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Opposite Attracts.... Why is it that most of us say one thing regarding what and who we wish to have, but look!..we end up with something/someone who/which is totally, if not the exact opposite of what we want? I remember a quote I bumped into that says: " We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. " We say, we want someone simple, and yet we are drawn to somebody extraordinary and complicated. We say, we want someone who is serious, but we often come across somebody who is playful, nonchalant, and carefree. We say, we want someone for keeps, but Golly! why are we so smitten by somebody who keeps slipping away? .....And many more... DO YOU THINK COMPATIBILITY REALLY MATTERS?..or is it really up to us to make things work? |
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Because ideals is only in our heads. When the theory comes to practice; we usually find out that what we originally thought is not really matters, but what we feel. Compatibility and chemistry do really matters in the long run. Simply because we cannot forever dance. We have to sit and rest sometimes.
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9/17/2007 1:11 am |
It happen to me agree !!! Compatibility and chemistry do really matters.
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9/17/2007 1:15 am |
and 100% agree !!" We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. "
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9/17/2007 1:17 am |
and 100% agree !!" We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. "
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9/17/2007 4:18 am |
Bestest friend, for me, one dilemma is just fine, but one after the other?..I think that magnetic attraction is going to be fatal..
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9/17/2007 4:22 am |
Because ideals is only in our heads. When the theory comes to practice; we usually find out that what we originally thought is not really matters, but what we feel. Compatibility and chemistry do really matters in the long run. Simply because we cannot forever dance. We have to sit and rest sometimes.
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9/17/2007 4:23 am |
It happen to me agree !!! Compatibility and chemistry do really matters.
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9/17/2007 4:24 am |
and 100% agree !!" We often fall in love with someone our opposite because if not, then, no one is going to recognize the difference. "
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9/17/2007 4:27 am |
Cat-woman, you are very right there...specially here in FFF, it's very hard. In reality, most of the time the ones that we idealize are either "taken, in the church service, at war, or worse >> already DEAD! "
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9/17/2007 4:30 am |
Dang! you got it right as well. Oh! now, you are actually encouraging me...Hmm?...Gosh! where is my cell phone?
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9/18/2007 3:00 am |
yup , sometimes love can be a mad scientist lolz and some spend so much time trying to analize it rather than just letting it happen . glad to hear that it worked for you , Barbie
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9/18/2007 4:11 am |
My sweet sistah, ROXY, I waited 8 long years, I don't mind waiting forever...Maybe, it's just not my luck yet...Thanks for your testimonial...I hope I have the same luck as you did.
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9/18/2007 4:14 am |
yup , sometimes love can be a mad scientist lolz and some spend so much time trying to analize it rather than just letting it happen . glad to hear that it worked for you , Barbie
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9/18/2007 4:20 am |
Hey! Shine! You know, I just saw your post today, and I don't know why only now? It wasn't there the entire time yesterday...Maybe, it got delayed?......I looked at the time the post was written, and I saw that it was at 3:31 a.m., EST here in the USA...How've you been?..well, right now, I am loveless pa rin..Been given a couple of rides by a couple of nice men here in FFF, but it didn't go anywhere...I dunno, maybe, I am part to be blamed?...Some think I'm an over-achiever, and some think I am not just good enough...(I'm paranoid now) ...I miss you too, sistah...Stay well..Nice pic.
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9/18/2007 7:40 am |
Hello there Jack! requals attract equals, I've been in that situation with my EX-BF...But he is one in 10 millions, I suppose....Not that I am looking for an exact replica, but really, at this point, I guess, I woudn;t want to settle for anyone less emotionally available..At least, in that respect..Thanks for visiting again..My pleasure reading your posts.
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Then I should say I'm one lucky guy for catching my DREAMGIRL exactly as I wanted her to be. I know you will meet your heart's desire pretty soon AMS, I just know it!!!!
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9/19/2007 11:06 am |
Bianca, my dear...You pretty much know the deal ha?..Anymore pointers?..thank you for stopping by and posting. Muwah!
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9/19/2007 11:07 am |
Then I should say I'm one lucky guy for catching my DREAMGIRL exactly as I wanted her to be. I know you will meet your heart's desire pretty soon AMS, I just know it!!!!
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Fraz, you're such a very lucky guy!...I think guys get luckier than gals...What do you think? ..But Lace is also lucky to have you, bro!...You're a match made in heaven..and thanks for wishing me well...See you at our house.
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I'm glad that one showed up AMS, I had to click on it so many times! But I lost the comment I wanted to say here!
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For me, true love is unconditional, but it has to grow out of wisdom ... if I know that person won't make me happy, would only be a pain, then I wouldn't even like him at all!
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AMS guys seem to be luckier because they can always collect & select while we can't do that or else we'll get a bad reputation!
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Labz yah AMS ... hope you give me a load of HERSHEY's HUGS & KISSES! more than the Mmmuuuuuwwwwwwwwaaaaaaahhhhhhsssssss you gave Bianca! P.S. ... I'm no jellybean ... just greedy for (yummy) chocs!
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9/20/2007 7:15 am |
Everyone of US do really love You AMS ... and that's why we can only wish all the best to such a magnificent fantastic lady ... just stay as you are, so naturally sweet & loving!!!
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9/20/2007 7:17 am |
For me, true love is unconditional, but it has to grow out of wisdom ... if I know that person won't make me happy, would only be a pain, then I wouldn't even like him at all!
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