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Why Do People Attend EB (Eye Ball)?  (Eye Ball) EB: What's the real motive(s) for holding it? In all honesty, the reason why I attend EB's is for me to see and get to know the real people behind those "boxed" pictures that I see everytime I log on to FFF. I also have no special preference, be it more of women than men or vice-versa...I just know I have this urge to meet them as friends, of course, after a long period of "cyber-bonding" . Maybe, I'm still naive about this EB thingie you know, because NOW, I know for a fact that quite a few people attend this gathering in the hope to find someone to hook up with it, whatever the intentions are (pure or with hidden agenda). I had just concluded a very successful Eye Ball in San Francisco, California, and Lordie-Lordie!...Someone from FFF (not necessarily from my group, FEEL ) , was actually very "disappointed" and maybe,I can tell why...  ...Is it because for every penny that person spent is considered a "form of investment" that needs to have a surmountable return? or is it because that person thinks that at last, s/he will get hooked up and finally the "realization" of that elusive dream will finally come true? (Ano siya? Sinuswerte? )...  ...Ahhhh! Me and my Big mouth, err, my being so "blunt". ..I just had to write this one...For me, no matter how a person tries to overcome his/her "bad" natural tendencies, they'll show up just as quick as soon as that person counts the losses s/he incurred....What can I say?...Up to this very minute, I trust my same old "instinct"...It never fails me... Just call me ELZ  |
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as long as they don't consider u the reason of their loss, there is no harm in it, Elz! 
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10/30/2009 7:13 pm |
Elz, Tignan mo sila ni Antonio and Jeff. Smiling really wide!!!! Very happy sila and lucky to be with you!!! 
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elz it's a great pleasure to meet you in person and other members too...we are no longer ghost lol manny 
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10/30/2009 9:34 pm |
as long as they don't consider u the reason of their loss, there is no harm in it, Elz! Just call me ELZ
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10/30/2009 9:37 pm |
Elz, Tignan mo sila ni Antonio and Jeff. Smiling really wide!!!! Very happy sila and lucky to be with you!!! Just call me ELZ
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10/30/2009 9:43 pm |
Oh! thank you for this, Joyce! ...I know that in RP, you've attended several EB's and that each of them, you've truly bonded with friends as well...And you are right..A group EB is one way of bonding with inet friends, and there is nothing wrong to assume that people hope to be matched with that special someone they like or being teased with...But if members dish money out or spend either to "impress" or for the purpose of getting hooked up with, and in the end fails...that person has no reason for sour graping... Just call me ELZ
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10/30/2009 9:44 pm |
elz it's a great pleasure to meet you in person and other members too...we are no longer ghost lol manny Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 3:41 am |
SOUR GRAPING?...hehehehhehe...While YOU ARE WAITING TO BE FOUND...I'd rather be lost.......Si Antonio talaga oo... Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 3:43 am |
According to Antonio...Suit yourself! ...it's some event you'd rather miss or hit.. Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 3:48 am |
Really, Antonio? you were "disappointed because it was too short a time? "... Oh, come on! Do I read that you have a "list" of your expenses here? And why do you sound defensive?  Ang sabi nila, ang isda raw ay nahuhuli sa bibig......What I know is that nahuhuli din sila sa pamamagitan ng dinamita.....Pasabugan ba! Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 3:50 am |
EB or NOT, I travel a lot..period! Just call me ELZ
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I like having EBs, every EB is magical considering how people become friends first before that personal encounter ... no words can express the ultimate delight in meeting people with whom we have grown to like and develop a special closeness & kindred spirit! In my case before I agree to an EB I should 'FeeL GOOD' about the person, if my instincts say otherwise I wouldn't give it a thought at all! When I  low my friends et al give me energy.
