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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
2/4/2013 12:11 am
When One Is Too Much, and Many is Not Enough....


And you think I am kidding? No!...Yes, it happens to everyone. Sometimes, we have that one and only love of our life and yet, we feel suffocated, we feel chained, we feel choked with everything that goes with a romantic relationship. On the contrary, sometimes, we have a lot, meaning, too many prospective "aspirants", and yet, we find none of them to really fit into our world of romance. Why is that? I mean, come to think of it. I am not begging for anyone to come into my life, but those who come just seem to be not the ones I really choose to be with. And the ones I think I'd like to give a chance for love to grow are either pre-occupied with something or someone, or really not into serious relationships. Isn't it weird? People cannot believe that I don't have anyone "official" for the longest time. And I keep telling myself: "No, there is nothing wrong with you."...Sometimes, we just have to meet a lot of wrong people in order for us to meet the right (not the perfect) one. Sometimes, I blame all those who "spoiled" me, because, since then, I find it so hard to develop a new relationship without having to think that I should get even 50% of what they've done to me. Is my heart simply calloused? is too critical? or is it too afraid?...I envy those who can be with someone and yet love somebody else. There's no way I can force myself doing such. No offense meant. To each his/her own. This is just me. I guess, I deserve to be alone...and just be content to be JOYFULLY SINGLE...but sometimes, lonely.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 12:18 am

 Another Re-post..This time from godiva0824...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 12:22 am

 "And LOVE is like a butterfly, when pursued, is beyond your grasp..But when you sit still, it may just alight upon you..."---Anonymous
Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
2/4/2013 11:01 am

Women! They are so hard to please when they don't don't want to be pleased.
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

2/4/2013 1:02 pm
    Quoting  :
Merian..."I've let go" long time ago, and I have moved on, most definitely...But, where is my NEW LOVE?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 1:04 pm
    Quoting computer_ace:
    Why is that so? That no one can really fill the space the love of our life left behind?
Ace, that past love should not be "REPLACED"...They will always have a space in our hearts, although empty. What we need is to create another space for the NEW LOVE that will come along, and stay side by side with it, just like cars in the parking lot
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 1:06 pm
    Quoting  :
Looks like you got a bit excited there, Bestest Friend...you missed the 3rd X in your zzzeromaxxx... or maybe it went to complete another word that begins with S, has a middle E, and ends with X
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 1:08 pm
    Quoting  :
Exactly, Joseph...It happened to me with my past love...I felt I lost control of my emotions, and so therefore, the next time around, I becamse so rigid and overprotective of my own feelings and freedom..If anything, I hate losing control of myself, more than anyone else
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 1:09 pm
    Quoting oldkanaba:


    Women! They are so hard to please when they don't don't want to be pleased.
Eh bakit ako, I want to be pleased, but No one dares to please, that I am pleased with...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 1:09 pm

 Naloko na naman tayo nito
Just call me ELZ


jane82 110F

2/4/2013 1:44 pm

 At least at one point in your life you've been spoilt by a wonderful man Miss Elz. For the next man coming along it would be hard to live up the same standard. The previous man raised the benchmark.


within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

2/4/2013 1:53 pm

 For your past, present and future love.

"If you love someone, tell them. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is really ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in them."

"Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, someone they need, or something they thought was meant to be. But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future opportunities."

"No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones."

"Everyone wants a perfect ending. .....some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next."




within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


eb1209

2/4/2013 4:41 pm
    Quoting jane82:
    At least at one point in your life you've been spoilt by a wonderful man Miss Elz. For the next man coming along it would be hard to live up the same standard. The previous man raised the benchmark.
You are not alone in that opinion, Janey...AT this point in my life, I just want to be spoiled even in small things such as flowers, chocolates, dining out once in a while..or just strolling in the park holding hands, calling me on the phone every once in a while to check how am I doing...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/4/2013 4:46 pm
    Quoting jane82:
    For your past, present and future love.

    "If you love someone, tell them. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is really ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in them."

    "Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, someone they need, or something they thought was meant to be. But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future opportunities."

    "No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones."

    "Everyone wants a perfect ending. .....some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next."

Awww~ JANEY~ How sweet! Now, I think you're ready for the LOVE DAY...Big time!~
Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
2/4/2013 5:12 pm

 Elz,

Ang hirap talaga! We may never know the outcome of love or ever experience that great joy...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

2/4/2013 6:03 pm
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Ang hirap talaga! We may never know the outcome of love or ever experience that great joy...
I think, we feel that way, Tess, because we are not getting any younger...As a matter of fact, we're golden already
Just call me ELZ


ajaw430 53F

2/4/2013 11:55 pm

 Elz, experience wise teached us how to be very careful, too careful that anything that doesn`t fit our criteria we just reject, too afraid to gamble, we love our self that much...and soon enough we get used to our self, anyone that tries to enter, we calculate...are we really willing to leave our comfort zone? hmm, thinking... and more thinking

Sometimes Love sounds like an oppurtunity of the lifetime


enrique2012 48M

2/5/2013 3:01 am

 To be honest Elz, I am surprised wala ka pa rin nahanap after so long. Perhaps you are an amalgamation of all you said - fear, callousness, high expectations etc. Some bad luck is in there too, for sure. Being "spoiled" by previous relationships does make it hard as well, since you've experienced it once so you want it again but realize it is actually in short supply, and such high demand for it.

