Boy Toys, Lolitas, Cougars and Manthers
| ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
|
 In this world where everyone NEEDs someone and something to boost their ailing egos, different types of relationships are being sought after and developed. But at times, things really happen because of LOVE...  Do we really have to explain why there are Boy toys, Lolitas, Cougars, and Manthers? Will someone have the courage to come out and testify that YES, it's perfectly fine to fall in love with someone not your age group? What does age disparity has to do with relationships? And why is it that during earlier times, it appeared one-sided, meaning, it was OKAY for older men to have relationships with younger women, while it seemed a "taboo" for older women to even consider younger men? Well, I've got good news for you, in this generation...NOT ANYMORE! LEGEND: Boy toy -a much younger boyfriend or husband of an older woman. In male-male relationships, a toy boy (sometimes toy boy) characterizes the one who is (and usually enjoys being) used for sexual gratification. Lolita - a sexually precocious girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man. Cougar - a woman over 40 who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior. Manther - the male version of a cougar.     
|
||
10/26/2009 11:59 pm |
hhhmmmmm....quite an interesting topic you have here Elz...  I am excitedly waiting for responses from your regular readers.  I do agree with you... In this generation, that isnt a big deal anymore...     
| ||
10/27/2009 2:00 am |
Elz...as the old saying goes..."old carabao eats young grass
| ||
10/27/2009 2:22 am |
yep! equality reigns! voila!!!lolz! if men can do it? we can do it...better!  but wait  ...i am just not into this  a boy toy???  ...geeez! then it feels like...am making the deed with my...sons??? that's an eeeoooww!!!( well this is my opinion...my apology to cougars! lolz)a lolita???  ...i can be (halfly) that! am a sexually MATURED WOMAN (not precocious ) who is the object of desire of respectable older men ...including the sicko seniles  cougar??? ...there's the other half of lolita  ...am a woman over 40...ay 50 pala! ...but i don't want to pursue younger men...never...am tired of babysitting ...been there, done that with my kids  manther???...yes!it's already happening from adam  ...but i know poor someone who can't be that  ...so he just stay on dreaming and talking to his hand and to add to these: LOLAS...the soulmates of the lolos HHWW=holding hands while walking anywhere they go....enjoying their retirement years doing things happily together ...i will soon join this group btw why is my ex-bf ashton's pic is here??/   i'm like a bird!
| ||
 10/27/2009 4:30 am |
hhhmmmmm....quite an interesting topic you have here Elz... I am excitedly waiting for responses from your regular readers. I do agree with you... In this generation, that isnt a big deal anymore... (Well, actually, still at this time) Not that we asked for it to happen...
| ||
10/27/2009 4:34 am |
Elz...as the old saying goes..."old carabao eats young grass ...You're so funny, but it is so dammnnnnn TRUE! ...But what about those who truly fall in love with each other?
| ||
10/27/2009 4:47 am |
Hahahahaha ...Smiley, my love....calm down...You are not going to be a COUGAR, What I'm saying is that I'm sure, you cannot stop YOUNGER men to pursue you or haven't they? (as if it never happened to you ha? )....Yeah, I know what you mean when you say that it's like incest (as if they're your SONS)...But the good news is...YOU ARE NOT RELATED IN BLOOD.....And you say, you can be a LOLITA, right? So that means, you can do "it" with your FATHER?...Ngeeeeeekkk! that is even worse!...Yuck!....
| ||
10/27/2009 4:57 am |
But seriously speaking, and no offense to those who may have the same fate or who are truly in a well meaning and experiencing true love with a COUGAR, a LOLITA, a BOY TOY or a MANTHER...Maybe in the Philippine society, there is still much stigma to this "unconventional" love or whatever affairs, but for as long as it is consensual and not being done by force...I'd say..GO FOR IT!
| ||
10/27/2009 5:03 am |
BTW, Smiley, sweetie...Your EX-BF Ashton and Demi are camouflaged by their huge sunglasses... and maybe for this reason, FFF does not advertise this blog...As a matter of fact, this was not approved for about 10 long hours...What's with that? I've read some really profane and obscene blogs, but...they were approved...Duhhhh
| ||
10/27/2009 5:09 am |
And speaking from my personal experience...The very first person from FFF who visited me here in McAllen, TX was a "special" friend from Hawaii, who was 12 years my junior...and hey!...It's just one of those things..err, it was an MU, platonic, kinda relationship, but was very special...I did have qualms pursuing it and one of the reasons was that he was very young and ....but guess what? He ended up marrying someone who is also a lot older than him...What the "__"...Whatever!
