He is worth the long wait......
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And they say I am too picky?..What's wrong with that? It's my dream, it's my choice, and most of all, IT'S MY LIFE! Definitely, there is NO PERFECT MAN...I understand that, but that doesn't mean that I'll just go for ANY MAN either. Men come and go, and some of them are plain forgettable, others are lovable, and quite a few are keep-able (my own terminology), and then again, there are tons of BUTs. That is, if he is here, as a member of FFF. Why is that? Can't you see, this is the place where a good number of members (including myself) are not WHOLE. Meaning, most searchers (ahhhh! holy crap! I don't believe it when SINGLE people say that they are here but are NOT searching, at least at some point)EXPECT that a special someone is out here to fix and complete them. What I'm saying is, how can we have such an unreasonable expectation? Shouldn't we FIX ourselves first, present ourselves as close to being a whole, and then, allow the other person to complement us? It took me a very long time to decide that hey!...I'm ready to give love a chance again, only because I think it'd be unfair to the other person if I give him all that tasks and responsibility to fix me. And I believe that only US, can fix US, eventually, with or without outside help. And I don't mean to offend my co-FFF members here, but come on, majority of us are likened to broken jars (although qualities differ, I must honestly say). I do believe in my heart, that before we even think of getting seriously involved with someone here (if it has to be here)then, I suggest we assess ourselves: ARE WE "FIXED" ENOUGH TO COMPLEMENT ANOTHER? In my case, I waited long enough to fix myself, then, waited for that "appropriate" person to come along (not the Perfect/Mr. Right). Modesty aside, I met quite a number of good men as I took the roads less traveled. Some of them became my acquaintances, a few found their love, a couple became my friends, and the rest were placed in the "shredder box", probably, in the same manner that I may have been placed in a similar fashion. So, am I searching? Am I waiting? Is he here, or out there?..It doesn't really matter, but I'm sure...HE IS WORTH THE LONG WAIT...    
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 6/10/2009 1:56 pm |
you are not going to be in my shredded box!  wow!
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6/10/2009 1:58 pm |
me worth for a long wait? not in my current life and current form and current life of concietedness. and i doubt i will be worth for a long wait. maybe a short wait will do! peace! wow!
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6/10/2009 6:39 pm |
Elsa, I'll wait too... Have a gran week!!!    [I God is pure love...
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6/10/2009 8:39 pm |
Elzzz,,,you're not picky, you're just aware of some players outhere spc. in this site,,lots of "manloloko" here. ,,,it's good to be single than to be fooled and get hurt by "manloloko"  ,,,that's my motto before until i met my honest man   ,,,have a lovely day to you Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.  
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6/10/2009 8:45 pm |
Enjoy being conceited Antonio...
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6/10/2009 8:46 pm |
Elsa, I'll wait too... Have a gran week!!! ...May you feel a lot better now..
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6/10/2009 8:47 pm |
Elzzz,,,you're not picky, you're just aware of some players outhere spc. in this site,,lots of "manloloko" here. ,,,it's good to be single than to be fooled and get hurt by "manloloko" ,,,that's my motto before until i met my honest man,,,have a lovely day to you
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6/10/2009 9:53 pm |
i agree with what you said about being whole first before starting a new relationship, otherwise your excess baggage will drag you down even if you found a great partner. but i believe some members here who say they're not looking for love at the moment. some people go to this site to heal some wounds, to hide from a painful past, or to express feelings that they dont want friends and family to know about...
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6/10/2009 9:55 pm |
So, am I searching? Am I waiting? Is he here, or out there?..It doesn't really matter, but I'm sure...HE IS WORTH THE LONG WAIT../SIZE] Absolutely!!!! And it will happen Elz...soon, he will be there waiting for you and probably having the same thought, that you're worth the long wait.
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6/10/2009 10:14 pm |
me worth for a long wait? not in my current life and current form and current life of concietedness. and i doubt i will be worth for a long wait. maybe a short wait will do! peace! wow!  Peace Toni, like you said I'm fascinated by your feminine side.
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6/10/2009 11:49 pm |
Elsa, you are absolutely right ... do not settle for anything less than what you want ... waiting is fine. And take care not to be folled by all these players on this site. Women like us who knows what we want will be difficult to fool. Like what they say, if you do not believe in something, if you do not stand for something, you will fall for anything. I wish you all the love and hope.
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6/10/2009 11:51 pm |
Elsa, you are absolutely right ... do not settle for anything less than what you want ... waiting is fine. And take care not to be fooled by all these players on this site. Women like us who knows what we want will be difficult to fool. Like what they say, if you do not believe in something, if you do not stand for something, you will fall for anything. I wish you all the love and hope.
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6/11/2009 3:46 am |
i agree with what you said about being whole first before starting a new relationship, otherwise your excess baggage will drag you down even if you found a great partner. but i believe some members here who say they're not looking for love at the moment. some people go to this site to heal some wounds, to hide from a painful past, or to express feelings that they dont want friends and family to know about...
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6/11/2009 3:47 am |
So, am I searching? Am I waiting? Is he here, or out there?..It doesn't really matter, but I'm sure...HE IS WORTH THE LONG WAIT../SIZE] Absolutely!!!! And it will happen Elz...soon, he will be there waiting for you and probably having the same thought, that you're worth the long wait.
