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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
11/2/2009 2:53 am
He Dumped You, "She" Dumped Him---An Open Letter


Not too long ago, you two met. Eye to eye,hand in hand, heart to heart, so close, you wished it will never end. But one day, he just disappeared, without a word, shut you off, and you wondered what you did wrong? Your world tumbled, your dreams shattered, and your heart was badly broken...He was just roaming around like a butterfly and ended in another garden and found a "Yellow Rose" for himself. "SHE" heard about you, and "her" meaningful friends warned her about him and apparently what he "did" to you. "She" was vigilant, using all her senses, but she played well with the "show". She knew all along that you kept yourself abreast with what was going on by reading their exchange of posts. And boy! did it hurt! "She" didn't mean to hurt you. There was not even a rivalry since you and him are no longer an item..Yes! he was all over "her" and for the world to know. It's ironic how he seemed to be smitten by her wits and the challenges she kept throwing at him, but it wasn't a mere playing hard to get, you know. She was using her head all the while, although at times, she thought: " What the heck! " Why NOT? But then again, "she" did something you probably DIDN'T do....BACKGROUND CHECK!...It wasn't all about paranoia...It was more of putting the jigsaw puzzles altogether...And she did what she had to do... " DUMP HIM! " Pls. don't get me wrong.He isn't that BAD after all, and you know that. He's just an unhappy soul, and even if he took pride in claiming "trophies" left and right (you're one of them), he is still one, unhappy, discontented soul who wished he could get away with the mess he's into. Yes, his life is in a MESS..But, I've got good news for you...He's trying to FIX it...
What I'm trying to say to you is that it wasn't all that bad between you and him. I bet, if he didn't dump you, no matter how imperfect he is, you're still with him. Admit it, he also made you HAPPY.....But don't feel bad. You're too precious, goodlooking, educated, talented, kind, and loving. GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE!..."Kiss" his memories goodbye. Somebody deserves you more like you deserve someone worthy of your wholebeing...Just like "her" ....BTW, "she" wishes you ALL THE BEST!

Do you know "her" ?
Just call me ELZ


smiley1957 66F

11/2/2009 5:42 am

 well...what can i say?
another case of...

"what goes around...comes around"

and...

the golden rule...and karma...and...
"kung di ukol...di bubukol" in a way
and surely, there will always someone who's gonna be hurt in the process

hayyzzzz!!!



frozenflower3 64F

11/2/2009 7:22 am

 Elz, sad naman eto... darn my return button won't work!!! Well, truly believe in that motto "if it wasn't for you..." anyways hope everyone is happy. No need to be sad. Life is what we make it. don't give your power away or permission to make you sad and hurting. I've learn the lesson though too late in life, but still it's good to learn from every heartache... God heals everyone


jean_1000 47F

11/2/2009 8:28 am

 good thing no body dump me yet
love is the greatest gift of all


eb1209

11/2/2009 6:01 pm
    Quoting smiley1957:
    well...what can i say?
    another case of...

    "what goes around...comes around"

    and...

    the golden rule...and karma...and...
    "kung di ukol...di bubukol" in a way
    and surely, there will always someone who's gonna be hurt in the process

    hayyzzzz!!!

Smiley, my dear...Indeed, don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you......In the game of love, it's not going to be a bed of "roses" all the time...someone, somehow, surely, is going to get hurt...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 6:05 pm
    Quoting frozenflower3:
    Elz, sad naman eto... darn my return button won't work!!! Well, truly believe in that motto "if it wasn't for you..." anyways hope everyone is happy. No need to be sad. Life is what we make it. don't give your power away or permission to make you sad and hurting. I've learn the lesson though too late in life, but still it's good to learn from every heartache... God heals everyone
Tess, sweetie, I understand what you're trying to imply...AT times, things happen because either we learn from it, or like the old cliche` "They were not meant to be"
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 6:06 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    Tess, sweetie, I understand what you're trying to imply...AT times, things happen because either we learn from it, or like the old cliche` "They were not meant to be"
Learn from them...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 6:07 pm
    Quoting  :
Oh, sure! Jeffrey......Do I still see the "warning signs" written on your forehead?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 6:08 pm
    Quoting jean_1000:
    good thing no body dump me yet
Good for you, sweet, Jeanny!...But it's something you wouldn't want to happen to you, girl!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 6:09 pm
    Quoting  :
And may I ask, How do you fade away, Antonio?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 6:10 pm
    Quoting  :
Joyce, you're NOT only lovely, but very, very smart!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 8:17 pm
    Quoting  :
Huh? Sweet Yanie...I think quite a few women here at FFF can relate to this story, uhhh?
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 8:18 pm
    Quoting  :
I read your proddings, Antonio...In a bit...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 8:19 pm
    Quoting  :
Ohhhh! Lah!lah!...We need to sharpen our brains here...Gosh! I'm surrounded by intelligent peeps...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 8:21 pm
    Quoting  :
Hehehehe...Okay ka rin, Bhabes ha? All the clues are "inset"...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/2/2009 8:22 pm
    Quoting  :
At least, uh" Huh? Huh? lang...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/3/2009 7:21 pm
    Quoting  :
Trish! napag-iwanan na kayo ni SAM ng panahon...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/3/2009 7:22 pm
    Quoting  :
Come close, Trish...Ibubulong ko sayo...
Just call me ELZ


im_stacy
(Stacy Gielen) 113F
2795 posts
11/4/2009 9:27 am
Here's a piece of advice, for those afflicted with "dumping syndrome" eat small frequent meals at regular intervals. Bottomline, I don't have any idea about who she is, so to make a long story short, I think I'll just ask kiddie sis!




When I low my friends et al give me energy.


eb1209

11/4/2009 11:48 am
    Quoting  :
Roxy Baby, you are correct!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/4/2009 11:51 am
    Quoting im_stacy:
    Here's a piece of advice, for those afflicted with "dumping syndrome" eat small frequent meals at regular intervals. Bottomline, I don't have any idea about who she is, so to make a long story short, I think I'll just ask kiddie sis!
Stacy, that's the best decision you can do...
Just call me ELZ


shery1 40F
768 posts
11/4/2009 11:07 pm
    Quoting im_stacy:
    Here's a piece of advice, for those afflicted with "dumping syndrome" eat small frequent meals at regular intervals. Bottomline, I don't have any idea about who she is, so to make a long story short, I think I'll just ask kiddie sis!
Then, please pass it on to me!


Love your haters, they're your biggest fan!


eb1209

11/5/2009 2:40 am
    Quoting shery1:
    Then, please pass it on to me!

I guess, HVPians are entitled to know, since the FEELers are up to date...
Just call me ELZ


im_stacy
(Stacy Gielen) 113F
2795 posts
11/5/2009 6:28 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    Stacy, that's the best decision you can do...
but where is kiddie sis

When I low my friends et al give me energy.


im_stacy
(Stacy Gielen) 113F
2795 posts
11/5/2009 6:34 am
    Quoting shery1:
    Then, please pass it on to me!

I will soon as I find her!


When I low my friends et al give me energy.


ilocospride
(albert ) 59M
Ask me for a photo

11/5/2009 6:50 am

 sometimes its hard to tell d whole truth,Whose tellin d truth and lies,But whatever happened to this lonely soul,Let them finish their unfinished bizniz and let them buried there past.
We have no ryt to judged to know every detail of every person love affair,U never know d whole truth,Let the case rest,Whatever path they may take right now,Am sure each of them are quite happy and the memories will stay forever n their heart.
This is just my thought..




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