| ||
10/27/2009 5:35 am |
i dont think it's really the age that matters, but the level of maturity... if they're both on the same level, then it's okay. if not, that's trouble for both of you
| ||
10/27/2009 6:42 am |
i dont think it's really the age that matters, but the level of maturity... if they're both on the same level, then it's okay. if not, that's trouble for both of you
| ||
10/27/2009 8:43 am |
i like younger man...
| ||
10/27/2009 9:37 am |
elz we are now in the era where age factor is no longer a big concern or taboo when it comes to choosing our patner in crime...the most important factor is how we can accepts each others imperfection on a daily basis...if an older men can do it...the older women can do it as well...
| ||
10/27/2009 9:43 am |
what do you call a guy who goes for both ends of the age spectrum JUZ LET IT RIP...
| ||
10/27/2009 9:45 am |
maniac?JUZ LET IT RIP...
| ||
10/27/2009 10:35 am |
Been there, done that, been one(Boy toy) , but have to admit she may have been the one that got away , nasaan na sya . Oh well lifes goes on!!!!
| ||
10/27/2009 11:56 am |
i like younger man...
| ||
10/27/2009 12:47 pm |
what do you call a guy who goes for both ends of the age spectrum   
| ||
10/27/2009 12:48 pm |
Pumas are trainee cougars in their 30's.
| ||
10/27/2009 12:50 pm |
so boy toy only if a woman older than man? i only have 3 bf and 2 are younger than me and i ended to my hubsy, his 6 years older than me... good thing his older than me... wow a husband and 3 bf, playahhhh!! u go gurl . Does your hubby know u got 3 bfs
| ||
10/27/2009 12:59 pm |
your communicative skills never cease to amaze me, never know what your going to come up with , but when u do its always well defined, direct and deliberate...ya never leave your audience hanging or wondering where your coming from, reminds me of some of my X GFs in NYC...lol as an X teacher (military instructor) i appreciate the good writing comm skills u always seem to deliver...i know its no accident, wonder if the public speaking delivery holds up to that same level..im sure it does.. anyway as for the blog content, ill just say im never the one to define or interpret what excites anyone at any one moment in ones life, just go for it...but i do appreciate your definitions, they made me feel so uneducated...your legend was a great training tool.. keep up the good work ELZ..
| ||
10/27/2009 6:12 pm |
i like younger man...
| ||
10/27/2009 6:15 pm |
They (younger men) Like me...
| ||
10/27/2009 6:17 pm |
what do you call a guy who goes for both ends of the age spectrum
| ||
10/27/2009 6:27 pm |
maniac? 
| ||
10/27/2009 6:28 pm |
elz we are now in the era where age factor is no longer a big concern or taboo when it comes to choosing our patner in crime...the most important factor is how we can accepts each others imperfection on a daily basis...if an older men can do it...the older women can do it as well... By the way, why do most men posting on this blog wear dark glasses?
| ||
10/27/2009 6:30 pm |
Been there, done that, been one(Boy toy) , but have to admit she may have been the one that got away , nasaan na sya . Oh well lifes goes on!!!! ..hey! I don't blame you...
| ||
10/27/2009 6:31 pm |
so boy toy only if a woman older than man? i only have 3 bf and 2 are younger than me and i ended to my hubsy, his 6 years older than me... good thing his older than me...
| ||
10/27/2009 6:32 pm |
I thought about this subject this month. After I wildly guessed a guy I know is going out with a woman older than him. Before, his ex gfs were much younger than him.
| ||
10/27/2009 6:34 pm |
Pumas are trainee cougars in their 30's.
