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4/14/2007 11:31 pm

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About the saying "AGE DOES'NT MATTER" (well, you probably know what i'm trying to say here).
..How would you react when you experience this question in your own...4 to 5 years age gap, maybe?

..share your thoughts, please..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
_Heath_cliff_
81 posts 

4/14/2007 11:59 pm

I havent experienced it yet, pero, honestly, ayokong makipagrelasyon sa mas nakatatanda sakin ng 5 years and above.
Sinasana ko lang naman, hindi ko naman talaga inuultimatum iyon..

Kierra

4/15/2007 5:05 am

4~5 yrs is not a matter esp. if the guy is older than a girl it's normal like that,,,but what if the age gap is more than 10 yrs. for me, i think that's the time to think it seriously. coz it's not a game. both side need to understand each others difference in life style and life view. the bond of love must be a 100x stronger or more or else it will be like a bubbles that can easily puff,,,nice thread lickquid

of_elia33

4/15/2007 8:06 pm

age doesnt matter to me as long as nagkakaintindihan naman kau....its only a number to count every year, the important is young at heart... minsan kasi wala nmn sa mukha ng tao ang age diba?4-5 yrs gap its not bad.i had experienced to fall inlove to a 47 yrs old man(western)but feel good kasi feeling ko baby parin nya ako...but we end up to friendship naman.hindi naman dun naka base ang pagmamahalang ng dalawang tao kundi kung ano ung nararamdaman nila with all respect to a relationship.

mwaaaaaaaah ingat u lagi ha.....xyzmailiwak ngarod

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/16/2007 3:48 am

    Quoting _Heath_cliff_:
    I havent experienced it yet, pero, honestly, ayokong makipagrelasyon sa mas nakatatanda sakin ng 5 years and above.
    Sinasana ko lang naman, hindi ko naman talaga inuultimatum iyon..

agree ako dyan...gusto mo yata mas bata sayo eh...child abuse.. ingatzz..

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/16/2007 3:54 am

    Quoting Kierra:
    4~5 yrs is not a matter esp. if the guy is older than a girl it's normal like that,,,but what if the age gap is more than 10 yrs. for me, i think that's the time to think it seriously. coz it's not a game. both side need to understand each others difference in life style and life view. the bond of love must be a 100x stronger or more or else it will be like a bubbles that can easily puff,,,nice thread lickquid
kaka-elib naman yung reply mo, ms kierra!!! wow!!! clap2 ako diyan! bow!!! btw, lalo kang gumaganda, sis..ano secret mo? tnx, you're really nice..

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/16/2007 3:59 am

    Quoting of_elia33:
    age doesnt matter to me as long as nagkakaintindihan naman kau....its only a number to count every year, the important is young at heart... minsan kasi wala nmn sa mukha ng tao ang age diba?4-5 yrs gap its not bad.i had experienced to fall inlove to a 47 yrs old man(western)but feel good kasi feeling ko baby parin nya ako...but we end up to friendship naman.hindi naman dun naka base ang pagmamahalang ng dalawang tao kundi kung ano ung nararamdaman nila with all respect to a relationship.

    mwaaaaaaaah ingat u lagi ha.....xyzmailiwak ngarod

binibaby ka niya, meaning, pinapasuso ka niya?? juk!! mag tequila na lang tayo sabay hanap ng makaka body shots... peace..

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

Invictuz
195 posts 

4/16/2007 4:24 am

ako din ganun...may kachat din ako pero mas matanda naman sya sa kin..pero inlove talaga ako eh...hehehehehehe..malayo nga lang siya sa akin... ...tama naman kayong lahat di ba..age does'nt matter..

I met,I laughed,I learned to love,I lied,I lost,I hurt.

Invictuz
195 posts 

4/16/2007 4:37 am

    Quoting Kierra:
    4~5 yrs is not a matter esp. if the guy is older than a girl it's normal like that,,,but what if the age gap is more than 10 yrs. for me, i think that's the time to think it seriously. coz it's not a game. both side need to understand each others difference in life style and life view. the bond of love must be a 100x stronger or more or else it will be like a bubbles that can easily puff,,,nice thread lickquid
Do you feel 'right' with him?
Does he feel 'right' with you?
Is it the right time?
Do you really think/feel it would work?
Will he think/feel it would work?
can the both of you handle it?
Does the whole age thing will affect either one of you in the future?

If you have positive answers, then there is nothing else to worry bout then....