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6/11/2009 3:49 am |
Elsa, you are absolutely right ... do not settle for anything less than what you want ... waiting is fine. And take care not to be folled by all these players on this site. Women like us who knows what we want will be difficult to fool. Like what they say, if you do not believe in something, if you do not stand for something, you will fall for anything. I wish you all the love and hope.
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6/11/2009 4:12 am |
THOUGHTS TO LIVE AND LOVE BY - Every disappointment in life can be a steppingstone to greater things. Bad things happen, but they don't have to make you sour. The beautiful colors of the rainbow can only be seen through the prism of rain. Anything you've ever wnated, dreamed of or hoped for can be yours in the beautiful paradise of the world beyond.   LIFT UP YOUR HANDS TO 
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6/11/2009 4:16 am |
Never underestimate the amazing power of Love to change hearts and mindsets. Love can ever give fresh inspiration to tackle what seems to be impossible. Even if everyone says you don't stand a chance, don't give up on your dreams. Those who freely give Love and Kindness are always recepients of them as well. LIFT UP YOUR HANDS TO
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6/11/2009 4:20 am |
BE YOURSELF!! No one will be disillusioned when they discover the "REAL YOU", if that's what they've known and loved all along. I know it's worth waiting for someone out there..... LIFT UP YOUR HANDS TO
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6/11/2009 2:15 pm |
Like the old saying goes..."Good things come to those who wait." Have a blessed day, Ms. EB!
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6/11/2009 4:35 pm |
Elzzzzz has been saving the best for last and he would be the luckiest man coz you are the "Yellow Rose of Texas" Take care and have a nice weekend! Now I see Ms Roxanne doin' the pairings again.....LOL//Pooh//
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6/11/2009 5:12 pm |
Popi, you cannot be wrong in you point of view...it's like saying how can you love others if you don't love yourself...thanks for the visit..
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6/11/2009 5:13 pm |
Elsa, you are absolutely right ... do not settle for anything less than what you want ... waiting is fine. And take care not to be fooled by all these players on this site. Women like us who knows what we want will be difficult to fool. Like what they say, if you do not believe in something, if you do not stand for something, you will fall for anything. I wish you all the love and hope.
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6/11/2009 6:05 pm |
Like the old saying goes..."Good things come to those who wait." Have a blessed day, Ms. EB!
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6/11/2009 6:10 pm |
Elzzzzz has been saving the best for last and he would be the luckiest man coz you are the "Yellow Rose of Texas" Take care and have a nice weekend! Now I see Ms Roxanne doin' the pairings again.....LOL//Pooh// ...Roxy is in Hawaii these days, and she's looking forward for us to EB in Jax, FL...hehehehe...what can I say?
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6/11/2009 6:10 pm |
Antonio: Whatever makes you happy go for it...
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6/11/2009 6:51 pm |
Antonio: Whatever makes you happy go for it... i am sure he is not conceited! wow! peace!
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6/11/2009 8:28 pm |
It is tough and frustrating to feel that your not asking to much
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6/11/2009 11:57 pm |
It is tough and frustrating to feel that your not asking to much
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6/12/2009 8:58 am |
DEFINITELY!!! He is worth the long wait... and he will be the luckiest man...
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6/12/2009 9:00 am |
I wish you the best...always!!!
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6/12/2009 2:28 pm |
DEFINITELY!!! He is worth the long wait... and he will be the luckiest man... 
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6/12/2009 2:29 pm |
I wish you the best...always!!!
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6/12/2009 5:45 pm |
Will you wait for yours, this time, Gem?
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6/12/2009 5:49 pm |
Will you wait for yours, this time, Gem?
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6/12/2009 5:50 pm |
Yes, I will wait this time and not to rush into anything...
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6/12/2009 5:50 pm |
I have 20 more years to enjoy and wait before I retire
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6/13/2009 2:24 am |
hey antonio stop being conceited in uu postings if u want to win the heart of ate elz       
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6/13/2009 2:28 am |
u deserve to be happy ate elz so don't rush it
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6/13/2009 5:26 am |
hey antonio stop being conceited in uu postings if u want to win the heart of ate elz and that is irrevocable...
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6/13/2009 5:27 am |
u deserve to be happy ate elz so don't rush it
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6/13/2009 10:18 am |
It is tough and frustrating to feel that your not asking to much
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6/13/2009 10:20 am |
There is nothing wrong with being picky. You want someone who complements you. Seems reasonable and not to much to ask. So why is it so tough and frustrating to find someone when we're not asking to much? When you get the answer let me know please.
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6/13/2009 11:27 am |
Maybe, because this is the wrong place to be...Have a great weekend!
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6/13/2009 2:05 pm |
I will be ending my subscription in a few days. Why did I try FFF? Because I have filipino nieghbors who cook every weekend and invite me to eat. I have met many filipinos and it is a wonderful culture. So nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck to you and I wish you the best.
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6/13/2009 9:14 pm |
I heard they will increase the age of retirement, Gem...
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6/13/2009 9:55 pm |
Really!!! OH MY, I might not reach the retirement age
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6/14/2009 8:44 am |
Either you wait for your man or your retirement...
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6/14/2009 8:55 am |
Shucks!!! I guess, a man first before my retirement.... 
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