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fantasiamore
9/4/2009 9:55 pm

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A good question to ask! If I ask you,would you be able to say something new? If you ask me, I would like to say something new to you, but I can't either. Now, does that mean you and I have gotten stagnant? stale already? Nothing new, nothing as exciting, nothing different. Voila! It could only mean my life and yours have gone BORING. Lately, I can't even write. I have not been finding some push nor the drive to scribble neither tap the keyboard away like I used to. I thought life should be getting more interesting and meaningful, that I could be writing about it endlessly. Maybe, it's time to get out of what I call my dailies. Perhaps, time to be getting busy in a different scale and finding something to make me target what I like. I could be tired confined at home. I could be also thinking of others too much, forgetting about myself along the way. This feeling of monotony is somehow eating me. Now, am remembering, I have only myself, eventually.

There is the mall to frequent at, the friends to meet for coffee and functions or activities to attend, even. I got to have something else in addition to what I am doing now. It could be some change of ways, or even another ambiance to speak of. Something that I can consider not my usual ritual. This got to happen before I freak out, before I can say I have totally abandoned what's outside of me.

HELP!


的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.
eb1209
12173 posts

9/4/2009 11:10 pm

Jane, what do you think I am doing? I take time to get out of my house, to be OFF my PC, and to breathe some fresh air outside, and most of all, I travel at least every 3-4 months...You're doing A-okay, my dear...there are a lot of wonderful things to do, and there is always life after FFF...But we still visit here, because it has given us the friends we thought we've never had...Love yourself, enjoy things you like to do...dress up, socialize, and most of all, THINK YOUNG!

venusangel
2938 posts 

9/4/2009 11:30 pm

There are times i FEEL like you do, but my meditation, yoga and work- out have been my recluse..these have given me peace of mind and appreciate life more..though these are routines for me like my work and other stuff, i feel that everyday is a new day, what more of the LOVE i FEEL everyday, every minute, every hour..when you`re in love not only with someone or yourself, but with life itself, everyday is a new experience, a new beginning, a new life!!!..or it`s just the attitude i would say..

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/4/2009 11:34 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Jane, what do you think I am doing? I take time to get out of my house, to be OFF my PC, and to breathe some fresh air outside, and most of all, I travel at least every 3-4 months...You're doing A-okay, my dear...there are a lot of wonderful things to do, and there is always life after FFF...But we still visit here, because it has given us the friends we thought we've never had...Love yourself, enjoy things you like to do...dress up, socialize, and most of all, THINK YOUNG!
i like your attitude, i have been too much confined lately, that i FEEL like breaking the corral...but i can't be doing something alone, i need company to do any, so i can find happiness doing whatever...when rene FEELs torpid, i have to stay put...but, he doesn't tie my feet and hands naman...maybe i have faced monotony for a long time already..

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/4/2009 11:50 pm

    Quoting venusangel:
    There are times i FEEL like you do, but my meditation, yoga and work- out have been my recluse..these have given me peace of mind and appreciate life more..though these are routines for me like my work and other stuff, i feel that everyday is a new day, what more of the LOVE i FEEL everyday, every minute, every hour..when you`re in love not only with someone or yourself, but with life itself, everyday is a new experience, a new beginning, a new life!!!..or it`s just the attitude i would say..
we have been loving each for a couple of years, many has changed with me and he, as well, but sometimes our routines are getting BORING, that I often FEEL, excitements must be created to put a better spark perhaps to the relationship, more so that we are both getting older...i am thinking of a getaway vacation perhaps or something that will keep our bonding, attached and not detached...but am not saying i have fallen out of love...i still love him like he were my life, of course...hehehe!

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

bday1021
355 posts

9/5/2009 3:47 am

This may just be a transient phase for you taJane, I'm a believer of BIORHYTHM..this affects our total well being,our mood corresponds with the fluctuation of this rhythm, needless to say that you maybe on your low point right now thus you feel this way, I think you are the type of person that enjoys stability and have tolerance for monotony, am I wrong with this assumption?

smiley1957
3022 posts 

9/5/2009 4:04 am

..and this too shall pass

tomorrow is...another day

everyday...is NEW...day

we have to learn how to amuse ourselves...
in the most lowly times

watch...KIMMYDORA...u'll love it!


i'm like a bird!

