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eb1209
23211 posts
6/22/2016 6:59 am
FINDING DORO....


I know this sounds silly, but I would like to use my imagination and make parallelism about the blockbuster movie Finding Dory, as opposed to Finding A Lifetime Partner ( hence, Doro.. ) in real life. I am debating between WAITING, and LOOKING for that special someone.. You see, all these 17 years, I've waited, waited, and waited...They came, and were shooed, as in "go away", due to fear of failure once again, or not my type, or the ones that I liked, didn't like me back...Yeah, I am not ashamed to admit that I've had several rejections (indirect though) because they never knew or I made sure they won't ever know that I liked them (no thanks to my Maria Clara trait) ..But now that I am getting older, and when I just thought, huh? I will die alone? rot alone ? still ALONE, after a very long time?..I do have second thoughts, although, I really like to be independent, and free-spirited most of the time. I guess, there is still this desire deep inside me to be with someone to grow "older" with... But I have to tell you honestly, that person better be not demanding of any kuchi-kuchi anymore, because, quite frankly, I was never good at it in the first place.. So, going back to Finding Doro, err, finding that special someone, shall I go ahead and follow the "shells" that will lead to him? or just wait outside my gate forever? Anyway, I am just bored, and I do have time to rant today. So, please, excuse me for saying...but, maybe, I am not too old to do unusual things I've never done before..What do you think?



Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2016 2:32 pm

The problem is, where is DORO?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2016 6:56 pm

    Quoting  :

Meann, I like this idea...really, hmmm.. but I have limited exposure...I am mostly home, work, home, work, shopping, home, work...EB with Dabarkads 2x a year at the most. No parties with others. I guess, after turning them down several times in the past, I was never invited again... In reality, I can actually have a bit of adventure with someone I already know...Slowly, slowly, and maybe, surely...or will fade away...But what the heck!...the most important thing is, I tried...yeah?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2016 6:59 pm

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Hmmmm, again.. Actually, I noticed in FB that all of a sudden, someone got interested in interacting with me...He is actually following my posts. I am a bit uncomfortable because he happens to be a brother of a friend...and I do not want to give color or malice to this sudden interaction...Nothing romantic at this time, but I can sense a slow motion kinda approach...or, maybe I am wrong...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/23/2016 8:38 pm

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Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/23/2016 8:39 pm

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Sana nga bumukol na kung ano man yung ukol..lolz..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/23/2016 8:40 pm

Thanks, Meann...Looks like there are only 2 of us interacting here...thanks for the compamy

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/23/2016 8:40 pm

Thanks, Meann...Looks like there are only 2 of us interacting here...thanks for the company

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/23/2016 8:40 pm

oooppppsss! nadoble tuloy

Just call me ELZ


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
6/23/2016 9:56 pm

I think we have the same circumstances. I am not bold at all to make a first move and the one's that come does not suit. The ones that I thought were good were actually bogus. I also have limited social exposure. Seeing many single woman living alone I am kinda preparing myself for that. Someone said before, the pain of losing someone never goes away , you just learn to live with it. I guess the same applies to being alone, I will have to learn to live with it.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


eb1209

6/24/2016 5:53 am

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    I think we have the same circumstances. I am not bold at all to make a first move and the one's that come does not suit. The ones that I thought were good were actually bogus. I also have limited social exposure. Seeing many single woman living alone I am kinda preparing myself for that. Someone said before, the pain of losing someone never goes away , you just learn to live with it. I guess the same applies to being alone, I will have to learn to live with it.
Che, I must say, I have become territorial after being alone for about 17 years now. Yes, I've met wonderful friends here in FFF who can relate with me, and who taught me how to survive...You too, will...Welcome to singlehood..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/24/2016 5:54 am

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Thanks, Tinkz...sana huwag maPUSOY

Just call me ELZ