Washing away the BITTERNESS
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2/2/2008 12:50 amLast Read: |
There may be times when we become so miserable and ask ourselves why God allows us to experience unbearable pain. God doesn't delight in our misery. Pain is God's way of purifying us and making us better persons. And when he allows us to experience it, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love us. We may have been destined to love the person who cannot love us back, but that doesn't mean that life ends here. We fell in love with a person who can not be ours, but that doesn't mean there is no one who can be. We have loved and hurt badly, but that doesn't mean the pain will never pass. Everything that happens to us happens for a reason, and as the saying goes, Sometimes the person who makes us happy is the same person who can hurt us and make us cry. It is perfectly alright to feel sorry for losing them, but we cannot be sorry all our lives. It is okay to cry ourselves to sleep at night, but we can not shed our tears for them forever. We cannot cry every night at all our lives. It is okay to think of them when we wake up in the morning. But we cannot let them control our thoughts forever. I guess we have been sorry long enough. We have shown so much regret already. It's over; we have to accept that there could never be any "YOU and ME" anymore. They are gone and have moved on with their lives. We have to realize that we should not allow ourselves to be left behind following their shadow. We have to move on and find our own happiness, even if it means not being with them. Let us always remember that love isn't love if doesn't hurt. And it is better to be hurt by love than not to be hurt because we were too afraid to love. The only way to move on is to accept reality. And it will help if us let the pain love has brought us make a stronger person, and let the tears that we cried wash away the bitterness and misery in our hearts.
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2/2/2008 3:13 am |
mahirap din mag salita sa mga bagay na hindi maintindihan kung iisipin parang dahilan; tunay nga kayang may makakaalam sa tuwina; sa pag lingon; sa pag tahak muli ng kahapon katulad ng agos at hampas ng alon... hindi ko rin alam kung bakit nagkaganon panahon lang ang makakaalam; mamaaari rin nya maintindihan kung may halaga ba ang lahat ang mga bagay na tinatahak. People don't realize that sticks and stones may break your bones, but words shatter the soul.
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2/2/2008 4:08 am |
sad, but true...  
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2/2/2008 4:18 am |
my dear friend wish you find her happy valentine to you    Life is all about hope for better days tomorrow.
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2/2/2008 5:35 am |
mahirap din mag salita sa mga bagay na hindi maintindihan kung iisipin parang dahilan; tunay nga kayang may makakaalam sa tuwina; sa pag lingon; sa pag tahak muli ng kahapon katulad ng agos at hampas ng alon... hindi ko rin alam kung bakit nagkaganon panahon lang ang makakaalam; mamaaari rin nya maintindihan kung may halaga ba ang lahat ang mga bagay na tinatahak. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/2/2008 2:59 pm |
Hello lickquid, This by far explains it all. We cannot and will not remain in the past. We must forge ourselves to leave it behind and move on to a brighter future. Congratulations... 
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2/2/2008 3:18 pm |
As the poet said, 'Only God can make a tree' -- probably because it's so hard to figure out how to get the bark on.
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2/2/2008 3:51 pm |
sad, but true... Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/2/2008 3:55 pm |
my dear friend wish you find her happy valentine to you take care..Happy valentine's day.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/2/2008 3:59 pm |
Hello lickquid, This by far explains it all. We cannot and will not remain in the past. We must forge ourselves to leave it behind and move on to a brighter future. Congratulations... Thank you, my friend..God bless. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/2/2008 5:04 pm |
Didn't we almost have it all? happy valentine's day, bro..tc!
