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eb1209
23211 posts
12/6/2012 3:28 am
Because we GIVE so MUCH....



...It takes so much courage to accept defeat in every battle lost. The consolation there is, if anything, is the fact that we gave our ALL. But sometimes, ALL is not enough. Just like the above quotation, It's bad enough that you lost someone, it's even worse finding yourself out of position as well....Most of the time, when we are lost, we just wish that someone out there finds us...Because, just like everyone else, we are SPECIAL too!

Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
12/6/2012 8:18 am


I know someone who gave his all. Now he's penniless


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


ajaw430 54F

12/6/2012 10:51 am

Elz,
I see it this way "always give your best and all and if you loose, at least you did everything, better than not trying at all" and in loosing a battle reveals our character too, how strong we are but then not the reason to quit..you are especial and you deserve nothing but the best and so I agree with your bestest, never give up dreaming


barbara72

12/6/2012 1:30 pm

i ve lost someone decade ago, this is real lost...hmmm. i went through the natural steps of grieving.there was the anger, loneliness and the depression to moved on with me. there was also the pain of not to be able to say goodbye. for years i ve asked myself and looked for answers , "What would i have said if i had a chance to say good-bye? where could he be right now? is he in heaven, is the spirit here with me"andami.
through that " nakakaloka process" i was able to find normalcy, but it takes time talaga....you will never forget, as you will continue to love them, but you will find a balance. peace is hard to find, but sometimes it will really try to find you. i think what they say about acceptance is that it starts in your head. it's a decision that you make and it goes down to your heart. and it takes a long time, it's not, like, [geared] towards healing. kasi it's a wound...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/6/2012 6:14 pm

Elz,
Good evening. I think from all the giving we should not expect anything in return. But, the thought of loving that someone we give too. It's not about losing a battle. Trying to do what's right. You're very special and someone who truly deserve u should be special like you. Happy Friday can't believe went by so fast...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/6/2012 6:15 pm

I can't see the image...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:12 pm

And I don't know why FFF always remove my attached images...and so I always have to re-attach them..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:34 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks, Charlie...I never felt digging my own grave when I give so much...But, probably, just exhausted. But there's no such thing as FAIR in this world...However, ALL of us, at some point is SPECIAL to someone or more.....Have a great day, on the REZ..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:35 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    I know someone who gave his all. Now he's penniless

HE must have been born on APril Fools..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:36 pm

    Quoting  :

I actually have not given up on my dreams, Bestest Friend...But I've given up on most MEN...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:38 pm

    Quoting ajaw430:
    Elz,
    I see it this way "always give your best and all and if you loose, at least you did everything, better than not trying at all" and in loosing a battle reveals our character too, how strong we are but then not the reason to quit..you are especial and you deserve nothing but the best and so I agree with your bestest, never give up dreaming

Grace, thank you. but these days, in this age and time...I guess, 50-50% is more practical....It used to be "whatever is yours is mine, and whatever is mine, is mine alone!"

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Jane, and which is why, those people that we've given so much for are "LOSERS"....They don't know how to appreciate what's been given to them wholeheartedly..They're so into themselves that whatever is our ALL, is not even enough for them. ANd when they do realize what they've been missing, it's too late, coz there's no turning back for us...For once, it was said: "Take me, I'm yours."...Now, it's saying: "Take me, or I'll leave you"...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:49 pm

    Quoting barbara72:
    i ve lost someone decade ago, this is real lost...hmmm. i went through the natural steps of grieving.there was the anger, loneliness and the depression to moved on with me. there was also the pain of not to be able to say goodbye. for years i ve asked myself and looked for answers , "What would i have said if i had a chance to say good-bye? where could he be right now? is he in heaven, is the spirit here with me"andami.
    through that " nakakaloka process" i was able to find normalcy, but it takes time talaga....you will never forget, as you will continue to love them, but you will find a balance. peace is hard to find, but sometimes it will really try to find you. i think what they say about acceptance is that it starts in your head. it's a decision that you make and it goes down to your heart. and it takes a long time, it's not, like, [geared] towards healing. kasi it's a wound...
Barbz, when we lose someone, be it to another person or by death, it's so hard to move on when there is no resolution. There's got to be a DEFINITE "It's Over!" thingie, or you're gone, but I've said my apologies and therefore, we're okay before you breathe your last."..Neither will assure us of an easier/speedier emotional recovery, but it makes us feel better knowing that no stones had been left un-turned during our journeys here on earth.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:52 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,
    Good evening. I think from all the giving we should not expect anything in return. But, the thought of loving that someone we give too. It's not about losing a battle. Trying to do what's right. You're very special and someone who truly deserve u should be special like you. Happy Friday can't believe went by so fast...
Tess, I normally blog and address the message to ALL, not necessarily pertaining to my own personal experience. However, most of the time, it's about me, and the stories/lessons I want to share to you, all.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:53 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    I can't see the image...
FFF usually removes the image the first time, and we have to re-attached or edit it again...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:53 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    FFF usually removes the image the first time, and we have to re-attached or edit it again...
I meant, re-attach..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/6/2012 7:55 pm

    Quoting  :

That principle usually works if the PERSON is REALLY into you...Shaq ...It's as if, s/he is not fully satisfied, and would ask more from you as the days go by...Until you're drained, and you're done!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2012 3:16 am

I have re-attached the image a few times but it keeps on disappearing. I don't see anything wrong with it or any website for FFF to ban...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2012 3:17 am

    Quoting  :

QTPie, I don't know what to say. Maybe the sense of value is just not there anymore for most MEN or even WOMEN...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2012 10:51 am

    Quoting  :

WASUS! ..I wouldn't call you my Bestest friend, for nothing..lolz..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/13/2012 2:37 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm sure you learned your lessons well..

Just call me ELZ