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eb1209
10/7/2009 8:28 am


"I'd Rather Leave While I'm In Love"... By: Rita Coolidge

I'd rather leave while I'm in love
while I still believe the meaning of the word
I'll keep my dreams and just pretend
that you and I are never gonna end

Too many times I've seen
the rose die on the vine
somebody's heart gets broken
usually it's mine
I don't want to take the chance
of being hurt again
and you and I can't say good-bye

So if you wake and find me gone
oh baby carry on, you see I need my
fantasy I still believe it's best
to leave while I'm in love

Too many times I've seen
the rose die on the vine
somebody's heart gets broken usually
It's mine I don't want to take
the chance of being hurt again
and you and I can't say good-bye

So if you wake and find me gone
oh baby carry on you see I need my
fantasy I still believe it's best to
leave while I'm in love I still believe
It's best to leave while I'm in love


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Beautiful Song!..And I can relate it so much to what's happening into my personal life. For Love is not all about feelings, it's not all about myself, but for the best of all who are involved. Sometimes, we have to let go of those people we love, because we need to set them free. Let them fly, up in the sky, watch them slowly disappear, never to return again. That's love, and that's life.

poweroflove3

10/7/2009 9:43 am

Elz,

This is one of my favorites way back then. Wow, we just have to let go. My feeling exactly. If it was meant for us it will stay. Let us just be happy for now...

[I God is pure love...

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 10:59 am

    Quoting poweroflove3:
    Elz,

    This is one of my favorites way back then. Wow, we just have to let go. My feeling exactly. If it was meant for us it will stay. Let us just be happy for now...

Tess, you never fail to support my blogs and others' too. I hope you are feeling much better..Take care!

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 12:52 pm

I do have a strong feeling that YOU are going to read this...No matter how (spirit or ghost)...But I tell you, I am so proud of you...Be strong! Always believe that in this life, for as long as you have the determination, you'll achieve what you've always hoped for...

amabella
787 posts 

10/7/2009 1:48 pm

Elz... i know how you are feeling right...
i think i know you well enough as a friend, to feel what is behind those words...
..and do know, I care, and I understand.
Maybe, in letting go..there will be comfort in your heart.
Maybe not right away...but eventually.
Us your friends are just right here..


amabella
787 posts 

10/7/2009 1:49 pm

the first line should be -
" I know how you are feeling right now.."


chinatree
4599 posts 

10/7/2009 2:30 pm

I guess in my case then, I don't have to leave because I'm not in love ... ... SO SELFISH of ME!

The world is a classroom 4 learning
Not a courtroom 4 judging

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 2:30 pm

    Quoting amabella:
    Elz... i know how you are feeling right...
    i think i know you well enough as a friend, to feel what is behind those words...
    ..and do know, I care, and I understand.
    Maybe, in letting go..there will be comfort in your heart.
    Maybe not right away...but eventually.
    Us your friends are just right here..

I know Joyce, I just know that you know how I feel..I thought about this long and hard...The means just not just justify the end...Not, at least, at the moment...Thank you!

thumbelina1
12 posts 

10/7/2009 3:09 pm

love is best felt than uttered...but can only be something to hold on with the deepest FEEL of understanding and patience...it will not close because the memories remain as new...nothing lost because somehow it's just there lingering, not even ready as yet to say goodbye but to say, go and FEEL yourself better, with and without me...

amabella
787 posts 

10/7/2009 3:24 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    I know Joyce, I just know that you know how I feel..I thought about this long and hard...The means just not just justify the end...Not, at least, at the moment...Thank you!
there is this part in our church service, its called the ALTAR CALL...
a few minutes being in the presence of God, and it gives me peace, each and everytime...
i wish i can invite you to be with us..
no matter how much pain one has in his heart..
it seems like it melts, especially when one FEELS God is just near...


chinatree
4599 posts 

10/7/2009 3:24 pm

But seriously AMS, it was a very painful experience when I left someone while I still loved him. And it's nothing compared to tolerating and learning to be happy with someone even if ...

