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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
9/16/2007 6:29 pm
Opposite Attracts....

Why is it that most of us say one thing regarding what and who we wish to have, but look!..we end up with something/someone who/which is totally, if not the exact opposite of what we want? I remember a quote I bumped into that says: " We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. "

We say, we want someone simple, and yet we are drawn to somebody extraordinary and complicated.

We say, we want someone who is serious, but we often come across somebody who is playful, nonchalant, and carefree.

We say, we want someone for keeps, but Golly! why are we so smitten by somebody who keeps slipping away?

.....And many more...

DO YOU THINK COMPATIBILITY REALLY MATTERS?..or is it really up to us to make things work?
Just call me ELZ


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
9/16/2007 10:14 pm

 Because ideals is only in our heads. When the theory comes to practice; we usually find out that what we originally thought is not really matters, but what we feel.

Compatibility and chemistry do really matters in the long run. Simply because we cannot forever dance. We have to sit and rest sometimes.
~ Jolielaide


Celia2005 65F

9/17/2007 1:11 am

 It happen to me

agree !!! Compatibility and chemistry do really matters.
Have a nice day !


Celia2005 65F

9/17/2007 1:15 am

 and 100% agree !!" We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. "
Have a nice day !


Celia2005 65F

9/17/2007 1:17 am
    Quoting Celia2005:
    and 100% agree !!" We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. "
and it's not boring right?
Have a nice day !


eb1209

9/17/2007 4:18 am
    Quoting  :
Bestest friend, for me, one dilemma is just fine, but one after the other?..I think that magnetic attraction is going to be fatal..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/17/2007 4:22 am
    Quoting bebong2005:
    Because ideals is only in our heads. When the theory comes to practice; we usually find out that what we originally thought is not really matters, but what we feel.

    Compatibility and chemistry do really matters in the long run. Simply because we cannot forever dance. We have to sit and rest sometimes.
Hey there Bebz! I like your idea. And it is true. Sometimes, we are just too focused on what we really want and forget to enjoy what is "excitingly available"..and just live for the day, forget about tomorrow..And I'M GUILTY of this!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/17/2007 4:23 am
    Quoting Celia2005:
    It happen to me

    agree !!! Compatibility and chemistry do really matters.
Cel, Inday, How many times did it happen to you my dear?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/17/2007 4:24 am
    Quoting Celia2005:
    and 100% agree !!" We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. "
Cel, thanks for agreeing...Hehehehe..Akala ko, ako lang ang TIMANG!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/17/2007 4:27 am
    Quoting  :
Cat-woman, you are very right there...specially here in FFF, it's very hard. In reality, most of the time the ones that we idealize are either "taken, in the church service, at war, or worse >> already DEAD! "
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/17/2007 4:30 am
    Quoting  :
Dang! you got it right as well. Oh! now, you are actually encouraging me...Hmm?...Gosh! where is my cell phone?
Just call me ELZ


cudaguy72 67M

9/18/2007 3:00 am

 yup , sometimes love can be a mad scientist lolz

and some spend so much time trying to analize it rather than just letting it happen . glad to hear that it worked for you , Barbie


eb1209

9/18/2007 4:11 am
    Quoting  :
My sweet sistah, ROXY, I waited 8 long years, I don't mind waiting forever...Maybe, it's just not my luck yet...Thanks for your testimonial...I hope I have the same luck as you did.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/18/2007 4:14 am
    Quoting cudaguy72:
    yup , sometimes love can be a mad scientist lolz

