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..Why Does it Hurt..  

11/27/2007 9:43 pm

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If lightning strikes, I'd cover my heart so that when it hits
me, I'd fall happily knowing that I protected you coz I've spared the place where you've always been. You can hide the pain that you feel and make others believe that you can move on, but you can never deny the truth to yourself that the person who has failed and hurt you is still the one you'll always choose to love.

Ask me why I keep on loving you when its clear that you don't feel the same way for me ...the problem with me is that as much as I can't force you to love me, I can't force myself to stop loving you!

Love..
why does it hurt...
why does it ache?
Maybe because we love too hard
and too deep that sometimes
we forget to keep a little for ourselves..

..sad but true..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
Yanie24w

11/28/2007 2:20 am

I agree..sad but true..

"Inner peace can be reached only when we practice forgiveness.
Forgiveness is letting go of the past,and is therefore the means
for correcting our misperceptions"

May God bless you


Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught...

godiva0824
2160 posts 

11/28/2007 7:48 am

Bro, it can hurt only as much for a period of time..Letting go is not a very easy thing to do, but it is possible. I know, I've been there..I dunno, but there is this saying in our dialect that I find true most of the time: "Mahal kita, mahal mo siya, mahal niya ay iba."...It's a crazy world, but really, we shouldn't push our luck...

Feel better as the days go by...You'll eventually get over it..

God bless.

Dee

sugarysyrup
970 posts 

11/28/2007 12:57 pm

why does it hurt??? only you can answer this bocayo kow

SuGaR...Aging Like A Fine Wine

Trisianmay
5870 posts 

11/28/2007 3:01 pm

Friend,,i know the feeling but to forget something,,,you need not to reminisce all the past things,,it only hurts you.
try to see the new world and accept the reality is the best thing to avoid that feeling "hurt".wish you good luck my Friend,,
nalulungkot ka na naman kaya siguro naiisip mo naman yung bagay na di dapat isipin,,,cheer up my Friend and smile,,,ingatzzz

Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.

yukka
152 posts 

11/28/2007 4:14 pm

lolo ko, it really hurts..
Sometimes you have to let go of someone to see if there's anything there to hold on to.
take care Godbless po... im always here for you..

still33
54 posts 

11/28/2007 8:08 pm

why do we fall for someone who is'nt really for us?
should we blame ourselves for falling for the wrong one?
Or should we blame the one we fell
because they made us believe that they are the one?

Ms_Impossible
196 posts 

11/28/2007 11:01 pm

i guess, its simply because only those that we love deeply can inflict so much hurt amongst us...

i don't think you can never be able to force yourself not to love her... its just a matter of willing the mind.. and everything else will follow....

almost all of your blogs speaks of pain and sad thoughts.. .. i wish that one day you'll wake up and write happy thoughts instead.

goodluck..

myluv_23

11/29/2007 2:03 am

** There are person who catches our attention,.. a few who touch our hearts '..but your own unique way of expressing your thoughts about love'.. is really something to remember 'YOU'.... by'**

puting_lalaki
217 posts 

11/29/2007 2:11 pm

    Quoting Ms_Impossible:
    i guess, its simply because only those that we love deeply can inflict so much hurt amongst us...

    i don't think you can never be able to force yourself not to love her... its just a matter of willing the mind.. and everything else will follow....

    almost all of your blogs speaks of pain and sad thoughts.. .. i wish that one day you'll wake up and write happy thoughts instead.

    goodluck..
AMEN TO THAT SISTER! CHEER UP DUDE. PEOPLE ONLY SPLIT UP COS THEY ARE NOT RIGHT FOR EACH OTHER. IF SHE WAS THE ONE FOR YOU, SHE'D BE THERE FOR YOU AND FEEL THE SAME ABOUT YOU. YOU SHOULD BE CELEBRATING NOW COS THERE'S SOMEONE BETTER WAITING, DON'T BE AFRAID TO FIND THEM.

MY THOUGHTS ARE FREE, SO ARE MY WORDS, BUT MY HEART IS TAKEN FOREVER.

diviness
141 posts 

11/30/2007 12:03 am

coz we beliv love is real
with all our heart, with all our mind
with all our soul, in every word, in every
thought...these embrased us and we love
them in return, these things become part
of our soul, of our being... just to wake
up one day ... these are unreal...
neither that these are dreams.[/SIZE
]

dicoollang
142 posts 

11/30/2007 4:20 am

True love is never hurting, yet time and cistcumstances are not in our control... but love is still love.

Invictuz
189 posts 

11/30/2007 11:58 pm

Love is, above all... the mere thought of you hurting that loved one. is enough to break your own heart!

I met,I laughed,I learned to love,I lied,I lost,I hurt.

stigma
93 posts 

12/1/2007 1:07 am

If love is so important to have that one doesn't want to lose it, why is it when we find true love we often don't notice it?

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 2:36 am

    Quoting Yanie24w:
    I agree..sad but true..

