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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
10/1/2012 2:30 pm
The Next Time Around...



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Love is the most wanted, longed, and dreamt emotion. When you don't have it, you covet it. When you covet it, you take it for granted. When you take it for granted, you lose it. When you lose it, you miss it. It takes two to keep it alive. It's just a matter of nurturing it, and keep it burning. Most of "US" here have had hearts broken, once, twice, or maybe more. There's always pointing fingers as to who caused what. It takes a lot of courage to admit our mistakes, and shortcomings. Given another chance, the next time around, with another person, I'd like to know what are you gonna do different (given that you've learned your lessons well) to make it work. Care to share, Ladies? Gentlemen?




"A relationship is like a rose,
How long it lasts, no one knows;
Love can erase an awful past,
Love can be yours, you'll see at last;
To feel that love, it makes you sigh;
To have it leave, you'd rather die;
You hope you've found that special rose,
Cause you love and care for the one you chose."

‒ Rob Cella







Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/1/2012 3:46 pm

 Given the chance, I will not choose someone like him! (the first one)...and him (the last one)......Deng! They were good and super good alright, but the first one was easily swayed by others, and the last one was already betrothed since birth...I promise, I will BE my VERY BEST (in everything) given the chance to find the right guy...But, where is he?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/1/2012 5:34 pm
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/1/2012 7:03 pm

 X(
Just call me ELZ


barbara72

10/2/2012 7:34 am

 the next time around? im not going to fall for the wrong person,By "wrong person" I mean someone i know from the very beginning i shouldn't be involved with.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2012 7:53 am

 Elz,

I've tried to stop already in waiting for the one. If it's in Gods will for me to have one fine. I would just choose all the goods that i found in all my exes. Leave the bad out. Happy tuesday there in Texas
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

10/2/2012 8:58 am

 Obviously, NO ONE wants to admit their mistakes..."It's understandable" ...Self-incriminating!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/2/2012 11:40 am
    Quoting barbara72:
    the next time around? im not going to fall for the wrong person,By "wrong person" I mean someone i know from the very beginning i shouldn't be involved with.
But Barbz, the problem that most of us,"women" deal with is being BLIND, and DEAF with everything that we already know WRONG from the beginning...Now, we know better (hopefully)
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/2/2012 11:41 am
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    I've tried to stop already in waiting for the one. If it's in Gods will for me to have one fine. I would just choose all the goods that i found in all my exes. Leave the bad out. Happy tuesday there in Texas
Okay, the last bus is far and out of sight Tess.. Maybe, you can just hitch-hike
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/2/2012 11:42 am
    Quoting  :
BUSY ka kasi masyado sa iyong mga APOS, MIGZ...
Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2012 12:22 pm

 My mistake. Loving too much. Becoming a doormat...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

10/3/2012 5:21 am
    Quoting TessRb:
    My mistake. Loving too much. Becoming a doormat...
Tess, loving someone too much is not a mistake..But NOT loving YOURSELF more than that person, IS...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/3/2012 5:26 am
    Quoting  :
Bestest Friend, pardon me for the delayed response. I visited my blog several times yesterday, but your post/comment wasn't shown yet (I'm sure, in your monitor/screen it's been there for a while...That happens a lot here in FFF ). Anyway, YOU'RE RIGHT! If it's the same person, more than likely, it's the only chance we have. Although, we learn from it. Therefore, we "won't" do the same mistake on/to the next person. BUt sometimes, that next person is nothing near than the previous one (in terms of everything, although, it's not right to compare). Each relationship has a + and -. We must make it work..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/3/2012 6:01 am
    Quoting  :
BRAVO, DAN! You said it all with depth and in details. You are perfectly right..We've been "wounded" or may have caused somebody to "bleed". Life's experiences are there to give us a lesson. You are what you are due to the choices that you make, and so do I. Let's wish each other all the best. Although there is NO PERFECT PERSON in reality, I know there is an IMPERFECT one perfectly suited for us...Take care, mi amigo...
Just call me ELZ


ajaw430 54F

10/3/2012 1:05 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    Obviously, NO ONE wants to admit their mistakes..."It's understandable" ...Self-incriminating!
Ouch, ouch!!


