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Mutual Understanding (MU) Part 1   ...Well, isn't it the FAD these days? No man tells you the "L" word, and so therefore, it's unofficial, and it's like you are a couple, but you're NOT! There is no end goal as to where the relationship is going. MU is an assumption that you have something together but this 'something' is not defined, so a relationship like this has no security, it could end or break anytime and abruptly because there's no real commitment, verbal or real agreement on this 'something' that both of you are supposed to have...So, the BIG question here is do we need to impose a "time limit" for the MU to either make or break? Let's say, okay, let's see if we can elevate it to the next level which is the "official GF/BF" thingie, or afterwards, just remain friends?..Oh! sure!  Let's be friends, after you stole my cookie from the fragile jar...How's that? Someway, somehow, someone's gonna get hurt!  Just call me ELZ  |
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6/30/2012 2:23 pm |
Please disregard the title, and make it Part 2... I don't want to re-do this blog and lose it!  Just call me ELZ
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6/30/2012 7:22 pm |
FFF why do you keep disapproving my attached image? Nothing is wrong with it!  Just call me ELZ
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6/30/2012 7:30 pm |
ANG TUNAY NA KAHULUGAN NG M.U. Wla kau commitment kaya wag ka maxiado magxpect. Pwede ka magselos, pwede ka magtampo, pero di ka pwede magalit! Pwede makipagdate sa iba pero huwag nang magpaalam. Pwede mo siya kausapin, pwede mong lambingin, at pag nalaman mo na meron na siya BF/GF, pwede ka umiyak, pwede kang masaktan, pero di mo xia pwedeng sumbatan dahil wla kang karapatan, dahil ang M.U., ay isang MAGULONG USAPAN lamang! Just call me ELZ
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6/30/2012 7:56 pm |
Okay, FFF, since you disapproved my original attached image, I used my own photo here, so, now, ARE YOU HAPPY?  Just call me ELZ
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7/1/2012 7:16 am |
Bestest Friend, although I do NOT see myself, getting into this kind of mess, but God forbid, I become looney, and decide to do the "what the heck" thingie, I would like to impose the most 6 MONTHS limit..That should be enough time for the both of us to FEEL something deeper and elevate the matter to the official status. To me, anything more than 6 months, I need to be seen by the SHRINK already...Something ain't right UP there anymore! Just call me ELZ
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7/1/2012 7:20 am |
Why? are we that calloused already that within 6 months, we're not able to gauge if we want something more concrete? or have we NOT seen, observed, tasted, and most of all "felt" that hey! this person is right for me!..? From a woman's point of view, this is how I see it...I know, MEN have theirs...Ahhh! freebies, freebies, and freedom..to rip, Rip, and RIP! Just call me ELZ
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Elz, I don't know what to say anymore. The questionable "why" did i have to meet this person. No logical sense at all. The 6 mos trial is about right. Suddenly break all to pieces. It's a lesson well learned. Sometimes love plays a cruel joke. Believing it's all wonderful and free. Then the end comes and all reality comes to the forfront that it wasn't real but a sublime lie... Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Bagay pa rin kayo...   Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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7/1/2012 10:39 am |
Elz, I don't know what to say anymore. The questionable "why" did i have to meet this person. No logical sense at all. The 6 mos trial is about right. Suddenly break all to pieces. It's a lesson well learned. Sometimes love plays a cruel joke. Believing it's all wonderful and free. Then the end comes and all reality comes to the forfront that it wasn't real but a sublime lie...  , but at least, you tried, and tried, and tried...Just call me ELZ
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7/1/2012 5:58 pm |
Bagay pa rin kayo... si Tess talaga, oo! Just call me ELZ
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hahahahahah! si Tess talaga, oo! On both counts u make me laugh so hard!!! Ewan na lang. Just take life one step at a time. To value what's important in my life now family/friends. Wag na yung achy breaky guys that comes and go. Have a terrific week ahead.    Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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7/2/2012 4:05 am |
Elz, On both counts u make me laugh so hard!!! Ewan na lang. Just take life one step at a time. To value what's important in my life now family/friends. Wag na yung achy breaky guys that comes and go. Have a terrific week ahead. By that time, we don't even remember what "standards" are, but at least, we can still differentiate a MAN from a WOMAN, I hope?   +))Just call me ELZ
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7/2/2012 8:18 am |
Elz, I totally agree to the 6 mos rule, since it is also the duration where employees are said to have settled into their jobs and gained enough proficency.. I believe the same applies to relationships too... So, count me as one of your fellow believers in the 6 mos policy Just call me ELZ
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lolzzzzz...'di uso MU sa akin... if i feel the guy is being extra nice and sweet... i'll ask straight "are you courting me?" more so in this time and age, i won't go for non-verbal commitment.. 
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7/3/2012 11:06 am |
lolzzzzz...'di uso MU sa akin... if i feel the guy is being extra nice and sweet... i'll ask straight "are you courting me?" more so in this time and age, i won't go for non-verbal commitment.. No "L" word, no goodnight kiss...lolz..Just call me ELZ
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11/11/2012 5:27 pm |
THANK YOU FOR GRACING MY BLOGS..WELCOME TO BLOGSVILLE! Just call me ELZ
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