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11/26/2007 8:25 am
Last Read: 2/7/2008 11:05 am
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3938 posts 11/26/2007 11:04 am |
grabeeee hmmmm ndi pa nangyari sa akin ang ganito but i will definitely do something.. wahhhhhhhh then 
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1099 posts 11/26/2007 11:15 am |
camera and you-tube 
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11/26/2007 4:33 pm |
dumbstruck!...you won't be able to say a word am sure...
as i love you i love life 
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243 posts 11/26/2007 5:04 pm |
KILL.
I never admit or deny anything ... it makes me more interesting.
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11/26/2007 6:06 pm |
Join them in bed ayyyy sick pala ako nun. 
seriously, matutulala lang ako. pero after that ayoko na sila makita kahit kelan. dedma na.  
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911 posts 11/26/2007 7:26 pm |
nothing...they're both not worth a crying f*ck ...their loss not mine
JUZ LET IT RIP...
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929 posts 11/27/2007 12:04 am |
I like the first and last options Hahaha  What about cry and laugh first, then kill them both, then get drunk and finally join them in the bed with the last bullet? 
Hehe but I voted to act like it's ok although I am not sure what I would really do.
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7 posts 11/27/2007 3:11 am |
Leave. Grieve. Move on. Forgive in your heart and forget about them both. Forever. It's not like you could ever trust either again so why prolong further agony and is either worth going to jail for?
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2158 posts 11/27/2007 5:10 am |
I chose number 3...I'll stay calm, but I'll watch them there and see if they try to finish off what they've started knowing I am there. That is good enough of a "guilt trigger" for both of them to suffer for the rest of their lives. After that, I still won't have to do ANYTHING...I'm certain none of them will see me eye to eye anymore. I won't ever take matters in my hands. Simple as that..Silence is as good a killer than painful words.
BTW, thanks for the text messages Vi!...I'll call you again once my voice is 100% back..
Stay warm
Dee 
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47 posts 11/27/2007 1:03 pm |
i'll take their soul 
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5891 posts 11/27/2007 3:13 pm |
laugh so hard. i know how he is in bed.
~ Jolielaide 
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3055 posts 11/28/2007 6:11 am |
Well probably leave & move on...
Thanks for being a part of my life...  
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601 posts 11/28/2007 1:14 pm |
KILL, sistah... KILL...
hmmm
but maybe...
but maybe i'd join them first before i kill them... enjoy it while they last,,, LOL
i miss u vi, i don't smile much anymore... 
don't DARE me. it's not just my fangs & claws that i could BARE...
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75 posts 11/28/2007 11:08 pm |
I'll probably try to hold my composure before i barge in.... and naturally will get real shocked once i see them. Although deeply hurt, i won't say a thing.....won't even listen to their explanations..... i just wanna see their facial expressions. I hope when they scrambled to put on their clothings back, they didn't pick the wrong undies.
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87 posts 11/30/2007 7:31 am |
Leave and move on and never trust another human being for as long as you live.Trust in God only.We are all just here to be purified for the next life anyway.Gaurd your choices very carefully.It's happened to me twice and i've even done it twice.Heaven and hell,good and bad choices.Both choices brought me painful consequences.I've been on both sides of the fence.
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87 posts 11/30/2007 5:19 pm |
Then again,in my depavity I might join in and then kick them both out.
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76 posts 12/1/2007 2:29 am |
It is really hard to say what to do..probably join them, wait for them finish, leave quietly..but surely i would take picture in case needed in court later..lol..maybe throw her our hard to replace best friend..lol
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12/1/2007 7:15 am |
Move on, obviously you aren't the love of his life!
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:31 am |
Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY: grabeeee hmmmm ndi pa nangyari sa akin ang ganito but i will definitely do something.. wahhhhhhhh then 
So Hon... here's hoping and praying that it will NEVER happen to you, my dear. How are you? It's getting chilly now, noh? Pls keep warm and safe always. 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:33 am |
Lhate... i know camera, but lil ol' ignorant me don't know u-tube. 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:34 am |
Quoting fantasiamore1013: dumbstruck!...you won't be able to say a word am sure...
Mama Jane... great to see u again. Hope u are doing well.
yes, shock is the very first thing...
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:35 am |
mara 
i'll watch ur back.
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:37 am |
Quoting mahal_kita: Join them in bed ayyyy sick pala ako nun. 
seriously, matutulala lang ako. pero after that ayoko na sila makita kahit kelan. dedma na.  
mahal 
i might react that same way...hope that kind of thing won't happen to any of us.
very happy to see u well-loved. 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:38 am |
Quoting zzzeromaxxx: nothing...they're both not worth a crying f*ck ...their loss not mine
Jeff... that's the spirit! ur absolutely right!
