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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
6/10/2016 1:26 pm
CHANGE....


"The only thing CONSTANT in this world is CHANGE." that is an oxymoron (constant-change) type of cliche`. While most of the people adapt to any type of change, there are those who are stagnant, and resistant to it. There are those who, even if they are aware that whatever they are doing is WRONG, they still continue to do so, because of maybe pride, upbringing, or fear of feeling "defeated" or loss. In that regard, is it safe then to assume that conscience has something to do with changes? And that is about attitude. Anything else is more acceptable and do-able.. A very conservative person can drastically change into an ultra modern one in a snap of a finger, depending on what motivates the person. But going back to the attitude, I do believe that only the person involved can change, reform, or improve himself for the better. There maybe some factors that can help him/her achieve that, but those are temporary. Once the influence is gone, the tendency is for the person to go back to the old ways. There is no better motivation than "I AM DOING IT FOR ME, and I KNOW I CAN DO IT !!! " If you ask me, Is there a time frame or age limit for a person to change? The answer is NO..One can be on his/her death bed, but still can change. But, maybe, by that time, it is way too late...But, another favorite cliche` can support that.."It is better LATE, than NEVER."...

Just call me ELZ


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
6/10/2016 8:29 pm

 Change can be 2 edge we should always aim for the better. Some changes needs perfect timing some changes are tiring. Some can bring you up some can pull you down but never attempt to change what we can't control because that is close to impossible.
“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


eb1209

6/10/2016 8:33 pm
    Quoting Bizzysback:
    Change can be 2 edge we should always aim for the better. Some changes needs perfect timing some changes are tiring. Some can bring you up some can pull you down but never attempt to change what we can't control because that is close to impossible.
Che, we always expect the changes for the better, not the other way around. Some changes can be painful but necessary. It all depends. Thanks for gracing my blog. Welcome back
Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
6/10/2016 10:17 pm
Elz, what I am is the result of changes in my life. Unfortunately I did not change until something unbecoming had happened in my life. I guess I can say that I evolved from my good and bad experiences. But good or bad I believe I can stand tall on what I am now.
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

6/11/2016 2:59 am
    Quoting  :
Hmmm! That kind of change, I am really thinking deeply , Jane but maybe.... Why not? Im gonna be scared, alright. But for as long as long as I can still do something that I am physically, emotionally, and financially able, why not? So, help me God!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/11/2016 2:59 am

 Sorry for the typos
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/11/2016 3:02 am
    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Elz, what I am is the result of changes in my life. Unfortunately I did not change until something unbecoming had happened in my life. I guess I can say that I evolved from my good and bad experiences. But good or bad I believe I can stand tall on what I am now.
Ka Bert, did I miss something about you? Where was I all along?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/11/2016 10:00 am
    Quoting  :
Meann, sometimes, change happens after an awakening from a deep slumber of martyrdom and submission. Sometimes, someone had to slap you or hit your head on the wall just to realize how we are missing out on our happiness and self respect just because we were so busy taking care of others and have neglected our own needs and self esteem.
Just call me ELZ




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