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2/2/2008 5:34 pm |
As the poet said, 'Only God can make a tree' -- probably because it's so hard to figure out how to get the bark on. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/2/2008 8:16 pm |
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.... It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
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2/2/2008 11:10 pm |
***** My good friend LEI'...U know I'm so  sad ..you're both my good friends , just sad' but will still hope for the best for both of you 'Sometimes we regret that a certain relationship didn't work out ..but as what you've said never regret it! True '..never regret too, that at some point , sometime in you life you've met someone who has loved you , she may not be the most gorgeous sexy girl in the net, but truly pretty , sweet loving & one of the most smartest sought after too' girl in the net in her own right, not only based on her blogs but knowing her true feelings for u I think she has the biggest heart & real love of a true mate u can ever find here'.. Same thing applies to her '...YOU' ..my good friend LEI'.. may not be the most gorgeous sexy guy in the net but the most admired sought after ' ..irresistible'.. & well respected romantic & charming elusive guy here , ( naks, sobrang lakas mo sakin ha ? binulong lang sakin ni sis pam yun! lol!  kidding aside , seriously, but still u have loved her true '..di ba? for both of you, again its never wrong to love someone if ever things didn't go well , perhaps its not about YOU, or the love nor the person concerned, but some unavoidable circumstances have occurred around you, or could have been not the right time for both of you yet! ..whatever, past will be past ' you can only savor the nice memories w/ that special someone you have loved & can only cherish all the special attention she has showered upon you 'was something rare to find now & truly the most worth' remembering for ....IF it's not indeed the right time or simply because its not worth it , hope in your inner self you have not misjudged her at all '.... nevertheless you both have felt that SPECIAL LOVE was there once '..but unfortunately you both feel confused'..right or wrong that feeling have made u both happy '..KEEP SMILING my good friend ,  WISHING U BOTH'.. happiness & peace in your lives now ,..Take care my good friend ,sincerely'.. from my heart I want you to be happy always ha'..Because both of you have been very dear to me '..Lei 'Please'.. Please! get lots of rest ha, sleep well'..& Get well soon ha' my good friend '..May GOD bless you & all your loved ones & GOD bless us all ! *******
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2/3/2008 9:59 am |
so it was really YOU who said the "G" word, and it's NOT HER who wanted it,, tsk, tsk,  but you can always try to win her back, if she really meant so much to you,, or if you really love her that much, there is such a thing as SECOND CHANCES, you know,, God bless you both, you and PAM,, 
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2/4/2008 3:19 pm |
why should be suffered from a feeling that meant for each other?
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2/4/2008 7:53 pm |
my dear lick what are you wating for ? go ahead win her back to your loving arms   Life is all about hope for better days tomorrow.
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2/4/2008 8:21 pm |
bro lickquid, so it was really YOU who said the "G" word, and it's NOT HER who wanted it,, tsk, tsk, but you can always try to win her back, if she really meant so much to you,, or if you really love her that much, there is such a thing as SECOND CHANCES, you know,, God bless you both, you and PAM,, Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/4/2008 8:26 pm |
***** My good friend LEI'...U know I'm so sad ..you're both my good friends , just sad' but will still hope for the best for both of you 'Sometimes we regret that a certain relationship didn't work out ..but as what you've said never regret it! True '..never regret too, that at some point , sometime in you life you've met someone who has loved you , she may not be the most gorgeous sexy girl in the net, but truly pretty , sweet loving & one of the most smartest sought after too' girl in the net in her own right, not only based on her blogs but knowing her true feelings for u I think she has the biggest heart & real love of a true mate u can ever find here'.. Same thing applies to her '...YOU' ..my good friend LEI'.. may not be the most gorgeous sexy guy in the net but the most admired sought after ' ..irresistible'.. & well respected romantic & charming elusive guy here , ( naks, sobrang lakas mo sakin ha ? binulong lang sakin ni sis pam yun! lol! kidding aside , seriously, but still u have loved her true '..di ba? for both of you, again its never wrong to love someone if ever things didn't go well , perhaps its not about YOU, or the love nor the person concerned, but some unavoidable circumstances have occurred around you, or could have been not the right time for both of you yet! ..whatever, past will be past ' you can only savor the nice memories w/ that special someone you have loved & can only cherish all the special attention she has showered upon you 'was something rare to find now & truly the most worth' remembering for ....IF it's not indeed the right time or simply because its not worth it , hope in your inner self you have not misjudged her at all '.... nevertheless you both have felt that SPECIAL LOVE was there once '..but unfortunately you both feel confused'..right or wrong that feeling have made u both happy '..KEEP SMILING my good friend , WISHING U BOTH'.. happiness & peace in your lives now ,..Take care my good friend ,sincerely'.. from my heart I want you to be happy always ha'..Because both of you have been very dear to me '..Lei 'Please'.. Please! get lots of rest ha, sleep well'..& Get well soon ha' my good friend '..May GOD bless you & all your loved ones & GOD bless us all ! *******thank you, my dear friend..Godbless..happy valentines! Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/4/2008 8:30 pm |
Didn't we almost have it all? happy valentine's day, bro..tc! take care, thanks for dropping by..happy valentines day! Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/4/2008 8:32 pm |
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.... It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more. Love is something I once had.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/4/2008 8:33 pm |
my dear lick what are you wating for ? go ahead win her back to your loving arms Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/4/2008 8:38 pm |
why should be suffered from a feeling that meant for each other? Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/5/2008 2:37 am |
masarap isipin na sa tuwing tutulo ang iyong luha, may taong magpapahinto nito. but who would you turn when the only person who can make you stop crying is exactly the one who's making you cry. take care, bro lick..ur an inspiration.
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2/5/2008 6:57 am |
Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost, sometimes unrecognized, but in the end, always found with no regrets, forever valued and kept treasured. BE HAPPY AND STAY IN LOVE Everything happens for a reason...
