WhAt DO U Do If U'r Friends R Talking Behind U'r Back
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Live Life to the Fullest!  ***Me and YOU***
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4/21/2009 8:35 am |
If I find out someone I know is saying something not so nice about me, mmmm it initally hurts  my feelings of course, but I try to let it go. If a person needs to be confronted I do, but you cannot help what every person says about you. I like if a person takes me aside and tells me they have an issue with this or that rather than having to hear something through another person. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/21/2009 8:36 am |
I am more talking about not the internet community, but more of a personal level. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/21/2009 1:53 pm |
I find the silent  treatment works very well ROXY..  An expert is one who knows more and more about less and less.
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4/21/2009 2:20 pm |
You know what Roxy! if your friends are talking behind your back then they really aren't friends to begin with. You should pretty much forget about them and find new ones.
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 4/21/2009 5:47 pm |
I dont give it a second thought. The other day at work there were three ladies eating in the lunchroom. I've seen them plenty of times before and always said Hi as I passed by and they smiled and said Hello back. Three friends and I were sitting at the table next to them eating our lunch and talking about the buisness of the day as they chatted away in another language. About 10 minutes into our meal, my friend sitting with his back to them stopped eating, turned around and spoke to them very harshly, in thier language! They didnt know he was one of our translators and happen to speak thier language fluently. After lunch, he told us that the three ladies were speaking negatively about all of us and getting quite the laugh out of it. The looks on the ladies faces was priceless.
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4/21/2009 6:52 pm |
I find the silent treatment works very well ROXY..  . Stay nice and  as you are.  Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/21/2009 6:57 pm |
You know what Roxy! if your friends are talking behind your back then they really aren't friends to begin with. You should pretty much forget about them and find new ones.   Rose. So far I don't know anyone who has talked behind my back! That I know of yet! If they talk nice about me, then it's good! But IF I know they talk behind my back I confront them and let them know straight up that I heard it from either the horses mouth or through a very good friend of mine of what they said about me. Real friends are the kind of people who can look you in the face and tell you anything and you will be okay with it, for the most part of it. You can accept what they say, because you love them and you know that they want what is best for you! Those people who only appear to be your friends can be spotted a mile away, because those are the friends you only meet on the street and your never invited to their house. A real friend knows where everything is at in your house, and doesn't need to ask for anything from the refrigerator, because he/she knows where everything is at. I don't really have people who aren't my friends, because they come and go, and I only meet them in the streets and or at someones house. But you know that you can't please everyone.  for your visit my dear. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/21/2009 7:04 pm |
I dont give it a second thought. The other day at work there were three ladies eating in the lunchroom. I've seen them plenty of times before and always said Hi as I passed by and they smiled and said Hello back. Three friends and I were sitting at the table next to them eating our lunch and talking about the buisness of the day as they chatted away in another language. About 10 minutes into our meal, my friend sitting with his back to them stopped eating, turned around and spoke to them very harshly, in thier language! They didnt know he was one of our translators and happen to speak thier language fluently. After lunch, he told us that the three ladies were speaking negatively about all of us and getting quite the laugh out of it. The looks on the ladies faces was priceless. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/21/2009 7:19 pm |
I dont give it a second thought. The other day at work there were three ladies eating in the lunchroom. I've seen them plenty of times before and always said Hi as I passed by and they smiled and said Hello back. Three friends and I were sitting at the table next to them eating our lunch and talking about the buisness of the day as they chatted away in another language. About 10 minutes into our meal, my friend sitting with his back to them stopped eating, turned around and spoke to them very harshly, in thier language! They didnt know he was one of our translators and happen to speak thier language fluently. After lunch, he told us that the three ladies were speaking negatively about all of us and getting quite the laugh out of it. The looks on the ladies faces was priceless. for sharing your story with us Kai and I'm sure a lot of people have the same experiences that you just shared. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/22/2009 11:03 pm |
for me i don't care  hehehe one reason why as much as possible i don't give my personal info to them specially friends online hello smile and be happy always