I met,I laughed,I learned to love,I lied,I lost,I hurt.

yukka
152 posts 

4/16/2007 7:57 am

ika nga sa banyagang salita... love crosses all age boundaries, all faults and shortcomings... even up to our last breath of life. ..nice one again, lolo..

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/16/2007 2:44 pm

    Quoting Invictuz:
    ako din ganun...may kachat din ako pero mas matanda naman sya sa kin..pero inlove talaga ako eh...hehehehehehe..malayo nga lang siya sa akin... ...tama naman kayong lahat di ba..age does'nt matter..
if i were you i would! age does'nt matter all that matters is feelings do what ur heart & soul says congrats!!

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

megz001
168 posts 

4/16/2007 3:13 pm

Yup age doesn't matter at all...I've dated younger guys before...mas ok nga e, they'll treat you like a Queen!!!

of_elia33

4/16/2007 4:28 pm


yang P E A C E mo sau n isaksak mo sa baga mo madik ammo kanyam huh
Xang sama moooooooooo

Kierra

4/16/2007 9:15 pm

    Quoting Invictuz:
    Do you feel 'right' with him?
    Does he feel 'right' with you?
    Is it the right time?
    Do you really think/feel it would work?
    Will he think/feel it would work?
    can the both of you handle it?
    Does the whole age thing will affect either one of you in the future?

    If you have positive answers, then there is nothing else to worry bout then....

thats why its really needed to think deeply. Lets be practical in that part,,,in love relationship there is an ups and down.the young ones easily give up on their relationship if they dont understand each other,,.what more to the couples who have this kind of age gap. it must be taken seriously and both side must be ready for what peoples around will say,,,you may say " just dont mind them as long as you love each other" yes, thats true but the power of words are dangerous,,,it can destroy anything, everything. so what couples need in this kind of matters is understanding then a strong bond of love.

ulam
5091 posts 

4/16/2007 9:37 pm

lolo loves ... my bf was 17 yrs older than me ... beat that

although he is a millionaire ... money can't really buy me love ... i've been showered with the most expensive gifts ... but sadly we only lasted for 2 yrs only because i got so lonely in a cage he built around me ... he was so insecure of me finding a man younger than him ... but i must say it was the first time i felt loved and needed ... and i can honestly say that it was the first time i've fallen in love ...

applevi72

4/16/2007 10:54 pm

for me prfer ko parin yong mas matanda sa akin 4to5 yrs is fine for me kasi ayaw kong masampahan ng child abuse in the futurebecause i do believe that in his age he is matured enough to handle a relationship sana lang ha

lampa2007

4/16/2007 11:23 pm

well its matter for me kasi mas gusto ko pa rin n mas bata skin ung maging mahal ko kasi lalaki akokaya?ahemmm ok,aywa ko namang mas bata skin ang maging lifetime partner ko baka maging under de saya pa ako

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/17/2007 7:36 am

    Quoting Invictuz:
    ako din ganun...may kachat din ako pero mas matanda naman sya sa kin..pero inlove talaga ako eh...hehehehehehe..malayo nga lang siya sa akin... ...tama naman kayong lahat di ba..age does'nt matter..
tama age does'nt matter kaya tuloy mo lang pakikipagchat mo sa kanya baka kayo magkatuluyan di ba.. hirap talaga in love di ba?..

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/17/2007 7:41 am

    Quoting yukka:
    ika nga sa banyagang salita... love crosses all age boundaries, all faults and shortcomings... even up to our last breath of life. ..nice one again, lolo..
what matters is your love for each other,your willingness to fight for your love and your eagerness to be with each other!!!

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/17/2007 7:45 am

    Quoting ulam:
    lolo loves ... my bf was 17 yrs older than me ... beat that

    although he is a millionaire ... money can't really buy me love ... i've been showered with the most expensive gifts ... but sadly we only lasted for 2 yrs only because i got so lonely in a cage he built around me ... he was so insecure of me finding a man younger than him ... but i must say it was the first time i felt loved and needed ... and i can honestly say that it was the first time i've fallen in love ...
you have a great point. i'll consider that. thanks again! i think you make a wonderful friend to anyone. good night!

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/17/2007 7:47 am

    Quoting megz001:
    Yup age doesn't matter at all...I've dated younger guys before...mas ok nga e, they'll treat you like a Queen!!!
no matter how long it takes, no matter how old...no matter wh0 you are...true love survives.. nice!!..correct ka dyan sis..