    "Inner peace can be reached only when we practice forgiveness.
    Forgiveness is letting go of the past,and is therefore the means
    for correcting our misperceptions"

    May God bless you

yes, yanie..
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
..thank you, Godbless you my friend.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 2:43 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Bro, it can hurt only as much for a period of time..Letting go is not a very easy thing to do, but it is possible. I know, I've been there..I dunno, but there is this saying in our dialect that I find true most of the time: "Mahal kita, mahal mo siya, mahal niya ay iba."...It's a crazy world, but really, we shouldn't push our luck...

    Feel better as the days go by...You'll eventually get over it..

    God bless.
hello ms dee,
Trying to forget someone you love
is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
thank you, sis..Godbless you always.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:15 am

    Quoting sugarysyrup:
    why does it hurt??? only you can answer this bocayo kow
I took the L out of lover,
and now it's over,
bocayo ko.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:18 am

    Quoting Trisianmay:
    Friend,,i know the feeling but to forget something,,,you need not to reminisce all the past things,,it only hurts you.
    try to see the new world and accept the reality is the best thing to avoid that feeling "hurt".wish you good luck my Friend,,
    nalulungkot ka na naman kaya siguro naiisip mo naman yung bagay na di dapat isipin,,,cheer up my Friend and smile,,,ingatzzz
my friend,
Only love can break a heart;
only love can mend it again.

take care, my friend..
Godbless you and bro ado.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:21 am

    Quoting yukka:
    lolo ko, it really hurts..
    Sometimes you have to let go of someone to see if there's anything there to hold on to.
    take care Godbless po... im always here for you..

yukka,
Some people say that because I hold onto her so tightly I may lose her, but they don't realize that because I can't do without her, that I am afraid of losing her is why I hold onto her so tightly.
..thank you, dear, stay as nice as you are..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:24 am

    Quoting still33:
    why do we fall for someone who is'nt really for us?
    should we blame ourselves for falling for the wrong one?
    Or should we blame the one we fell
    because they made us believe that they are the one?

You don't stop loving someone;
you only get used to living without them there.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:27 am

    Quoting Ms_Impossible:
    i guess, its simply because only those that we love deeply can inflict so much hurt amongst us...

    i don't think you can never be able to force yourself not to love her... its just a matter of willing the mind.. and everything else will follow....

    almost all of your blogs speaks of pain and sad thoughts.. .. i wish that one day you'll wake up and write happy thoughts instead.

    goodluck..
my friend,
whenever I watch romantic movies,
witness people kiss and make up,
or listen to a love song,
I smile and feel good cause I know that love still works.
If not for me,
at least for others.

..take care, thanks for always being there..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:35 am

    Quoting myluv_23:
    ** There are person who catches our attention,.. a few who touch our hearts '..but your own unique way of expressing your thoughts about love'.. is really something to remember 'YOU'.... by'**
..thank you myluv, take care, have a blessed weekend..
May the Lord's loving eyes watch over you as you do your work today. May His arms embrace you,
His voice comfort you and His power protect you all day.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:38 am

    Quoting puting_lalaki:
    AMEN TO THAT SISTER! CHEER UP DUDE. PEOPLE ONLY SPLIT UP COS THEY ARE NOT RIGHT FOR EACH OTHER. IF SHE WAS THE ONE FOR YOU, SHE'D BE THERE FOR YOU AND FEEL THE SAME ABOUT YOU. YOU SHOULD BE CELEBRATING NOW COS THERE'S SOMEONE BETTER WAITING, DON'T BE AFRAID TO FIND THEM.
thanks, bro,
mornings are beautiful signs of hope.
It was created by God to let us know
that life doesn't end after the sunset,
every dawn is a new life,
so wonderful!


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:42 am

    Quoting diviness:
    coz we beliv love is real
    with all our heart, with all our mind
    with all our soul, in every word, in every
    thought...these embrased us and we love
    them in return, these things become part
    of our soul, of our being... just to wake
    up one day ... these are unreal...
    neither that these are dreams.[/SIZE
    ]
you are right, diviness,
But still sometimes,
when the wind is warm or the crickets sing,
I dream of a love
that even time will lie down
and be still for.

..take care, tnx, Godbless..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:45 am

    Quoting dicoollang:
    True love is never hurting, yet time and cistcumstances are not in our control... but love is still love.
i agree, bro,
Love and Time:
both four-letter words that go hand in hand.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:51 am

    Quoting Invictuz:
    Love is, above all... the mere thought of you hurting that loved one. is enough to break your own heart!
love, above all..
is letting go of it all
and having it return to you
unconditionally.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/1/2007 4:53 am

    Quoting stigma:
    If love is so important to have that one doesn't want to lose it, why is it when we find true love we often don't notice it?
because..
A lost love is a part of you that will always remain empty.
A love that could've been shared forever.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

mia_belle
485 posts 

12/1/2007 10:15 pm

Too many of us stay walled because we are afraid of
being hurt. We are afraid to care too much, for fear
that the other person does not care at all.
take care my dear lolo, Godbless you always.


*It's all said & done, it's real, and it's been fun.*

ajaw430
113 posts 

12/2/2007 3:26 am

So, bro. here am I, sowing a labor of love like you , lol.

