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eb1209
23211 posts
12/16/2012 2:53 am
I'm Sexy and I Know It! (lolz..)



Okay now! Don't be fooled by the title of this blog. I am not just about to be CONCEITED ..It's all about Women (even Men) Feeling SEXY despite of their actual physical looks. It's not all about the voluptuous and curvaceous body. It's all about the whole being. Yes! we can be sexy even with our simple moves, by the way we talk (not being obscene). As a matter of fact, it's how an individual perceives the whole notion of being sexy. I know of a guy who is so attracted to full-bodied or even obese women. That is why, I really find it wrong that most of us, make fun and criticize those "horizontally challenged" women who wear bikinis or tight clothes which emphasize their curves, what, and what not. After all, it's how they carry themselves in accordance to how they feel about themselves. Personally speaking, I am a golden girl already, and I really don't mind wearing sexy clothes, because that is my way of contrasting my otherwise conservative personality. So, If you're feeling SEXY, show it!



Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 2:57 am

By the way, since our sexy model is HUGE, I also made my fonts HUGE....

Just call me ELZ


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/16/2012 4:51 am

ELZ,

I am beautiful no matter what they say,
words can't bring me down

..and nothing can't take away the confidence
I have in me. If not me, who will???

If I'm not sexy in anybody's eyes,
it's their problem not mine..

Thank GOD I have a body I love
but you ELZ, you have the body everybody love..


barbara72

12/16/2012 5:01 am

it was in early 2000 that i went on a very difficult personal struggle, well i turned to food to numb the pain. chocolates , crisps , cakes, rice , adobo, bbq, whew, the more the taba the better. before too long i was wearing a size 22 trouser,and my body was starting to break down physically and emotionally. i felt totally out of control. i started 2010 with a New Year’s resolution to become healthier. i didn’t even last for seven days! i did something that turned the direction of my life around. it was February 21st 2010 and i had a light bulb moment, i watched a small group of women did things that scared them. they were courageous and i wasn’t. i was afraid. they were afraid too, but they were doing something about it. they were taking action. it was in oprahs show. their acts of courage highlighted how pathetic i felt. they helped me see that i could be different. my life was lacking courage and I was sick of hearing my own excuses. i was used to hiding out under lots of loose clothing and not looking at my body. my body was fat all over. there wasn’t one little part that I even liked, let alone loved. even my toes were fat. to really see my body made me feel terribly sad. it was like looking at a stranger whose self-hatred was evident. i wanted to be over the self-pitying-poor-me-I’m-so-fat attitude. and so i made a commitment to manifest self-love, i struggled until i can fit in size 16. natural diet, exercise, (zumba)i cut on carbs, oh sige ! naging workaholic din kasi ako!


barbara72

12/16/2012 5:09 am

feeling sexy is all in the mind, true appreciation on the other hand is infinitely a worthy goal.most of us will never feel sexy all the time, or even most of the time. but there's something to be said for taking what we can get — and enjoying it while it lasts. havin said that , you are one sexy babe!


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/16/2012 11:06 am

Wow, confidence is supersexy.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
12/16/2012 11:34 am


Yes Elz, you're sexy but look skinny to me :
)

I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


jane82 110F

12/16/2012 6:08 pm

Nice 2 piece outfits from all the photos, including the biggest one.

Never fear, there's someone for everyone. Some guys really do dig obese women and a few even have fetishes like feeders and men who wants to be squashed or flattened by women.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

12/16/2012 6:08 pm

    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    I am beautiful no matter what they say,
    words can't bring me down

    ..and nothing can't take away the confidence
    I have in me. If not me, who will???

    If I'm not sexy in anybody's eyes,
    it's their problem not mine..

    Thank GOD I have a body I love
    but you ELZ, you have the body everybody love..
Ate Theta, show us your 2 piece as well.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


eb1209

12/16/2012 7:48 pm

    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    I am beautiful no matter what they say,
    words can't bring me down

    ..and nothing can't take away the confidence
    I have in me. If not me, who will???

    If I'm not sexy in anybody's eyes,
    it's their problem not mine..

    Thank GOD I have a body I love
    but you ELZ, you have the body everybody love..
Awww! Thet, you are beautiful and SEXY...and that lovely mole that you have adds up to your sex-appeal! Thanks for the kind words though...Muwahssss!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 8:00 pm

    Quoting barbara72:
    it was in early 2000 that i went on a very difficult personal struggle, well i turned to food to numb the pain. chocolates , crisps , cakes, rice , adobo, bbq, whew, the more the taba the better. before too long i was wearing a size 22 trouser,and my body was starting to break down physically and emotionally. i felt totally out of control. i started 2010 with a New Year’s resolution to become healthier. i didn’t even last for seven days! i did something that turned the direction of my life around. it was February 21st 2010 and i had a light bulb moment, i watched a small group of women did things that scared them. they were courageous and i wasn’t. i was afraid. they were afraid too, but they were doing something about it. they were taking action. it was in oprahs show. their acts of courage highlighted how pathetic i felt. they helped me see that i could be different. my life was lacking courage and I was sick of hearing my own excuses. i was used to hiding out under lots of loose clothing and not looking at my body. my body was fat all over. there wasn’t one little part that I even liked, let alone loved. even my toes were fat. to really see my body made me feel terribly sad. it was like looking at a stranger whose self-hatred was evident. i wanted to be over the self-pitying-poor-me-I’m-so-fat attitude. and so i made a commitment to manifest self-love, i struggled until i can fit in size 16. natural diet, exercise, (zumba)i cut on carbs, oh sige ! naging workaholic din kasi ako!
Barbz, thanks for sharing your story. I am sure, there are a lot of women out there who, we call "EMOTIONAL EATERS"...I am one at times...When I am frustrated, I stuff myself with food...The only difference between you and I is that I love body hugging clothes (silhouette)and so when they get to the point of really showing unwanted bulges (muffin tops), then, it brings me back to that level of motivation to stay fit. I will always remember how my son, Mark, puts it: "Don't let your clothes fit you, you must fit into your clothes."...and he is right! ..You see, if we continue to buy new clothes just to accommodate our new bigger size, then, there's no motivation to lose the extra weight. Whereas, if you love to look gorgeous in those body huggers which reveal your curves, then...you need to do something to get to that "sexy" level...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 8:05 pm

