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name_withheld 60F

2/7/2010 7:41 am

Titser Elz, hirap ng subject matter ngayon, di ako maka-relate!

It's because what I have yata is a platonically reversed mutual understanding relationship with "him" (or maybe a mutually reversed platonic relationship???)

Seriously, we can't see any hope of stability in all three (even in all four or five, including what I have added, albeit comically) --which makes it really sad because who wants to be in an unstable relationship where you keep guessing what's there tomorrow or next week? And we know the reason for not allowing themselves to be tied down could be the fear of the big C (commitment po, hindi Cancer). i speak here of stability in the sense that "ok, we're committed, i will do my part to make the relationship work". With MU and the PR, it's like playing safe that for whatever reason that either of them could not stick to the perceived "promise" or "pledge of love" (pwede ding allegiance ) they are not bound by anything - like one foot is always out the door -- just a matter of who gets to drag the other foot out first. My personal feeling about the MU or the PR is it's a way of enjoying a "relationship" sans the pressure of commitment and plus the option to flee in case a better catch comes along. I would also be uncomfortable with RR just owing to our pinoy culture that if it's the woman initiating anything, it gives it a different color, hence the guy is not accountable to its breaking down in the future (if ever) "I did not love her that much, I just didn't have the heart to say NO when she asked" Kulay-pikot na un!

watch mode from here...laterz....

2/7/2010 9:47 am

hi elz dahling

i can be flexible
whichever from the above 3 stats ...
whenever ...
& wherever... my boat floats

am ready !

Smiley, mah friend! Hindi ka na nag-ba BLOG... Dahil ba sa wala ka nang "kaaway? " Why naman? Miss na kita!

Just call me ELZ

pinoylover1 74M

1152 posts
2/7/2010 10:07 am

Role Reversal is when the woman is the one courting the man or initiates the I LOVE YOU, CAN WE BE A COUPLE, or LET's BE SWEETHEARTS, WILL YOU MARRY ME?...It's like women cannot wait for men to say those words that are expected from men...So, they take it upon themselves to initiate..

elz...I THINK ROLE REVERSAL IS A GOOD IDEA FOR WOMEN...

jane82 110F

2/7/2010 10:25 am

Your niece and her fiancee look very well together as usual.

Ate Elz, happy weekend na lang. Watch mode.

within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.

2/7/2010 3:55 pm

Titser Elz, hirap ng subject matter ngayon, di ako maka-relate!

It's because what I have yata is a platonically reversed mutual understanding relationship with "him" (or maybe a mutually reversed platonic relationship???)

Seriously, we can't see any hope of stability in all three (even in all four or five, including what I have added, albeit comically) --which makes it really sad because who wants to be in an unstable relationship where you keep guessing what's there tomorrow or next week? And we know the reason for not allowing themselves to be tied down could be the fear of the big C (commitment po, hindi Cancer). i speak here of stability in the sense that "ok, we're committed, i will do my part to make the relationship work". With MU and the PR, it's like playing safe that for whatever reason that either of them could not stick to the perceived "promise" or "pledge of love" (pwede ding allegiance ) they are not bound by anything - like one foot is always out the door -- just a matter of who gets to drag the other foot out first. My personal feeling about the MU or the PR is it's a way of enjoying a "relationship" sans the pressure of commitment and plus the option to flee in case a better catch comes along. I would also be uncomfortable with RR just owing to our pinoy culture that if it's the woman initiating anything, it gives it a different color, hence the guy is not accountable to its breaking down in the future (if ever) "I did not love her that much, I just didn't have the heart to say NO when she asked" Kulay-pikot na un!

watch mode from here...laterz....

Hehehehe! ..I really like what I'm reading here...Grabe! as in very detailed...I think once others read your input into these blog, they will have a better picture of what MU, PR and RR are all about...Thanks Jeanie..

Just call me ELZ

2/7/2010 4:07 pm

...Hey! Manny! Ikaw ha? You don't need that...Peanuts lang sayo ang panliligaw...Huwag ka nang magpaligaw sa mga chicks!

Just call me ELZ

2/7/2010 4:12 pm

Hi there Janey!...I'm so excited to meet Kenan, and excited for their BIG day!...Talk to you soon!

Just call me ELZ

2/8/2010 3:33 am

Goodluck on your business...Way to go!