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2/6/2008 2:54 am |
masarap isipin na sa tuwing tutulo ang iyong luha, may taong magpapahinto nito. but who would you turn when the only person who can make you stop crying is exactly the one who's making you cry. take care, bro lick..ur an inspiration. I turn to you my friend, For I know you'll be there. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/6/2008 2:59 am |
Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost, sometimes unrecognized, but in the end, always found with no regrets, forever valued and kept treasured. BE HAPPY AND STAY IN LOVE Heartbreak brings us immense pain and suffering but in reality we must realize that it brings us one step closer to the one we are destined to be with. take care, tnx for those nice inputs... Godbless.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/6/2008 3:49 am |
my dear friend life must go on like me im moving on and trying to have a normal life without this ,what we call love i like the settings of your handle here in your blog 'sunrise' meaning of new day and hope for a better tomorrow yes lets face the sunrise in our own way Life is all about hope for better days tomorrow.
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2/6/2008 5:25 am |
my dear friend life must go on like me im moving on and trying to have a normal life without this ,what we call love i like the settings of your handle here in your blog 'sunrise' meaning of new day and hope for a better tomorrow yes lets face the sunrise in our own way God bless you, my friend..tnx 4 always being there..take care. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/7/2008 7:55 pm |
If you wanna see the rainbow You gotta live thru the rain If you wanna see true love You gotta take the pain.
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2/7/2008 8:12 pm |
If you wanna see the rainbow You gotta live thru the rain If you wanna see true love You gotta take the pain. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/8/2008 5:31 am |
Sad but true and really an inspiring message to move on! Thank you lick for sharing your thoughts and wisdom. Take care! Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold  
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2/8/2008 5:33 am |
Sad but true. Such an inspiring way to move on! Thank you lick for sharing your thoughts and wisdom. I admire you.. Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold
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2/8/2008 8:58 am |
I had a friend before who's so much like you, your way of writing, your way of expressing your feelings, so much alike that sometimes i wonder if it's you  Everything happens for a reason...
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2/8/2008 6:30 pm |
Friennnddd,,,hmmm,,,am speechless ,,,so sad that it end in a brief time,,,but i know too, its for the better hope that the pain will fade quickly though the scars remain. have a good weekend to you Friend and always ingatzzz ,,,Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.  
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2/9/2008 6:53 pm |
Sad but true. Such an inspiring way to move on! Thank you lick for sharing your thoughts and wisdom. I admire you.. thank you, ms petit..you take care..always.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/9/2008 6:57 pm |
I had a friend before who's so much like you, your way of writing, your way of expressing your feelings, so much alike that sometimes i wonder if it's you thanks anyway..have a blessed sunday.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/9/2008 6:59 pm |
Friennnddd ,,,hmmm,,,am speechless,,,so sad that it end in a brief time,,,but i know too, its for the better hope that the pain will fade quickly though the scars remain. have a good weekend to you Friend and always ingatzzz,,,take care, my friend, regards to my bro ado.. Godbless.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/9/2008 10:26 pm |
But we have ended And the moment has come For me to move on Sigh...this is no fun. We may not be together but we will never be through.
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2/9/2008 11:39 pm |
Never met him in person, also from cavite, we havent kept in touch for more than two years now...it was a LOVE THAT NEVER WAS , so deep and unforgettable... Still hoping one day we will be able to re-live those memories ..........haaaaaaaaaaaaaay Everything happens for a reason...
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2/10/2008 3:36 am |
But we have ended And the moment has come For me to move on Sigh...this is no fun. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/10/2008 7:09 am |
Never be sad for what is over, just be glad it was once yours.. thank you, ms petit..you take care..always.. ...Who knows? Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold
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2/10/2008 11:23 am |
All is Fair in love and war...Learn to accept defeat and learn from it. Take it easy, man...
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2/10/2008 8:34 pm |
You're always welcome lick. You too take care. There's always a reason for everything. Trust Him. Someone somewhere is waiting for you to get discovered! ...Who knows? Where there's love and inspiration, I don't think we can go wrong. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/10/2008 11:08 pm |
We just don't give up trying to do what we really want to do. Where there's love and inspiration, I don't think we can go wrong. Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold
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2/11/2008 9:14 pm |
friend, im starting to have my own blogs, come and visit me if u have time....thanks Everything happens for a reason...