    Quoting barbara72:
    feeling sexy is all in the mind, true appreciation on the other hand is infinitely a worthy goal.most of us will never feel sexy all the time, or even most of the time. but there's something to be said for taking what we can get — and enjoying it while it lasts. havin said that , you are one sexy babe!
Thanks, Barbz I'll take that as a compliment...I've also my ups and downs on how I perceive myself. But being the truthful person that I am...When I face the mirror, and I don't like what I see...I tell myself: " ELZ, it's time you go back to ZUMBA!".....But no!..I am very bad with diets because I simply love GOOD FOOD!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 8:10 pm

I remember when I was very young, my waistline was only 22 inches, while my hips was already 34 1/2 ", and I waddled like a duck when I walked....But, after giving birth, and the vehicular accident in 1992 which rendered my L4 (lumbar spine) dislocated, my somewhat "lordotic" posture was fixed...And now, I am not ashamed to admit that I've menopaused, metabolism is slow, and if I don't exercise, I will balloon!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 8:12 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh sure! Bestest Friend... You are SEXY even when you're at the railroad "crossing"

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 8:14 pm

    Quoting  :

In most men's eyes, she may not look SEXY...but, someone out there will think, otherwise..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 8:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh!oh!oH! ...I better not say anything!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/16/2012 8:17 pm

    Quoting  :

And I love her honesty..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/17/2012 3:11 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Wow, confidence is supersexy.
You better believe it Tess!..Self-confidence, it is!

Just call me ELZ


barbara72

12/17/2012 4:44 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Thanks, Barbz I'll take that as a compliment...I've also my ups and downs on how I perceive myself. But being the truthful person that I am...When I face the mirror, and I don't like what I see...I tell myself: " ELZ, it's time you go back to ZUMBA!".....But no!..I am very bad with diets because I simply love GOOD FOOD!
oh i love good food too,i love cooking. i actually experiment on recipes, my kitchen is a sanctuary for myself, but nope , i dont stuff myself too much of what i cant bear especially now that i have limitations ...i cooked for friends most times. i do exercise na, walking has become a hobby ...i went through my old photos,kunti na lang i was almost like your model na...


eb1209

12/17/2012 5:05 am

    Quoting  :

Jane, of course! You are SEXY! ...you know, that's the problem I see with women who are past the prime time. "They feel OLD, and therefore, they act really OLD"... It shouldn't be that way ...If one truly thinks and believe that age is just a number, and there's always that 13 y.o. trait living inside us, then, we should have that confidence to wear or show just how "sexy" we FEEL

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/17/2012 5:08 am

    Quoting jane82:
    Nice 2 piece outfits from all the photos, including the biggest one.

    Never fear, there's someone for everyone. Some guys really do dig obese women and a few even have fetishes like feeders and men who wants to be squashed or flattened by women.
Thanks, Janey! I have no doubts in my mind that you truly understand what the word "SEXY" means...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/17/2012 5:09 am

    Quoting jane82:
    Ate Theta, show us your 2 piece as well.
Yeah, Thet! Why Not?...whoot-woot!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/17/2012 5:12 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Yes Elz, you're sexy but look skinny to me

Ahahahahahaha! Bert, thanks a lot, my friend...125 lbs. for someone who is barely 5'2" is not skinny anymore.. I gained 8 pounds after my 2010 Caribbean cruise with my BFF Bhabes bday1021

Just call me ELZ


ajaa_4ever 54F

12/19/2012 11:47 pm

Elz, true that some chubby people, they know how to carry themselves. I agree that being sexy is state of the mind and if you walk with confidence, talk with confidence that will show too.... you`re very sexy and I love your 4 pictures below, still hottie


eb1209

12/20/2012 2:51 am

    Quoting ajaa_4ever:
    Elz, true that some chubby people, they know how to carry themselves. I agree that being sexy is state of the mind and if you walk with confidence, talk with confidence that will show too.... you`re very sexy and I love your 4 pictures below, still hottie
Grace! what happened to your other handle? Neways, you are very sexy too!...MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Just call me ELZ


ajaa_4ever 54F

12/20/2012 6:28 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Grace! what happened to your other handle? Neways, you are very sexy too!...MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Elz no worries, still alive this is my chat handle, lazy to change wardrobe now so I`m just testing
Have yourself a merry christmas too Elz and a joyous holiday!