Admit it!...He's Not Really Into You...
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 Ladies, I know the truth hurts, so please...QUIT fooling yourselves 'coz He's Not Really Into You...I know, if it was me, I can tell...  There are at least TEN (10) ways to tell, when a Man Is Not Really Into A Woman...Please read on...    
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 10/25/2009 12:28 pm |
He Doesn't Plan In Advance "If he's interested," warns Dr. Marshall, "there will be a future-mindedness to the relationship." This doesn't just apply to the long-term future. Obviously, if you haven't been dating for all that long, you're not going to talk about your plans for next year's Thanksgiving. But if he can't even book you a night next week, it's a problem. "Healthy relationships are always forward-moving," says Dr. Marshall. "Even if he's busy the next weekend, he will acknowledge his busyness and mention that he wants to see you at some point."
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10/25/2009 12:29 pm |
He Only Answers When He Doesn't Know It's You It may seem obvious--clearly, he’s avoiding your calls. You should never have to trick a man into picking up the phone. It's easy to make excuses. (He has to answer no-caller-ID calls; they could be from work), but the bottom line is, he should answer your calls because he wants to, not because he has to. Another red flag, says Dr. Marshall, "He only calls from restricted numbers. And because you don't know his last name, address, mother or best friend, you cannot call information and get his phone number."
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10/25/2009 12:30 pm |
He Forgot Your Birthday ... Three Years In A Row So three years is a little extreme; hopefully, by this point, you've realized things are not going to change. But whether it's your birthday, your anniversary, your Friday night dinner date, or simply picking up the dry-cleaning that he's forgetting, when it happens more that a few times, it's a real problem. He doesn't have the consideration to think of you when you're not there. And Dr. Marshall points out how this can take a toll on you: "Birthdays and anniversaries become painful reminders that time is racing by and nothing has changed."
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10/25/2009 12:32 pm |
Most Time Spent Together Is Between Midnight And Sunrise Just like most living things, a relationship needs to see the light of day. Only seeing you late at night means you're not a priority. He's spending "normal" hours with other people, and knows that he can simply give you a ring when he's done with them. Once this happens two or three times, it becomes routine, and it's a difficult pattern to break.
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10/25/2009 12:32 pm |
He Doesn't Mind If You "Date Other People" Of course, when you first start seeing each other, it is totally normal to date other people. But after some time, if he wants to keep it casual and could care less what you do when he's not around, then it's time to say goodbye. "If he doesn't consider you a prize," says Dr. Marshall, "then he's not that into you."
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10/25/2009 12:33 pm |
He Dates Other People Again, it is appropriate for both of you to "play the field" until a commitment is made. "But even so," says Dr. Marshall, "you shouldn't discuss your respective dating lives. If he's not connected to you, he will forget about you whenever you're apart." If he talks about other women to you, it could be a sign that he doesn't take your feelings seriously.
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10/25/2009 12:34 pm |
He Only Wants To Hang Out On His Turf Dr. Marshall says to really look out for this one. "This is a biggie!" If he's not willing to make the effort to come to you, then it implies that he wants you to do all the work in the relationship. "If he's into you, he will be interested in your home, your friends, your life. If there is no interest, it is not a relationship."
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10/25/2009 12:35 pm |
90% Of The Time, You Call Him All relationships are built upon mutuality. It's important to take these little signs into consideration, and remember that you deserve better. Dr. Marshall advises, "If you do all the calling, he's not that invested. Step back, and put yourself on phone restriction. If he's interested, he'll call. If he's not, he won't." Yes, it will be painful when you realize that he hasn't called in a few weeks. But it will allow you to realize that you do, indeed, deserve better, and eventually, you'll be able to move on.
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10/25/2009 12:42 pm |
He Always Has An Excuse To Get Out Of Meeting Your Friends And Family This relates back to the reality that if he's interested, he wants to be a part of what is important to you. He wants to meet the people who you grew up with, who raised you, and who you spend most of your days with. "If he's not willing to meet your family and friends," says Dr. Marshall, "it is because he does not envision himself being a part of your life."
