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eb1209
23211 posts
12/15/2016 6:57 pm
Yes, I have been a Loser!



I do not have a problem admitting...That I have been a loser..maybe more than a couple of times. As opposed to what others think about me, I do not always get whatever, whoever I want or like...or even love. Ironically, I have more courage accepting my defeat, than muscle the courage to tell somebody that I like him. Maybe, if I was good at doing the latter, maybe my life and love story may have been different...But there are many factors why things did not happen and are not happening. Sometimes, the things that we hoped to have but didn't, actually saved us from any catastrophic relationships, had they been. Some people believe in fate and destiny..Some people will tell you, you are your destiny...you have to make things happen...And so, why didn't they happen after all? I have high respect for people who did what they had to do, no matter how unconventional they are just to get the things and people that they want or like...But I also believe that not everyone gets the same results...But to assume about an outcome without trying is actually an act of cowardness...So then, another admission on my part...Yes, I am a coward...If it is a consolation for the reader of this blog, let it be known, that for so many years of being a single woman, I have learned to love my status, and not expect for something or someone to come anymore. I re-adjusted my lifestyle and accepted the fact that I happiness is not all about having a lifetime companion (it would be nice to have one), but making the most of what a single life has to offer...So far, I am aging gracefully...and gratefully...I may not have everything, but whatever I have, I truly treasure..I am blessed.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/15/2016 7:00 pm

I know, a lot of people are reading the blogs here in FFF, even though they do not leave comments...Thank you for at least viewing...I am sure, some of you can relate...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/15/2016 9:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Jane, what else can I say? I can only speak for myself. Even I, am wondering why a beautiful, talented, and loving woman such as you are is still single. Are we doomed to be such for the rest of our lives?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2016 2:28 am

    Quoting  :

Exactly! There had been half- baked romance that looked promising from the start, that eventually turned unpleasant as time went on, that happened to me as well. What the heck! I dont need any of that

Just call me ELZ


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
12/16/2016 7:47 am

never give up just be more picky


eb1209

12/16/2016 8:35 am

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    never give up just be more picky
Ive been accused of being too pocky at times, but Ive hurt and wounded a couple of times. Better be safe than sorry

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2016 8:35 am

Picky* sorry

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/10/2017 6:12 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes, Bestie...I think I have loved and lost "secretly" as well...what the heck..

Just call me ELZ


chester0310 34M
199 posts
1/11/2017 3:17 pm

You are not a loser, Elz. Those who took you for granted are the losers . Happy new year to you and thanks for making the blogsville alive again .

Once in a while, someone comes along to put you on top of the world.


eb1209

1/11/2017 3:28 pm

    Quoting chester0310:
    You are not a loser, Elz. Those who took you for granted are the losers . Happy new year to you and thanks for making the blogsville alive again .
And thank you for coming back...I tried to revive this place where I met quite a number of true friends...I just cannot let it die...This place means so much to me...You take care!

Just call me ELZ