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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
1/12/2013 3:40 am
And Men Wonder Why?


There is a growing pattern of "most" FFF male members who've contacted me for the past 7 years. Why they are here? The reasons are varied, just like why women members are here. I've written about "Gathering Firewood" already. Now, let's talk about what kills their interest as soon as you tell them off how you feel about them. I've noticed though that "most" of them DO NOT LIKE to talk or deal with the outcome of their choices. Generally speaking, (so as not to offend any man in particular) when a man tells me that he had quite a bit of "failed" relationships (several marriages/divorce/separation), I normally tell him: "Maybe, it's not only about those women, but mostly the choices that you've made." I mean, that's the subtlest way of saying "You SCREWED Up!"...Not too many men admit their mistakes, and moreover, not too many men correct them...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 3:44 am

 ..And I Never Heard From Them, Men Again! ...Talking about Men! ..What else do women talk about?
Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
1/12/2013 8:55 am

Yeah what else do women talk about?
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
1/12/2013 8:59 am
    Quoting  :

Best said Bro Joseph
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/12/2013 1:39 pm

 Elz,

Happy weekend. Well, it is a signal when they have been married n divorce a couple of times. Boredom is the culprit...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:18 pm

 OKAY LADIES! LET'S HEAR FROM YOU!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:30 pm
    Quoting  :
That's a good one, Joseph..And it's okay NOT to talk about past mistakes...The issue here is the GUY stopped talking, period! ..So, I get it that the guy who I told off, not only did NOT appreciate my candid remarks, but also resigned to the fact that he will never get any farther with me, knowing that he will be scrutinized, yeah?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:33 pm
    Quoting  :
Hahahaha Charlie, please don't put words in my mouth WE may have the same kitchen design,and we may prepare spaghetti the same way, but popularity? by whose standards and what gauge?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:34 pm
    Quoting oldkanaba:


    Yeah what else do women talk about?
we talk about "sizes and shapes"
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:34 pm

 But then again, we would like to read your opinion..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:37 pm
    Quoting  :
bestest friend, if I do that, then I should change the Title of this blog as well (And WO/MEN WONDER? )
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:43 pm
    Quoting  :
I BEG TO DISAGREE, NELSON ...Not all divorces, separations, and failed relationships, were caused by "both" parties......It's all about the CAUSE and EFFECT theory...If I may inject humor into it, I'd say Men and Women are united when they stand, and divided when they fall...Yaiksssss! ( I wonder what was standing and falling? )
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:47 pm
    Quoting  :
SHAQ, Now we are on the same page.....Yeah, WO/MEN always blame the other person for the failure of the relationship...IT'S GOT TO BE SOMEBODY'S FAULT, NOT HIS/HER... In my lifetime, I met only very few men who admitted their mistakes/shortcomings and failures..(Kudos to those Men! )
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:48 pm
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Happy weekend. Well, it is a signal when they have been married n divorce a couple of times. Boredom is the culprit...
Tess, so MEN got bored of what? the same menu, the same everything from the same person?...Parang ulam iyan eh...Gusto ba nila ng BAGONG PUTA-he? (take note)
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:52 pm
    Quoting  :
Jane, we have not forgotten that "most" men show very little emotion, because they spare it for a more "climactic" expression...If you know what I'm saying...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:56 pm
    Quoting  :
Or it could be the other way around, Jane....Men "sometimes" do/say things they don't mean..The " I love You" , included
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/12/2013 7:57 pm
    Quoting  :
I am ALL for it!..So, bring it on!
Just call me ELZ


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/13/2013 5:12 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    ..And I Never Heard From Them, Men Again! ...Talking about Men! ..What else do women talk about?
ELZ,

No offense but vanity comes first to women before men..It's all about staying beautiful, what dress to wear, color of lipstick, what one do to keep in the best shape - the totality of loving thyself (and I'm talking about 'us' women)..Surprisingly 'men' came in second behind. My own great observation


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:08 pm
    Quoting  :
NOPE! IT ISN'T ONE'S FAULT TO DECIDE NOT TO TAKE IT ANYMORE!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:10 pm
    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    No offense but vanity comes first to women before men..It's all about staying beautiful, what dress to wear, color of lipstick, what one do to keep in the best shape - the totality of loving thyself (and I'm talking about 'us' women)..Surprisingly 'men' came in second behind. My own great observation
THET, why do you think we are STAYING BEAUTIFUL? nyahahahahaha!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:10 pm

 AND DESIRABLE!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:12 pm
    Quoting  :
NEGLECTED KA JAN! ANG SABIHIN MO NAPABAYAAN KA SA KUSINA
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:17 pm
    Quoting  :
I TOTALLY DISAGREE, BESTEST FRIEND
IF A WOMAN DECIDED TO CALL IT QUITS, IT'S BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T TAKE THE OTHER ONE'S SHORTCOMINGS, ABUSES, NEGLECT, CARELESSNESS, AND LACK OF SENSITIVITY and yadda=yadda, yadda!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:18 pm
    Quoting  :
Well, I know of the other side of the story
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:20 pm
    Quoting  :
Jane, is that saying: "When two people are too compatible with each other in the beginning, even when they end the relationship, they still AGREE to DISAGREE?"
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/13/2013 8:24 pm
    Quoting  :
ONLY IF THE OTHER AGREED TO END THE RELATIONSHIP TO AVOID EITHER SUIC*DAL or HOMIC*DAL IDEATIONS, if the irreconcilable differences continue...that's the only way to keep both their sanity intact..
Just call me ELZ




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