Blog : You Can't Stop Someone From Loving You...

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9/24/2009 9:46 am

You Can't Stop Someone From Loving You...

I know, I've mentioned this dilemma of mine in my previous blogs...It's about an ardent Lesbian admirer who doesn't stop showing her special affection to me. I've had a very hard time telling her just how "uncomfortable" I am knowing that she has feelings more than friends for me, and I tried so hard to be subtle and understanding to her, so as not to hurt her feelings. She promised to step back and would be happy just to see me from afar. When I celebrated my birthday last month of August, she knew that my sister gave me a sapphire/diamond bracelet, and how proud I was being treated still like the baby sister that I used to be. This past September 09, 2009, I received a text message stating that I have a small package on my veranda and to check on it as soon as I get home...Lo! and behold! I saw a small box with a card, and when I opened it, there's this beautiful sapphire/diamond ring that matches my bracelet perfectly. When I read the content of the card, I developed gooseflesh. I texted her back, thanking her first, and told her that I cannot accept the ring because it's too much, and I cannot return whatever it is that she "feels" for me. She promised that this will be her last gift, and she won't bother me anymore, but please, not return it, or she will feel so bad. What do you expect me to do? Not that I am bragging, but I don't even use the stash of jewelries that I've accumulated from my EX's gifts from middle east,here in the USA, and from other generous suitors and loved ones, plus the ones that I bought, myself. I'm just a simple person, not wanting to show off..

My point is, How can we stop someone from loving us? Is there a way to do it? Everyone has the right to love and be loved, so who am I to stop her?...It's like telling someone to stop breathing.....No, I do not mean to expose her here, as she is never a member of FFF...She is very religious though, and for that, I find it so hard to tell her things I normally would to anyone, without having to consider just how badly she can get hurt.. Thanks for reading...I just want to vent..

Just call me ELZ

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9/24/2009 12:17 pm

Elsa,

Wow, na wow!!! Now you have a pair to go with the bracelate. Just kidding. Yes, it is hard to tell someone to stop loving you. And let them off as gently as possible without hurting them. I had to do that a couple months back. The bad thing too i couldn't return the love. But, didn't want to lead the person on too. di ba.
So, just prayed they find that worthy love that was meant for them. So, sad naman dahil here we are waiting for prince charming but the timing just doesn't click right in your case she's a woman, in my case i just didn't feel the same towards him. Kaya, i question that a lot about love. When will it be finally right. Just holding hands with the one you love watching the sunset on a beautiful sandy beach... Aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh life is just too much at times!!!

[I God is pure love...