The world is a classroom 4 learning
Not a courtroom 4 judging

chinatree
4599 posts 

10/7/2009 3:25 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    I do have a strong feeling that YOU are going to read this...No matter how (spirit or ghost)...But I tell you, I am so proud of you...Be strong! Always believe that in this life, for as long as you have the determination, you'll achieve what you've always hoped for...
Quoting:eb1209
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What is that unchangeable?
It is nothing but your TRUE SELF!

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And I salute you for doing what you had to do! Because it's just like YOU to do that! !

The world is a classroom 4 learning
Not a courtroom 4 judging

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 4:43 pm

    Quoting chinatree:
    I guess in my case then, I don't have to leave because I'm not in love ... ... SO SELFISH of ME!
And you know what, CAT..despite this "blue" feeling, I will never let the day pass with out smiling and cracking a joke..it's okay..

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 4:49 pm

    Quoting thumbelina1:
    love is best felt than uttered...but can only be something to hold on with the deepest FEEL of understanding and patience...it will not close because the memories remain as new...nothing lost because somehow it's just there lingering, not even ready as yet to say goodbye but to say, go and FEEL yourself better, with and without me...
Wow!..But it's true, a relationship or the absence of it, but with the expression of LOVE, can only be resolved if the two parties have spoken for the last time, and agreed to part ways, because of personal reasons, and the only solution available is STOP!

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 4:50 pm

to STOP, I meant...

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 4:52 pm

    Quoting amabella:
    there is this part in our church service, its called the ALTAR CALL...
    a few minutes being in the presence of God, and it gives me peace, each and everytime...
    i wish i can invite you to be with us..
    no matter how much pain one has in his heart..
    it seems like it melts, especially when one FEELS God is just near...

I have done that before, Joyce, even during Sarfraz' time...I had to be "alone", driving around the greener side of the valley, looking up into the skies, seemingly talking to the clouds...and wonder why?

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 4:54 pm

    Quoting chinatree:
    But seriously AMS, it was a very painful experience when I left someone while I still loved him. And it's nothing compared to tolerating and learning to be happy with someone even if ...
But just like, CAT, I did what I had to do. The only difference is that I may not have this opportunity to bounce back right away, because I have the tendency to "rest" for a very long time....

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 4:59 pm

    Quoting chinatree:
    Quoting:eb1209
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    What is that unchangeable?
    It is nothing but your TRUE SELF!

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    And I salute you for doing what you had to do! Because it's just like YOU to do that! !
I know, CAT...I just had to be ME...Love can still be felt, even without the physical union or the declaration of two people who have the right love, at the wrong time...and the wrong place...But is there really a true hindrance to falling in love? Right or wrong?

Sulei
6126 posts 

10/7/2009 5:36 pm

noble hearts, do sacrifice!

smiley1957
3020 posts 

10/7/2009 6:27 pm

i am not going to chicken out on love
i will enjoy it while i can

so the old cliche goes...
"better to love and be hurt
than never love and enjoy it at all"

and of kors, after the loving, u have to get ready
(and we are so tolerant and full of endurance with regards to pain )
yes, be a gurl scout always ready
bcoz, it always 'apply' that...
when ur happy today,
tomorrow , ur gonna be sad
and vice versa
so enjoy!
life is way too short to waste

so why leave when ur in love?
grab it! (by the butt...or try the balls nyihihi!!! ok???)




i'm like a bird!

ROXYBARBIE
9177 posts 

10/7/2009 6:56 pm

for sharing this with us! I love this song also, so beautiful and mournful. It breaks my heart! If that's what you think is what is best that you should leave while you are still inlove, then go for it. We are just right here for you; your friends who loves you, when you need a shoulder to cry on. I hope you two are okay. If that is meant to be even after days, or months, or even after the years have gone by, then if that love was meant to be, its was meant to be, if not, then you are so right to leave while you're in love! There is always a reason why people leave each other. Sometimes it is just what they feel is best themselves, or the other person even if you love that person so much! It is a personal choice Elz, and no one should blame each other when love when both people are still in love! Take care always Elz.

Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 7:03 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    noble hearts, do sacrifice!
Hayz! Sulei, what can I say?

eb1209
12173 posts

10/7/2009 7:06 pm

    Quoting smiley1957:
    i am not going to chicken out on love
    i will enjoy it while i can

    so the old cliche goes...
    "better to love and be hurt
    than never love and enjoy it at all"

    and of kors, after the loving, u have to get ready
    (and we are so tolerant and full of endurance with regards to pain )
    yes, be a gurl scout always ready
    bcoz, it always 'apply' that...
    when ur happy today,
    tomorrow , ur gonna be sad
    and vice versa
    so enjoy!
    life is way too short to waste

    so why leave when ur in love?
    grab it! (by the butt...or try the balls nyihihi!!! ok???)



And for that reason, I just let the FEELings flow...until the time it had to "end"....Better than not FEELing anything at all...You are right, Smiley.....Sorry, my dear, I/we had to leave...it was something "complicated"...

luv_a_fair
3390 posts 

10/7/2009 7:41 pm

same here elz...i may walk away but i won't stop loving...for letting go is just another way of saying "i love you"...

color my world with

smiley1957
3020 posts 

10/7/2009 9:04 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    And for that reason, I just let the FEELings flow...until the time it had to "end"....Better than not FEELing anything at all...You are right, Smiley.....Sorry, my dear, I/we had to leave...it was something "complicated"...
ok elz...i understand u now...and yes...u have all the right to chooze for urself...coz nobody will do it for yah...and with that leaving while ur in love? i am now pushing u to leave

love will always be here ...there and everywhere and i suggest dont give up on it...we all have the love we can give...only that...we only need the right person to give it to...we're aged now and we know better ...nakz! if u think a relationship is going nowhere (after careful observation lolz) then time to let go and smell the roses ...sniff sniff!!!

just do not close the door...there's a time for everything

cool ka lng mare...ur not alone...i will be making a group soon...named...HP club lolz( of kors that's a joke ha ha!!!)
and don't ask me whats HP...baka ma ban lolz!


i'm like a bird!

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 2:39 am

    Quoting luv_a_fair:
    same here elz...i may walk away but i won't stop loving...for letting go is just another way of saying "i love you"...
Liz, the only good thing I learned and I realized is that I am capable of FEELing that elusive emotion that I've evaded for so long a time...and now, I am walking away from it, because I have to...

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 2:44 am

    Quoting ROXYBARBIE:
    for sharing this with us! I love this song also, so beautiful and mournful. It breaks my heart! If that's what you think is what is best that you should leave while you are still inlove, then go for it. We are just right here for you; your friends who loves you, when you need a shoulder to cry on. I hope you two are okay. If that is meant to be even after days, or months, or even after the years have gone by, then if that love was meant to be, its was meant to be, if not, then you are so right to leave while you're in love! There is always a reason why people leave each other. Sometimes it is just what they feel is best themselves, or the other person even if you love that person so much! It is a personal choice Elz, and no one should blame each other when love when both people are still in love! Take care always Elz.
Sweet Roxy, II thought you have forgotten me already...This post of yours came or released late by FFF (what's new? )..But I thank you so much...You've witnessed all the dramas, the arena of cat and dog..the public stage plays and some "real" emotions expressed along the way. You know too, that it was not gonna go anywhere...So, best thing to do is LEAVE...

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 2:52 am

    Quoting smiley1957:
    ok elz...i understand u now...and yes...u have all the right to chooze for urself...coz nobody will do it for yah...and with that leaving while ur in love? i am now pushing u to leave

    love will always be here ...there and everywhere and i suggest dont give up on it...we all have the love we can give...only that...we only need the right person to give it to...we're aged now and we know better ...nakz! if u think a relationship is going nowhere (after careful observation lolz) then time to let go and smell the roses ...sniff sniff!!!

    just do not close the door...there's a time for everything

    cool ka lng mare...ur not alone...i will be making a group soon...named...HP club lolz( of kors that's a joke ha ha!!!)
    and don't ask me whats HP...baka ma ban lolz!

