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Relocating In The Name Of Love   ...I've known quite a few people (mostly young women), 3 of whom happened to be my 's friends {one ex-GF}who've relocated after being in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR). I actually admire the courage someone has, to relocate. Taking a chance on love is already risky business! Would you be willing to rearrange your life and move to another city or country? I would say, for younger men and women who've not yet established themselves, career and property-wise, it'll be easier. But for those who have close-knit families, and more "experienced" (better term for older peeps), relocating is one major decision that entails a lot of thinking, planning, and analyzing before executing. I also noticed that very few men (young and experienced) agree to relocate, and forgive me for saying that 50% of those that I know of either have no stable job, or rely on their women to provide them shelter, and what have you. Very seldom would a man initiate to relocate. I guess, it also has something to do with their ego. But for most women? Ahhhh! they'll drop everything they have just to be with their LOVE ...Now, if you ask me: "Will I Relocate In the Name of Love?"...Hmmmm?  I'll think about it, long and hard...But, I have a feeling, I WILL!Just call me ELZ  |
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9/18/2012 4:12 am |
Hayz! FFF removed my attached image again...I don't see anything wrong with it... Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 4:23 am |
Good for you, Jane!...It only shows that you have the comforts that you need in your home grounds. What with family and friends on your side in times of needs, leave alone the company that provides you with joy. It is also an advantage if your prospective partner is already retired or considering retirement...Philippines is a beautiful country to just do that, and with a beautiful wife?...PERFECT!  Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 4:24 am |
I had to change the attached image (again) hayz! FFF...I am truly amazed by your people! Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 4:24 am |
So, we are on the same page, Migz!  Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 4:26 am |
I will NOT advise this move to those who've known only their "love" for a short period of time...I mean, give it at least a year, to know the person and his immediate family and friends... Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 9:00 am |
Friends and relatives, indeed, are to be considered if you are to relocate..Specially if you are going to a place where there is no support system on your side, new place, new job (if you find one, right away), new people to work for and with, and the "weather" as well. Big Factors! One cannot just be impulsive and exhaust all his/her means, without thinking of the consequences.. Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 9:02 am |
Contrary to everyone's belief...LOVE IS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE STUPID, or FOOLISH...It cannot be an all out "Oh! I must do it, because this is what I FEEL right at this moment."..For everything, it pays to see the good and the possible negative outcome, and Go for it! Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 9:06 am |
If you ASK ME, LOVE IS A BIG TIME BUSINESS TRANSACTION...And I make it MY PERSONAL BUSINESS to see where I'm going. LOVE, alone, will NOT feed, clothe, and shelter me..Just like a business, there is a "contract", be it written, or spoken. You take care of it to make it grow, and thrive through all the adversities in life. If not, just like a business: YOU EITHER WIN or LOSE... Just call me ELZ
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Wow, been in this particular situation before. But, all the factor was againts me. Being called selfish and the man i love love another. I would have moved with gusto. But, it wasn't in the stars... Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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9/18/2012 11:40 am |
So, we are on the same page, Migz!
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9/18/2012 11:49 am |
I will NOT advise this move to those who've known only their "love" for a short period of time...I mean, give it at least a year, to know the person and his immediate family and friends... 
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9/18/2012 12:41 pm |
Dunno until it's necessary to decide.   within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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9/18/2012 4:29 pm |
color red]DEFINE BUSINESS? in the first place? And why would I tell the men of FFF what I want? I am not here primarily for searching...Sad to say, NOT ANYMORE... And what can I offer? Everyone knows, except those people who have selective memory...Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 4:33 pm |
color red]And you still have the charm to lure men, here, there, and everywhere, Jane...It's just a matter of time and opportunities... Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 4:34 pm |
color red]Pardon my fonts...something went wrong.. Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 4:36 pm |
color red]DEFINE BUSINESS? in the first place? And why would I tell the men of FFF what I want? I am not here primarily for searching...Sad to say, NOT ANYMORE... And what can I offer? Everyone knows, except those people who have selective memory...Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:00 pm |
Wow, been in this particular situation before. But, all the factor was againts me. Being called selfish and the man i love love another. I would have moved with gusto. But, it wasn't in the stars...  Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:03 pm |
Nowadays, Bestest Friend, too much "absence" makes the heart "WANDER" (to someone else)  Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:04 pm |
me three...in the meantime, the mind and spirit first  Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:05 pm |
I tend to agree...its case to case basis, depends how stable the commitment is, what`s beneficial for both considering the big "C" factor (in my case). We know if it`s real...then it`s worth the compromises and can wait for the right time too Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:06 pm |
Dunno until it's necessary to decide. You just need to MOVE IN, or HE MOVES in with you..Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:08 pm |
Very well said, Jane.. Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:09 pm |
As always, LOVE will... Just call me ELZ
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9/18/2012 6:10 pm |
Huh? the posts come or are being shown very late...Looking at the times the persons posted their comments, it's like 6-8 hours late... Just call me ELZ
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9/19/2012 5:44 am |
You can say that again, Jane.. Just call me ELZ
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