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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
5/28/2012 7:42 pm
On The Contrary....

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And so, MEN always have excuses in terms of getting seriously involved in a relationship with women. That is why, most of them prefer the "hit and run" kinda thing. No commitments, no strings attached, enjoying the "freebies", and most of all, having fun anytime they want. Worse is, some of them, accuse us, WOMEN, that we are not relationship material, we are playing hard to get, and that we are players, yadda-yadda, dohhhhh!...Hayz! , when in fact, the truth is: THEY ARE NOT READY!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/28/2012 8:00 pm

 Guys, please be very honest with your posts..and to all women who felt rejected in the past, please share your experiences...THanks!
Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
5/28/2012 9:29 pm
Hey, I 'm ready. At my age , why won't I be? Just ask all those I dated.
They're the ones who didn't like me. I'm glad one made a mistake or gambled and took me .

I think women are so cautious because they don't want to get hurt. So they just reject every man who shows intention or affection. How will they know if they don't try?
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/28/2012 10:31 pm

 Elz,

You know mine. From the first time and this last one. I gave my all and it wasn't appreciated. They chose other woman instead of me. The feelings i felt was pure stabbing of my heart. One gave an excuse as too many baggages and have to choose. The other was purely saying we're too old to play anymore games. Just enjoy the moments. It was a short live happiness. In the end it was not meant to be...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
5/28/2012 10:34 pm

 i think some men are as cautious as some women...that they don't want to invest (time, effort, emotions, etc.) too much in something they are not sure of, re: the women's love...but when a man is really smitten, nothing can ward him away (right, oldkanaba? )...but if a man, likewise with a woman, is not interested, nothing can make him/her stay...but i'm sure, some "desperate" souls would see something more in what is less...or worse, try to turn something less into something more ...go figure!

This is ME...I don't need your approval...


eb1209

5/28/2012 11:16 pm

 And I can't believe FFF keeps removing the attached image...HmmmpT!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/28/2012 11:24 pm

 "OFTEN YOU THINK, WHEN YOU'RE REJECTED, THAT YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH. BUT THE TRUTH IS, THEY WEREN'T READY FOR ALL YOU HAVE TO OFFER."---that's what the attached image says
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/28/2012 11:35 pm
    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Hey, I 'm ready. At my age , why won't I be? Just ask all those I dated.
    They're the ones who didn't like me. I'm glad one made a mistake or gambled and took me .

    I think women are so cautious because they don't want to get hurt. So they just reject every man who shows intention or affection. How will they know if they don't try?
Hey, Bert! one thing about you and Teng is that you've known each other for years, before she decided to take you after the many personae that you've assumed. She fell in love with your mysterious personality...You know, it's different when people don't give each other the chance to get to know themselves very well...It's like falling in love with someone by just the way s/he writes.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/28/2012 11:39 pm
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    You know mine. From the first time and this last one. I gave my all and it wasn't appreciated. They chose other woman instead of me. The feelings i felt was pure stabbing of my heart. One gave an excuse as too many baggages and have to choose. The other was purely saying we're too old to play anymore games. Just enjoy the moments. It was a short live happiness. In the end it was not meant to be...
You know Tess, I heard from some men as well, that they are actually turned off by some women's over-giving of everything they have. There's no more challenge when one is very submissive or overly kind...Not that I'm telling you to be bad...Maybe, you need to show them some resistance when you see that they're not really doing the right thing..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/28/2012 11:56 pm
    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    i think some men are as cautious as some women...that they don't want to invest (time, effort, emotions, etc.) too much in something they are not sure of, re: the women's love...but when a man is really smitten, nothing can ward him away (right, oldkanaba? )...but if a man, likewise with a woman, is not interested, nothing can make him/her stay...but i'm sure, some "desperate" souls would see something more in what is less...or worse, try to turn something less into something more ...go figure!
Bato-bato sa langit, ang tamaan ay may BUKOL! ..And you are right, Liz..but in our culture, we, women, normally wait for the men to make the first move...so, one false move, in the beginning of the getting to know each other...BOOM! Babush..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/28/2012 11:59 pm

 But there are some women also who make the first move, and some men just love that X...After all, most of them won't refuse even a dead meat...lolz.. how much more, the fresh and inviting heaven?...nyahahahahaha!... My bad!
Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/29/2012 1:19 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    You know Tess, I heard from some men as well, that they are actually turned off by some women's over-giving of everything they have. There's no more challenge when one is very submissive or overly kind...Not that I'm telling you to be bad...Maybe, you need to show them some resistance when you see that they're not really doing the right thing..
Elz,

This last one i showed every resistance. And in the end still lost out. I gave and gave to help. But, no good. It's true if they don't really love you they will just leave...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


stickman_711

5/29/2012 2:18 am

 well you caught me again sitting in front of my computer when i should be asleep. but you got me to thinking about why my past relationships didnt work out very well. was it me was it them or was it that maybe i was looking at the relationship in a different way than they were, i wish i knew the answers. i probably know what most of the answer is ,too much to go into here, but i never thought i was looking for that "hit and run" "freebie" "wham bam thank you maam" type of relationship. i think the good relationship just happen when they happen you cant force it. Oh man i think i wrote too much. if we just learn to seperate the good from the bad and the ugly. Oh well goodnight take care


ajaw430 53F

5/29/2012 3:42 am

 Elz,

I am just enjoying what I have now...can go anywhere I want without any one`s approval, happy and contented with my life though I`m not closing any door either..my wonderful kids keep my busy. No hurt feelings but being financially independent plays a big role that you`re not depending to any man....guess you know what I mean