| ||
10/27/2009 6:36 pm |
wow a husband and 3 bf, playahhhh!! u go gurl . Does your hubby know u got 3 bfs
| ||
10/27/2009 6:38 pm |
your communicative skills never cease to amaze me, never know what your going to come up with , but when u do its always well defined, direct and deliberate...ya never leave your audience hanging or wondering where your coming from, reminds me of some of my X GFs in NYC...lol as an X teacher (military instructor) i appreciate the good writing comm skills u always seem to deliver...i know its no accident, wonder if the public speaking delivery holds up to that same level..im sure it does.. anyway as for the blog content, ill just say im never the one to define or interpret what excites anyone at any one moment in ones life, just go for it...but i do appreciate your definitions, they made me feel so uneducated...your legend was a great training tool.. keep up the good work ELZ.. Errr,You had GF's in NYC? hehehe...You guys, amaze me! Again, one at a time, I suppose?...
| ||
10/28/2009 8:18 am |
Do you personally "abhor" this idea, Janey? However, I don't agree with adults going out with minors, eg. teens who are still in school. This happens too.
| ||
10/28/2009 12:38 pm |
Joyce, I think you can relate to this..When younger men tried to pursue "us" before... (Well, actually, still at this time) Not that we asked for it to happen...not that we asked for them to pursue us... The hard part about older women (cougars) with younger men - women mature faster na nga than men (we often read about this ), tapos way behind in age pa ang guy, whooaaa.. that speaks trouble.. but, thats just my opinion too. Sometimes, others get lucky in this situation and they choose to compromise.. wherever one is happy, and as long as they can remain happy, no worries I guess..
| ||
10/28/2009 12:43 pm |
Not when both are adults pass their teens. I'm still getting used to the idea of relationships with a huge age gap, because myself and couples I know very well have had and has relationships with partners about the same age or a few years difference between them, but not a huge gap. However, I don't agree with adults going out with minors, eg. teens who are still in school. This happens too. when I get to read news about teachers having relationships with their teen students... I mean, thats way off... its like the teachers, driven by their urge or whatever, play on the younger person's curiosity for you-know-what, and they allow for things that are not suppose to happen, happen... 
| ||
10/28/2009 5:40 pm |
wow a husband and 3 bf, playahhhh!! u go gurl . Does your hubby know u got 3 bfs ...my 2 exbf i mean are in the phil. before i got married...
| ||
10/28/2009 5:45 pm |
Cali, maybe, she meant, a total of 3 BF's (one at a time, I hope) before she married him... one at a time ...and take that back 4 if i count 1 here at fff but i never meet him so what do you think elz? is he counted?
| ||
10/28/2009 5:53 pm |
<<<<----she's an angel
| ||
10/28/2009 6:10 pm |
Not when both are adults pass their teens. I'm still getting used to the idea of relationships with a huge age gap, because myself and couples I know very well have had and has relationships with partners about the same age or a few years difference between them, but not a huge gap. However, I don't agree with adults going out with minors, eg. teens who are still in school. This happens too. 
| ||
10/28/2009 6:14 pm |
thats true Elz... not that we asked for them to pursue us... The hard part about older women (cougars) with younger men - women mature faster na nga than men (we often read about this ), tapos way behind in age pa ang guy, whooaaa.. that speaks trouble.. but, thats just my opinion too. Sometimes, others get lucky in this situation and they choose to compromise.. wherever one is happy, and as long as they can remain happy, no worries I guess..
| ||
10/28/2009 6:18 pm |
jane, that amazes me too.. when I get to read news about teachers having relationships with their teen students... I mean, thats way off... its like the teachers, driven by their urge or whatever, play on the younger person's curiosity for you-know-what, and they allow for things that are not suppose to happen, happen...
| ||
10/28/2009 6:19 pm |
his the 3rd ...my 2 exbf i mean are in the phil. before i got married... Getz ko!
| ||
10/28/2009 6:21 pm |
cali see? she knows what i mean one at a time ...and take that back 4 if i count 1 here at fff but i never meet him so what do you think elz? is he counted?
| ||
10/28/2009 6:22 pm |
<<<<----she's an angel 
| ||
10/28/2009 8:03 pm |
Hahahahaha ...Smiley, my love....calm down...You are not going to be a COUGAR, What I'm saying is that I'm sure, you cannot stop YOUNGER men to pursue you or haven't they? (as if it never happened to you ha? )....Yeah, I know what you mean when you say that it's like incest (as if they're your SONS)...But the good news is...YOU ARE NOT RELATED IN BLOOD.....And you say, you can be a LOLITA, right? So that means, you can do "it" with your FATHER?...Ngeeeeeekkk! that is even worse!...Yuck!....what can i say??? ...but i admit i miss my father ok...so i can be a LOLITA nyahahaha!!! at least my father is dead ...so i can prolly look for a father figure toinkz!...but not a son figure i'm like a bird!
