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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
6/22/2010 8:41 am
Hindi na natuto! ....What's with married men?


..Why do some women make bad choices in the men they love?...We talk about circumstances involving single women in their teens, in their`ties (20's-30's,40's. 50's etc. ) without , irregardless of their looks and social status, who fall preys (or is from their own doing? ) to married/philandering men. It's amazing to know that these same women have other options, and it's not like they are running out of single men out there, (although we all know that men are outnumbered) and yet, they prefer to be swept away by yes, married men!..What's with these guys? More Money? Better Sex? or Illicit maturity?..I am not here to judge anybody, but I am just making a point. They say, it takes two to tango. There will be no broken families/relationships if these same single women will not allow married men to be a part of their messy lives. And take this one: " It's bad enough that you made a mistake once..but twice, thrice, and more?...Come on now! "

Okay, Bato-bato sa langit, ang tamaan'y huwag magagalit, but here's for you:

"HINDI NA NATUTO"

Hayan ka na naman, nagtatampisaw,
Pamilya ng iba, ikaw'y nakikisawsaw;
Naturingan kang dalaga,pero
Wala kang kadala-dala;
Palagi mong pinipili
Lalaking may asawa!

Kilig na kilig ka, sa pambobola niya,
Sa mga kaibigan mo, pinagmamalaki mo pa.
Di ba kelan lang, sabi mo ayaw mo na?
Tahimik na buhay, hangad mo, totoo nga ba?
Subali't hayan ka na naman at rumarampa,
Karay-karay ka ng bago mong PAPA

Sadya nga bang malambot ang iyong ilong?
O ang puso mong mamon, laging urong-sulong?
Kay dali mong maniwala, ang puri iyong ipinagkakatiwala,
Ang iyong mga hita, kaydali mong ibukaka`.
Wala na bang halaga, moralidad at konsiyensya?
Sa pakikipagrelasyon, para sayo ay HALA BIRA!

Paminsan-minsan, makinig ka naman sa mga payo,
Ng mga taong, nagmamalasakit/nagmamahal sayo.
Tigilan na ang pakikipagkuyang-yangan,
Sa lalaking may asawa, wala kang kinabukasan.
Dito sa mundo, merong nakalaan sa iyo,
Maghintay ka lang, aayos din ang buhay mo!


Original Pinoy Composition by: eb1209 (06/22/10)
Just call me ELZ


achtungbabyZ2 49F

6/22/2010 1:45 pm

 its not just the women who do bad choices ate elz, men too. i know of a few decent+good men who has made choices from bad to worst to worser- LMAO is there such word??

we dont know why single people go off with attached/married people. and yes napapag usapan lang din and we are not here to judge coz who are we to judge others.

and in instances when a woman have an affair with a married man, i dunno why it is only the woman who gets all the blame.

take for example the case of ronan keating of the boyband boyzone who had an affair with a single young girl. the girl is being subjected to a witch hunt by boyzone fans and the media. the married man/person should also be punished/blamed or whatever cos like you said it takes two to tango.its not like the woman who keating had an affair with forced him into the relationship. she is single, she does not answer to anyone. he is married, he should have stuck to his wife.

but in saying this, i dont know why single people/women go off and have affairs with married men/people. its not for me to judge.


eb1209

6/22/2010 3:37 pm

 And as usual, this blog is non-specific to anybody, but a realistic issue, in general...Kaya po, yung mga tinatamaan, huwag mag-alala...no naming of names here...Your secrets are safe
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 3:38 pm

 And don't forget, "YOU" in English can be singular or plural...Huwag aatakihin ang kung sino man diyan!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 3:40 pm

 And those "frequent flyers", eheste, "repeaters", sorry to say, but it's a common impression that when you made a mistake once, it can be taken as an "honest to goodness mistake", but, twice, thrice, and more?....Come on!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 3:43 pm
    Quoting achtungbabyZ2:
    its not just the women who do bad choices ate elz, men too. i know of a few decent+good men who has made choices from bad to worst to worser- LMAO is there such word??

    we dont know why single people go off with attached/married people. and yes napapag usapan lang din and we are not here to judge coz who are we to judge others.

    and in instances when a woman have an affair with a married man, i dunno why it is only the woman who gets all the blame.

    take for example the case of ronan keating of the boyband boyzone who had an affair with a single young girl. the girl is being subjected to a witch hunt by boyzone fans and the media. the married man/person should also be punished/blamed or whatever cos like you said it takes two to tango.its not like the woman who keating had an affair with forced him into the relationship. she is single, she does not answer to anyone. he is married, he should have stuck to his wife.

    but in saying this, i dont know why single people/women go off and have affairs with married men/people. its not for me to judge.
But of course, your opinion is taken into consideration without a doubt, but at this moment, it's about "single women"...And let this be a healthy discussion. Napag-uusapan lang naman.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 3:46 pm

 What's sad is that sometimes, "meron namang mga binatang lumiligaw", kumbakit mas type ang merong "may-ari" Ngeeeekk! (this doesn't sound good) ...eheste, what I mean is, a very much married guy...or someone who is "taken"...
Just call me ELZ


jane82 110F

6/22/2010 3:47 pm

 The thrill, discontentment, insecurity....

