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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
2/12/2013 5:51 am
How Did I Miss the Cues?


I was so busy with my own fears and lack of self-confidence and experience in LOVE that I missed the cues. I know, so much had happened, and it is too late to correct my mistakes, but it is never too late to admit that as imperfect as I am, I was wrong...

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
2/12/2013 7:09 am

 Elz,

We are just humans after all. Above all u did what was right for u. Ako naman it's staring me the truth n I still kept going delusional n hoping he'll love back. Pero as we all know he loved another...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

2/12/2013 7:42 am
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    We are just humans after all. Above all u did what was right for u. Ako naman it's staring me the truth n I still kept going delusional n hoping he'll love back. Pero as we all know he loved another...
Tess, it's not even about my past relationships..It's about the relationship(s) that I could have started and developed, had I not been so afraid, so much so that I "missed" to acknowledge that LOVE was just right there in front me, waiting to be noticed...I even failed to look straight in his eyes, and give him a little approval that it's "okay" to move ahead and see where it'll lead us. I was all wrapped up in my own world of uncertainties, that I failed to give love a try....

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
2/12/2013 9:22 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    Tess, it's not even about my past relationships..It's about the relationship(s) that I could have started and developed, had I not been so afraid, so much so that I "missed" to acknowledge that LOVE was just right there in front me, waiting to be noticed...I even failed to look straight in his eyes, and give him a little approval that it's "okay" to move ahead and see where it'll lead us. I was all wrapped up in my own world of uncertainties, that I failed to give love a try....
Elz,

A great relationship is based on how a couple will work it out. Put their whole trust in one another. But, you were right to be careful because of the fact u didn't want to suffer the pain ever of having it fail one more time. In my case i failed miserably. Believing he was God sent after all these years. Can u imagine i was gonna fight for that love. Talagang baliw na ako. The truth coz of the pics made me realize let it be and move on. No matter how much attention i gave etc. I wasn't worth it in his eyes. And thats what hurts the most. If everyone can just have that heart of stone not to feel pain from a heartbreak...

Happy Valentines day...we should just be thankful we loved and lost. Memories are the priceless moments of that love.
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

2/12/2013 10:24 am
    Quoting computer_ace:
    Don't be hard on yourself. The one thing I learned from my mom's past mistakes is not to blame ourselves for the things beyond our control. If we're wrong, the people who truly care for us will understand and will be quick to forgive us. Happy Heart's Day. Smile.
At least, people know here that I am not arrogant and self-righteous. I know how to be humble and if I can only take back the hands of time, I will change things..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/12/2013 10:26 am
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    A great relationship is based on how a couple will work it out. Put their whole trust in one another. But, you were right to be careful because of the fact u didn't want to suffer the pain ever of having it fail one more time. In my case i failed miserably. Believing he was God sent after all these years. Can u imagine i was gonna fight for that love. Talagang baliw na ako. The truth coz of the pics made me realize let it be and move on. No matter how much attention i gave etc. I wasn't worth it in his eyes. And thats what hurts the most. If everyone can just have that heart of stone not to feel pain from a heartbreak...

    Happy Valentines day...we should just be thankful we loved and lost. Memories are the priceless moments of that love.
It's okay Tess...at least, now, we LOVE ourselves...and our friends and family love us as well.. Happy Hearts Day, everyday!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/12/2013 10:27 am
    Quoting  :
I sure do, Joseph.... Thank you, and enjoy your Valentine's Day!

Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
2/12/2013 12:17 pm
Elz, you ? missed the cues? Nah, must be the women's intuition that it won't be right.
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

2/12/2013 5:04 pm
    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Elz, you ? missed the cues? Nah, must be the women's intuition that it won't be right.
Thanks for the consolation, Bert!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/12/2013 5:06 pm
    Quoting  :
Awwww! Thank you for the kind words, Mr. AB!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/12/2013 5:07 pm
    Quoting  :
Another wise opinion from a wise man...Thank you, Nelz..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/12/2013 5:08 pm
    Quoting  :
Likewise, Nelz..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/12/2013 5:11 pm
    Quoting  :
Mr. KFC, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...Mabuti naman, kahit papano, maganda pa rin ako sa paningin mo...I'll take that as a compliment, anyway..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/12/2013 5:14 pm
    Quoting computer_ace:
    From the looks of it, I might be extra careful than to be in so much pain. I'm not coward pero parang mas okay na huwag maging vulnerable. You women are stronger when it comes to pain, I admit that. When I got my first heartbreak, I needed to drink and have a close buddy to talk to about my emotional agony. I was shy to cry like a baby in front of my mom. But then again, she is one super woman who can easily detect when her only son (and child) is in trouble.
I am a mother too, and I only have one child, an unico hijo..that is. He cried on me when his GF of more than 3 years broke up with him because she didn't want him to work in DUBAI as a Flight Steward at the Emirates..Men do cry...my 2 EXes cried on me as well..It's not a sign of weakness, for I believe, TRUE MEN cry...

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
2/12/2013 7:56 pm

 Elz,

You're too funny "Mr KFC". hahahahaahha made me laugh so smart!!!!
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

2/13/2013 12:35 am
    Quoting  :
Hahahahaha! me mga pasingit na comments pa pala dito na late ang display ng FFF! ..Neways,,,huwag isnabin ang garage sale...minsan, me ginto o diamond na nakasiksik sa mga "pinag-lumaan".... Eka nga, antique is a fortune
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/13/2013 12:36 am
    Quoting  :
Aggggguuuuyyyyyyy!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/13/2013 12:40 am
    Quoting  :
Naaaaahhh! Bestest Friend...I'm just telling a story...You know I've moved on long time ago, but I'm not one of those who is very "needy" and has to have someone just becuz... Otherwise, for 14 years now?....Easy does it...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/13/2013 12:42 am
    Quoting  :
And I'll try "hard" that my lifetime "3rd" will be my LAST ...Ayoko naman ng every 1-2 years lang ang relationship ko
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/13/2013 12:47 am
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    You're too funny "Mr KFC". hahahahaahha made me laugh so smart!!!!
Hahahahaha! Oh di ba, mas maganda pakinggan ang Mr. KFC, kesa Mr. Manok_Ako?
Just call me ELZ


issa70 54F
Ask me for a photo

2/13/2013 3:15 am

 Ms. Elz....you didn't missed the cues....and it is not too late to correct mistakes.....as long as you are still alive and healthy.....you are still hopeful that someday the person who is destined for you will come into your life...


barbara72

2/13/2013 5:00 pm

 did you really missed the cues, or you are just at the far back of the line ? come lets fall in line together and make chika chika while waiting .....o ayan na si mr kfc na burit.may bakod ka na.


barbara72

2/13/2013 5:03 pm

 happy valentines elz, may love find us everyday, be it in any form...


eb1209

2/13/2013 6:59 pm
    Quoting issa70:
    Ms. Elz....you didn't missed the cues....and it is not too late to correct mistakes.....as long as you are still alive and healthy.....you are still hopeful that someday the person who is destined for you will come into your life...
Awww! Issa, that is very sweet of you!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/13/2013 7:01 pm
    Quoting computer_ace:
    True. I went to a garage sale several years ago and with $20 bucks, naibili ko ang mom ko ng 5-disc DVD/CD player in one with 4 speakers, and a stereo (where she can spin her LPs and singles). And up to now, maganda pa rin ang tunog.
Nothing wrong with garage sale my dear...I've been quite to a few of them when I try to redecorate my house..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/13/2013 7:03 pm
    Quoting computer_ace:
    Sosyal pakinggan, at mas yummy (ang lasa ng manok lalo na pag may gravy.)
Thanks for the support, Ace!
Just call me ELZ




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