Not much to say except maghintay na lang until dumating nung hinihintay mo. Gaya nang sabi ko kay Honey...wag mo lang takutin kung dumating siya ha? Or maybe ikaw ang humabol ha? Just throwing it out there....

PS - also nandyan si besty mo....you know kukulitin kita about that..hahaha..
My will is unbreakable. Simply put, I cannot be broken - Enrique


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
2/5/2013 4:35 am

 ELZ,

Sometimes we got carried away by the loneliness and emptiness and we take whats readily available and convenient sans love or affection. And later on if things dont work out right, they'll only get miserable. And those that wait futilely till the end.

I believe that the truest, unconditional great LOVE comes only in a lifetime, and those that come beforehand or afterwards, only to fill the void and need for romance..and makes life a little more exciting.


eb1209

2/5/2013 9:05 am
    Quoting  :
Right you are, Shaq! as in swak na swak!..Just like cars...It doesn't matter if it's Mercedez, BMW, Toyota or Hyundai...It will get you to your destination safe and sound...All you need is a SAFE DRIVER
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/5/2013 9:07 am
    Quoting  :
Naku, huwag naman "surprise" at magising akong nasa side ko na siya...Baka kasi nilagyan niya ng pampatulog yung inumin ko...Bwahahahahahaah!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/5/2013 9:08 am
    Quoting ajaw430:
    Elz, experience wise teached us how to be very careful, too careful that anything that doesn`t fit our criteria we just reject, too afraid to gamble, we love our self that much...and soon enough we get used to our self, anyone that tries to enter, we calculate...are we really willing to leave our comfort zone? hmm, thinking... and more thinking

    Sometimes Love sounds like an oppurtunity of the lifetime
TUMPAK again!...Comfort Zone is one of the things that I doubt I will give up easily, Grace
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/5/2013 9:15 am
    Quoting enrique2012:
    To be honest Elz, I am surprised wala ka pa rin nahanap after so long. Perhaps you are an amalgamation of all you said - fear, callousness, high expectations etc. Some bad luck is in there too, for sure. Being "spoiled" by previous relationships does make it hard as well, since you've experienced it once so you want it again but realize it is actually in short supply, and such high demand for it.

    Not much to say except maghintay na lang until dumating nung hinihintay mo. Gaya nang sabi ko kay Honey...wag mo lang takutin kung dumating siya ha? Or maybe ikaw ang humabol ha? Just throwing it out there....

    PS - also nandyan si besty mo....you know kukulitin kita about that..hahaha..
Alam mo, this is one thing I like when I blog..I get all sorts of cooments and suggestions, enough for me to throw my own punches...hehehehe.....as with besty, he is better off in his world my dear...sobrang kulit din iyan, kita mo naman, parang paru-parong bukid, kung saan-saan napapadpad, pero hanggang ngayon..pakalat-kalat pa rin...Katulad ko, naghihintay lang din iyan ng tamang "timpla" angkop sa personality niya...hahahaha!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/5/2013 9:18 am
    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    Sometimes we got carried away by the loneliness and emptiness and we take whats readily available and convenient sans love or affection. And later on if things dont work out right, they'll only get miserable. And those that wait futilely till the end.

    I believe that the truest, unconditional great LOVE comes only in a lifetime, and those that come beforehand or afterwards, only to fill the void and need for romance..and makes life a little more exciting.
Thet, if anything, this blog elicited the best comments I've ever had in a long time...kasi you are really RIGHT...In my case, DUMATING na yung GREATA LOVE na iyon eh...so kung me dumating man na bago, he's gonna be GOOD, at least...no longer great..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/5/2013 9:19 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    Alam mo, this is one thing I like when I blog..I get all sorts of cooments and suggestions, enough for me to throw my own punches...hehehehe.....as with besty, he is better off in his world my dear...sobrang kulit din iyan, kita mo naman, parang paru-parong bukid, kung saan-saan napapadpad, pero hanggang ngayon..pakalat-kalat pa rin...Katulad ko, naghihintay lang din iyan ng tamang "timpla" angkop sa personality niya...hahahaha!
COMMENTS, not cooments..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/5/2013 9:20 am

 GREAT LOVE...not GRETA! grabeng typos !
Just call me ELZ




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