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eb1209
7/15/2008 8:49 pm
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I'm not sure if I've been here long enough to say that many FFF members at some point were related to this and that person, only to end up in somebody else's arms or laps ...Is that supposed to be unusual? or is it the trend?...Where most men enjoy "moonlighting and fishing", while some women exchange notes and sometimes "exchange partners"...I know it is really none of anybody's business, but sometimes, the FFF world becomes too narrow and small, love and relationships appear to be a round robin...At times, one's BF ends up with one of her friends and the same is true in the case of men...There is this belief that one's trash is somebody else's fortune...Well, for as long as people remain friends or at least in good terms with one another; then, there should be NO PROBLEM...However, for true filipinos who maintain "delicadeza", they prefer to stay out of trouble by finding someone who is fresh and is not in anyway related to people they know.
This is not written as a banter nor am I sniping at those whose lives have gone through any of the above..This is just a healthy discussion.
 
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934 posts 7/15/2008 10:23 pm |
Elsa,
Good evening!!! Kamusta na? Well, rebound doesn't work dahil experienced it a long time ago. Alam mo si polano. Sobra naman, hangang ngayong galit parin sa akin!!! Dahil lang I played cupid. Di ba tumutulung laman dahil sa pagibig??? Hahahaha hehehehe, ang mundo talaga ang liit.
Kaya, ang lesson ko tuloy ngayon wag pakalamera!!!   Be still and wait without hope. No expectation...
Have a fun week and God bless and ingats.... tet
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3841 posts 7/16/2008 12:22 am |
exchange partners? huh i cant imagine.
smile and be happy always 
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4033 posts 7/16/2008 12:34 am |
Ellzzz ,,,also 1 guy in 2 or 3,4 girls (vise versa),,,,and it seems so natural here in FFF ,,,gosh ,,no offense but this is also what i have observe
Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.
 
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3206 posts 7/16/2008 12:51 am |
hahahaha i used to tease someone here in fff ... na "ang hilig mo sa magkakaibigan"   ... alam b ng magkakaibigan na preho k nilang tinitikman   
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3206 posts 7/16/2008 12:52 am |
i think it's not love recycled ... it is lust shared   
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1408 posts 7/16/2008 2:34 am |
always better than "recycled hate" 
color my world with   
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 2:35 am |
Quoting bellezia: exchange partners? huh i cant imagine.
And neither can I! 
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 2:36 am |
Quoting Trisianmay: Ellzzz ,,,also 1 guy in 2 or 3,4 girls (vise versa),,,,and it seems so natural here in FFF ,,,gosh ,,no offense but this is also what i have observe
And isn't it that it had caused a lot of rift amongst those who called themselves "friends"? 
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 2:37 am |
Quoting ulam: i think it's not love recycled ... it is lust shared   
Hmmm! ...It looks like you know a lot of these things ha, Malu?
  
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15672 posts 7/16/2008 4:03 am |
innocent ako nito .
 
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112 posts 7/16/2008 4:17 am |
Wow! I think I have been left out. Spending time alone for many years, and all those times I have been on and off here at FFF. I never knew these things. I never even suspected. Internet has gone far really.... It can even penetrate the world of emotions, Can even play with it.... What an invention!
OR....these people were just emotionless (tabi-tabi po). Mybe they have reasons....I don't know....
ScEnt Of A w0maN ^.^
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886 posts 7/16/2008 5:15 am |
Parang Melrose place? I don't have a clue lol. I have to be more watchful tulad ni sis Malu. Hello sis Eb hope you don't mind me intruding. 
  
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3374 posts 7/16/2008 12:33 pm |
I don't date any of my girl friend's boyfriend because their types of guys are different to mine. 