The real meaning of Love is too deep to comprehend or understand. It is often misunderstood and mis quoted but just to mention a few, it is giving of our self, just like Jesus did for us...., It is also giving something wit´hout expecting in return. We are hurt when we expect ppl. to return what we gave to them...

But learning to "let it go!" is another, might be better (in my opinion) for you will be surprised if it comes back with interest!!

I guess time is the best healer as the saying goes...

Keep up the good attitude of love bro., that is a labor that is not in vain!!

Your new beautiful and sexy friend!

Hugs!!

diviness
141 posts 

12/2/2007 8:30 am

    Quoting lickquid:
    because..
    A lost love is a part of you that will always remain empty.
    A love that could've been shared forever.

"A love that could have been shared forever", coz when u love you beliv that everythng is forever most especially love..
It really is so hurting when we realize that what we embraced are something that would never be back..forever. If only i cud pull back the time, yet, though if i would...if i could, would there still be love?... what was left are longings and emptiness.. and the memories of that lost love forever.

Ms_Impossible
196 posts 

12/2/2007 10:15 pm

    Quoting lickquid:
    my friend,
    whenever I watch romantic movies,
    witness people kiss and make up,
    or listen to a love song,
    I smile and feel good cause I know that love still works.
    If not for me,
    at least for others.

    ..take care, thanks for always being there..

way to go brother....

hope your time for love come soonest...

u take care always as well

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/3/2007 12:37 am

    Quoting ajaw430:
    So, bro. here am I, sowing a labor of love like you , lol.

    The real meaning of Love is too deep to comprehend or understand. It is often misunderstood and mis quoted but just to mention a few, it is giving of our self, just like Jesus did for us...., It is also giving something wit´hout expecting in return. We are hurt when we expect ppl. to return what we gave to them...

    But learning to "let it go!" is another, might be better (in my opinion) for you will be surprised if it comes back with interest!!

    I guess time is the best healer as the saying goes...

    Keep up the good attitude of love bro., that is a labor that is not in vain!!

    Your new beautiful and sexy friend!

    Hugs!!
I made the choice to finally go
because I can't stand this pain.
It's time for my last tear to fall
and me to smile again.
ajaw430
thank you, my cutiful friend,
..Godbless you, take care..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3168 posts 

12/3/2007 1:46 am

    Quoting mia_belle:
    Too many of us stay walled because we are afraid of
    being hurt. We are afraid to care too much, for fear
    that the other person does not care at all.
    take care my dear lolo, Godbless you always.

"Love is like the truth,
sometimes it prevails,
sometimes it hurts."
..take care, mia, Godbless..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

niyyah2007
97 posts 

12/3/2007 2:30 pm

These blogs hold a lot of pain...that I am very familiar with and still not getting over?It's so good that you're getting some of it out here,on these pages but...I have to tell you(not to intentionaly make you feel any worse)reading this that you have written here,has opened up,my nrwly healed wounds.I'm sure I'll feel better after the small,inner rain,happens again,and then passes.But the cleansing is good for me.Thank you.I send you healing love.

babybrat
87 posts 

12/12/2007 5:16 am

ouch!!! this strikes me allot bro..well i guess everybody does.i guess we always wish for something that is impossible and being deceive by the fact that this person is loving us back or will love us back the way we love them.but the truth really hurts that were the only one left loving them from afar.i guess its really true about the saying ..its better to have it halfway rather than not having it at all..

love like youve never hurt before!!

bellangela
129 posts 

12/12/2007 9:09 pm

love is not selfish..
it is like a sea-
vast and embracing--deep.

it hurts with all the world's flaws,
but it endures to the end..never failing.

Athirst and withered?drink of me

tree7744
5 posts 

12/24/2007 7:27 pm

sad but true

nes2873
1 post 

12/24/2007 8:47 pm

Lolo Leo,wowwwwwwww you must have so much pain.but just Pray to God for guidance.God is always there for you.Forget about the pain just focus to God,in everything will be given to you,whatever you ask from him.LOve is LOve they use and abuse to most of the people around this plannet.But only God can give you the everlasting LOve.

tinidor
1589 posts 

12/26/2007 2:13 am

its so painful naman..
haay...will someone love me so deeply?
it always takes two to tango, at least u did everything u had to, to make the relationship work, kaya no regrets. i just admire u for being so open with ur feelings - i guess ur on ur way to healing...

the reason for tomorrow
is to help make sense of today.
tomorrow is a brand new day,
the things that seem so difficult today,
and the problems that seems so high,
will be easier to handle if u understand
that things will get better by and by.
the purpose of tomorrow is to take
what we've learned from the past
and turn it into serenity
and happiness that lasts.
your mountains will be so much easier
to climb in the light of a brand new day.
with the passage of time, you'l often find
new strength and pathways.
that is what tomorrow's for...
for hopes and dreams to come true.

may every tomorrow be a beautiful day...especially for u..
- alin austin -
be happy

dicoollang
142 posts 

12/26/2007 7:33 pm

A love that is true can surmount life’s pain yet.

Love’s pretences are few of life’s most hurtful things.

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