Just call me ELZ

2/8/2010 3:36 am

Jeanny, your post came out late, but this is FFF......thank you my dear..!

Just call me ELZ

2/8/2010 3:37 am

Jepoy, It's very hard to break one's nature, but who knows?

...Take care!

Just call me ELZ

2/9/2010 3:35 am

That, too!.......But, that is even worse than MU, Bhabes!...It's just saying "F_ _ _ ing Friends"...Please excuse my French.....but, hey! for as long as it's consensual...

Just call me ELZ

im_stacy
(Stacy Gielen) 113F

2795 posts
2/10/2010 5:05 pm

[font face=script mt bold] Mandy and I has an ongoing experience of this new phase of conjugal life - two persons living together, as master and mistress of the house, (and father and mother of a child we plan to adopt,) with the mutual understanding that trust, loyalty, respect to this commitment shall at all times prevail, and the unwritten agreement that we agree to disagree! This is MU in my case AMS. [/FONT]

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im_stacy
(Stacy Gielen) 113F

2795 posts
2/10/2010 5:15 pm

[font face=script mt bold] Erma is beautiful and her being sweet & charming makes her beauty glow, LUCKY Kenan! In fairness, Kenan is good looking too. Together they make a handsome twosome ... their love is so obvious, can't help having that kilig feeling when I look at them. [/FONT]

When I

low my friends et al give me energy.

2/10/2010 9:16 pm

Mandy and I has an ongoing experience of this new phase of conjugal life - two persons living together, as master and mistress of the house, (and father and mother of a child we plan to adopt,) with the mutual understanding that trust, loyalty, respect to this commitment shall at all times prevail, and the unwritten agreement that we agree to disagree! This is MU in my case AMS.

And I know, just how committed you both are to one another...Much more than words and LOVE can say....
Just call me ELZ

2/10/2010 9:18 pm

Erma is beautiful and her being sweet & charming makes her beauty glow, LUCKY Kenan! In fairness, Kenan is good looking too. Together they make a handsome twosome ... their love is so obvious, can't help having that kilig feeling when I look at them.

ehem! Kanino kaya nagmana si Erma?
Just call me ELZ

frozenflower3 64F

2/11/2010 1:33 am

Elz,

Good morning!!! I keep forgeting to Congratulate Erna and Kenan. Your neice is so beautiful. Her smile so genuine and sweet. That glow of love pouring out from within. I would totally dump all the MU,RR,PR,Role Reversal, and friends with benefits to have this true love for always. Love is the key to every thing. When God finally grants that wish...

Have a lovely day!!! God bless everyone!!!

2/11/2010 2:02 pm

Let's have a wonderful Valentine's Day Tess, even if we have no partners..

Just call me ELZ

alvin84 39M

910 posts
2/11/2010 10:15 pm

I have great admiration for women who is in full control of herself during the courtship stage. In such a way as she has a way of making me feel she likes me but refusing to make any moves (other than responding to mine) because it isn't proper to do so.

2/12/2010 3:00 am

Love is always felt with or without reciprocation...No one can stop it, it is just there...thanks for posting.
Just call me ELZ

2/12/2010 3:02 am

I have great admiration for women who is in full control of herself during the courtship stage. In such a way as she has a way of making me feel she likes me but refusing to make any moves (other than responding to mine) because it isn't proper to do so.

I am glad I am not alone in my conservative thinking that women need to be wooed, to be chased, to be loved, and to be respected...Thanks a lot, ALvin!
Just call me ELZ

2/13/2010 11:18 am

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frozenflower3 64F

2/13/2010 2:38 pm

Let's have a wonderful Valentine's Day Tess, even if we have no partners..

Elz,

I'm trying but all this senti feelings making me cry. Who wouldn't wish to get a gift of flowers and chocolates and be embraced by the man she loves. Even on this special one day. I would die for it...

Hope you make it best for you, Elz. God truly loves YOU!!!

2/14/2010 2:33 am

Happy Heart's Day Jeanny!

Just call me ELZ

2/14/2010 2:35 am

Don't be sad Tess...What's important is that WE are surrounded by people who loves us just the same...friends and relatives, that is... and most of all, GOD...

Just call me ELZ

2/16/2010 7:32 am

Sorry for the late response, my dear...I've been very busy..

Just call me ELZ

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