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4/23/2009 6:25 pm |
for me i don't care hehehe one reason why as much as possible i don't give my personal info to them specially friends online hello  Bell  . It's so good to see your beautiful face here again, both on my blog and around the blogsville...... That is really good that you don't do that, for telling your personal info with them. But, what about your REAL LIFE Friends? Please tell me your thoughts. Thanks.  kiddie sis.  Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/23/2009 8:06 pm |
Bell . It's so good to see your beautiful face here again, both on my blog and around the blogsville...... That is really good that you don't do that, for telling your personal info with them. But, what about your REAL LIFE Friends? Please tell me your thoughts. Thanks. kiddie sis. dead ma type of a woman kasi ako, i dont care ... but then if ever that will happen maybe i will talk to them in private and asked why they do that... smile and be happy always
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4/24/2009 6:01 am |
i have plenty of friends here in my real world but i always avoid on sharing my personal life with them, and vice versa dead ma type of a woman kasi ako, i dont care ... but then if ever that will happen maybe i will talk to them in private and asked why they do that... Yes, I agree with you, it is nice to talk with them in private to settle everything down. You know you can't trust everyone, but keep the trust and use your instinct. Most of my friends tell me their deepest secrets, and I never tell anyone what they told me! Maybe that's why they like me and I am easy to please. Me too, I have a lot of friends too like you. But I am the kinda girl who is lazy to write or call sometimes so I am glad that they are the ones who like to call me. Just in case that people talk bad about you and then if you don't care, it's okay because you know it is not true. Real/true friends are the ones to tell you straight to your face, you know I heard this and I want to ask if it is true, and you don't get mad at them. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/25/2009 4:45 pm |
Sometimes people you think you know can be the strangers you always want to AVOID. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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4/25/2009 9:01 pm |
Sometimes people you think you know can be the strangers you always want to AVOID.  ! It takes time for people to really get to know each other, and see what each person is really all about. Once you know someone better, then that is the time if you decide to become their real friend, or just one of the many people in their lives. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/25/2009 9:02 pm |
Sometimes people you think you know can be the strangers you always want to AVOID. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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4/28/2009 7:17 pm |
They can stab me all they want, but if I know that I have nothing to hide, and I am doing the right thing, and it's none of their business, I won't give a damn...I will just remove those people from my friends list and consider them good riddance..But I won't degrade myself playing the game they play.   
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4/28/2009 8:29 pm |
They can stab me all they want, but if I know that I have nothing to hide, and I am doing the right thing, and it's none of their business, I won't give a damn...I will just remove those people from my friends list and consider them good riddance..But I won't degrade myself playing the game they play.  ! People who talk behind peoples back are either envious or jealous of that person. You could say that most people talk about people behind their backs, and it is just a natural thing for most people to do, when they don't have anything positive to do with their time. There is an old saying, that goes like this: "Great minds think alike, and fools seldom differ. Anonymous". Its not good for having an enemies. If someone talking behind your back Forgive and forget. Would you really delete their names from your friends list? for your visit my dear. Have a   .  Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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5/4/2009 7:43 pm |
My friends wont do that, maybe other people would, but then, THE OTHERS DON't MATTER ... so it's better to do NOTHING to people who means NOTHING. The world is a classroom 4 learning Not a courtroom 4 judging
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5/5/2009 10:38 am |
My friends wont do that, maybe other people would, but then, THE OTHERS DON't MATTER ... so it's better to do NOTHING to people who means NOTHING.  . Friends have a way to tell you stuff straight to your face without beating around the bush. Most people want to hear things from their friends too, because they know that their real friends have only their best interest at heart. When we are around are good friends, there are no worries!Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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5/10/2009 5:10 am |
I know myself better than anyone else..i really wouldn`t care.
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5/12/2009 10:46 am |
I know myself better than anyone else..i really wouldn`t care.   ! Who cares what anyone else thinks when we know ourselves better than anyone!Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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