Thanks for the email, Smiley...Would you allow me to address you the way I did in my email to you? or would you rather stay privy about it? Kasi sanay akong mag-address sa real name...I hope ur okay there where you live, but the looks of it, you're better than the rest..And oh! you were right in what you've said..Kaya nga, we, women are smart enough na hindi magpadalos-dalos..We know exactly how to use our "head" over our heart...kasi, we've been here long enough to know what's real and what's not..playing games is no longer part of our agenda..or it never was to begin with....Thanks again, my dear...Next time, tatawagan na kita sa fone..


eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 2:53 am

I'm guessing HP is Hanky Panky Group...

ROXYBARBIE
9177 posts 

10/8/2009 7:55 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Sweet Roxy, II thought you have forgotten me already...This post of yours came or released late by FFF (what's new? )..But I thank you so much...You've witnessed all the dramas, the arena of cat and dog..the public stage plays and some "real" emotions expressed along the way. You know too, that it was not gonna go anywhere...So, best thing to do is LEAVE...
I never forgotten you my friend, nor will I ever! I have just been pretty busy around here , but I am always thinking of you! My dear, I hope you are always doing okay my friend! I wish you all the love and happiness that is still to come to enter into your life, and make you one of the happiest person in this whole wide world!

Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***

fantasiamore
3784 posts 

10/8/2009 8:01 pm

when love is there, it will not be about resistance but about this magnet of attraction that will induce everything around you as bright and full of sparkles..the glow is constant and nothing to resist the FEELing because it brings you to a high spirits of mirth and excitement...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

smiley1957
3020 posts 

10/8/2009 8:10 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Thanks for the email, Smiley...Would you allow me to address you the way I did in my email to you? or would you rather stay privy about it? Kasi sanay akong mag-address sa real name...I hope ur okay there where you live, but the looks of it, you're better than the rest..And oh! you were right in what you've said..Kaya nga, we, women are smart enough na hindi magpadalos-dalos..We know exactly how to use our "head" over our heart...kasi, we've been here long enough to know what's real and what's not..playing games is no longer part of our agenda..or it never was to begin with....Thanks again, my dear...Next time, tatawagan na kita sa fone..

hi elz...nice to keep in touch by email, thanks to u also ..at least we can talk privy there and yes...let's make privy...a privy lolz...parang ang kulet ko wahahaha...so, just call me by my handle here
...and...yes we're aged now and finer (looks hmmmm) and knows what we want(syanga???)...we're done with those days enjoying the "exquisite pain" of wanting someone so "unattainable",(at nakakainis un! grrrr!)...so okay? ...yaan mo sila...habulin nila tayu ...(un pla me utang kaya hinahabol ) toinkz!!!

thanks din and yes call me, don't be afraid but just call me ...call me and i will be around ...singing


i'm like a bird!

smiley1957
3020 posts 

10/8/2009 8:11 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    I'm guessing HP is Hanky Panky Group...
Happy Pekpek Club

i'm like a bird!

im_stacy
1756 posts 

10/8/2009 8:33 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    I know, CAT...I just had to be ME...Love can still be felt, even without the physical union or the declaration of two people who have the right love, at the wrong time...and the wrong place...But is there really a true hindrance to falling in love? Right or wrong?
In love we either build our own bridge or wall, we alone can decide which one we'd like to choose. I believe that TRUE LOVE conquers all!

When I low my friends et al give me energy.

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 8:46 pm

    Quoting ROXYBARBIE:
    I never forgotten you my friend, nor will I ever! I have just been pretty busy around here , but I am always thinking of you! My dear, I hope you are always doing okay my friend! I wish you all the love and happiness that is still to come to enter into your life, and make you one of the happiest person in this whole wide world!
I am sure, you have not forgotten me, my friend, IKAW PA!...But then, i know too, that you always wish the best thing to happen to me...I'm still here, waiting..