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/5/2009 4:05 am

    Quoting bday1021:
    This may just be a transient phase for you taJane, I'm a believer of BIORHYTHM..this affects our total well being,our mood corresponds with the fluctuation of this rhythm, needless to say that you maybe on your low point right now thus you feel this way, I think you are the type of person that enjoys stability and have tolerance for monotony, am I wrong with this assumption?
what can i say taBabz, maybe am growing and adding years alright, because I have this inner question now...monotony isn't even a word with me before, but now i am recognizing its colors...i also like to admit that my lowest spirit is at its ebb now, perhaps this biorhythm influencing my behavior a lot like you said here...thanks! for the reaction, i have something to think about now...

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/5/2009 6:44 am

    Quoting smiley1957:
    ..and this too shall pass

    tomorrow is...another day

    everyday...is NEW...day

    we have to learn how to amuse ourselves...
    in the most lowly times

    watch...KIMMYDORA...u'll love it!

yeah smilers, hope this gets momentary with me...you've been invited by elz to join FEEL, i have done the same before, maybe you like to come and join us now? we could use your good comments and remarks for those precious perks each time, you know...

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

poweroflove3

9/5/2009 8:53 am

Tajane,

Just a phase. Keep busy is all we can do.

[I God is pure love...

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/5/2009 3:19 pm

    Quoting poweroflove3:
    Tajane,

    Just a phase. Keep busy is all we can do.
yeah that would be a good start, thanks tess! enjoy your sunday and have a good blessing today!

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

lickquid
3168 posts 

9/5/2009 4:04 pm

Like the rain can't be stopped from falling,
God's love and blessing keep on pouring.
I hope you woke up renewed and refreshed
and comforted by His company.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/5/2009 6:03 pm

    Quoting lickquid:
    Like the rain can't be stopped from falling,
    God's love and blessing keep on pouring.
    I hope you woke up renewed and refreshed
    and comforted by His company.

kabsat i know love spreads what God gives...so when there is love, He will be there...thanks for commenting her, you enjoy your sunday!

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

ROXYBARBIE
9179 posts 

9/5/2009 9:02 pm


Tajane. I think everyone feels like that once in a while. We get tired of the same monotony that we are doing everyday, and that's normal. You may need to take on a new hobby, or an old hobby that you enjoyed in the past and have just let it go for all these years. Maybe if you feel like you don't have the drive to blog or whatever, just take a break and write something when you really feel like it. Make sure you live life to the fullest and treat everyday as your last. We just don't know when it is our time to leave this earth! Praise God, pray and ask Him for directions in your life and your prayers will be answered. Relax, take some time off from here, and come back refreshed. Labs ya!


Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***

MySeniorMoments
55 posts 

9/5/2009 10:08 pm

Tell me about it, I had moments like that especially when i had lots of time in my hand and i feel like I am not doing anything productive. Everything was monotonous lols...but it all comes to pass tajane I agree w/ your friend "bday1021" maybe BIORHYTHM .

Have a blessed Sunday


Every act of love brings a person face-to-face with God

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/5/2009 11:33 pm

    Quoting ROXYBARBIE:

    Tajane. I think everyone feels like that once in a while. We get tired of the same monotony that we are doing everyday, and that's normal. You may need to take on a new hobby, or an old hobby that you enjoyed in the past and have just let it go for all these years. Maybe if you feel like you don't have the drive to blog or whatever, just take a break and write something when you really feel like it. Make sure you live life to the fullest and treat everyday as your last. We just don't know when it is our time to leave this earth! Praise God, pray and ask Him for directions in your life and your prayers will be answered. Relax, take some time off from here, and come back refreshed. Labs ya!

yeah roxy, perhaps, i need to take on something new or old that makes my routine different, like you said some hobby that will make me busy...i have always wanted to paint, i can take a class in painting one of these days...it gets the monotony out of my system...not only will it take the artistic concepts off my mind, i could also do some masterpieces, one of these days...am not discounting also the fact that tomorrow, i will be gone, also maybe one i find myself itching for something that would give me or make me FEEL differently...thanks of the encouragement...HE is up there i know, just watching and one day will lead me where HE believes i will be best in...

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/5/2009 11:43 pm

    Quoting MySeniorMoments:
    Tell me about it, I had moments like that especially when i had lots of time in my hand and i feel like I am not doing anything productive. Everything was monotonous lols...but it all comes to pass tajane I agree w/ your friend "bday1021" maybe BIORHYTHM .

