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5/28/2012 12:07 am |
i am the same person both online and offline, that will save some people from making assumptions, what you see is what you get...i don't present a polished version of myself in here, as i am not afraid to show my shadow side  ...with regards to my "real" (not online) friends involved in misunderstandings, i do take sides but i seldom get involved unless i'm directly attacked too...i don't accuse people unless i have proofs, meaning i don't easily assume...i don't judge unless i am judged first...i don't promote hatred by stating facts...and i don't claim silence as saving grace when i keep on dropping comments in my friends' blogs defending myself...  and i am no coward...i say what i have to say to one's face...not when the person is not around and busy in the real world  ...this is for AJAW...if you can prove any of what i'll write here is an assumption and something i made up to pass judgement on you, i will publicly apologize! you said you were called many names because of your best friend whom you love...that you are being ignored because we thought you took up his side when as you said "you will always support him without agreeing with him all the time"... first, i don't know about the "pimp" and "mamasang"...but i did mentioned "whore" and "tanga"...to refresh your memory, this is what happened... i was chatting at ELR when casper chatted with me, you were there also and you knew it was me...it was amiable at first but when he learned i know a lot of things about him, he started being abusive, insulting and offensive...among other things, he accused me of being one of those women he f*cked (his own words) and who owes him money...YOU were quick to point out and judge that i must be ELLEYN (whoever that is)...later, from casper's ramblings and bragging, it was made clear that Elleyn was his gf in Singapore whom he said he f*ucked for money...i told casper i was never one of his whores or will ever be (so it couldn't be me)...you made the  icon when i said that...i never mentioned you as one of his whores!i let that incident passed without calling your attention to what you did...by assuming that i was ELLEYN, you have already prejudged me... then came another incident...i was chatting again at ELR...casper butted in...i told him to back off but he continued with his insults...calling me old in a derogatory manner...saying i am after him and i want to be f*cked by him...i retaliated and hurled back insults too...you were on the side...and you know what you did AJAW?...you were making the icon all the time...at times the  icon, applauding him...if that is not taking side and showing support i don't know what is...i was pissed off more by your insensitivity and callousness, so i said what was on my mind to your face...twice or thrice i posted the word "TANGA" (stupid)...but i didn't say you...it was you who said i was calling you "tanga"...i told you right there and then that i didn't said it was you but that if the shoe fits you can wear it...i can't understand how a filipina can watch with glee while the same people, like MEBELLA and CHARMZ, also filipinas at that, who "greeted you warmly" are being attacked and insulted by your "loving" best friend...you were there all those times!...and all those times, you were posting the icon!...i was watching on the side, not once did i come to my "friends" aid...i said i'll blog about casper...and he bragged he'll be proud to see his handle and yours in my blog...i just made good my words...and if you can point out anything in my blog as something i made up and that it didn't happened, then i'll admit it's promoting hatred...and i'll just happily copy paste songs and quotes in my blogs... "Making comments when you already passed prejudice is unwise and will not bring further in my opinion  Sometimes silence is golden "while i was away, you were chatting about me with casper and goldness...and about the blog i posted...so much for silence now, who made assumptions and took side??? - copperqueen aka luv-a-fair Just call me ELZ 
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5/28/2012 12:15 am |
Smiley, Dahlen...thanks for quoting...I would have not known that there was a post like that...It didn't show up right away. The shorter one that sez puppets and clowns came out visible first...Neways...Hayz! Just call me ELZ
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5/28/2012 12:19 am |
By the way, I wrote this blog without any direct reference to any incidents that may have happened here during my absence here. To those who have FB account, you know that I've been out of the country for a while, and therefore, I was out of circulation. But I write blogs according to what comes to my mind. Feel free to post. Just call me ELZ
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5/28/2012 6:08 am |
any problem..nonsense..
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5/28/2012 6:10 am |
laki ng topak..bigay na bigay ang loob sa chat....waaaaaaa...
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It is better to live with a loss of friendship than to hold a grudge. Life goes on. I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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5/28/2012 8:01 am |
It is better to live with a loss of friendship than to hold a grudge. Life goes on.   Just call me ELZ
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5/28/2012 11:08 pm |
It is better to live with a loss of friendship than to hold a grudge. Life goes on.