    and some spend so much time trying to analize it rather than just letting it happen . glad to hear that it worked for you , Barbie
Hello there Dan! LOng time, no see here...Where have you been, dude? It's good to see you again. And thanks for posting.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/18/2007 4:20 am
    Quoting  :
Hey! Shine! You know, I just saw your post today, and I don't know why only now? It wasn't there the entire time yesterday...Maybe, it got delayed?......I looked at the time the post was written, and I saw that it was at 3:31 a.m., EST here in the USA...How've you been?..well, right now, I am loveless pa rin..Been given a couple of rides by a couple of nice men here in FFF, but it didn't go anywhere...I dunno, maybe, I am part to be blamed?...Some think I'm an over-achiever, and some think I am not just good enough...(I'm paranoid now) ...I miss you too, sistah...Stay well..Nice pic.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/18/2007 7:40 am
    Quoting  :
Hello there Jack! requals attract equals, I've been in that situation with my EX-BF...But he is one in 10 millions, I suppose....Not that I am looking for an exact replica, but really, at this point, I guess, I woudn;t want to settle for anyone less emotionally available..At least, in that respect..Thanks for visiting again..My pleasure reading your posts.
Just call me ELZ


fraz2000 45M
348 posts
9/19/2007 5:36 am

 Then I should say I'm one lucky guy for catching my DREAMGIRL exactly as I wanted her to be. I know you will meet your heart's desire pretty soon AMS, I just know it!!!!
LaCE ... LOVE and CARE EVERYDAY


eb1209

9/19/2007 11:06 am
    Quoting  :
Bianca, my dear...You pretty much know the deal ha?..Anymore pointers?..thank you for stopping by and posting. Muwah!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/19/2007 11:07 am
    Quoting fraz2000:
    Then I should say I'm one lucky guy for catching my DREAMGIRL exactly as I wanted her to be. I know you will meet your heart's desire pretty soon AMS, I just know it!!!!
Fraz, you're such a very lucky guy!...I think guys get luckier than gals...What do you think? ..But Lace is also lucky to have you, bro!...You're a match made in heaven..and thanks for wishing me well...See you at our house.
Just call me ELZ


c0ne_rey 40F
37 posts
9/19/2007 5:40 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    Fraz, you're such a very lucky guy!...I think guys get luckier than gals...What do you think? ..But Lace is also lucky to have you, bro!...You're a match made in heaven..and thanks for wishing me well...See you at our house.
Everyone of US do really love You AMS ... and that's why we can only wish all the best to such a magnificent fantastic lady ... just stay as you are, so naturally sweet & loving!!!
Remember you are loved!


c0ne_rey 40F
37 posts
9/19/2007 5:42 pm

 I'm glad that one showed up AMS, I had to click on it so many times! But I lost the comment I wanted to say here!
Remember you are loved!


c0ne_rey 40F
37 posts
9/19/2007 5:45 pm

 For me, true love is unconditional, but it has to grow out of wisdom ... if I know that person won't make me happy, would only be a pain, then I wouldn't even like him at all!
Remember you are loved!


c0ne_rey 40F
37 posts
9/19/2007 5:48 pm

 AMS guys seem to be luckier because they can always collect & select while we can't do that or else we'll get a bad reputation!
Remember you are loved!


c0ne_rey 40F
37 posts
9/19/2007 5:55 pm

 Labz yah AMS ... hope you give me a load of HERSHEY's HUGS & KISSES! more than the Mmmuuuuuwwwwwwwwaaaaaaahhhhhhsssssss you gave Bianca!

P.S. ... I'm no jellybean ... just greedy for (yummy) chocs!
Remember you are loved!


eb1209

9/20/2007 7:15 am
    Quoting c0ne_rey:
    Everyone of US do really love You AMS ... and that's why we can only wish all the best to such a magnificent fantastic lady ... just stay as you are, so naturally sweet & loving!!!
Wow! I am overwhelmed with all these Coney...You seem to be sweeter than you look in your picture..Thanks my dear..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

9/20/2007 7:17 am
    Quoting c0ne_rey:
    For me, true love is unconditional, but it has to grow out of wisdom ... if I know that person won't make me happy, would only be a pain, then I wouldn't even like him at all!
We need to be loved by the men, Coney, as much as we can love them..
Just call me ELZ




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