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2/12/2008 2:01 am |
All is Fair in love and war...Learn to accept defeat and learn from it. Take it easy, man... thank you for your comment..happy valentines day to you. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/12/2008 3:33 am |
That's right! Kudos my friend!!! I can relate to what youve been through... Though we may be under a dark tree, always look for the light shining through the branches.. happy valentines.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/12/2008 4:17 am |
LICK... ...  such "bitterness" oftentimes end up in SWEETNESS...... such is LIFE ...... take care and have a good one...HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO YOU
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2/12/2008 8:33 pm |
LICK... ... such "bitterness" oftentimes end up in SWEETNESS...... such is LIFE ...... take care and have a good one...HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO YOU maybe there's no reason or rhyme, To think you may be mine in a matter of time, And though I cannot touch you and we are now apart, My Love, you do dwell, so deep within my heart. ..HAPPY VALENTINES DAY, TAKE CARE.. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/12/2008 11:20 pm |
Happy V-day to all!
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2/13/2008 7:55 am |
HAPPY VALENTINE ! keep that love alive Everything happens for a reason...
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2/13/2008 8:23 pm |
The Greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return. happy valentines day.
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2/13/2008 10:20 pm |
yes Friend,,,wash away all the bitterness and join in celebrating the heart's day,,, Happy Heart's Day, Friend Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.
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2/15/2008 1:47 am |
Bitterness imprisons life; love releases it. Bitterness paralyzes life; love empowers it. Bitterness sours life; love sweetens it. Bitterness sickens life; love heals it. Bitterness blinds life; love anoints its eyes.
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2/15/2008 7:44 pm |
That thorny path, those stormy skies, Have drawn our spirits nearer; And rendered us, by sorrow's ties, Each to the other dearer. God bless have a blessed weekend!
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2/16/2008 6:56 am |
yes Friend,,,wash away all the bitterness and join in celebrating the heart's day ,,,Happy Heart's Day, Friend my LIFE, my start, it was HER KNIFE!!! Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/16/2008 7:18 am |
Bitterness imprisons life; love releases it. Bitterness paralyzes life; love empowers it. Bitterness sours life; love sweetens it. Bitterness sickens life; love heals it. Bitterness blinds life; love anoints its eyes. Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold
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2/16/2008 7:29 am |
Aray ko po ! Everything happens for a reason...
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2/16/2008 8:24 am |
If you are in pain from an ended relationship you are probably wondering, "Will my wounded or broken heart ever be healed?" Broken or wounded hearts require as much care and time as any other wound. As a trained nurse I have cared for many wounds, both physically and emotionally. Emotional wounds can be more painful than physical wounds, but the healing process is the same.
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2/16/2008 11:21 pm |
The Greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return. happy valentines day. the ocean I cried for her. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/16/2008 11:27 pm |
That thorny path, those stormy skies, Have drawn our spirits nearer; And rendered us, by sorrow's ties, Each to the other dearer. God bless have a blessed weekend! Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/16/2008 11:28 pm |
Bitterness imprisons life; love releases it. Bitterness paralyzes life; love empowers it. Bitterness sours life; love sweetens it. Bitterness sickens life; love heals it. Bitterness blinds life; love anoints its eyes. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/16/2008 11:30 pm |
If you are in pain from an ended relationship you are probably wondering, "Will my wounded or broken heart ever be healed?" Broken or wounded hearts require as much care and time as any other wound. As a trained nurse I have cared for many wounds, both physically and emotionally. Emotional wounds can be more painful than physical wounds, but the healing process is the same. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/17/2008 5:56 am |
Lick, i hope soon you'll recover from this pain. Wish you could find someone who can help heal you. I know God has other plans for you. Take care and God bless. Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold
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2/17/2008 6:18 am |
""For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been."" Everything happens for a reason...
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2/17/2008 7:56 pm |
Lick, i hope soon you'll recover from this pain. Wish you could find someone who can help heal you. I know God has other plans for you. Take care and God bless. Thank you, ms petit.. God bless you always. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/17/2008 7:58 pm |
""For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been."" Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/18/2008 1:41 am |
I never knew I could feel so much pain, and yet be so in love with the person causing it.
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2/18/2008 4:00 am |
same here.nice blog anyway.captivating who cares when i'm lonely and blue our life with the smile so fair and can never forget a friend that so rare. thank you, from the bottom of my heart. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/18/2008 4:44 am |
You are a true friend.. someone who reaches for my hand and touches my heart. Thank you, ms petit.. God bless you always. May God restore the love that was in your heart... So that you can see the light again... The light which will lead you to happiness... Take care always... Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold
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2/18/2008 5:38 am |
May God bless your heart and heal it soon... May God restore the love that was in your heart... So that you can see the light again... The light which will lead you to happiness... Take care always... I wish things would have gone so differently, maybe then i'd be happy... But now all I have left is.. ..If Only.. thanks for always being there, God bless. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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2/18/2008 4:52 pm |
Good morning and thanks for whatever Everything happens for a reason...
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2/24/2008 3:05 pm |
Whoever has loved knows all that life contains of sorrow and of joy.
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3/2/2008 7:46 pm |
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
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