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10/25/2009 12:43 pm |
He Told You, "I'm Just Not That Into You" ....Ouuuuucccccchhhh!  This may be the most important of all. It's easy to rationalize his feelings and tell yourself that he's going through a hard time and will change his mind soon, but, when it comes down to it, you're only making excuses. "Believe everything he tells you about himself--unless he is bragging," says Dr. Marshall. "In other words, if he says, 'You're not really my girlfriend,' believe him. Besides, if you think he’s a liar, then why are you with him?" Face it. You deserve someone better.
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10/25/2009 1:36 pm |
Way to go Miss eb 1209, go pour some more gas into the fire, so we may have more broken hearted people jumping off Mt. Kiloea or the San Francisco bridge. And the lesser of courage will end up joining the filipino friend finder groupies, posting blogs and threads like fools as we.
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10/25/2009 1:58 pm |
Yes, your right Elsa,the person i expect in return for my kindness,my love,care and even respect doesn't exist at all....Yah , i have to face it..coz i don't deserve the treatment i'm into right now..I deserve someone better...thanks for the post Elsa...
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10/25/2009 2:32 pm |
At some point i didn't expect him/her to come into my life until the relationship deepens.The truth is im not into this person when i met him/her,our relationship deepens only when we have a continous communication that keeps our relationship intact.Days, years past by i learned to love him/her.But now everything change coz theres lots of question unanswered that makes me feel lost and wander... I'm just sharing this,hope you don't mind?
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10/25/2009 3:23 pm |
Yes, your right Elsa,the person i expect in return for my kindness,my love,care and even respect doesn't exist at all....Yah , i have to face it..coz i don't deserve the treatment i'm into right now..I deserve someone better...thanks for the post Elsa...  ...I'm also wondering, why s/he?
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10/25/2009 3:24 pm |
At some point i didn't expect him/her to come into my life until the relationship deepens.The truth is im not into this person when i met him/her,our relationship deepens only when we have a continous communication that keeps our relationship intact.Days, years past by i learned to love him/her.But now everything change coz theres lots of question unanswered that makes me feel lost and wander... I'm just sharing this,hope you don't mind? 
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10/25/2009 4:39 pm |
heart but better if you know it early that HIS NOT INTO YOU...  and move on
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10/25/2009 6:00 pm |
Thanks for the great tips! we really need to open our eyes, use our brain and not only our hearts! that way, we see things objectively and avoid being badly hurt as most people who are deeply in love with someone often turns a blind eye when they see the obvious!
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10/25/2009 6:02 pm |
Esla, There was a movie of this last year. Wanted so much to see it. Yeap, lived this in the past. With what's his name!!! Spending 4yrs didn't even know my birthday. He kept admitting his a "bad boy" and loving it. Proposing to a dear girl and having all the other string alongs aside can't even keep count coz he has too many. Compared to someone who never met me in real life did. Anyhoo, as i've said just from all this scare i'm going thru who cares about these kinds of folks. Di ba. Only thing that matters to me is family & friends that when in time of desperation are there for me and supporting me. You quickly know who your real friends are!!! That's all that matters. #1 God in his time will let me meet my soulmate... Salamat for this post Elz, i should have known it before(2003) meeting with what's his name... Sana mayroon did topic "mama's boy". Coz lived thru that hell too. [I God is pure love...
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10/25/2009 6:57 pm |
Way to go Miss eb 1209, go pour some more gas into the fire, so we may have more broken hearted people jumping off Mt. Kiloea or the San Francisco bridge. And the lesser of courage will end up joining the filipino friend finder groupies, posting blogs and threads like fools as we.  ...Thanks anyway...Hmmm speaking of Hawaii and San Francisco?...I don't wanna be a paranoid..
