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Nothing is New under the Sun there is nothing "new under the Sun", regardless how precious and private one thinks that their concept is... when you can see ruin's being dug up after dirt has covered them for 1000's of years.. and the principals of life are the same... then what's to be hidden.. We have to have food, water, shelter, and we do get involved in mating.. everything else is just a matter of conviences available during the age of this time.. So what's the big secret.. We will live, and a time will come when we live no more.. and no one's secret's are going to change that.. and if something involved another person... then actually... " how much of a secret is it really"... you don't know what the other person thinks of it, or how they may have shared and communicated their thoughts about it. nor to whom or how many.. I would think if someone is suppose to commit their lives to be with another, how can you have room for secret's with that person, if that the person you are so called trusting and devoted to... and the minute people seek other's as confidantes, outside of the relationship, they open the door for the dissention and potential of damage .. of hiding parts of themselves from their mate.. so if you don't share it with your mate, then who are you going to share it with... and... if you don't share it ... are you really living your life full and giving your mate all of what is you and letting them beware of whom they are with.. It's no wonder. People break up and then go crying, that... " I never knew they were like this" , I never thought they'd do this to me ...and etc.. yes, I do expect to get lot's of disagrees on this, because I'm sure it's not things people like to think about, and don't like it to even be discussed... it makes people feel fragile.. But the truth is we are fragile, and we can find ways to be less fragile, when we stop hiding half ourselves from our mates.. all in the name of trying to be with some mystery.. Hell is it not enough mystery what the next minute in life will brings, without trying to create some pretentious interest and curiosity, to make one's vanity feel good, that they have someone mind clouded with doubts and curiosities.. some people love that BS, because to them.. they feel as long as they have the person confused, they have them thinking about them.. Yes, the BS games are very intricate.... when the reality is.. what??? Know and share the truth and it will set you free!!!!!!!!!! but in a world of make believe and the search for mind-readers.. people don't express the truth in full as it becomes aware unto them.. fear of rejection, fear of summation, fear of any and every imaginable fear people can conjure.. and their life becomes stifled.. and they don't know how to feel, or what to express.. and love's fall apart... from such of this which becomes truthfully, in hindsight, "ignorance’s"... and we are all guilt of such.. but as it goes, ignorance is never and excuse that set's your free or makes you un susceptible to the repercussions ignorance invokes.. so we really have to leavern to find the level's that are within relationship that communication can function on multi-levels... and yes, it's a process of learing... but well worth the efforts... if you want you love to be full in what you hope for in pursuing the ideals, you have of what it may have capabilities of becomming. |
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