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 8:48 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    when love is there, it will not be about resistance but about this magnet of attraction that will induce everything around you as bright and full of sparkles..the glow is constant and nothing to resist the FEELing because it brings you to a high spirits of mirth and excitement...
Jane, I wish it was as simple as it may have seemed...Not at all...But at least, I was privileged enough to know the reason why...

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 8:50 pm

    Quoting smiley1957:
    hi elz...nice to keep in touch by email, thanks to u also ..at least we can talk privy there and yes...let's make privy...a privy lolz...parang ang kulet ko wahahaha...so, just call me by my handle here
    ...and...yes we're aged now and finer (looks hmmmm) and knows what we want(syanga???)...we're done with those days enjoying the "exquisite pain" of wanting someone so "unattainable",(at nakakainis un! grrrr!)...so okay? ...yaan mo sila...habulin nila tayu ...(un pla me utang kaya hinahabol ) toinkz!!!

    thanks din and yes call me, don't be afraid but just call me ...call me and i will be around ...singing

Please email me your number if it's okay with you...I'll give you a buzz, that way, you will also hear my voice......Thanks, my dear...It's my pleasure being one of your new buddies...

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 8:51 pm

Ngeeeeeeekkkkk!

eb1209
12173 posts

10/8/2009 8:52 pm

    Quoting im_stacy:
    In love we either build our own bridge or wall, we alone can decide which one we'd like to choose. I believe that TRUE LOVE conquers all!
So then, it wasn't love after all...what was it?

im_stacy
1756 posts 

10/15/2009 3:46 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    So then, it wasn't love after all...what was it?
It was Fascination I KNOW.

Were you singing this while reading

When I low my friends et al give me energy.

gentlewind2006
41 posts 

10/19/2009 7:22 pm

I could sum it up in one word, Cowardice. Yes, that's the more apt term to leaving without fulfilling what your heart so desire. You are denying yourself the chance of reaping the fruit of all these years toiling at fff and hoping on the heavens to bring you that one man you hope for to love. For a moment, think deeply, maybe it's not really love.

eb1209
12173 posts

10/20/2009 3:08 am

    Quoting gentlewind2006:
    I could sum it up in one word, Cowardice. Yes, that's the more apt term to leaving without fulfilling what your heart so desire. You are denying yourself the chance of reaping the fruit of all these years toiling at fff and hoping on the heavens to bring you that one man you hope for to love. For a moment, think deeply, maybe it's not really love.
You have a good point here, Ed...

mozzart007
7 posts 

10/25/2009 1:28 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    I do have a strong feeling that YOU are going to read this...No matter how (spirit or ghost)...But I tell you, I am so proud of you...Be strong! Always believe that in this life, for as long as you have the determination, you'll achieve what you've always hoped for...
Wow, so this song was for this spirit or ghost, one lucky ghost to merit your mortal attention. I'd give all my riches (do I have any by the way?) to be in his/her shoes to receive that motivation. Meantime, in his/her absence why don't I take his/her place in your heart, hope I'm not asking too much.

eb1209
12173 posts

10/25/2009 1:55 pm

    Quoting mozzart007:
    Wow, so this song was for this spirit or ghost, one lucky ghost to merit your mortal attention. I'd give all my riches (do I have any by the way?) to be in his/her shoes to receive that motivation. Meantime, in his/her absence why don't I take his/her place in your heart, hope I'm not asking too much.
Mozzart, my dear...without a picture, you do look like a "ghost" ..Is that a proposition?

mozzart007
7 posts 

10/29/2009 5:00 pm

"I'd rather leave while I'm a ghost...." ay mali, ano ba tong nasulat ko. I mean, I'd rather be a ghost if that would merit me a piece of your attention. And you may always considere that a proposition...who knows, I might be one hell of a lucky ghost...he he.

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