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10/25/2009 6:59 pm |
heart but better if you know it early that HIS NOT INTO YOU... and move on
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10/25/2009 7:01 pm |
Thanks for the great tips! we really need to open our eyes, use our brain and not only our hearts! that way, we see things objectively and avoid being badly hurt as most people who are deeply in love with someone often turns a blind eye when they see the obvious!...But I don't really understand it when most people agree that when we are in love, we should not be "logical",meaning, it's okay to be a FOOL..
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10/25/2009 7:04 pm |
Esla, There was a movie of this last year. Wanted so much to see it. Yeap, lived this in the past. With what's his name!!! Spending 4yrs didn't even know my birthday. He kept admitting his a "bad boy" and loving it. Proposing to a dear girl and having all the other string alongs aside can't even keep count coz he has too many. Compared to someone who never met me in real life did. Anyhoo, as i've said just from all this scare i'm going thru who cares about these kinds of folks. Di ba. Only thing that matters to me is family & friends that when in time of desperation are there for me and supporting me. You quickly know who your real friends are!!! That's all that matters. #1 God in his time will let me meet my soulmate... Salamat for this post Elz, i should have known it before(2003) meeting with what's his name... Sana mayroon did topic "mama's boy". Coz lived thru that hell too. ...I will think about the Mama's boy, Tess... You take care! 
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10/25/2009 7:11 pm |
elz...the feeling is mutual  "I AM JUST NOT REALLY REALLY INTO HIM...EITHER!!!"   i'm like a bird! 
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10/25/2009 7:34 pm |
elz... it's a fact...when ur in love, u are like crazy... in LOVE...ur like a horse with cover on each face???so u can look only in one direction>>>LOVING...and that is not bad  ...bcoz ur enjoying LOVE...it just happen that when relationships turned sour...we became not just SOUR but also BITTER ...and that's life ...when u fall in love...expect that sooner or later...the next scenario will be so fu*king painful i'll say...enjoy LIFE and LOVE while supply lasts!   goodluck to us all!  i'm like a bird!
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10/26/2009 3:21 am |
elz...the feeling is mutual "I AM JUST NOT REALLY REALLY INTO HIM...EITHER!!!" Darn!
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10/26/2009 3:26 am |
elz... it's a fact...when ur in love, u are like crazy... in LOVE...ur like a horse with cover on each face???so u can look only in one direction>>>LOVING...and that is not bad ...bcoz ur enjoying LOVE...it just happen that when relationships turned sour...we became not just SOUR but also BITTER ...and that's life ...when u fall in love...expect that sooner or later...the next scenario will be so fu*king painful i'll say...enjoy LIFE and LOVE while supply lasts! goodluck to us all!  ...And come to think that I WAS Sooooooooooo In LOVE?...Am I abnornal then? Because I invested soooo much emotion, time and whatever else, but I wasn't a FOOL way back then....Golly!..Err,, Maybe, it's still NOT too late for me to be a FOOL now....
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10/26/2009 3:27 am |
Ngeeeekkk! abnormal, not abnornal....
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10/26/2009 3:29 am |
But hey! if a man will tell me to my face that HE is REALLY NOT INTO ME, after all that is said and done for him...I won't have any qualms to give him a twin SLAP on his face...
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10/26/2009 3:36 am |
Minsan naging bulag sa katotohanan Nice one Ate Els meron akong natutunan dito.take care
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10/26/2009 3:56 am |
Minsan naging bulag sa katotohanan Nice one Ate Els meron akong natutunan dito.take care ...Me? I wanna see things clearly...Teka, kanta yun ah! Thanks for dropping by my dear...It's a pleasure seeing you here..
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10/26/2009 4:02 am |
buti na lang ,,non of the above ako dun sa nabasa ko,,,ahihihihi "moving minds tru moving world"
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10/26/2009 5:49 am |
buti na lang ,,non of the above ako dun sa nabasa ko,,,ahihihihi Hindi naman kasi ako si DEMI MOORE, at hindi ka rin si Ashton Kutcher...(16 years difference)
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10/26/2009 7:05 am |
i notice the title sez "Admit it!...He's Not Really Into You"..these signs apply for both sexes, right? JUZ LET IT RIP...
