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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
12/26/2012 4:49 am
It's Not About the Outside Looks



Nowadays, Women are just as guilty as Men when it comes to their criteria for developing or say, jumping into a relationship. The object (some prefer to say subject) of their affection needs to be a "show-off material", where one can parade and be proud to introduce to friends, and relatives. The inner beauty of the said person comes in poor second in priority. And yet, one wonders why the relationship doesn't last...Why?....because most of the time, the goodlooking person(s) are just that,...goodlooking. Nothing more, but could be a lot less.. Worse, there's always a better looking person to replace the old one, so...there you go! That is really the problem...It's mostly "our choice{s}" that really makes the difference. Sometimes, one can be super-UNLUCKY, where s/he gets to meet and be related to someone who is "ugly" inside-out..
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Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/26/2012 10:50 am

 And as usual, my image is not showing again...Hayz!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/26/2012 2:44 pm
    Quoting  :
I guess, we agree on this one, Bestest Friend...
Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
12/26/2012 5:54 pm
No wonder my many relationships didn't work out, I was too good looking Now I'm ugly and a mean, grumpy, old man, somebody made a mistake of liking me . How can i be so lucky?
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

12/26/2012 7:46 pm
    Quoting  :
well, iy's sad, but for me, it's a good riddance Jane...I should blog something relevant to what you just said...hehehehe...In general, I mean...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/26/2012 7:47 pm

 It's sad, I meant
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/26/2012 7:50 pm
    Quoting oldkanaba:

    No wonder my many relationships didn't work out, I was too good looking Now I'm ugly and a mean, grumpy, old man, somebody made a mistake of liking me . How can i be so lucky?
Bert, that person uses her head over her heart,,,and evebtually, her head told her heart to beart to beat for you
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/26/2012 7:51 pm

 please pardon my typos...I'm typing in the dark and multi tasking
Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
12/26/2012 10:16 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    please pardon my typos...I'm typing in the dark and multi tasking

I told you not to drink and drive Elz, things look dark, and the fingers don't click the right letters Just kidding
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

12/27/2012 3:21 am
    Quoting oldkanaba:

    I told you not to drink and drive Elz, things look dark, and the fingers don't click the right letters Just kidding
Eka nga ni Kris Aquino: "TAMA!"
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/27/2012 3:22 am
    Quoting  :
hAHAHAHAH! Si Migz talaga. OO! pretty ka naman talaga, eheste, TAYO PALA!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/27/2012 3:24 am

 Ang problema nga lang, how can a man get to know me? I am just here at the four corners of my house, most of the time
Just call me ELZ


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/27/2012 5:19 am

 ELZ,

It's true that we get attracted to good looking men and vice versa..But the attraction is superficial. Once you get to know the person more deeply - its either you fall in love or get dis illusioned. It's how you jive and understand each other that the attraction goes beyond what the eyes can see.


eb1209

12/27/2012 12:17 pm
    Quoting  :
But you are right Joseph...Some people just go by what they really like no matter what it costs them...Sometimes, despite the bad experiences arising from their own choices, they continue to repeat the process in their next relationships, so much so, that they ne ver really learn.....
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/27/2012 12:19 pm
    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    It's true that we get attracted to good looking men and vice versa..But the attraction is superficial. Once you get to know the person more deeply - its either you fall in love or get dis illusioned. It's how you jive and understand each other that the attraction goes beyond what the eyes can see.
Thet,And that's what most people say (specially, MEN)...That they need to be physically attracted first, and they'll take it from there.....But if I know of a man who just keeps on jumping from one relationship to another, then, something is really wrong, somehow..
Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/27/2012 8:13 pm

 Elz,

From my experience it's a plus kung guapo sila. But, what about the has been a long time and turned ugly and crazy. I just don't know how i fell madly deeply hahahahah....
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


barbara72

12/28/2012 2:17 am

 I say that physical appearance is just a plus. It has always been about the thing inside that matters. We love because of the emotions that we have for the other. For those who think that it will always have to do with the physicality of an individual, I say to them the best of luck. I just do not see it working that way.Having said that, but i na lang beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, i may be pangit in some people's standard, pero sa "KANYA" weeee alam mo na, yipeeeeee, thats all that matters


ajaw430 54F

12/28/2012 3:15 am

 Let`s face it, if one is beautiful or good looking, you give a second look, basis for attraction as it opens up the curiousity but not the lone basis for lasting relationships as we all know, outward beauty (she sags, he softs..) fades away over time. For me, character and chemistry should be there... that you can laugh together, still care for each other in the midst of fight, comfy enough to tell everything with no pretenttions, and last but not least tolerance


eb1209

12/28/2012 2:15 pm
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    From my experience it's a plus kung guapo sila. But, what about the has been a long time and turned ugly and crazy. I just don't know how i fell madly deeply hahahahah....
I guess, there's always an exemption, Tess...hehehehe.. Sometimes, it's when we are "needy" that we become vulnerable, and then, we keep our eyes closed...Lolz..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/28/2012 2:17 pm
    Quoting barbara72:
    I say that physical appearance is just a plus. It has always been about the thing inside that matters. We love because of the emotions that we have for the other. For those who think that it will always have to do with the physicality of an individual, I say to them the best of luck. I just do not see it working that way.Having said that, but i na lang beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, i may be pangit in some people's standard, pero sa "KANYA" weeee alam mo na, yipeeeeee, thats all that matters
But of course! you are BEAUTIFUL, Barbz! ...but you are more than that inside than outside..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/28/2012 2:22 pm
    Quoting ajaw430:
    Let`s face it, if one is beautiful or good looking, you give a second look, basis for attraction as it opens up the curiousity but not the lone basis for lasting relationships as we all know, outward beauty (she sags, he softs..) fades away over time. For me, character and chemistry should be there... that you can laugh together, still care for each other in the midst of fight, comfy enough to tell everything with no pretenttions, and last but not least tolerance
You can never be wrong in that, Grace....I wouldn't be attracted to someone who is "scary looking" for the first time...But give it a few more days and chances...I'll probably fall in love with who he really is...the good inside...after all, the first move that I watched here in the USA is "The Beauty and the Beast"....Not that I am beautiful...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/28/2012 2:23 pm

 please make that the "first movie" that I watched..
Just call me ELZ


jane82 110F

12/31/2012 9:33 am
    Quoting  :
I like what Joseph said.

I suppose many don't have the patience to get to know everybody for a long time beyond their looks.

How someone looks is a quick way for people to attract or find attraction.


within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


eb1209

1/7/2013 9:49 pm
    Quoting jane82:
    I like what Joseph said.

    I suppose many don't have the patience to get to know everybody for a long time beyond their looks.

    How someone looks is a quick way for people to attract or find attraction.
But you are right, Janey...I cannot agree with you more...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/7/2013 9:51 pm
    Quoting  :
Ganun ba ang ginawa mo kay CHARLIE, TINKZ?..hehehe ...Hindi kasi ako pinagkalooban ng ganyang talent, my dear...But I guess, I can learn...Thank you!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/8/2013 5:35 am
    Quoting  :
Hinakupo! ..Ang dami pala nilang hindi ko kinagat? ...Sumalosep...Naku, hindi rin pala ako mahusay kumagat sa bitag...nyahahahahaha!
Just call me ELZ




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