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To Re-marry or Not : Life after divorce/annulment Just call me ELZ  |
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8/26/2007 8:48 pm |
I just casted my vote, and guess what it is?  Just call me ELZ
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8/26/2007 10:04 pm |
elsa, parang wala sa list yung gusto ko na mangyari... MARIE
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8/27/2007 2:25 am |
WOW easy go lucky ata ako...i just like it!!!! Have a nice day ! 
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8/27/2007 2:57 am |
I'm divorced and i'm not intent to remarry , so living together is my best option  Just call me ELZ
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8/27/2007 2:57 am |
WOW easy go lucky ata ako...i just like it!!!! Just call me ELZ
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8/27/2007 2:59 am |
Check the results from time to time guys..They're amazing! Just call me ELZ
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hmmmm.. after my separation, i met a lot of men, some from this site & they were nice but there was always this thing at the back of my mind reminding me that it is always almost perfect the first time you are w/ someone new.. after some time or shortly after, i met a man that was a filipino who had been in the US since childhood so his personality was a mix of fil-am culture which i found interestingly attractive.. cutting this short, you can know a man for a short term or long term but it always comes back to Change & this i think will ultimately decide the solidity of the relationship.. i vote for giving any relationship time to go through the ups & downs first & then analyzing the outcome of each crisis.. from there you will learn if you can be good together & if both of you want it to be permanent.. hello elz
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8/27/2007 6:06 pm |
I don't blame you Gem! When I was a lot younger, I dreamt of getting married with all the trimmings, but with everything that is going on right now, where relationships are very unsteady and people don't respect marriage the way it is supposed to be, I've had second thoughts and I am into commitments w/o making my headaches legal...But then, again, you'll never know...If the right man comes along... Just call me ELZ
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8/27/2007 6:11 pm |
hmmmm.. after my separation, i met a lot of men, some from this site & they were nice but there was always this thing at the back of my mind reminding me that it is always almost perfect the first time you are w/ someone new.. after some time or shortly after, i met a man that was a filipino who had been in the US since childhood so his personality was a mix of fil-am culture which i found interestingly attractive.. cutting this short, you can know a man for a short term or long term but it always comes back to Change & this i think will ultimately decide the solidity of the relationship.. i vote for giving any relationship time to go through the ups & downs first & then analyzing the outcome of each crisis.. from there you will learn if you can be good together & if both of you want it to be permanent.. hello elz Just call me ELZ
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8/27/2007 6:14 pm |
Ed, you mean to say, you cannot love with all your heart now, even though your 3 daughters are not ready to settle down yet?..I mean, falling truly and deeply in love can still happen without marrying, you know. Just call me ELZ
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8/27/2007 6:21 pm |
Bestest friend, Jeff. I know I've heard that from you before. I am a Catholic too, but not as devoted as you are. I am a very modern Maria Clara. I still believe in marriage, but right now, it means more to me to be in a stable relationship free from the pressures of being tied down just because. I know how loyal I am, how committed I am and how I will do my best to work things out. The problem lies on the prospective partner. My only son is done with college and is now gainfully employed. I have waited almost 8 years now without someone I can officially call my "BF", and I still have that patience to wait until the right one comes along. If he's not gonna be there for me, then, so be it! Life is still wonderful and I'm enjoying it, however it presents itself to me. Talking about adversities? I think, I am a PRO now. Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 2:41 am |
a divorce or an annulment was acquired for the very reason of getting married again in the future. now...re-marrying for whatever causes stated above... is another dilemna of ours  but of course, we are priviledged to...giving it a try...again  by hook or by crook???   