    Have a blessed Sunday

yen, i have my five kids (four boys and one girl, all married and with families) and they have been my peers since i got separated from their dad...they got used to me, joining them in their gimmicks, when they have this get-together, i would usually drink and sing with them until the wee hours of the morning...a camaraderie and fun-time bonding with family...they still want me doing it, but my faculties have already dwindled; like i can't drink anymore, nor can i stay until late, late nights doing the things they saw me doing with them...they still look up to me as the super-mom, who will never grow old and will always have the energies that they saw and got used to...sad to think that their mom is slowly drifting away from their enjoyments and will not be able to join them that way anymore..

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

ROXYBARBIE
9179 posts 

9/6/2009 2:13 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    yeah roxy, perhaps, i need to take on something new or old that makes my routine different, like you said some hobby that will make me busy...i have always wanted to paint, i can take a class in painting one of these days...it gets the monotony out of my system...not only will it take the artistic concepts off my mind, i could also do some masterpieces, one of these days...am not discounting also the fact that tomorrow, i will be gone, also maybe one i find myself itching for something that would give me or make me FEEL differently...thanks of the encouragement...HE is up there i know, just watching and one day will lead me where HE believes i will be best in...
You are so very right Tajane, He is up there, and He will lead you where He believes you will be best at. I hope that you will start to do something thing different at least one a day, and that will make yourself feel better. Anyway, until next time take care and keep yourself busy and have a positive out look on life and things will look up, you just wait and see!
*
Love,
Roxy


Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***

dreamlove452
869 posts 

9/6/2009 8:49 pm

tajane,we all go through this phase and until such time that something new drives us to be on the go, we'll feel unproductive... it will pass though
'te check your email


when friends meet, hearts warm!!!

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/7/2009 12:59 am

    Quoting ROXYBARBIE:
    You are so very right Tajane, He is up there, and He will lead you where He believes you will be best at. I hope that you will start to do something thing different at least one a day, and that will make yourself feel better. Anyway, until next time take care and keep yourself busy and have a positive out look on life and things will look up, you just wait and see!
    *
    Love,
    Roxy

i know you mean well for me, my dear friend....you've always been there when i need help, thank you i appreciate it very much! muahs and hugs again!

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/7/2009 1:02 am

    Quoting dreamlove452:
    tajane,we all go through this phase and until such time that something new drives us to be on the go, we'll feel unproductive... it will pass though
    'te check your email

one day i will come out and say i have never been more productive, until i don't find it yet, let me have a low-profile...

A VERY, VERY HAPPY, HAPPY AND ADVANCED BIRTHDAY MS. O!!!!

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

ROXYBARBIE
9179 posts 

9/7/2009 7:53 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    i know you mean well for me, my dear friend....you've always been there when i need help, thank you i appreciate it very much! muahs and hugs again!
Don't mention it. That's what friends are for! Take good care of yourself k'. Health is wealth. Hugs back at you!


Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***

smiley1957
3022 posts 

9/8/2009 1:05 am

ahey hey!!!

tell u a story and this one is funny

whenever my mom is whining and venting...
all we say to her is...

"ok mom! magkano gusto mo???
wala ka lng pera "

it's meant to be a joke...but u know...
that seems to be her...vitamins!

with the life now...credit is good
but SURELY...we need cash!

and yet...some still say...money is not all
but...what really makes the world go round???
money? love? FFF?

ta jane...this is life
u have the RIGHT to feel that way
but it's WRONG to wallow on it

let's rock and roll

"""panahon na para magsaya
forget mo na ang problema """




i'm like a bird!

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

9/8/2009 4:10 am

    Quoting smiley1957:
    ahey hey!!!

    tell u a story and this one is funny

    whenever my mom is whining and venting...
    all we say to her is...

    "ok mom! magkano gusto mo???
    wala ka lng pera "

    it's meant to be a joke...but u know...
    that seems to be her...vitamins!

    with the life now...credit is good
    but SURELY...we need cash!

    and yet...some still say...money is not all
    but...what really makes the world go round???
    money? love? FFF?

    ta jane...this is life
    u have the RIGHT to feel that way
    but it's WRONG to wallow on it

    let's rock and roll

    """panahon na para magsaya
    forget mo na ang problema """



wow smilers!...what can i add to that...maybe, i should find myself splurging at the mall, too...but life is getting difficult these days, i should think twice doing it...with love, that should make me comfortable, if i should stop being demanding and say hey, for whatever it takes, am glad you are here with me...o di ba? masarap pakinggan yon? love you, my friend...tagal mo naman magmember sa FEEL kasi! para mahawahan mo kami ng lively spirits mo palagi! thanks so much....mmmmuahs!

的 hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

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