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5/29/2012 10:17 pm |
me too...  Just call me ELZ
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5/30/2012 11:23 am |
i am the same person both online and offline, that will save some people from making assumptions, what you see is what you get...i don't present a polished version of myself in here, as i am not afraid to show my shadow side ...with regards to my "real" (not online) friends involved in misunderstandings, i do take sides but i seldom get involved unless i'm directly attacked too...i don't accuse people unless i have proofs, meaning i don't easily assume...i don't judge unless i am judged first...i don't promote hatred by stating facts...and i don't claim silence as saving grace when i keep on dropping comments in my friends' blogs defending myself... and i am no coward...i say what i have to say to one's face...not when the person is not around and busy in the real world ...this is for AJAW...if you can prove any of what i'll write here is an assumption and something i made up to pass judgement on you, i will publicly apologize! you said you were called many names because of your best friend whom you love...that you are being ignored because we thought you took up his side when as you said "you will always support him without agreeing with him all the time"... first, i don't know about the "pimp" and "mamasang"...but i did mentioned "whore" and "tanga"...to refresh your memory, this is what happened... i was chatting at ELR when casper chatted with me, you were there also and you knew it was me...it was amiable at first but when he learned i know a lot of things about him, he started being abusive, insulting and offensive...among other things, he accused me of being one of those women he f*cked (his own words) and who owes him money...YOU were quick to point out and judge that i must be ELLEYN (whoever that is)...later, from casper's ramblings and bragging, it was made clear that Elleyn was his gf in Singapore whom he said he f*ucked for money...i told casper i was never one of his whores or will ever be (so it couldn't be me)...you made the icon when i said that...i never mentioned you as one of his whores!i let that incident passed without calling your attention to what you did...by assuming that i was ELLEYN, you have already prejudged me... then came another incident...i was chatting again at ELR...casper butted in...i told him to back off but he continued with his insults...calling me old in a derogatory manner...saying i am after him and i want to be f*cked by him...i retaliated and hurled back insults too...you were on the side...and you know what you did AJAW?...you were making the icon all the time...at times the icon, applauding him...if that is not taking side and showing support i don't know what is...i was pissed off more by your insensitivity and callousness, so i said what was on my mind to your face...twice or thrice i posted the word "TANGA" (stupid)...but i didn't say you...it was you who said i was calling you "tanga"...i told you right there and then that i didn't said it was you but that if the shoe fits you can wear it...i can't understand how a filipina can watch with glee while the same people, like MEBELLA and CHARMZ, also filipinas at that, who "greeted you warmly" are being attacked and insulted by your "loving" best friend...you were there all those times!...and all those times, you were posting the icon!...i was watching on the side, not once did i come to my "friends" aid...i said i'll blog about casper...and he bragged he'll be proud to see his handle and yours in my blog...i just made good my words...and if you can point out anything in my blog as something i made up and that it didn't happened, then i'll admit it's promoting hatred...and i'll just happily copy paste songs and quotes in my blogs... "Making comments when you already passed prejudice is unwise and will not bring further in my opinion Sometimes silence is golden "while i was away, you were chatting about me with casper and goldness...and about the blog i posted...so much for silence now, who made assumptions and took side??? - copperqueen aka luv-a-fair FYI will just say this once, i dont know casper or kevin or ajaw whoever he/she is. Whatever he/she say about me is totally unfounded and absurd. My only request is to refrain from using my name in any of the conversation that i have no knowledge of.If that is not too much to ask. To ajaw/casper, if its true that one or both of you actually said that i was once one of casper's gf, i have in my email archive the email i sent to casper rejecting his advances on me. Therefore, i canprove anytime that that bit of news is a downright lie.  Thank you Elleyn
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5/30/2012 5:12 pm |
Ay kasali ko? Tahimik ako and still Im getting dragged? FYI will just say this once, i dont know casper or kevin or ajaw whoever he/she is. Whatever he/she say about me is totally unfounded and absurd. My only request is to refrain from using my name in any of the conversation that i have no knowledge of.If that is not too much to ask. To ajaw/casper, if its true that one or both of you actually said that i was once one of casper's gf, i have in my email archive the email i sent to casper rejecting his advances on me. Therefore, i canprove anytime that that bit of news is a downright lie. Thank you Just call me ELZ
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Ay kasali ko? Tahimik ako and still Im getting dragged? FYI will just say this once, i dont know casper or kevin or ajaw whoever he/she is. Whatever he/she say about me is totally unfounded and absurd. My only request is to refrain from using my name in any of the conversation that i have no knowledge of.If that is not too much to ask. To ajaw/casper, if its true that one or both of you actually said that i was once one of casper's gf, i have in my email archive the email i sent to casper rejecting his advances on me. Therefore, i canprove anytime that that bit of news is a downright lie. Thank you thank you for the clarification tho' and having the guts to come in the open to say your piece...peaceeeeeee....
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5/31/2012 12:13 am |
please accept my apology ELLEYN for dragging your name here...i absolutely have no idea that ajaw and casper were talking about you...since this blog is about making false assumption, i would like to assure you that i didn't assume that the Elleyn in blogland is the same Elleyn in Singapore with a daughter who the "bestfriends" said became casper's gf and owes him money... thank you for the clarification tho' and having the guts to come in the open to say your piece...peaceeeeeee....  Just call me ELZ
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