there shining,
    I can't stop, keep on climbing, looking for what I knew.

    Had a friend, he once told me, "You got love, you ain't lonely,"
    Now he's gone and left me only looking for what I knew.

    Mmm, I'm telling you now, The greatest thing you ever can do now,
    Is trade a smile with someone who's blue now, It's very easy just...

    Met a man on the roadside crying, without a friend, there's no denying,
    You're incomplete, they'll be no finding looking for what you knew.

    So anytime somebody needs you, don't let them down, although it grieves you,
    Some day you'll need someone like they do, looking for what you knew...

    well Z... i'm still__ can't say looking for i ain't__ waiting?
    don't know much about friends
I'd to look this up Ate B.

Led Zeppelin is more Zaki's territory. She's a heavy metal rock chic fan.

Oh I bet you do know enough about friends. Maybe the darker side of friendships as well as the rare diamonds in the rough.

I'm still waiting to see when and who is going to come over to Zaki's.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


Bebong2010 56F

9/14/2012 1:17 am

    Quoting  :

even in bed

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


eb1209

9/14/2012 8:40 am

Well, I'm at touchy, showy person...but I pick who I demonstrate it to... I can hug and kiss male friends, and no malice is felt by both parties...But, I experienced that I did it to someone in the past who got "electrified", not electricuted...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/14/2012 8:41 am

Please pardon my typos...I meant, I'm a touchy, showy person

Just call me ELZ


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 4:36 pm

    Quoting  :

Happy burrrtttdaayyy again Mater Zaki!!!!

I haven't forgotten. Only late and wasn't sure when to celebrate your birthday after your revelation.

A toast to wish you good health, lots and lots of patience, plenty of love to share, restfulness, peace of mind and a bucketful of money!!!



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 4:40 pm

    Quoting  :

temab absence makes the heart grow fonder daw.

Sana kinakausap na na ni Jay and he has stopped his tampo.

I'm praying your soul mate will arrive in a handsome shape. A man full of energy to spend lots of time with you in the car, bed, in stores, at home etc.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 4:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Ate Jean for being a good friend too for remembering to greet me and you love to tease and poke your friends.

Can we be coffee mates even though I drink 1 cup of coffee a day??



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 4:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Ohhh that makes an emotional impact??

I dunno what it's like for men to open up, but I guess you'd find it more relaxing after a couple of beers. It can either make you less intimidated or maybe you might become intimidating if alcohol doesn't agree with one's body.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 4:49 pm



Perhaps a man bear hug, he lifts his bud up in the air to display his muscles.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 4:51 pm

    Quoting  :

ggrrrr arrrgggg rough manly sounds huh like Brutus??



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 4:59 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Well, I'm at touchy, showy person...but I pick who I demonstrate it to... I can hug and kiss male friends, and no malice is felt by both parties...But, I experienced that I did it to someone in the past who got "electrified", not electricuted...
You're indeed a touchy showy person. It's the way you are Miss Elz and nothing wrong with it.

Whereas I prefer and usually keep a distance with men whether I'm single or in a relationship, so they don't get the wrong idea. Any chance they get of me for glancing at their direction by chance or for chatting or for entertaining the idea of offering a hug, they'll leap at the chance. Sometimes I've given in when they persisted and make it clear to them that it was simply a friendly hug and it isn't an invite for anything more because they'll take it as a green light if I don't explain. It has happened before.

Kuripot ko no??

I've been electrified by only one male friend and he's my bf now.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 5:01 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Please pardon my typos...I meant, I'm a touchy, showy person
No worries Miss Elz, better to have your typo than having a poor grammar such as mine.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 5:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Lol how how are you mistaking me with P?? ?

I'm so glad you share a similar experience with your M8S Tinks. It doesn't make me feel so alone or wonwey about it.

Exactly once in a blue moon we get together. I've two core groups here in the U.K. that I meet occasionally.
Both groups have a few of my classmates from high school and college.
One group consist mostly of male buds (mostly my bf's mates) and the other group are mostly women.

The guy group are mostly in relationships or married and a few are single. They're more laid back and talk usually garbage about their drunken nights or techie and some nerdy stuff.

The ladies similar to my girl mates in Pinas chat about their kids or the pain and anguish and the odd time the joy they've had with their partners/exes and gossip about the issues that I've missed and the mistakes that we've made.

Some day maybe we'll get to talk more about ageing and how our lives have turned out. For the time being, it's a bit soon to tell.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 5:19 pm

    Quoting  :

"When we do meet up or just say hi on any medium, it is always a different feeling just to have met them in this lifetime." Yeh I get that feeling too it's hard to describe.

"I do believe when you brush on a person's life, no matter how short lived, there is always a reason."

Hear hear matey. It makes me smile reminiscing about it.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

9/15/2012 5:24 pm

    Quoting  :

That kitty is one of the 3 Pinay bff and most loyal friend.

She's a huge animal lover. I get the impression she prefers animals more than humans.

At least my forgetful mind serves a purpose to leave the brolly behind. Just remember me for the rainy days ahead, I'll temporarily shelter you.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.