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eb1209
23211 posts
6/5/2012 6:37 pm
Exactly!


As I looked back on the comments that I've made in Liz's blog entitled, [post 125612], something hit me right to the core when she responded -- "i am more inclined into believing that you enjoy your life so much...
that you're scared to give it up for something you're not sure of..."

She's actually right! Not only that I am scared of a new relationship, I am also very scared to give up the kind of independent, joyful, and fun life that I am enjoying right now..Maybe, if it hasn't been something like 13 years ago since I had my last romance, then, maybe, I won't be this territorial, and carefree. If someone comes along, he needs to be really understanding of what I've become, and not insist his ways. He needs to nurture our budding relationship until it blossoms. I will have to be selfish once more, because I admit, I have a problem dealing with my own comfort. He needs to allow me to gradually come out from the protective shell I've encased myself...I do have a lot to offer, but that is for him to find out and benefit from in time. What I'm saying is, if only most men will be patient, selfless, caring, and sensitive to my emotional needs, then, maybe...I'll take that much awaited "dip into the pool of romance"...but...Where is that Man?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/5/2012 6:44 pm

I can never engage in a "hit-and-run" kinda relationship...

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
6/5/2012 9:18 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    I can never engage in a "hit-and-run" kinda relationship...
Elz,

Been in a hit and run so many times. Still not used to it.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

6/5/2012 9:41 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Been in a hit and run so many times. Still not used to it.
Tess, maybe because you're still ALIVE...lolz..

Just call me ELZ


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
6/5/2012 10:33 pm

"...but...Where is that Man?"

elz...you scared all the candidates with your fears!


This is ME...I don't need your approval...


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
6/5/2012 10:56 pm

i'm not from Assumption College...but let me make some assumptions

the cliche "you wouldn't miss what you haven't experienced" definitely would not apply to you ...for you know how it was to love and be loved...i assume that during those cold nights, alone in your room, you miss that intimacy and companionship that only a man can give...yet, you settle for the warmth of the comforter...why? because your fears get the better of you...and your biggest fear, i believe, is FAILURE!...

so you go about searching for love and assurance...the man needs to prove himself...you need him to coax you to come out of your shell...nah, you won't let him in unless you're sure...online, i believe, that is a tall order...

in the end elz, you never fail, you never lose...but you never win either...


This is ME...I don't need your approval...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
6/6/2012 12:24 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Tess, maybe because you're still ALIVE...lolz..
Elz,

YOu know the one before this i wanted to kill myself with the champaigne. Pero eto iba, am walking dead already. Just weird...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
6/6/2012 12:49 am

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    i'm not from Assumption College...but let me make some assumptions

    the cliche "you wouldn't miss what you haven't experienced" definitely would not apply to you ...for you know how it was to love and be loved...i assume that during those cold nights, alone in your room, you miss that intimacy and companionship that only a man can give...yet, you settle for the warmth of the comforter...why? because your fears get the better of you...and your biggest fear, i believe, is FAILURE!...

    so you go about searching for love and assurance...the man needs to prove himself...you need him to coax you to come out of your shell...nah, you won't let him in unless you're sure...online, i believe, that is a tall order...

    in the end elz, you never fail, you never lose...but you never win either...


Very well opined and stated, Luv. I can't say it any better. Let me just add. Love is a gamble, there's no such thing as a sure bet.


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


eb1209

6/6/2012 12:54 am

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    "...but...Where is that Man?"

    elz...you scared all the candidates with your fears!

Oh yeah, there's a bunch of cowards everywhere......Kung ang magnanakaw nga takot sa kapwa magnanakaw, eh di ang coward takot din sa kapwa coward...Ay! tama ba iyon?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 12:58 am

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    i'm not from Assumption College...but let me make some assumptions

    the cliche "you wouldn't miss what you haven't experienced" definitely would not apply to you ...for you know how it was to love and be loved...i assume that during those cold nights, alone in your room, you miss that intimacy and companionship that only a man can give...yet, you settle for the warmth of the comforter...why? because your fears get the better of you...and your biggest fear, i believe, is FAILURE!...

    so you go about searching for love and assurance...the man needs to prove himself...you need him to coax you to come out of your shell...nah, you won't let him in unless you're sure...online, i believe, that is a tall order...

    in the end elz, you never fail, you never lose...but you never win either...

That's what I do with my stocks too! I lost a lot since 9/11, and therefore, I had it on a fixed rate which is barely 2% per annum...And I feel good! ..Actually, it's just a matter of getting used to it, I mean the cold nights? Comforters and "towels" do a good job, right, Ms. Smilerz, Dahlen? WHere is she anyway?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 12:59 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    YOu know the one before this i wanted to kill myself with the champaigne. Pero eto iba, am walking dead already. Just weird...
Hahayz! Tess, they're not worth it...Besides, what brand of champagne did you drink?

Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
6/6/2012 1:06 am


Quoting ELZ,

What I'm saying is, if only most men will be patient, selfless, caring, and sensitive to my emotional needs, then, maybe...I'll take that much awaited "dip into the pool of romance"...but...Where is that Man?

Here I am! But I'm taken Just kidding...

There goes the litany of qualities again. Why not just caring and sensitive? Why be happier if you can be just happy? Why not get your feet wet to see how warm the water is? Fear won't set us free. Don't be afraid to fail.


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


stickman_711

6/6/2012 2:07 am

hi Elz just enjoy your life and love will find you if you let it dont be scared. Take care and im trying to use the emoticons


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
6/6/2012 2:56 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Oh yeah, there's a bunch of cowards everywhere......Kung ang magnanakaw nga takot sa kapwa magnanakaw, eh di ang coward takot din sa kapwa coward...Ay! tama ba iyon?
lolzzzzz...whatever happened to the saying:

"birds of the feathers make good feather duster"




This is ME...I don't need your approval...


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
6/6/2012 2:58 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    That's what I do with my stocks too! I lost a lot since 9/11, and therefore, I had it on a fixed rate which is barely 2% per annum...And I feel good! ..Actually, it's just a matter of getting used to it, I mean the cold nights? Comforters and "towels" do a good job, right, Ms. Smilerz, Dahlen? WHere is she anyway?
hahahahaha...smilerz problem is kinda different

it runs parallel with mine

more in the vein of......

too many men, too little time!


This is ME...I don't need your approval...


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
6/6/2012 3:03 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Very well opined and stated, Luv. I can't say it any better. Let me just add. Love is a gamble, there's no such thing as a sure bet.

eggsaxtly! KaBert...how will you win the lotto, if you won't place a bet?

kung di ngayon, kelan pa?!?

when the time comes that your idea of fun is racing on your wheelchairs?


This is ME...I don't need your approval...


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
6/6/2012 3:05 am

ay mali!...

i meant:

birds of the same feathers make good feather duster!


This is ME...I don't need your approval...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
6/6/2012 5:19 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hahayz! Tess, they're not worth it...Besides, what brand of champagne did you drink?
Elz,

Just learned the truth na, his not worth it. And am a walking zombie didn't get to sleep. Chandon yun just didn't kill me, but gave me a splitting headache...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

6/6/2012 8:51 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Very well opined and stated, Luv. I can't say it any better. Let me just add. Love is a gamble, there's no such thing as a sure bet.

So there you go, Bert! If love, indeed, is a gamble...Then, as it is, the chances of losing is far greater leave alone winning, but by even "breaking even"...You know what i'm saying?..It is not fair for love to be likened to gambling ..The odds of winning is really slim...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 8:54 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Quoting ELZ,

    What I'm saying is, if only most men will be patient, selfless, caring, and sensitive to my emotional needs, then, maybe...I'll take that much awaited "dip into the pool of romance"...but...Where is that Man?

    Here I am! But I'm taken Just kidding...

    There goes the litany of qualities again. Why not just caring and sensitive? Why be happier if you can be just happy? Why not get your feet wet to see how warm the water is? Fear won't set us free. Don't be afraid to fail.

I already failed twice! How much more do you want? ..I can take the caring and sensitive.....but, the problem is...he wants to control my life to the utmost level..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 8:56 pm

    Quoting stickman_711:
    hi Elz just enjoy your life and love will find you if you let it dont be scared. Take care and im trying to use the emoticons
Oh Mark! =D5...You are indeed, improving! ,,,Go!go!go!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 8:58 pm

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    lolzzzzz...whatever happened to the saying:

    "birds of the feathers make good feather duster"



Oh, yeah? What happened to that?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 9:00 pm

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    hahahahaha...smilerz problem is kinda different

    it runs parallel with mine

    more in the vein of......

    too many men, too little time!

Ahahahahahaha! I had that luxury before...I mean, I had very little time "screening" them, men!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 9:06 pm

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    eggsaxtly! KaBert...how will you win the lotto, if you won't place a bet?

    kung di ngayon, kelan pa?!?

    when the time comes that your idea of fun is racing on your wheelchairs?

Now that you're saying that ...Honestly speaking.., there were several times that I bought lotto tickets and never cared to check if I won (at least the consolation prize) or not? Now, you have me thinking.. What if, in real lovelife, if only I bothered to pay attention to what appeared to be "shallow" or lacking depth and sincerity (maybe for fear of rejection or something?), maybe...err, just MAYBE!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 9:08 pm

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    ay mali!...

    i meant:

    birds of the same feathers make good feather duster!

Nyahahahahahahaha! I'm loving it!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/6/2012 9:10 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Just learned the truth na, his not worth it. And am a walking zombie didn't get to sleep. Chandon yun just didn't kill me, but gave me a splitting headache...
Yeah, I remember...Hayz! I've seen you looking so wasted too...Remember the San Jose clubbing with Sugar and Scott, and Bhabes?

Just call me ELZ