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eb1209
23211 posts
1/9/2010 6:52 am
The FFF World Of Avatars



..."Love is a many splendoured thing"...It defies all kinds of barriers, it crosses all types of borders, and it sees beyond what is unknown...~~~eb1209~~~

...After watching the movie, "The Avatar", both in regular and in 3D version, I was inspired to blog about how members of FFF are considered "Avatars" themselves, and how most are living in this imaginary world of love, and friendships which have impacted most of our lives here in the vast cyberspace. And although quite a few have taken the steps to elevate the relationships into their real lives, the majority are still in their more acceptable world of fantasy where each one can fulfill whatever it is that cannot be done in real life...

...People fall in love by just chatting, by just exchanging group posts, by seeing the small pictures in the square box, or even by the "shadows" and silhouettes...It is no longer a surprise that people fall for someone without knowing their real names, their status, and their physical addresses (and that includes those who've met a couple of times in person as well)...I guess, because it is a common practice that it's "okay", and for as long as it makes one happy, nothing else matters...

...I am not saying that I have not had a "special connection" with an AVATAR, but I would prefer to be with someone who does not hide anything about himself...My admiration to my small circle of friends who have shared with me "everything" I needed to prove that they are REAL...


Just call me ELZ


frozenflower3 64F

1/9/2010 10:24 am

Elz,

Oh my guilty of falling in love just by chatting a couple of times. Still wishing to meet up one day. But, now real life seems to be the priority in my life now. Just to smell the roses and be still and love...

have a terrific weekend!!!


eb1209

1/9/2010 10:39 am

    Quoting frozenflower3:
    Elz,

    Oh my guilty of falling in love just by chatting a couple of times. Still wishing to meet up one day. But, now real life seems to be the priority in my life now. Just to smell the roses and be still and love...

    have a terrific weekend!!!
Tess, the psychology of falling for someone you've not seen nor even spoken to is that "inner" need to belong to someone...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 10:41 am

While some avatars are here just like hawks waiting for their preys, there are those also who are "married" in real life and are unhappy and they wish they can connect with someone who can fulfill their needs outside of their marriage...Someone who'll not ask for questions for as long as love is given and attention is being showered upon..Do you know of these people?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 10:43 am

Some avatars are waiting to "heal" their wounds, and hoping that someone will make that process faster for them...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 10:44 am

....And others are here just for fun and killing time...However, someone gets hurt in the process....

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 10:46 am

...Beware of those avatars who won't give their real names and addresses after having a relationship with you...More than likely, the person is very much married...or attached..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 10:53 am

    Quoting  :

Jeff, I think, what you mean is parang ganyan ang "hair" mo ngayon...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 1:25 pm

Thanks, Antonio..You have not changed a bit...You still read my posts differently...What seems to be addressed to "some" or "others", you generalize as ALL..Not the way I worded them, pls. so please, do not put words into my mouth, err, writing.. and do not distort what is being written.. You are thinking way, too "judgemental", yourself..You have not experienced what I have and other women have experienced here...Unless, you want to put a female picture in your profile and change your gender, then, you'll know what I mean...But, it's good to hear that you continue to find your TRUE love...awesome!......Remember that you can only be the true judge for your own serendipity...It's your life, and therefore, your call!...no one else's..Best of everything to you...You deserve someone just the way you want her to be...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 1:29 pm

    Quoting  :

And by the way, it's good to know also that she finally FOUND YOU!..and that you are now allowing yourself to be vulnerable...No thanks...Been there, done that...It works for you, so let it be...You have nothing to lose, but something to gain...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 1:32 pm

But by the way, my interpretation of one TRUE LOVE is not something that has not passed the test of times...oh well, I guess, for someone who is in love...everything is TRUE...just being technically but not politically correct here...

Just call me ELZ


jean_1000 47F

1/9/2010 2:25 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    ...Beware of those avatars who won't give their real names and addresses after having a relationship with you...More than likely, the person is very much married...or attached..
never give my whole name.unless he ask me to mary him..

love is the greatest gift of all


eb1209

1/9/2010 3:11 pm

    Quoting jean_1000:
    never give my whole name.unless he ask me to mary him..
Hi Jeanny! ..May I ask you if it's okay with you to be in a romantic relationship with someone even if you don't know his real name, his address and other pertinent information about him? ..Sheeesssshh! I really belong to the old school..

