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eb1209
23211 posts
2/25/2013 4:39 am
And You Wonder Why?



You met, and so, he likes you, you like him, and then you hit it off. You are both of legal age, and whatever you do together is consensual..But you noticed that each time you go out, you end up at his place, in his bedroom, when his parents aren't home. Fine! Then, you wonder why?..Why is it that you have not met his parents or his relatives? ..The answer is plain and simple: "Your place is NOT in his heart, but way below it, dangling"


Just call me ELZ


issa70 54F

2/25/2013 5:54 am

Ms. Elz...i think there is an exception with this one...maybe it's just coincidence that everytime the lady visited the guy's place, his parents are attending outside gatherings.... On the contrary, If there's a Will, there's a Way naman.....so better to think it over if someone will encounter with this kind of facts.

How about if the guy lives alone and his parents nor relatives are living very far from him.....maybe this scenario might be considered....and the lady has a place in his heart if the guy takes her to his house.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
2/25/2013 8:45 am

Elz,

The friends w/ benefits. Gosh my kids had to enlighten me with that one. I was so clueless. Anyways, i've met the family. It's just they always go for the younger girl. Besides at this point in life just not meant to be...

Happy monday

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
2/25/2013 1:19 pm



The guy is just being cheap. He won't take you to a classy hotel. But hey, he might be saving the money for an engagement ring


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

2/25/2013 7:59 pm

    Quoting issa70:
    Ms. Elz...i think there is an exception with this one...maybe it's just coincidence that everytime the lady visited the guy's place, his parents are attending outside gatherings.... On the contrary, If there's a Will, there's a Way naman.....so better to think it over if someone will encounter with this kind of facts.

    How about if the guy lives alone and his parents nor relatives are living very far from him.....maybe this scenario might be considered....and the lady has a place in his heart if the guy takes her to his house.
Issa, my dear, good if the situation is like that...but the thing is, these days, some men treat women as objects, at their own disposal..Gone are the days when women are most respected.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/25/2013 7:59 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    The friends w/ benefits. Gosh my kids had to enlighten me with that one. I was so clueless. Anyways, i've met the family. It's just they always go for the younger girl. Besides at this point in life just not meant to be...

    Happy monday
Tess, not even friends with benefits...Just BENEFITS!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/25/2013 8:00 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:


    The guy is just being cheap. He won't take you to a classy hotel. But hey, he might be saving the money for an engagement ring

And what kind of ring is that, Bert? Baka naman puwet ng baso yung bato?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/25/2013 8:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Even with my age right now, Jane...Nahhhhhh! ,
ang hirap ng ganyang situation...Unless, you also just want to be "physical" hehehehe...Aguyyyyy!


Just call me ELZ


barbara72

2/25/2013 8:04 pm

He still lives with his parents, so bata pa naman siguro , wag naman natin sya e-pressure . Out of the league, within the umbrella of the parents no way, yun pa Lang eh, turn off na. Hehehe


eb1209

2/25/2013 8:53 pm

    Quoting barbara72:
    He still lives with his parents, so bata pa naman siguro , wag naman natin sya e-pressure . Out of the league, within the umbrella of the parents no way, yun pa Lang eh, turn off na. Hehehe
Barbz, so okay lang kung solo flight na siya, pero di ka pa rin niya ipinakikilala sa mga kamag-anak niya?

Just call me ELZ


barbara72

2/25/2013 11:32 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Barbz, so okay lang kung solo flight na siya, pero di ka pa rin niya ipinakikilala sa mga kamag-anak niya?
First, most of the men I met naman dahil old na sila their parents are already dead. Lol. ( refer to ate Jane bout my preference, hehehe) ngayon kasi even with the getting to know stage pa Lang you'll get to meet the family na din, not exactly the parents , but because of the social media, it's there right in your eyes to scrutinize friends , relatives , siblings. But then again cautious me, I'm keen with those details, di ako paiisa, tanda ko na eh.Hehehe


issa70 54F

2/26/2013 2:41 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Issa, my dear, good if the situation is like that...but the thing is, these days, some men treat women as objects, at their own disposal..Gone are the days when women are most respected.
Ms. Elz, yes yan na ang madalas nangyayari ngayon ginawang disposal at after magsawa e dumped na lang....pero i think there are still few pa naman na they treat women with respect pa...


ajaw430 54F

2/26/2013 3:38 am

Elz, case to case basis...ako nakilala ko lang mother nia, tapos na yung sakal, este kasal!


ajaw430 54F

2/26/2013 3:42 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:


    The guy is just being cheap. He won't take you to a classy hotel. But hey, he might be saving the money for an engagement ring

Hmm, I never experienced having an engagement ring...sabagay, wedding ring nga, isang araw lang sinuot, tapos ayaw na kasi istorbo daw sa kamay, di hindi ko na rin sinuot


eb1209

2/26/2013 4:47 am

    Quoting barbara72:
    First, most of the men I met naman dahil old na sila their parents are already dead. Lol. ( refer to ate Jane bout my preference, hehehe) ngayon kasi even with the getting to know stage pa Lang you'll get to meet the family na din, not exactly the parents , but because of the social media, it's there right in your eyes to scrutinize friends , relatives , siblings. But then again cautious me, I'm keen with those details, di ako paiisa, tanda ko na eh.Hehehe
Barbz, dahlen...You're funny! so, you prefer the oldies, but goodies pala? I used to be wooed by men 10-20 years my junior, and now, by my senior already , I guess, the younger men want older women (not cougars), and the older men prefer younger women...Aguyyy!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/26/2013 4:48 am

    Quoting issa70:
    Ms. Elz, yes yan na ang madalas nangyayari ngayon ginawang disposal at after magsawa e dumped na lang....pero i think there are still few pa naman na they treat women with respect pa...
OO naman, Issa, meron pa talaga...sa totoo lang, kaya lang, hayz! no comment na lang...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/26/2013 4:50 am

    Quoting ajaw430:
    Elz, case to case basis...ako nakilala ko lang mother nia, tapos na yung sakal, este kasal!
Baka kaya siguro, yun ang dahilan kaya hindi nag-work out yung sakal niyo, kasi HULI na ng makilala mo ang MADIR niya, Grace!

Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
2/26/2013 8:07 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    And what kind of ring is that, Bert? Baka naman puwet ng baso yung bato?

Dear Lord, please return the former Elz to us. Ako na lang po ang kenkoy dito Masikip ang daigdig sa aming dalawa


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

2/26/2013 10:50 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Dear Lord, please return the former Elz to us. Ako na lang po ang kenkoy dito Masikip ang daigdig sa aming dalawa

What makes you think I am not joking? can't you see that I'm RMFAOTF?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/26/2013 5:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Like I said, NElz. YES! Meron pa kayong mangilan-ngilang natitira...

Just call me ELZ