ajaw430 53F

5/29/2012 3:45 am

 Elz,

I am just enjoying what I have now...can go anywhere I want without any one`s approval, happy and contented with my life though I`m not closing any door either..my wonderful kids keep me busy. No hurt feelings but being financially independent plays a big role that you`re not depending to any man, makes you confident that you can live without....(sorry guys )....guess you know what I mean


eb1209

5/29/2012 3:50 am
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    This last one i showed every resistance. And in the end still lost out. I gave and gave to help. But, no good. It's true if they don't really love you they will just leave...
I don't know what to say, Tess..But, I guess, rest for a while...until someone new, and good comes along..I think, somebody did before, but you shoved him away...
Just call me ELZ


macho7 42M
Ask me for a photo

5/29/2012 3:51 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    Guys, please be very honest with your posts..and to all women who felt rejected in the past, please share your experiences...THanks!
elz to be honest! How guys can be honest inhere? Example..Lov a fair... a respectable lady in terms of her profile.. and she claims herself Copper Queen is she too with a teen age pix?? How the readers wanna respect her?


eb1209

5/29/2012 3:52 am
    Quoting  :
Which is why it is always safe to say SOME..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/29/2012 3:54 am
    Quoting stickman_711:
    well you caught me again sitting in front of my computer when i should be asleep. but you got me to thinking about why my past relationships didnt work out very well. was it me was it them or was it that maybe i was looking at the relationship in a different way than they were, i wish i knew the answers. i probably know what most of the answer is ,too much to go into here, but i never thought i was looking for that "hit and run" "freebie" "wham bam thank you maam" type of relationship. i think the good relationship just happen when they happen you cant force it. Oh man i think i wrote too much. if we just learn to seperate the good from the bad and the ugly. Oh well goodnight take care
Well, Mark, you said your piece, and they are valid...Sometimes, they say, we need to meet a few wrong people to get to the right one..Goodnight!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/29/2012 3:57 am
    Quoting ajaw430:
    Elz,

    I am just enjoying what I have now...can go anywhere I want without any one`s approval, happy and contented with my life though I`m not closing any door either..my wonderful kids keep my busy. No hurt feelings but being financially independent plays a big role that you`re not depending to any man....guess you know what I mean
I sure can relate to that, Gracey..You're still young and have better options to make. I've been in that situation where my only child was my priority, and thank God, I am past that stage now...I do take care of myself, and my needs right now..God knows, if someone comes along, old, new, or reincarnated , I think, I am READY!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/29/2012 3:58 am
    Quoting ajaw430:
    Elz,

    I am just enjoying what I have now...can go anywhere I want without any one`s approval, happy and contented with my life though I`m not closing any door either..my wonderful kids keep me busy. No hurt feelings but being financially independent plays a big role that you`re not depending to any man, makes you confident that you can live without....(sorry guys )....guess you know what I mean
Your kids are still very young, and you are young, yourself...Time will come, and everything will fall into place..Goodluck!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/29/2012 6:56 am
    Quoting macho7:
    elz to be honest! How guys can be honest inhere? Example..Lov a fair... a respectable lady in terms of her profile.. and she claims herself Copper Queen is she too with a teen age pix?? How the readers wanna respect her?
so, she confessed..and if you believe her, and so then, she is the same person..I have come to terms with multiple handles here in FFF, and for as long as I am not being targeted, I am not really gonna be affected, coz, I know for a fact that a lot of bloggers and readers and regular members here have multiple handles...Each one has his and her own purpose in so doing...I hope your issues at the ELR will be resolved, coz, FFF can still be a nice place to have friends...
Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/29/2012 1:42 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    I don't know what to say, Tess..But, I guess, rest for a while...until someone new, and good comes along..I think, somebody did before, but you shoved him away...
Elz,

Who was that??? Anyways, i just don't know anymore. Mabuti pa i just don't think of love anymore. Parang wala sakit sa ulo. But, my cell phone is gone!!! huhuhu, i can't believe someone in church stole it???? A lady by the name of Michele is gonna look around the sacristy room and call me later...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

5/29/2012 5:10 pm
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Who was that??? Anyways, i just don't know anymore. Mabuti pa i just don't think of love anymore. Parang wala sakit sa ulo. But, my cell phone is gone!!! huhuhu, i can't believe someone in church stole it???? A lady by the name of Michele is gonna look around the sacristy room and call me later...
Hahayz! Tess, sa sobrang dami nila, hindi mo na maalala...kung sino pa yung serioso sa iyo ayaw mo naman...Neways,,,If I were you, ipa blocked mo ang CP number mo, otherwise, magbabayad ka na naman ng malaki for what? Do not expect too much from the church and from the people around you, Tess...You are not in a perfect world..Eh, kung yung pari nga, maraming kasalanan, yun pa kayang nakapulot or kumuha ng celfone mo? Next time, mag iingat ka...you are sooo trusting, that's why you get into trouble..Hayz! hayan, nasermonan na naman kita...eh, magkasing edad lang naman tayo halos...lolz..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/29/2012 10:00 pm
    Quoting  :
And so am I......hehehehehe! Hmmm? I need more exposure in the real world
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

5/29/2012 10:02 pm
    Quoting  :
Bestest Friend...... I always have to go back to the previous posts to make sure I am not ignoring anybody whose comments come out much later...
Just call me ELZ




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