Don't understand it.

Thanks for the greeting Ms. Elz.


within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


jane82 110F

6/22/2010 3:49 pm

 I just realized your original Pinoy composition. Love it.


within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


eb1209

6/22/2010 4:01 pm
    Quoting jane82:
    The thrill, discontentment, insecurity....

    Don't understand it.

    Thanks for the greeting Ms. Elz.
I heard about the "thrill" thingie, Janey...Some women just love it when they have to be "caught" somehow, in the end.....Sheeesssshh!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 4:04 pm
    Quoting jane82:
    The thrill, discontentment, insecurity....

    Don't understand it.

    Thanks for the greeting Ms. Elz.
And yeah, they may be discontented at times, because the time for them will never be "full"..Just like a meal, they can only be a side dish...or maybe just an "A" or a "D"...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 4:08 pm
    Quoting  :
Which goes without saying, "masarap ang bawal" (What's forbidden brings thrill)
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 4:10 pm
    Quoting jane82:
    I just realized your original Pinoy composition. Love it.
Thanks, Janey...One of those, on the spot creativity...void of formality...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 5:25 pm
    Quoting  :
In a way, you are right, ROXY, and the bad thing is "people tend to live that belief"...just because, it is a common saying, it's like, it's okay!
Just call me ELZ


frozenflower3 64F

6/22/2010 5:27 pm
    Quoting  :
Sis,

Agree with that saying. It has to be really bad and thrilling!!! Now, am so curious sino naman ang folano ng eto??? Anyways, whatever floats their boat. Destiny strikes and ur done for...


eb1209

6/22/2010 5:30 pm
    Quoting  :
Ooopppsssiiiee! It's a poem...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 5:32 pm
    Quoting  :
Like I said, it's a general issue...But, it can happen to anyone, and it's already happening, here, there, and everywhere...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/22/2010 5:33 pm
    Quoting  :
Hehehhe..., Bootsie, right meaning, but NOT the right thing to do...
Just call me ELZ


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
6/22/2010 7:09 pm

 too much tagalog in here! cant relate!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
6/22/2010 7:12 pm

 since u have ur list of criticized people, elz and achtung too, why you didn't add to it those married women who still seek some sort of relationships with a other guys? and BIG YES! those women exist specially at FFF community, and I know what i am talking about!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
6/22/2010 7:15 pm

 now when u say "married men" u need to put several different cases catagorizing them according to their situations! Now if they are separated and cant be difvorced for a reason or another, say because they catholic for example, what do u want these guys to do in such a situation?


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
6/22/2010 7:19 pm

 for a wide range of young single girls who are falling for older married/separated guys, priority is not real love, but "opportunity"! they find in that older married/separated guy an opportunity which they didn't find with other single guys in their age, because that young guy may be is looking for an older woman too who is working abroad, either to provide for him, or to get him a visa to travel abroad! means for both genders, it is not love that they are seeking, but "bridges" for a netter opportunity!


sofiame 54F
534 posts
6/23/2010 2:13 am

 nice composition..... married men married huh super mangilad, hapit jud ko maisahan ana..


achtungbabyZ2 49F

6/23/2010 11:55 am
    Quoting Sulei:
    since u have ur list of criticized people, elz and achtung too, why you didn't add to it those married women who still seek some sort of relationships with a other guys? and BIG YES! those women exist specially at FFF community, and I know what i am talking about!
sulei bro, for the record im not criticizing anyone. im not in a position to do so. i have to be able to live a righteous life like mother theresa before i can start telling people how to live their life then again mother teresa wouldnt be mother teresa if she went about criticizing people for what they did and did not do.

im just trying to make a point that why is it that if a married man strayed and had an affair with another woman, the blame seems to all got to the woman for being a home-wrecking-husband-stealing-b!tch where as like the saying goes it takes two to tango. the man has a responsibility to say no and stay away from temptations (ie fresh younger women cos the wife barely had a chance to comb her hair for looking after 11 children, doing house work, maintaining a day job too etc etc).


eb1209

6/23/2010 4:12 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    Hahahaha! . You said it all, smiley, dahlen`..Neways, some women love this kind of relationships because they say, married men are "mature", thus, illicitly mature...
This is for Smiley...deng! this was banned!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/23/2010 4:13 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    Hahahhaa...meaning, BULAG at BINGI!...Susme! pobreng nilalang nga!
This was for ROXY, banned!
Just call me ELZ




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