Just call me ELZ


jean_1000 47F

1/9/2010 5:34 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hi Jeanny! ..May I ask you if it's okay with you to be in a romantic relationship with someone even if you don't know his real name, his address and other pertinent information about him? ..Sheeesssshh! I really belong to the old school..
elz its not smart to tell your real name and address from a person that you know in cyber space...unless you know the person so well in person...

love is the greatest gift of all


eb1209

1/9/2010 6:22 pm

    Quoting jean_1000:
    elz its not smart to tell your real name and address from a person that you know in cyber space...unless you know the person so well in person...
Again, my question is...will you be in a romantic relationship without knowing the person's real name, address and other important information about the guy?...In the same manner that you won't tell yours either?...YES or NO?...Thank you!


Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/9/2010 6:28 pm

    Quoting  :

Jane, I thank you for being with me on this one...I've been a member of FFF for almost 5 years now, and I tell you, whoever I met in person are the most real...They've nothing to hide, and so..Kudos to ALL of them!..and for a MAN to take time out to meet with the love of his life and take the relationships to the utmost level, is a double kudos......I've heard and read so much lies already, Jane, and I can tell the truth from the lies...circumstances will tell...


Just call me ELZ


pinoylover1 74M
1152 posts
1/9/2010 8:14 pm

Elz...we are real in person...dont forget m a manther

manny


jean_1000 47F

1/9/2010 9:23 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Again, my question is...will you be in a romantic relationship without knowing the person's real name, address and other important information about the guy?...In the same manner that you won't tell yours either?...YES or NO?...Thank you!

yes...LDR no touch just sweet words.....i'll be a lier if i say no for i have ex bf here...

love is the greatest gift of all


smiley1957 66F

1/9/2010 10:25 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    But by the way, my interpretation of one TRUE LOVE is not something that has not passed the test of times...oh well, I guess, for someone who is in love...everything is TRUE...just being technically but not politically correct here...


it is actually called..."hallucination"...



smiley1957 66F

1/9/2010 10:34 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hi Jeanny! ..May I ask you if it's okay with you to be in a romantic relationship with someone even if you don't know his real name, his address and other pertinent information about him? ..Sheeesssshh! I really belong to the old school..

that is possible if ur an avatar urself
but in real...it's BS to say that ur in love with someone u haven't met ...touch...hold...kiss
though...there are some very rare cases...say like
.... those chatting for almost over a year...and not a month

and / or... those who are really desperately looking so gotta be positively thinking...good at drawing perspective

well..this is my opinion...kiss me dahlin'!




smiley1957 66F

1/9/2010 10:39 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Again, my question is...will you be in a romantic relationship without knowing the person's real name, address and other important information about the guy?...In the same manner that you won't tell yours either?...YES or NO?...Thank you!


again, like i said... i need to be an avatar to do that and continuously be in cyberfantasy land
not knowing anything about the person?
and i won't tell anything about me too?

well...that's the game avatars and real people play...so!
enjoy the fun! fun! fun!




smiley1957 66F

1/9/2010 10:45 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Jane, I thank you for being with me on this one...I've been a member of FFF for almost 5 years now, and I tell you, whoever I met in person are the most real...They've nothing to hide, and so..Kudos to ALL of them!..and for a MAN to take time out to meet with the love of his life and take the relationships to the utmost level, is a double kudos......I've heard and read so much lies already, Jane, and I can tell the truth from the lies...circumstances will tell...


els dahlin' i keep on quoting even if it's not for me

i agree that there is nothing better than meeting with the eyes...at least, u met the person behind the handles and love handles
yes kudos to all of them
and soon am hoping...someone will get a double kudos
if it didn't happen...will give him kutos!




smiley1957 66F

1/9/2010 10:57 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    And by the way, it's good to know also that she finally FOUND YOU!..and that you are now allowing yourself to be vulnerable...No thanks...Been there, done that...It works for you, so let it be...You have nothing to lose, but something to gain...


elz dahlin'
who knows what's in store?...no one does!
so all u gotta do is draw a neat picture, out of hope


then...wait and see!



eb1209

1/10/2010 2:15 am

    Quoting pinoylover1:
    Elz...we are real in person...dont forget m a manther

    manny
Manny, Happy New Look!...I know, we've met in person, and thank you for joining us in our SFO EB...and I know too, that you met with your love(s) in person...So, you're not an AVATAR...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/10/2010 2:19 am

    Quoting jean_1000:
    yes...LDR no touch just sweet words.....i'll be a lier if i say no for i have ex bf here...
A confession from a guilty avatar!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/10/2010 2:25 am

    Quoting smiley1957:


    it is actually called..."hallucination"...

It can be that or delusion (something that is falsely or delusively believed or propagated, a persistent false psychotic belief regarding the self or persons or objects outside the self that is maintained despite indisputable evidence to the contrary).....Yeah, and it had to happen about a week after attacking me when I blogged about my EX...

Just call me ELZ