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

purple25
1165 posts 

4/17/2007 10:19 am

i think that it will all depend on the situation. my boyfriend is 11 years older than me but the age gap haven't been really a problem for both of us nor the people around us. we get along really well and so far our relationship is getting stronger. it all depends on how a person looks at it! as long as you love each other and that you're both happy, then i guess that's the only thing that matters.

_tryst_
123 posts 

4/18/2007 8:01 am

AGE matters depending on what stage in the growing up process the people involved are in.....
a 30+ guy with a teenybopper girl.....recipe for heartache and abuse lang yan eh...usually....

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/18/2007 8:13 am

    Quoting purple25:
    i think that it will all depend on the situation. my boyfriend is 11 years older than me but the age gap haven't been really a problem for both of us nor the people around us. we get along really well and so far our relationship is getting stronger. it all depends on how a person looks at it! as long as you love each other and that you're both happy, then i guess that's the only thing that matters.
actually i dont think it does..but of course there is a limit to it..i mean both sides must understand what they are doing...and the situation they are in...if they do..then i dont think age is much of an issue..
..tnx, ms purple. Godbless to both of you..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/18/2007 8:31 am

    Quoting _tryst_:
    AGE matters depending on what stage in the growing up process the people involved are in.....
    a 30+ guy with a teenybopper girl.....recipe for heartache and abuse lang yan eh...usually....

..depende un sa lOve nyO 4 each Oder..

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

Fresh_geaR
114 posts 

4/19/2007 7:49 pm

my aunt got maried with the guy who is 5 years younger than her.
and I had a bf that 3 years older than me kaso nag hiwalay kami hirap kasi... d kami nagkakasundo.
and 1 of my cousin maried to the guy who is 6 years older than her also my younger brother naman 14 yo lang nililigawan na ng mga girls na mga 16-17yo kaya naniniwala ako na age dosen't matter nga.

mica_hottie
123 posts 

4/19/2007 8:50 pm

age doesn't matter..............
cguro kng mga 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, years.........pro kng prang nanay/tatay mo na....grabe nmn yun...wag nmn..

of_elia33

4/19/2007 8:57 pm

    Quoting applevi72:
    for me prfer ko parin yong mas matanda sa akin 4to5 yrs is fine for me kasi ayaw kong masampahan ng child abuse in the futurebecause i do believe that in his age he is matured enough to handle a relationship sana lang ha
hayyyyyyy freind ko ikaw talaga kahit kaylan... wala kng magagawa kung sya talaga ang itinadhana para sau maging bata man yang u matanda sau as long as kaya nyang panindigan ang pagiging haligi ng tahanan tapos....atleast kahit pano u've experience dating younger than you try to comapair whom really treated you well between them...mwaaaaaah ingatzzzz

mia_belle
485 posts 

4/19/2007 11:31 pm

i think it depends, but since we are in the real world where there are limitations, both partner should be aware of what is right and wrong.... I think you know what I mean...age gap doesnt really matter when its not over the top...I know some people might say: we dont have to listen to what people say... but I would also say, ok right, but it that happens that both of you are going to be the number gossip,,,do u think you will survive??? maybe today or tomorrow,,,but would that be forever????

Well everyone has their own freedom of choice,,,


*It's all said & done, it's real, and it's been fun.*

Solid_Bliss
93 posts 

4/20/2007 2:45 am

for me AGE does matter...

kasi girls mature faster than the guys... so dapat guys should be older than the girls para ok lang...pero siyempre there are other factors naman sa maturity like upbringing and experiences..

stigma
93 posts 

4/20/2007 5:27 am

di naman siguro masama kung masmatanda yung partner mo...pero kung...sobrang tanda as in..para kayong mag-apo...wag naman!!!

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/20/2007 3:35 pm

    Quoting applevi72:
    for me prfer ko parin yong mas matanda sa akin 4to5 yrs is fine for me kasi ayaw kong masampahan ng child abuse in the futurebecause i do believe that in his age he is matured enough to handle a relationship sana lang ha
if u think the two of u can gel well, then all tht is immaterial...
If u like him the way he is, just go for him and all tht is history..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

__unleash__

4/22/2007 2:49 am

age are just numbers....

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/22/2007 3:07 am

Age is something that doesn't matter, unless you are a cheese.

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

Lois24
45 posts 

4/24/2007 9:27 pm

ehem, sa case ko kc, age gap namin is 11 yrs...and its nothing compared to what we feel for each other, as long as masaya kau, u enjoy each others company, u love each other so much...neweiz, age are just numbers nga raw di bah, what matters most is the love u feel for each other...
ciao!!