ajaw430 54F

10/3/2012 1:44 pm

 Hmm, looking back when I first started my netlife, maybe too much letting go of emotion at the beginning, that can be very emotionally hurting when you know it`s one sided or he was not ready, though the chemistry was there...once he told me, takes 2 years for him to determined wether just infatuation or love.
When he left the first time (due to economic reason) well, not really in relationship, just mutual feeling but he let me go...he didn`t act egoistic nor selfish but I waited for him...he cameback after 1 year...I thought might be lovelier the second time, but then he left again, (probably same reason) but this time no goodbye so that was the second blow felt vulnerable...I questioned though, how can one "fall in love" deeply to a person you never met? though I spoke to him few times on phone and seen him many times on cam.

Anyway, I tried to moved on by keeping myself busy and successfully out of that rollercoaster feeling now,...and another year past, he tried to comeback again he said he can`t forget me after all these (5) years and he long to be with me...his dream of retiring to Pinas with me in few years time...but honestly, the feeling is not there anymore so I`ll stick to my word now, stay friendly and respectful and remain good friends until you meet in person and see where it goes from there...my 2 cents


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
10/3/2012 11:28 pm

I'm here Elz, your next time . Just flirting
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

10/4/2012 3:50 pm

 Ahihihihihi! Did I press the right button, Grace?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/4/2012 3:52 pm
    Quoting ajaw430:
    Hmm, looking back when I first started my netlife, maybe too much letting go of emotion at the beginning, that can be very emotionally hurting when you know it`s one sided or he was not ready, though the chemistry was there...once he told me, takes 2 years for him to determined wether just infatuation or love.
    When he left the first time (due to economic reason) well, not really in relationship, just mutual feeling but he let me go...he didn`t act egoistic nor selfish but I waited for him...he cameback after 1 year...I thought might be lovelier the second time, but then he left again, (probably same reason) but this time no goodbye so that was the second blow felt vulnerable...I questioned though, how can one "fall in love" deeply to a person you never met? though I spoke to him few times on phone and seen him many times on cam.

    Anyway, I tried to moved on by keeping myself busy and successfully out of that rollercoaster feeling now,...and another year past, he tried to comeback again he said he can`t forget me after all these (5) years and he long to be with me...his dream of retiring to Pinas with me in few years time...but honestly, the feeling is not there anymore so I`ll stick to my word now, stay friendly and respectful and remain good friends until you meet in person and see where it goes from there...my 2 cents
Grace, I can see that you are very loyal..Hmmm! but you do have SELF-RESPECT and limited patience, after the 3rd time? Girl! You did the right thing! ANO SIYA? SINUSWERTE?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/4/2012 3:53 pm
    Quoting oldkanaba:


    I'm here Elz, your next time . Just flirting
TODAS KA, BERT! Mapapaaga ang iyong SEMANA SANTA...
Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
10/5/2012 12:51 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    TODAS KA, BERT! Mapapaaga ang iyong SEMANA SANTA...
You know how old men are. We pretend to be still attractive so we flirtkeep the ego intact but we're stuck with our woman. Besides, Holy Week is a season of forgiveness
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

10/5/2012 7:41 pm
    Quoting oldkanaba:
    You know how old men are. We pretend to be still attractive so we flirtkeep the ego intact but we're stuck with our woman. Besides, Holy Week is a season of forgiveness
God bless you for that.. By the way, sorry, I couldn't text longer messages at work, coz, I was in Neonatal Intensive Care Unit today...CP's are not allowed where there are high tech manhines..//I didn't mean to cut you off...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/6/2012 6:56 pm
    Quoting  :
Leo, I may have not moved forward that quick, but I learned to be joyfully single...But, if there is a "next time around", I hope, it is the last... Thanks for gracing my blog #;D#
Just call me ELZ




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