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6189 posts 7/16/2008 6:33 pm |
Hello CEL, innocent as in "wanakasey? " 
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 6:37 pm |
Quoting poweroflove3: Elsa,
Good evening!!! Kamusta na? Well, rebound doesn't work dahil experienced it a long time ago. Alam mo si polano. Sobra naman, hangang ngayong galit parin sa akin!!! Dahil lang I played cupid. Di ba tumutulung laman dahil sa pagibig??? Hahahaha hehehehe, ang mundo talaga ang liit.
Kaya, ang lesson ko tuloy ngayon wag pakalamera!!!   Be still and wait without hope. No expectation...
Have a fun week and God bless and ingats.... tet
Hi Tetch!...Ngayon lang lumabas itong comment mo even though this was supposed to be the first comment....Don't worry, my friend. No harm done...Tagalugin na lang natin itech... ...May problema talaga sa pagtitiwala ang taong yun...Hindi ko na siya inaasahang "dumalaw" dito sa blogs ko...after na magkabukingan ng official. Marunong akong kumilatis ng mga "manggagamit"...Sowee...Sometimes, may pagka-naive ako, but not necessarily na ENGOT....
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 6:40 pm |
Quoting ulam: hahahaha i used to tease someone here in fff ... na "ang hilig mo sa magkakaibigan"   ... alam b ng magkakaibigan na preho k nilang tinitikman   
Ooooopppss!...ayan na si Malu! ...Tikiman "blues" na...Others prefer the "fitting session"...They say that before deciding who to pick...they have to go to "fitting room".....Ay! magagalit ang lola ko nito! pilya na naman akesh!...Si Malu kasi eh! ..Mag-iingat sa mahilig sa "tuhog"....
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 6:42 pm |
Quoting luv_a_fair: always better than "recycled hate" 
Liz, I know of another version of that...Yung bang tipong wo/man hater kuno, and then, paiibigin ang mga wo/men, tapos paiiyakin later, saying: I actually hate you and all of your kind!...Does that sound like a "recycled hate" to you?
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 6:47 pm |
Quoting widereader_00: Wow! I think I have been left out. Spending time alone for many years, and all those times I have been on and off here at FFF. I never knew these things. I never even suspected. Internet has gone far really.... It can even penetrate the world of emotions, Can even play with it.... What an invention!
OR....these people were just emotionless (tabi-tabi po). Mybe they have reasons....I don't know....
hehehehe...  ...yeah, you are right, anything can happen here at FFF and other dating services. They even have this so called "webcam conference" which benefits one viewer only...Meaning, the guy could view 2+ women with all the trimmings of indecent exposures...Tabi-tabi po uli sa mga nasasagasaan!..It took me almost 3 years to find out, and it came from a confession of one of the male members here...(sekwet po! )
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 6:54 pm |
Quoting _lightblue_: Parang Melrose place? I don't have a clue lol. I have to be more watchful tulad ni sis Malu. Hello sis Eb hope you don't mind me intruding. 
Hi Elena! ..thanks for visiting my blogs..You are a tocaya of my best friend here in McAllen, Texas...Please call me Elz..
  
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6189 posts 7/16/2008 6:55 pm |
Quoting jane82: I don't date any of my girl friend's boyfriend because their types of guys are different to mine. 
Atta girl, Janey!....I never dated any of my friend's BF's.....I am generous with so many things, but when it comes to my man?....I WANT HIM ALL TO MYSELF.... 
  
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886 posts 7/16/2008 7:27 pm |
Quoting eb1209: Hi Elena! ..thanks for visiting my blogs..You are a tocaya of my best friend here in McAllen, Texas...Please call me Elz..
Hi Elz!!! Been following your interesting blogs but was too shy to post. Thanks. 
  
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7/16/2008 8:29 pm |
Great Blog with a great message! 
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3206 posts 7/16/2008 9:16 pm |
Quoting eb1209: Hmmm! ...It looks like you know a lot of these things ha, Malu?

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3206 posts 7/16/2008 9:19 pm |
Quoting eb1209: Ooooopppss!...ayan na si Malu! ...Tikiman "blues" na...Others prefer the "fitting session"...They say that before deciding who to pick...they have to go to "fitting room".....Ay! magagalit ang lola ko nito! pilya na naman akesh!...Si Malu kasi eh! ..Mag-iingat sa mahilig sa "tuhog"....
ako n nman ba pasimuno 
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3206 posts 7/16/2008 9:23 pm |
2006 - i was just in imc 2007 - i started attending eb's because dadee used to organize those eb's ... it went on for a year ... with dadee always by myside ... binakuran ba ako   ... so at that time no man would dare to be near me  
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3206 posts 7/16/2008 9:32 pm |
all i can say is ... what can i do if "i am one of the boys" they love telling me stories about their sexcapades ... yup straight from the horse's mouths   ...
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3206 posts 7/16/2008 9:38 pm |
Quoting Trisianmay: Ellzzz ,,,also 1 guy in 2 or 3,4 girls (vise versa),,,,and it seems so natural here in FFF ,,,gosh ,,no offense but this is also what i have observe
for the one who attended eb's before ... for sure naobserve mo din yan   
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 3:25 am |
Quoting _lightblue_: Hi Elz!!! Been following your interesting blogs but was too shy to post. Thanks. 
Thanks, Len, my appreciation...
  
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 3:27 am |
Thanks, BTBD, and I'm sure, my message is getting across...  
  
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 3:29 am |
I know you are a keen observer, and to add: YOU'VE GOT LOTS OF ACQUAINTANCES and I'm sure, they share their own stories to you or to your friends...Anything you can "generally" share is welcome...  
  
