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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
5/12/2014 9:35 am
Afraid of the "ghost" you created?
You've been blabbering about a relationship that had been "one-sided"..one where you "shout" while your supposed to be "partner" is on a deafening "silence". You've been all-out, while he's just watching you melt like a fool in public humiliation brought about by his apparent non-chalant, careless attitude. You created this "world of romance" wherein he is your Knight in Shining Armor, while you are just there when he was in "need" of somebody to feed his manly ego...After all, he's been turned down by one too many...You never wondered nor questioned why he is lacking the reciprocal public display of affection (PDA) because you drowned yourself with delusions, that, of YOU and HIM, together, in LOVE There were some days you never heard from him despite all your efforts to contact him, and yet, as soon as he does, no matter how "cold" his alibis would be, you still believe...For how long has this been?..is just about how long you've endured...until one day, you decided to pinch yourself, looked into the mirror and saw the ghost of that romantic empire you created actually vanished..He is still there, but this time, you are having second thoughts...It is never too late..Your love is real, but the truth about the relationship is greater, and you do have a choice, to STAY or to GO..


Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 10:59 am

 Oh wow! I didn't expect the fonts to be this humongous ..Pardon me please
Just call me ELZ


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/12/2014 2:35 pm

 eb, I agree with the truth anytime rather then a lie any day ...

TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


eb1209

5/12/2014 2:43 pm
    Quoting racerx428:
    eb, I agree with the truth anytime rather then a lie any day ...
Just call me ELZ...eb is my initials...But thank you, Racer..We do not want any lies...we do not want to make a fool of ourselves...I will personally take ALL or NONE
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 6:28 pm
    Quoting  :
Hi there! First of all, I like your handle ..Very appropriate to my blog entry.....But you are right, absolutely right! In the real world, it is what it is, bu we create our ideal world with ghost characters, and we are one of them..But, it pays to be awakened by reality...After all, we cannot live with this imaginary relationship forever...Thanks for visiting!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 6:43 pm
    Quoting  :
Hello to you too, Blog Guru! ...Jane, it's been more than a week since my come back, and I realized how FFF had somehow "died". I was quite thrilled when I checked the visitors of my blogs that some signs of "life" is about to bud...In my case, I only had a couple of true relationships and luckily, they were extremely demonstrative of their affection, but sad to say even that was NOT a guarantee to keep a relationship...How much more with the one-sided one...And you know how "coward" I've become since then...I had quite a few of "almost" there, MU, platonic, and what have you relationships, but never progressed into the "real thing"...I must admit, my expectations then (and who knows maybe now) were high...I wouldn't settle for less, and so I "k_lled" the damn feeling! lolz ...Does that make it a "Crime of Passion" ?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 6:45 pm
    Quoting  :
And by the way, Jane...I thought about the title of this blog long and hard...I gotta find a way to keep the readers "guessing", and I believe it works
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 6:47 pm

 CAUTION: This blog is not meant to criticize nor attack any member of FFF in particular...This is a general blog...Pero, huwag ka: "BATO-BATO SA LANGIT, ANG TAMAAN MAY BUKOL"...toinkz
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 7:59 pm
    Quoting  :
Jane, I tell you know, up front...YOU ARE MUCH BETTER than ME in love department...At least, you tried...and still exploring...I am a DEAD MEAT! (or shall I say, I don't have "IT" anymore? )
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 8:04 pm

 I love interactive blog, and I "usually" do not leave any comments unresponded (not just being polite and courteous) because it challenges my "old brain"...The sister of the famous Maria Isabel Lopez ( who was with us during the Las Vegas EB ) asked me if I have done "something" on my face coz according to her, I don't look my age...and I said, "naaaaahhh! not yet!" , just a tattoo for my eyebrows and eyelids...But don't be fooled by seemingly youthful looks, I have an aging brain, almost demented..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/12/2014 8:07 pm
    Quoting jorg_ge2:
    Hi ELZ;

    Nice!!....The blog's story is very familiar , yet ,you presented it the other nice way and has become too interesting to read on,Yes,when someone creates a"ghost" or a "scenario"then,he needs to stay in the control room always,so no sad happenings nor "crying" endings ,but always nice and all the good chapters of the story he is going to tell,and he is afraid then to end the story in a morose and very melancholic way and he's really afraid of the ghost he created!!
Jorge, I love to talk about REAL circumstances in life, because it is easier for me to co-relate, and defend my points of view...Thank you for the kind words...I believe, we can be tactful in writing blogs even if at times, it hits different targets left and right
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 3:11 am
    Quoting  :
Thanks, Jane, but you know, YOU and I can create INTRIGUES, without even trying
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 3:13 am
    Quoting  :
Hmm? Pero malay mo, merong marunong buhayin ang PATAY!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 3:14 am
    Quoting  :
It's okay, and I don't really care..Kasi nga, di ba, this happens in real life, here, there, and everywhere...Who knows? This may help them WAKE UP!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 3:16 am
    Quoting  :
But Iris, isn't it better to play fair and square? Just say, I DON'T REALLY LOVE YOU, and LET'S end this game...It hurts, I know, but at least, you know where you stand....
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 3:19 am

 Oh no! I just have to "whisper" something to you Jane...Check your FB/PM
Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/13/2014 8:42 am

 Yup, been in this situation. The truth really hurts so much. Like saying "i don't love u". Just using u for sex. But, always hoping na maybe this time. What tops it all is they wanna be friends...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

5/13/2014 6:25 pm
    Quoting  :
Yeah, unfortunately Jane...This is public, and everyone is entitled to their opinion, no matter how foolish it is
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 6:26 pm
    Quoting TessRb:
    Yup, been in this situation. The truth really hurts so much. Like saying "i don't love u". Just using u for sex. But, always hoping na maybe this time. What tops it all is they wanna be friends...
Tess, you are very vulnerable to this...But as your friend, and Dabarkad.., All I can say is" WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY, GO FOR IT!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 6:27 pm
    Quoting  :
Okay, TENG, you can drop your extra set of eyes... They're not needed, since the fonts are "screaming"
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 6:30 pm
    Quoting  :
You know, Jane, I wasn't even paying attention to that...But you also know WHO is that MALE counterpart of your nemesis, who's been a pain in my behind the past years, and I can see his handle also visiting my blogs for a couple of days now...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 6:32 pm

 Anyways, to those who come and visit my blogs regularly, whether you LIKE them or NOT, THE FACT THAT YOU ARE ALWAYS VISITING, THAT MEANS, my BLOGS CATCH YOUR ATTENTION.......that means, they are INTERESTING!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/13/2014 6:34 pm

 Okay, this is for the books..To those who know me well, I do not hold any grudge at all. There's always a new beginning with me, specially in terms of acquaintances here in FFF..We may not be friends-friends, but at least, we are co-members here, and I AM NO BETTER THAN YOU ARE...Look! I am just like you...A STANDARD MEMBER
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/14/2014 5:21 pm
    Quoting  :
Right, you are, Marivic! ,I am not even sure if you can call that a "relationship" , when in fact, the two of them are not really "connected", as in hindi magka HAWAK-KAMAY! ..Deng! I really like the emoticons here at FFF
Just call me ELZ


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/17/2014 2:47 am
    Quoting  :
Iris, isn't that da truth

TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


eb1209

5/17/2014 3:13 am
    Quoting  :
WHAT! !!!!!! which one? That is not good!
I am just reading a blog right now about DIMASALANG which is really below the belt...That is character assassination..
Just call me ELZ




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