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On Cyber to Real World Dating : Who sees who first? |
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my personal opinion is that it should be the man who travels to see the woman unless there is a compelling reason like illness or disability, then its alright for the woman to travel to see the man first.. although nowadays it is generally accepted to go both ways.. it really doesn't matter anymore who makes the first move bcoz of the equality of both sexes..
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7/24/2007 5:55 pm |
a woman should be gung-ho in the internet , this makes the guy do the first move to travel and see her.
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7/24/2007 5:58 pm |
miss yah! Princess...
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7/25/2007 3:26 am |
my personal opinion is that it should be the man who travels to see the woman unless there is a compelling reason like illness or disability, then its alright for the woman to travel to see the man first.. although nowadays it is generally accepted to go both ways.. it really doesn't matter anymore who makes the first move bcoz of the equality of both sexes..
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7/25/2007 3:27 am |
a woman should be gung-ho in the internet , this makes the guy do the first move to travel and see her.
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7/25/2007 3:28 am |
miss yah! Princess...
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7/25/2007 3:29 am |
Wow! you are another one lucky girl ha, Thess?...I hope you'll rub your luck on me!
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7/25/2007 3:30 am |
Wow! I have a post from HVP family...I thank you for reading my profile and for posting your vote...YUP, meet me halfway is the trend as well...50-50 deal!
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hmmm...i met my first cybermatchup in Manila this year...
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I was cupid-matched with Butch and from there he did his best to track me down at FFF. He joined HVP when he saw that I was in that group. After a few emails & private exchanges, he asked to see me. I told him I was committed to my mission & didn't have time to go out on dates. So he went to see me at the Korean Presbyterian Pastoral Office where I was giving scriptural studies to Korean kids. When my family went to Korea for a holiday, he did his best to get a visa to go there too. He enrolled in a language institute there so he got the visa. I guess it was a match made in heaven. Butch & I are now happily married.
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7/25/2007 6:44 pm |
Cat, I know that you are one very lucky woman...May I say, I envy you?...You are not only beautiful, smart, but a lot of people love you (friends, family, and MEN!...)Yes, I agree with you, Men really should make an effort...We are worth the trip and risk!
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7/25/2007 6:48 pm |
Cat, we really have to bring this up...I know of a female friend from Singapore who went twice to see the man of her dreams..One was in Chicago, and it did not work, and the other one is in Australia...The latter is her husband now...Huuuhh! She is one hellava risk-taker, and she got what she wanted...I don't see anything wrong with that either...I just advice women to be very careful!
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7/25/2007 6:49 pm |
Please bite your tongue, my dear...I need more than luck here.....Thanks a whole lot.
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7/25/2007 6:51 pm |
hmmm...i met my first cybermatchup in Manila this year...
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7/25/2007 6:54 pm |
I was cupid-matched with Butch and from there he did his best to track me down at FFF. He joined HVP when he saw that I was in that group. After a few emails & private exchanges, he asked to see me. I told him I was committed to my mission & didn't have time to go out on dates. So he went to see me at the Korean Presbyterian Pastoral Office where I was giving scriptural studies to Korean kids. When my family went to Korea for a holiday, he did his best to get a visa to go there too. He enrolled in a language institute there so he got the visa. I guess it was a match made in heaven. Butch & I are now happily married.
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Cat, we really have to bring this up...I know of a female friend from Singapore who went twice to see the man of her dreams..One was in Chicago, and it did not work, and the other one is in Australia...The latter is her husband now...Huuuhh! She is one hellava risk-taker, and she got what she wanted...I don't see anything wrong with that either...I just advice women to be very careful!
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7/26/2007 3:29 am |
That's a good advice Elsa, we all have to be careful esp when meeting someone in a strange land ...
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7/26/2007 3:31 am |
Wow! Way to go, Jesy!...I am so happy that my HVP Family are very supportive of each other and are looking out for one another...I am conservative, but I do take the Road Less Travelled at times, but I always do my homework and so far, I am still very safe and sound...See you there at HVP!..Thank you so dearly...
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7/26/2007 6:49 pm |
Oh hello there Patrick!...Good to see you here..And thank you so much for your valuable opinion, and I believe the general public would agree to that...Safety for both is a must..Take care of your knees...
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7/26/2007 6:52 pm |
Oh, hello there Sis! Ang cute naman ng "hind" mo...hehehehe...But, yup! two people are still strangers until such time that they know each other pretty well..I'd say, 3-6 months of constant communication is good enough to Eye Ball (E...And it would really be nice if the man makes the first move...
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7/26/2007 6:54 pm |
You have a point there too, Sis!...Better safe all the time...Men can be in the same dangerous situation when with a woman at times....Careful!
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7/26/2007 6:57 pm |
Way to go Leona...Dapat lang di ba? And more than likely, your beauty will attract Foreigners easily as they want to be attracted physically first, and the rest will be scrutinized later...A lot of them are willing to travel to RP just for that purpose..WE are worth their time and money (as well as emotional investment) Thanks for posting sistah!
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7/26/2007 6:59 pm |
Well, Nelson, you know the deal. I miss the PLF too, but life is such that we sometimes take some time off and smell the roses outside our own gardens, right?...But PLF had been my "home" for sometime...I had a great time there...Take care!
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my first cybermatchup looks very promising, i will be returning later this year to meet her family, relatives and friends...sharing the life journey in the very near future
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My old school upbringing taught me that ladies should wait for the man to make the first move. I'll stick to this.
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