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8/28/2007 3:20 am |
My dear, I know it is difficult to decide what really is best suited for us because fear of the unknown will always be there, the WHAT IF, and WHAT NOT. It is scary, but people who are in love are prone to make mistakes just the same. The most important thing is, we'll cross the bridge when we get there, and be responsible for our actions. Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 3:28 am |
Cat, the first one is always the ideal one for those who really want marriage the conventional way.,,that is, for keeps. But it is a known fact that people do not value this sacred sacrament that much anymore. When people marry only because of love and not for lifetime commitment, then trouble comes in. Love fickles, and changes its intensity overtime. It is very hard for most of us to keep that flame burning specially when we have kids already. Priorities change as well and the romance takes the backseat. The next thing we know, because of lack of commitment and loyalty, there is already a 3rd person involved. I'm sorry, I might press the sensitive key here but I have to bring it up to be realistic. It does take two to tango. Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 3:34 am |
a divorce or an annulment was acquired for the very reason of getting married again in the future. now...re-marrying for whatever causes stated above... is another dilemna of ours but of course, we are priviledged to...giving it a try...again by hook or by crook??? Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 3:40 am |
Please continue to monitor the results. As of this writing, INDECISION votes is leading..What does that tell us?...Indecision can work either way: It delays our chances to be happy again because of that fear and many other factors associated with it, or it makes us buy time to carefully choose the ones we really like. And we wonder why we go through the same process all over again and again. Most of us will probably be here in FFF for the longest time ...I don't know about you, but taking the risks will give you better chances to reach our goals. FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN IS THE CULPRIT. Don't be a statistic! Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 3:41 am |
Whatever moves you sweet Celia!..Go for it, and listen to your heart. sister or brother. But i'll stick to my decision. hehehheeh too short to start a new family oldies na ako lol.....mahina na ang tuhod para mag alaga ng new baby chikiting hey hey ang hirap ata ng buhay ngayon..... Have a nice day !
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8/28/2007 6:58 am |
Please continue to monitor the results. As of this writing, INDECISION votes is leading..What does that tell us?...Indecision can work either way: It delays our chances to be happy again because of that fear and many other factors associated with it, or it makes us buy time to carefully choose the ones we really like. And we wonder why we go through the same process all over again and again. Most of us will probably be here in FFF for the longest time ...I don't know about you, but taking the risks will give you better chances to reach our goals. FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN IS THE CULPRIT. Don't be a statistic!looking at the result...more people don't wanna take a chance... or maybe...just being careful yet... to plunge or make decision bout the issue... that is due to the hurt and pain one experienced  women are more emotional i guess...and its true... once the man knew or felt that we are serious... they tend to run away or back off... but i'd like to add...not all men for that matter... few of them wanted us for real overall...we all deserve to be happy so lets get lucky 
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8/28/2007 6:56 pm |
Oh to my son ...his asking to have atleast one sister or brother. But i'll stick to my decision. hehehheeh too short to start a new family oldies na ako lol.....mahina na ang tuhod para mag alaga ng new baby chikiting hey hey ang hirap ata ng buhay ngayon..... Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 6:58 pm |
Hello Mister!..Thanks for dropping by, and yeah, it is okay, you belong to those who wait and que sera-sera attitude, and there's absolutely no thing wrong with that. I wish you goodluck! Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 7:01 pm |
life is all about taking chances... looking at the result...more people don't wanna take a chance... or maybe...just being careful yet... to plunge or make decision bout the issue... that is due to the hurt and pain one experienced women are more emotional i guess...and its true... once the man knew or felt that we are serious... they tend to run away or back off... but i'd like to add...not all men for that matter... few of them wanted us for real overall...we all deserve to be happy so lets get lucky ..I don't bite, you know!Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 7:04 pm |
 wow lots of undeceded peoples in the votesJust call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 7:14 pm |
I can relate to you here Cat. I am the only member of my family who did not have a complete family, and I thought I kinda disgraced my family just because I failed them miserably. And my son, when he was a lot younger wished to have a brother or a sister at least. But I did not plan my life this way, and now that I've come this far, I don't care about what people will say anymore..I entitled to be happy, regardless. But this is just me. Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 7:15 pm |
I am entitled to be happy, I mean , regardless. But this is just me. Just call me ELZ
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8/28/2007 7:19 pm |
Naku, Ed! Maghunusdili ka! Meron nang may-ari ang mga beauties na yan. Just call me ELZ
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