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/25/2007 2:32 am

    Quoting Lois24:
    ehem, sa case ko kc, age gap namin is 11 yrs...and its nothing compared to what we feel for each other, as long as masaya kau, u enjoy each others company, u love each other so much...neweiz, age are just numbers nga raw di bah, what matters most is the love u feel for each other...
    ciao!!
wow, lois..congrats to both of you..Godbless, take care..tnx for passing by.

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

Peachy9

4/26/2007 10:09 pm

ehemmmmmmmmm ako mas prefer ko ung ahead sa akin at least maximum of 8 years.mas happy ako kung ang mahal ko is older than me anohhhh.

lickquid
3169 posts 

4/27/2007 2:28 am

    Quoting Peachy9:
    ehemmmmmmmmm ako mas prefer ko ung ahead sa akin at least maximum of 8 years.mas happy ako kung ang mahal ko is older than me anohhhh.
If the woman is 70 and the man is 90 - it doesn't look that bad after all..
tnx, peachy..miss you, hmmmwahhh..


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

of_elia33

4/27/2007 4:53 pm

    Quoting Peachy9:
    ehemmmmmmmmm ako mas prefer ko ung ahead sa akin at least maximum of 8 years.mas happy ako kung ang mahal ko is older than me anohhhh.
hey watch up lady in black...himala yata at napadaan k ha my pretty sis?ilang taon ba agwat nyo jojo ha?take care always mwaaaaaaah love you and miss you so much seeyah

trymeh
519 posts 

7/18/2007 8:38 am

for meh age doesn't matter,kasi ako im 25 pero gus2 ko sa guy older than meh hehe 25 and up lang naman,

I LOVE YOU

trymeh
519 posts 

7/18/2007 8:40 am

wah na ko masabi lickquid im so sleep na cguro naman tell mo na sakin kung sino yung cnasabi mo kanina dba,so tell me nga ano or sino ba yun hehe!!! i'll wait sa response mo ok 2mrw i'll chk this blog again muahhh!!!

I LOVE YOU

lickquid
3169 posts 

7/18/2007 3:36 pm

    Quoting trymeh:
    wah na ko masabi lickquid im so sleep na cguro naman tell mo na sakin kung sino yung cnasabi mo kanina dba,so tell me nga ano or sino ba yun hehe!!! i'll wait sa response mo ok 2mrw i'll chk this blog again muahhh!!!
si edi nga..

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

trymeh
519 posts 

7/18/2007 9:41 pm

sino nga si Edi? wala kaya akong kilala na Edi,so please help meh naman hehe,sino sya and tell meh kung ano handle nya!!!kilala ko ba sya or nde?

I LOVE YOU

trymeh
519 posts 

7/19/2007 5:09 am

oii lickquid sino po si edi and ano gus2 nya sakin kasi,kahit ikaw kaya kahapon lanag kita nakausap hehe,nakakausap ko ba yang edi na yan b4 or wat,answer me naman or pakisabi sa edi na yan kung cno man sya kausapin aq hehe,

I LOVE YOU

trymeh
519 posts 

7/21/2007 10:53 pm

wala nang reply sus !!!lick ano na im still waiting sa sagout mo kaya,

I LOVE YOU

MiAmor2007
977 posts 

8/3/2007 2:36 am

yes i agree to you lick
for me,age does not matter.it depends to both person involve
if you really love him or her no matter what, you will fight for your love n love knows no bounderies, all faults n shortcomings
most important is,understanding n trust to each other



Life is all about hope for better days tomorrow.

trymeh
519 posts 

11/15/2007 5:26 am

    Quoting MiAmor2007:
    yes i agree to you lick
    for me,age does not matter.it depends to both person involve
    if you really love him or her no matter what, you will fight for your love n love knows no bounderies, all faults n shortcomings
    most important is,understanding n trust to each other


i agree with u...basta ba may love ok na yun...like meh bf ko 10 years older sakin pero nde halata kasi baby face sya saka there's 1 thing na i really like bout him..sobra syang understanding,medyo matured sakin...kaya yaw q din sa mas younger sakin kasi yaw q ng makulit and childish bka lalo sumakit ulo q

I LOVE YOU

bellangela
129 posts 

12/14/2007 1:07 pm

he is 10 years older than me..well, age is just a figure.

Athirst and withered?drink of me

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