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10/26/2009 8:05 am |
OWCHY
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10/26/2009 8:36 am |
i notice the title sez "Admit it!...He's Not Really Into You"..these signs apply for both sexes, right? atpedeng pede yan sa U Boi 
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10/26/2009 8:39 am |
buti na lang ,,non of the above ako dun sa nabasa ko,,,ahihihihi Malay mo bukas or n d futuremabubulag ka lols sana wag naman mahirap maging bulag di ka makakita ng liwanag:d
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10/26/2009 8:49 am |
Naku, Anne, you're A-okay...I know of someone who is always "blind" each time s/he falls in love...Why kaya? is it by choice? ...Me? I wanna see things clearly...Teka, kanta yun ah! Thanks for dropping by my dear...It's a pleasure seeing you here.. ibig sabihin hindi langako nag-iisa sana di na maulit muli..Take care Ate Els...mwuahhh
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10/26/2009 9:40 am |
i notice the title sez "Admit it!...He's Not Really Into You"..these signs apply for both sexes, right?
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10/26/2009 9:42 am |
OWCHY
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10/26/2009 10:19 am |
But, Tess, it's a common knowledge and practice that when a person is in love...S/he fails to see the "screaming facts and realities" laid before his/her eyes, because s/he is "blindfolded"... ...I will think about the Mama's boy, Tess... You take care! Well you were there last year when i was hopelessly in love and too blind to see the truth. Yung bang really dumb and blind to the max!!! But, after all said and done. That's it back to reality. I'm just happy to be alive and so much in love with life!!! [I God is pure love...
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10/26/2009 12:36 pm |
Elsa, Well you were there last year when i was hopelessly in love and too blind to see the truth. Yung bang really dumb and blind to the max!!! But, after all said and done. That's it back to reality. I'm just happy to be alive and so much in love with life!!!
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10/26/2009 2:06 pm |
if it walks like a duck, smells like a duck , etc.. etc .... ELZ, your top ten are dead on .. but no need for those specifics, just never ignore yur gut instincts from the start ...mine always are or prove to be 99.999999% accurate...the only time they dont help is when i ignore them ... those that ignore or rationalize thier gut feelings are just prolonging the agony...just end it..James
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10/26/2009 2:48 pm |
if it walks like a duck, smells like a duck , etc.. etc .... ELZ, your top ten are dead on .. but no need for those specifics, just never ignore yur gut instincts from the start ...mine always are or prove to be 99.999999% accurate...the only time they dont help is when i ignore them ... those that ignore or rationalize thier gut feelings are just prolonging the agony...just end it..James 
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10/26/2009 5:16 pm |
Basta ako mag dodonate katulad ng handol ko ke maganda o panget ke matanda o bata huwag lang syoke o bading
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10/26/2009 5:23 pm |
I wonder why these men do these inconsiderate things  and I never thought about it before but it is so TRUE.  He's just not that into you! ... People don't realize that sticks and stones may break your bones, but words shatter the soul.
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10/26/2009 7:40 pm |
someone need to read this blog......i'm tired of running away from him
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10/26/2009 9:19 pm |
Oisst para sa lahat yan.. atpedeng pede yan sa U Boi
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10/26/2009 9:23 pm |
Basta ako mag dodonate katulad ng handol ko ke maganda o panget ke matanda o bata huwag lang syoke o bading
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10/26/2009 9:25 pm |
I wonder why these men do these inconsiderate things and I never thought about it before but it is so TRUE. He's just not that into you! ...
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10/26/2009 9:27 pm |
someone need to read this blog......i'm tired of running away from him ...Ayan, we did the announcement na..