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 3:31 am |
Quoting ulam: all i can say is ... what can i do if "i am one of the boys" they love telling me stories about their sexcapades ... yup straight from the horse's mouths   ...
It's interesting to know, kiddie sis...Makes FFF alive and kicking! 
  
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 3:33 am |
Quoting ulam: for the one who attended eb's before ... for sure naobserve mo din yan   
"whatever moves them! "...and whatever _____ their _______.   
  
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7/17/2008 7:21 am |
In thinking about this, I do have a rebuttal, but right now, don't have the time to write it down. .
Hope I remember to do so later. . .
but. . i do have this to say . "it is what it is!"
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 12:01 pm |
Quoting borntobadragon: In thinking about this, I do have a rebuttal, but right now, don't have the time to write it down. .
Hope I remember to do so later. . .
but. . i do have this to say . "it is what it is!"
The question is, WHAT IS "IT" ? 
  
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7/17/2008 7:35 pm |
Here on FFF where it claims there are 280K active members, I believe that only 10% are really active and are seriously looking for a mate! If a man or woman does "hook up" with another member here, and it doesn't work out, it's very easy to that man or woman to come back here to search for another, and yes, sometimes because of the small community, the chances that he or she could hook up with another member here and that person could be a friend of the ex!
Love does not discriminate. You can't tell yourself not to love a person. . you can hide it so it doesn't show, but can't stop love!
Love is between the couple . . and no one else, not Ex's, not friends or . . . Just the couple!
I believe at one time or another, all members here had a "love" at one time or another. . after all, this is a dating place. . 
I know I will hear alot of comments on this. .
Bring it on!
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 8:01 pm |
Quoting borntobadragon: Here on FFF where it claims there are 280K active members, I believe that only 10% are really active and are seriously looking for a mate! If a man or woman does "hook up" with another member here, and it doesn't work out, it's very easy to that man or woman to come back here to search for another, and yes, sometimes because of the small community, the chances that he or she could hook up with another member here and that person could be a friend of the ex!
Love does not discriminate. You can't tell yourself not to love a person. . you can hide it so it doesn't show, but can't stop love!
Love is between the couple . . and no one else, not Ex's, not friends or . . . Just the couple!
I believe at one time or another, all members here had a "love" at one time or another. . after all, this is a dating place. . 
I know I will hear alot of comments on this. .
Bring it on!
BTBD, I have nothing against those who like to be in a situation that you mentioned, and I wish them luck as well, but personally, I ABHOR THE IDEA....I "personally" feel, that there are still a lot of men out there....
  
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6189 posts 7/17/2008 8:02 pm |
I can only speak for myself...so, I hope I won't offend others...Like I said, to each his/her own...PEACE! 
  
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3841 posts 7/17/2008 8:24 pm |
Quoting eb1209: And neither can I! 
its soooo sooooo never mind 
smile and be happy always 
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6189 posts 7/18/2008 1:16 am |
Quoting bellezia: its soooo sooooo never mind 
Hey Belle! ...Very nice "front" pic!...that's more like it!..Not just feet, hair, back, side, and whatever! 
  
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4033 posts 7/18/2008 3:12 pm |
Quoting eb1209: And isn't it that it had caused a lot of rift amongst those who called themselves "friends"? 
a sad part,,,but yes,,,, good morning Ellzzz 
Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.
 
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4033 posts 7/18/2008 3:15 pm |
Quoting ulam: for the one who attended eb's before ... for sure naobserve mo din yan   
and 'twas really surprised me a lot,,,how could it be ,, 
Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.
 
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6189 posts 7/19/2008 7:02 pm |
Quoting ulam: 2006 - i was just in imc 2007 - i started attending eb's because dadee used to organize those eb's ... it went on for a year ... with dadee always by myside ... binakuran ba ako   ... so at that time no man would dare to be near me  
Aha! ganun ah! ..So, now I know why you know all of these things...  ..Overprotective pala si Dadee...He has good reasons to be one..
  
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6189 posts 7/19/2008 7:04 pm |
Quoting bellezia: its soooo sooooo never mind 
Hehehehe.... 
  
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6189 posts 7/19/2008 7:05 pm |
Quoting Trisianmay: a sad part,,,but yes,,,, good morning Ellzzz 
Konbanwa` Trish! 
  
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6189 posts 7/19/2008 7:07 pm |
Quoting Trisianmay: and 'twas really surprised me a lot,,,how could it be ,, 
I have some stories from group friends too!...Kumbaga, "pakapalan" na lang...ooooopppsss! :SS
  
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6189 posts 7/19/2008 7:08 pm |
I meant....Oooopppssss! 
  
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