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jane82 110F
6529 posts
5/26/2012 2:52 pm
How are you

restored, redeemed, revived..




within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
5/26/2012 7:41 pm



Great piece Janey and very true. We sometimes think thet old dogs learn no new tricks, but there are those of us just waiting for someone to teach us . A guy can be so charming and patronizing but gives nothing but heartaches to the woman who loves him. Rue to that woman.


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

5/26/2012 10:15 pm

Hey, Janey...You know, each person has/his preference and attraction. What is appealing to someone may not be appealing to others. Some women are easily drawn to notorious men and those who are womanizers. I know, we may think that they invite trouble to themselves, and they know it, but still, they go for it...not only once, twice, but almost all the time...It's like some women are attracted to married men...Oh well, I don't mean to degrade them, but like I said, it's what makes them happy...What can I say?

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/26/2012 11:50 pm

Janey,

I just don't know anymore why two people come together??? Been questioning for so long.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


ajaw430 53F

5/27/2012 7:05 am

""Nice guys may appeals to some women, but don't always necessarily appeal to others and can be disapproved or regarded with suspicion.""

Very true sis, I`ve seen quite in my real world...


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:05 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:


    Great piece Janey and very true. We sometimes think thet old dogs learn no new tricks, but there are those of us just waiting for someone to teach us . A guy can be so charming and patronizing but gives nothing but heartaches to the woman who loves him. Rue to that woman.

Thanks kuya Bert. Just sharing the funny twist and turns in life and my life.
Didn't think I'd find the same people again in years to come. Let alone be invited to his special day. I sure don't like to assume on this occasion and I've said many times to my friends why I thought he wouldn't.

The common phrase uttered "there's someone for everyone" is sometimes true in this case. They complement each other.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:11 pm

    Quoting  :

I would admit that I'd discriminate if there's something iffy about a person initially and will admit I'm wrong and gladly say I've warmed to him or her. Otherwise I take time to get to know people before I make any defining statement.

Well there might be few wo/men who might like kissing their price catch as there are those who love to kiss their dogs.

I prefer nice men for sure.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:13 pm

    Quoting  :

hahahaha is this an impression of a dog Charlie?

Tinks it's time to teach new tricks and don't forget the treats.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:18 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hey, Janey...You know, each person has/his preference and attraction. What is appealing to someone may not be appealing to others. Some women are easily drawn to notorious men and those who are womanizers. I know, we may think that they invite trouble to themselves, and they know it, but still, they go for it...not only once, twice, but almost all the time...It's like some women are attracted to married men...Oh well, I don't mean to degrade them, but like I said, it's what makes them happy...What can I say?
This new groom isn't really notorious thankfully, but I'm acquainted with guys who have been womanisers in the past who has got married.

You're right there Miss Elz. Unless they ask for advice. I butt out. None of my business. I don't even mention it to the new partner turned wife.

Better than me because I couldn't cope with the complication. I don't want to be in that situation.

Maybe people are hardened by the same or similar experience over time and well versed in the matter.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:22 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Janey,

    I just don't know anymore why two people come together??? Been questioning for so long.
Too many factors to consider 'te Tess. The idealist in me would say the couple love each other because they publicly declare it so I believe them.

The best man who's an agreeable guy out of the group is a man of few words, so he made a wonderful DVD of their evil schemes together. It's a tongue in cheek approach to how the couple complement each other.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:25 pm

    Quoting ajaw430:
    ""Nice guys may appeals to some women, but don't always necessarily appeal to others and can be disapproved or regarded with suspicion.""

    Very true sis, I`ve seen quite in my real world...
One explanation could be I think I've heard in movies is that women are scared of nice guys because they don't believe they deserve a nice guy or have this prejudiced attitude that nice guys are rather dull.

Perhaps there are more reasons....
Glad you can relate because I'm sometimes not sure if it's just me or is there something wrong with being with a good guy.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Lol only you've the way of words to describe it this way kuya Charlie.

Maybe the hidden warnings falls on deaf ears.

I'm glad that women can make men happy.

On a side note, my title has been edited by epep I wonder why...maybe too long.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:33 pm

Going to share these poems read

by Pam Ayres.

Yes, I'll marry you, my dear, and here's the reason why;

So I can push you out of bed when the baby starts to cry,

And if we hear a knocking and it's creepy and it's late,

I hand you the torch you see, and you investigate.

Yes I'll marry you, my dear, you may not apprehend it,

But when the tumble-drier goes it's you that has to mend it,

You have to face the neighbor should our labrador attack him,

And if a drunkard fondles me it's you that has to whack him.

Yes, I'll marry you, my dear, you're virile and you're lean,

My house is like a pigsty, you can help to keep it clean.

And that little sexy dinner which you served by candlelight,

As I just do chipolatas, you can cook it every night!

It's you who has to work the drill and put up curtain track,

And when I've got the PMT it's you who gets the flak,

I do see great advantages, but none of them for you,

And so before you see the light, I do, I do, I do!




within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:34 pm

By R. Croft

I love you,
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am
When I am with you.

I love you,
Not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what
You are making of me.
I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out;
I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped-up heart
And passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can’t help
Dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out
Into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.

I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple;
Out of the works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song.

I love you
Because you have done
More than any creed
Could have done
To make me good
And more than any fate
Could have done
To make me happy.
You have done it
Without a touch,
Without a word,
Without a sign.
You have done it
By being yourself.
Perhaps that is what
Being a friend means,
After all.





within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

5/27/2012 6:44 pm

    Quoting  :

In spite of it all, we don't have to hate each other's guts.

We can still be civil and co-exist in the same space.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/28/2012 9:41 am

Janey,

Thanks for sharing the poem. It really has some real hard facts about marriage and what to expect. Happy Memorial day'te

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


jane82 110F

5/29/2012 4:24 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Janey,

    Thanks for sharing the poem. It really has some real hard facts about marriage and what to expect. Happy Memorial day'te
It made me laugh. Very appropriate choice for the wedding.

Happy to see you read it 'te and liked it.

Hope your day was nice.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.