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10/27/2009 3:22 pm |
Wow! sana pala, na delayed pa ng konti ang paglabas ko dito sa mundo...You're a good catch then... Hindi naman kasi ako si DEMI MOORE, at hindi ka rin si Ashton Kutcher...(16 years difference) "moving minds tru moving world"
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10/27/2009 3:24 pm |
Itang ahihihi Malay mo bukas or n d futuremabubulag ka lols sana wag naman mahirap maging bulag di ka makakita ng liwanag:d "moving minds tru moving world"
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10/27/2009 6:41 pm |
age doesnt matter as long as u can meet half way,,,,,wag lang sa buong milky way,,ahihihi Oiiist, John, huwag mapipikon ha?
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10/27/2009 6:43 pm |
wag naman,,pero sabi nga nila ,,"when u got blinded somehow u can use other senses,,from there u may feel it clearly"hehehehe
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10/28/2009 7:34 pm |
Smiley, my love, maybe, because you HAVE NOT FOUND HIM yet...or you need to find him... Darn! i'm like a bird!
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10/28/2009 7:48 pm |
What? ...And come to think that I WAS Sooooooooooo In LOVE?...Am I abnornal then? Because I invested soooo much emotion, time and whatever else, but I wasn't a FOOL way back then....Golly!..Err,, Maybe, it's still NOT too late for me to be a FOOL now.... ...but then u know...when everything falls apart is the time that we are saying all the negative things bcoz we became bitter about it...and that is still NORMAL ...the only thing that is ABNORMAL here is...when u do not love again ...if LOVING again will make u and look like ur a fool???go for it... we need to gamble ...life is way too short to waste(been saying this a hundred fu*king times )...enjoy!!! i'm like a bird!
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10/28/2009 7:52 pm |
Hey, James! good to see you here, and thanks for the affirmation..You're good!  i'm like a bird!
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10/28/2009 10:32 pm |
elz...i was LOST and FOUND
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10/28/2009 10:35 pm |
elz...loving and investing our time and effort and anything else that goes with it...is NORMAL ...but then u know...when everything falls apart is the time that we are saying all the negative things bcoz we became bitter about it...and that is still NORMAL ...the only thing that is ABNORMAL here is...when u do not love again ...if LOVING again will make u and look like ur a fool???go for it... we need to gamble...life is way too short to waste(been saying this a hundred fu*king times )...enjoy!!!
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10/28/2009 10:37 pm |
and elz...he got a big...boobies
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10/29/2009 4:30 pm |
Hahahaha! Mozzart, my dear...We go through stages indeed...and at some point, it FEELs good to be a FOOL for once, and then wake up one day with a BIG bump into our heads... ...Thanks anyway...Hmmm speaking of Hawaii and San Francisco?...I don't wanna be a paranoid..
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10/29/2009 6:20 pm |
Hawaii and San Francisco?...do they ring bells? Do share your thoughts, and let the guys here be enlightened of your paranoia(?)... ..too much information, my dear..
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11/1/2009 2:24 am |
You mean to say, meron pa palang pag-asa ha? Oiiist, John, huwag mapipikon ha? "moving minds tru moving world"
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11/1/2009 2:26 am |
Wow! using other senses, such as sense of FEEL, HEARING, TASTING and SMELLING...Ngeeeeeeeekkk!...merong matitikman at maa-amoy-amoy, at meron pang mapi-pisil-pisil..Hala! "moving minds tru moving world"
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11/1/2009 2:37 am |
oo naman sabi nga habang may buhay may pag asa,,,
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11/1/2009 9:39 am |
Good to see you again posting, my dear...I hope your area was not "punished" by Santi as in Maria Santisima talaga itong mga bagyong ito..TAMA NA! "moving minds tru moving world"
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11/1/2009 6:12 pm |
nope,,d ko nga naramadaman,,tulog ako that time til 9am,,ahihihi
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11/2/2009 1:21 am |
Teka, bakit parang nagrereklamo ka? "moving minds tru moving world"
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11/2/2009 3:03 am |
ahahaha,,d naman,,
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11/2/2009 5:50 pm |
Stay safe, Jon, John, Jake...errrr...Whatever! "moving minds tru moving world"
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