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10/31/2009 6:16 am |
I like having EBs, every EB is magical considering how people become friends first before that personal encounter ... no words can express the ultimate delight in meeting people with whom we have grown to like and develop a special closeness & kindred spirit! In my case before I agree to an EB I should 'FeeL GOOD' about the person, if my instincts say otherwise I wouldn't give it a thought at all! Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 9:00 am |
Are all your EB's in your archives? Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 9:02 am |
Jeff, I think, it's about time someone "cooks" for you... Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 10:15 am |
hmmmm...guess i am late here hmmm...hmmm...hmmm... look at the picture elz is like...iskerd  is she reciting ..."noli me tangere?" ok...will behave now  EB to me is a very nice and memorable and enjoyable experience  ...it feels good to meet in real, the people behind those handles ...though, not all the people u met will become ur good friends...but then, still u increase ur number of friends in the long run...u will meet different kind of people with different agenda, that is true ...i met lots of women chatters...and some men too who are already,either sweethearts or hubbies of the women chatters ...nice!...and...elz, that one u mentioned about treating the EB as investment??? MY guess is as good as MINE  , all mine ...that is also true, saw that happened here and he's pinoy  (from there too! )...now i wonder, why are SOME pinoy act like that...mayayabang ! ...bragging about what he paid for the food DUH! as if we can't buy ourselves food??? here when we have EBs, it's automatically DUTCH treat...so no problem...then there will be these mayabangs, showing off and then after that will tsismis what and how much etc etc etc he spend? ...but u know, that's only one of the glitches of the EBs...most of the time it's fun, fun, fun bcoz we EB people who are really really are acquainted with us...the likes of pinoylover, and many more which i am not gonna squeal here  ...yes, we've met manny and he's cool...and harmless  (maybe bcoz he's taken )...that's one more good thing, to meet a guy who is taken is better than meeting a guy who is looking ...but then again, am not being picky toinkz!!!there are guys naman who are real gentleman (even if they are on a looking mode) ...and i admire them for not being a...kiss and tell re: how much he spend, this..and that...bla bla bla... DUH!!!and that is...after he volunteered??? naku! elz darling, ang haba ng story ko punta cemetery tom tulugan na   
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10/31/2009 10:28 am |
Do I care? Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 10:48 am |
for me is so fun to go out once a year love is the greatest gift of all 
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10/31/2009 10:49 am |
and i don't spend money all food and drinks are free thanks ELZ good thing your rich love is the greatest gift of all
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10/31/2009 10:59 am |
Hola, Trish! ..How nice of you to come and visit my blogs, despite your very hectic skeds...I'd love to see you too! someday...I have a friend who lives in Victoria, Australia...Hey! you never know... Happy Halloween to you and Sam, Trish!  Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 11:01 am |
Typical gemini, Trish...He contradicts himself, his thoughts and his words...not knowing people are keeping track of what he writes, and also keeping track of what he does....Peace Mr. YL!  Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 11:02 am |
for me is so fun to go out once a year ...Once a year...dadami ang AMAG natin niyan, Jeanny..Just call me ELZ
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10/31/2009 7:58 pm |
hmmmm hmmm hmmm where have my comment gone??? ... with the wind??? replying (once again):  elz darling ... again, ur picture here paints a thousand wordsss ...seems like u are iskerd ...or just like ur reciting "noli me tangere" ...translation: "touch me not!" ok....will behave now EB is a nice, memorable and enjoyable experience to me ...it feels good to know and meet these people behind their handles ...though not all the time they can be ur real good friends, but nice to increase ur friends in the long run i met many already and mostly are women...while some men i met are either with their sweethearts or their hubbies ...and some are taken, the likes of pinoylover (manny) ...i attended big and small EBs (before), they were all fun and wacky ...though once in a while there are glitches like what u mentioned, re: people who look at it like investments...what a jerk! ...no wonder they will end up in the "kangkungan" beating themselves ...i believe EBs are supposed to be enjoyed then leave 'em smiling here, it's automatically a dutch treat when u go to EBs...so no problem ...i experienced once, i was invited, after that i was told i enjoyed "libre" meal...DUH?!?! as if i can't buy myself one ...and take note, he's pinoy from there ...me thinks SOME pinoy there are really airheads...a show off  and one big proof is here lurking yah know ...and i guess the reason why they act like that???...they are bitter coz they were able to have the cake but failed to eat it so anyways, EBs are fun, fun, fun overall ...u can meet different people from all walks of life...with different agendas ...good thing is that u can practice ur communication arts dealings ...and of kors, be careful one thing i must say, EB or not...JUST BE URSELF
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Hi AMS, I had to know and I had to see something. Re EB's it is hard to convince a lady a one on one EB, but if I'm really interested I would agree if she comes with a chaperone. If she insists on bringing the whole tropa with her, sorry but I have to decline or they either agree to go KKB or treat me instead! 
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