| ||
10/28/2009 8:58 pm |
elz dear...truly in this world today, somebody needs somebody...someone needs someone...bla bla bla!age is a big deal to some...while NOT to others...but u know, to each his own ...wherever ur boat floats...so be it! i read a recent blog here that implies MONEY can't make u totally happy at all...a handle katkat27 am sure...actually am kinda sarcastic at her (sorry about that)...but i must understand we are only human, we commit mistakes so anyways...MONEY can't really buy us everything, i.e. happiness but of kors we need it on the average ...so i believe what we need is a different kind of insurance(that need no CASHOUT)...a plan...an emotional retirement plan....wherein u couple shd make time for each other and (the likes)...take trips and do things together....now there u go...shd u choose a younger one? same age bracket? older than u? what???ang hirap syeyt!!! and to think, women live longer than men , and men either die first or married to 20 year old women am i talking sense here??? i'm like a bird!
| ||
10/28/2009 10:17 pm |
elz darling... what can i say??? ...but i admit i miss my father ok...so i can be a LOLITA nyahahaha!!! at least my father is dead ...so i can prolly look for a father figure toinkz!...but not a son figure
| ||
10/28/2009 10:26 pm |
elz dear...truly in this world today, somebody needs somebody...someone needs someone...bla bla bla!age is a big deal to some...while NOT to others...but u know, to each his own ...wherever ur boat floats...so be it! i read a recent blog here that implies MONEY can't make u totally happy at all...a handle katkat27 am sure...actually am kinda sarcastic at her (sorry about that)...but i must understand we are only human, we commit mistakes so anyways...MONEY can't really buy us everything, i.e. happiness but of kors we need it on the average ...so i believe what we need is a different kind of insurance(that need no CASHOUT)...a plan...an emotional retirement plan....wherein u couple shd make time for each other and (the likes)...take trips and do things together....now there u go...shd u choose a younger one? same age bracket? older than u? what???ang hirap syeyt!!! and to think, women live longer than men , and men either die first or married to 20 year old women am i talking sense here??? ...Money cannot buy us everything, but Money can DO something......I can go, 5 years older, and maybe about 5 years younger...But, again, nevah say, NEVAH! ..And yes, you are making sense, mah dear! 
| ||
10/29/2009 10:00 am |
Oh thank you, James...Ehem! Errr,You had GF's in NYC? hehehe...You guys, amaze me! Again, one at a time, I suppose?... ..did'nt have them on in your blog so i figuured id wear them for ya here ...reference.. yur curiosity about men in dark sunglasses..how about some "good carma" for my Yankees ..they could use just a little for tonights game elz... James
| ||
10/29/2009 1:06 pm |
Jeanny, he maybe 6 years your senior, but is he acting his age? 
| ||
10/29/2009 1:09 pm |
You see? Getz ko! ....
| ||
10/29/2009 1:11 pm |
Count him in!
| ||
10/29/2009 1:14 pm |
Another angel >>>
| ||
10/29/2009 6:24 pm |
guess i went thru many back in my days in NYC, so yes "GF's" still stands but one at a time "most of the time"...lol ..did'nt have them on in your blog so i figuured id wear them for ya here ...reference.. yur curiosity about men in dark sunglasses..how about some "good carma" for my Yankees ..they could use just a little for tonights game elz... James
| ||
10/29/2009 6:25 pm |
elz i ended with a 6 years older than me.... but
| ||
10/29/2009 6:26 pm |
co'z i know your not only a beauty but brain too ....
| ||
10/29/2009 6:31 pm |
play girl ko pala i have 4
| ||
10/29/2009 6:32 pm |
i'm going to post our two pix... and my tittle is...ANGELS OF DARKNES
| ||
10/31/2009 12:31 pm |
Sounds like a HALLOWEEN TREAT...
| ||
11/2/2009 11:58 am |
elz m a manther lol...men who wears dark outfits are real men
| ||
11/2/2009 6:19 pm |
elz m a manther lol...men who wears dark outfits are real men
|
 |
 |
 |
| Become a member to comment on this blog | ||
 |
|
