Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME |
|
Revelation: The Other Woman...... I know, I know...I mentioned in my past blogs that last month, June 6-8, 2008, I was to meet with my EX-Special Friend, his GF, and his family/relatives in Spring and Humble, Texas, where I became the principal godmother of his youngest step-brother (the of his father by 3rd wife divorced from the first and now widower of 2)....Not to confuse you, but to those who followed my life story here in FFF, I am referring to now inactive FFF member I called H50 Hawaii-5-0, . At present, he still holds that remarkable/memorable record in my entire history of membership here of being the ONLY GUY who took time, sweet efforts, and offered sincere friendship and so far, the ONLY GUY who came and visited all the way from Hawaii to see me here in McAllen, Texas. Why was he SPECIAL?..So many reasons. 1. He called me everyday for more than a year(at times twice a day and long conversations lasting 1-3 hours at night, and with a time difference of 4-5 hours, I ended up going to bed past midnight) 2. He sent me flowers, personalized VCD's and simple stuff, and was very thoughtful. 3. Although he is 12 years my junior, he made me feel like a "Baby" and he called me that. 4. During his visit to relatives here in Texas, he made a side trip to McAllen, to meet me, and I got 100% attention and respect...I'm sure, you know what I mean. He didn't take advantage of me. Why Special Friends Only? 1. Although the feelings were strong, and the "L" word was spoken many times, distance, values, and status got in the way. 2. He feared of being in a serious, totally committed relationship, and most of all, being that his parents divorced when he was still a very young boy, he was traumatized and is afraid of getting married, NOT that there was an insinuation, whatsoever. 3. We liked each other so much, but I thought, I deserved someone who is more mature, more stable in all aspects, and I prefer someone who is really for keeps. 4. Last year, in September, 2007, during a group tour to Hawaii, I decided to give him a surprise visit, which he never believed, while I was already in Waikiki. Driven by my childishness, I got upset, and withdrew the plan. When he realized that I was actually there, he started begging (even cried), but pride took over me, I declined his request, and it was his birthday that week..I realized, I was not only childish at that time, but really MEAN.  5. I came back to McAllen, with friends, and things were never the same again. We stayed in constant touch, but he felt so bad, and I felt so guilty , but bottomline,6. WE WERE NOT MEANT TO BE......  Just call me ELZ  |
|||
7/30/2008 6:05 am |
So, life went on for both of us...But during the time that we're very close, I was also bonding with his stepmother, a 29 y.o., 3rd wife of H50's daddy pls. don't ask me why, but I was thinking, the stepmom would have been H50's ideal wife, by age....but, what can I say? Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 6:08 am |
Stepmom was pregnant for the first time and relied on me for information and education re: pregnancy and motherhood (being, that I am a Nurse). So, we stayed in constant touch, and without me soliciting for any info regarding H50, I was kept posted anyway   Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 6:12 am |
I wished him well, and advised him to seek someone locally there. It was the best thing to do. Eventually, he found someone new and she is the one on the picture with him, taken last month. She is okay-looking, and pleasant too, but there is something about older women that H50 is really into...is it because he lacked mother figure?...She is 45 and he is 37 this year. Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 6:17 am |
The most important thing is they are happy. He found someone who is okay with "no strings attached" kinda relationship, but stable in terms of yeah, they can still date or talk to other wo/men, but they kinda "belong to each other" sort of....Hahahhaa!  ...I don't know how else to word it, but they are both okay with it, I mean, just being together whenever, with strong emotions involved, and yeah, under one roof specially at night Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 6:21 am |
But you see, we must understand that each and everyone of us have our own likings and preferences and when we do get the chance to find happiness, don't we go for it? Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 6:26 am |
And yeah, last month, during the christening of H50's latest brother where I was chosen by his stepmom to be the principal godmother, ALL OF US, had the chance to meet, and oh! I tell you, it was one of the most uncomfortable meetings I ever had...  H50 was heavily guarded (yeah, she's pretty on the thicker side, but a hot, and sexy momma! )...She made sure, H50 was not out of her reach and not out of her sight...wheeeeeewwwwwww! Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 6:29 am |
And the way I am...I will never stand in anyone's way...specially when it comes to LOVE  ...I stayed out of reach, myself....But H50 managed to come near me when it was time to "chow" and mumbled " you look great! "....to which, I blushed  Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 6:33 am |
What did I learn from the experience? DON'T PUSH YOUR LUCK!...Do not ever force yourself to be in a world where you don't belong...And yes, people do come into our lives for a reason, and we just have to be thankful for the experience. Some good things really never last...In the end, we just have to wish each other well.. Just call me ELZ
| ||
|
hahahahaha...elzzzzz...what can i say?!?!? NEXT!...
| ||
7/30/2008 7:08 am |
That's really love. . . You will find another. . God Bless You
| ||
7/30/2008 7:09 am |
What did I learn from the experience? DON'T PUSH YOUR LUCK!...Do not ever force yourself to be in a world where you don't belong...And yes, people do come into our lives for a reason, and we just have to be thankful for the experience. Some good things really never last...In the end, we just have to wish each other well.. Have a nice day ! 
| ||
7/30/2008 7:43 am |
On this part my eyes-tears. i'm speechless now be right back later.  tsk ...Have a nice day !
| ||
|
Unbearable love.
| ||
|
maybe there is someone special just waiting to be found elz.. don't give up!  TC
| ||
7/30/2008 10:01 am |
hahahahaha...elzzzzz...what can i say?!?!? NEXT!... ....But, it is, what it is!...We either take it, or leave it..Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:06 am |
That's really love. . . You will find another. . God Bless You Thanks BTBD...I wish the same to you as well..Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:07 am |
On this part my eyes-tears. i'm speechless now be right back later. Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:09 am |
i'll give you 2 . tsk ... Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:10 am |
I know, and thanks for empathizing... Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:12 am |
Unbearable love./:>/:>/:> ..But, I've been A-okay...Life goes on..And I am here to tell the story.Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:14 am |
maybe there is someone special just waiting to be found elz.. don't give up! TC..Thanks, and take care too!  Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:17 am |
Oh, I'm fine, Sir!...I had moved on for quite a while already...It's just that it's only now that I've uploaded the pics from the christening, and this is what I saw... I thought of blogging about it..Thanks for the visit.. Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:19 am |
I know, I know, it's like a soap opera...Thank you for gracing my blog.. Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 10:20 am |
Hello there Princess! ...Say what's on your mind, my dear....Don't be shy! Just call me ELZ
| ||
7/30/2008 12:15 pm |
Hello there Mr. AB! ...Where have you been?...Anyway, I am glad to know that I am not alone in my insights...And really, had I not kept my values, I might have relocated already in Hawaii.....But NO!  ...I know what I want, and I know that I have other options. That kind of set-up, just doesn't suit me.You have a great day, too, Mr. AB...I'm happy to see you again. God bless you too! Just call me ELZ
|
×
×