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eb1209
23211 posts
4/19/2009 7:14 am
UN-FRIENDLY.....


...They say that we only need ONE TRUE FRIEND. Someone who we can share everything in our lives without us worrying that it's gonna affect the relationship whatsoever. Someone we can relate with even if there's been no contact for months, and yet, we know that we're being thought of fondly and prayed for. Someone who will share our joys, and most importantly, will drop everything s/he's doing, to at least hear us when things just don't seem to be right..Someone for keeps, no matter how far or near we are. You just know and feel that s/he's just there.

...Here at FFF, we've come across a lot of people who are potential to be REAL friends. Some stay a while, some leave for good, and some opt to change, and some are maybe too close for comfort...And indeed, it is proven, that people come and go, and it's also true, that some do leave "marks, or footprints" in our hearts.

...Recently, I edited my profile and made my age older than what it is. I hinted that the special person that I'm waiting for may not be here in FFF. Of course, not everyone can read my profile, and continued to write, to which I am not too keen in responding anymore. Lately, when I checked my mails, I noticed that I've been insulted and cursed by the same men who continued to email despite my failure to acknowledge (or failure to read) their efforts to reach me...Now, can you blame me if I feel that corresponding to most of these men is just a waste of my time?Already early on, they are showing their true colors...BAD!...After all, one of my pet-peeves includes MEN with very bad temper...( and women too! )


Just call me ELZ


poweroflove3 64F

4/19/2009 10:18 am

Elsa,

Wishing you a great sunday!!! Sorry, to hear you been getting this kind of emails. As a gracious lady, just don't even bother. Ignore the bad apples of the world and pray for them to have a change of heart. Love is so easy to spread around. While hate is so bad. It gives us stress and illness. Now, who in their right mind would want all that???

Again, have a great sunday!!! God is #1!!!

[I God is pure love...


eb1209

4/19/2009 1:51 pm

    Quoting poweroflove3:
    Elsa,

    Wishing you a great sunday!!! Sorry, to hear you been getting this kind of emails. As a gracious lady, just don't even bother. Ignore the bad apples of the world and pray for them to have a change of heart. Love is so easy to spread around. While hate is so bad. It gives us stress and illness. Now, who in their right mind would want all that???

    Again, have a great sunday!!! God is #1!!!
HELLO, TESS! ..Just got back from church and attended a children's party hosted by a friend. I had a great time...Yeah, you are right. I shoudn't be bothered by those annoying mails...I'm not interested anyway...Two of them wrote: "IT'S YOUR LOST", for not responding to them..Oh, really? my loss? chiwawas!..The nerve!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/19/2009 2:12 pm

btw, the loss was really spelled as lost..

Just call me ELZ


poweroflove3 64F

4/19/2009 8:13 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    btw, the loss was really spelled as lost..
Elsa,

It's their lost not to have a lovely lady like YOU. Well, today missed church coz of the pain in my ribs. I thought it was gone already. So, for the most part just watch tv with my folks all the pinoy channels. Amazing they can all sing and dance. All in all just soul searching of what does it all mean?

Have a great week ahead!!! God Bless always

[I God is pure love...


eb1209

4/20/2009 3:11 am

    Quoting poweroflove3:
    Elsa,

    It's their lost not to have a lovely lady like YOU. Well, today missed church coz of the pain in my ribs. I thought it was gone already. So, for the most part just watch tv with my folks all the pinoy channels. Amazing they can all sing and dance. All in all just soul searching of what does it all mean?

    Have a great week ahead!!! God Bless always
Oh, dear...I understand why people resort to websites like this. Some of them are out there just to test the waters, and some are just lounging to victimize the seemingly innocent who will bite their baits..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/20/2009 3:15 am

    Quoting  :

These people don't care about blogs..they don't even care too much about decency...They just want to hit the jackpot and they cannot bear the thought of being rejected or ignored. And I normally get back to them and politely decline friendship or anything more than it.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/20/2009 3:18 am

    Quoting  :

At this point, here at FFF, I am no longer entertaining FAFAbles. The male friends that I've gained/met here are the cream of the crops and I don't wanna add anymore than I can nurture and handle..that's it!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/20/2009 3:20 am

    Quoting  :

Bhabes, in here and everywhere else, men fail to give us the chance to be ourselves, and fail to know us deeply...most of them want a quickie and a quick fix, the same way (maybe) why their previous relationships in the real world had failed.

Just call me ELZ


pink_thighs 44F

4/20/2009 5:58 pm

Seems that we do have each of our own ups and downs in this site, Ms. Eb. Indeed, trying to reach our little aspiration and little expectation is quite steep. There are little heartaches and frustrations and some backlashes that discourage us. But then there are some lovely people here whom we already consider real friends or real people who inspire us to keep going. More power to you and God bless your journey

~~pinkThoughts~~


poweroflove3 64F

4/20/2009 7:35 pm

Elsa,

Now, a bit scared. Remember in my case yung lang ang gusto. Certainly learned from the lesson...

[I God is pure love...


eb1209

4/20/2009 8:34 pm

    Quoting  :

But of course, you are right, sweet Jane...and thanks for making me feel better..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/20/2009 8:36 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh thank you for the visit here on my blogs.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/20/2009 8:44 pm

    Quoting poweroflove3:
    Elsa,

    Now, a bit scared. Remember in my case yung lang ang gusto. Certainly learned from the lesson...
Just keep your eyes, ears and mind wide open...Keep your feet firmly landed on the ground..And most of all, practise your faith and belief in GOD..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/20/2009 8:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Hehehehe...Kiddie sis, I received some of those emails, my dear..and mind you, I laughed out loud believing they injected too much of____, or they took an overdose of the blue pills..

Just call me ELZ


Sicilian1 56M

4/21/2009 5:03 pm

eb, first blog ive read of yours where such a non significant thing got to ya...did'nt think of u as the kind of person who would even give this type problem the time of day.....im not trying to downplay these things but from what ive read so far of u, this is a non player in your life...?

meant with respect...
James


eb1209

4/21/2009 7:30 pm

    Quoting Sicilian1:
    eb, first blog ive read of yours where such a non significant thing got to ya...did'nt think of u as the kind of person who would even give this type problem the time of day.....im not trying to downplay these things but from what ive read so far of u, this is a non player in your life...?

    meant with respect...
    James

From am man's standpoint, it may not sound significant, James. But it means so much to me that a man would at least, show some respect, even though there is this "deafening silence" on my part. It could be that I am simply not interested, wasn't able to read the email on time, or wasn't able to open them at all. But to be CURSED just for that?..That is uncalled for..

Just call me ELZ


im_stacy
(Stacy Gielen)
113F
2795 posts
4/22/2009 10:16 am

I encountered this once and I clicked on "Report this for Abuse" ... I can't say I didn't feel hurt by the email, but then I thought what the heck ... sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me. Besides I believe in karmic justice.

When I low my friends et al give me energy.


eb1209

4/23/2009 1:57 am

    Quoting im_stacy:
    I encountered this once and I clicked on "Report this for Abuse" ... I can't say I didn't feel hurt by the email, but then I thought what the heck ... sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me. Besides I believe in karmic justice.
You're right on that, Kitty!..

Just call me ELZ