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:39 am |
Quoting schoenberg: I like the first and last options Hahaha  What about cry and laugh first, then kill them both, then get drunk and finally join them in the bed with the last bullet? 
Hehe but I voted to act like it's ok although I am not sure what I would really do.
Schoen...yeah...it would be a mixture of feelings...all not good feelings...here's wishing it won't ever happen to u..no one deserves that kind of hurt.
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:41 am |
Quoting US_Friend: Leave. Grieve. Move on. Forgive in your heart and forget about them both. Forever. It's not like you could ever trust either again so why prolong further agony and is either worth going to jail for?
US...beautifully worded response! and absolutely right!
thanks for being here. 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:44 am |
Quoting godiva0824: I chose number 3...I'll stay calm, but I'll watch them there and see if they try to finish off what they've started knowing I am there. That is good enough of a "guilt trigger" for both of them to suffer for the rest of their lives. After that, I still won't have to do ANYTHING...I'm certain none of them will see me eye to eye anymore. I won't ever take matters in my hands. Simple as that..Silence is as good a killer than painful words.
BTW, thanks for the text messages Vi!...I'll call you again once my voice is 1000ack..
Stay warm
My beautiful La-Dee-vah,
As usual, you see another possible angle that I've never even thought of. True! Quietly watching them finish could be an effective reaction.
Hope ur taking vitamins C supplement and getting enough rest. Talk with u soon. 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:46 am |
Chichi...hehehehe...and treat them to nice ice-cream cones?
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:47 am |
Quoting bebong2005: laugh so hard. i know how he is in bed.
bebong....lolzzzzz now that's a nice way of looking at it! 
thanks for being here sis! 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:49 am |
Quoting Yanie24w: Well probably leave & move on...
Yanie... that is a very peaceable reaction...hope it won't ever happen though.
thanks for being here, sis. 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:53 am |
Quoting ace73: KILL, sistah... KILL...
hmmm
but maybe...
but maybe i'd join them first before i kill them... enjoy it while they last,,, LOL
i miss u vi, i don't smile much anymore... 
Acie kow... makes me real sad that u don't smile anymore...why??? what happened??? im just an email away. before u know it, im there visiting u.
geez...now im very worried...pls stay strong Acie...u've already been through a lot..and u will survive...u always have.

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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:55 am |
Quoting TraXia_X3M: I'll probably try to hold my composure before i barge in.... and naturally will get real shocked once i see them. Although deeply hurt, i won't say a thing.....won't even listen to their explanations..... i just wanna see their facial expressions. I hope when they scrambled to put on their clothings back, they didn't pick the wrong undies.
Traxia...it can be a nightmarish thing, right sis? gee, me and my silly mind coming up with that scenario...hope it won't happen to anyone.
in the end...in ur reply...ur still thoughtful of them..that is noble, to say the least.
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 8:57 am |
Quoting niyyah2007: Leave and move on and never trust another human being for as long as you live.Trust in God only.We are all just here to be purified for the next life anyway.Gaurd your choices very carefully.It's happened to me twice and i've even done it twice.Heaven and hell,good and bad choices.Both choices brought me painful consequences.I've been on both sides of the fence.
niyyah... thanks for your honesty..im sure it hurt like hell...hopefully, the future will bring better choices and less pain.
good to see u here 
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 9:02 am |
Quoting niyyah2007: Then again,in my depavity I might join in and then kick them both out.
niyyah...yep...it can be a very confusing scenario...different emotions, different reactions, weighing what's ok to do and what reaction can boomerang back at u...it's a no win-situation..like a friend of mine said...it's their loss.
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 9:05 am |
Quoting friends4sure: It is really hard to say what to do..probably join them, wait for them finish, leave quietly..but surely i would take picture in case needed in court later..lol..maybe throw her our hard to replace best friend..lol
friends...hi there...yes, it's not easy to say what we'll do in a situation like that...sometimes people act on impulse... actions done out of passion.
thanks for being here.
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2079 posts 12/3/2007 9:07 am |
Quoting wldmn1956: Move on, obviously you aren't the love of his life!
wldmn...very true! coz the person won't be able to do that if the person were truly devoted and faithful to u.
thanks for being here and for ur reply.
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2 posts 12/5/2007 9:22 am |
shock maybe....i'm not really sure coz i haven't experience it before & hopefully it will not happen to me..anyway, better tell your partner honestly if you still love & want him/her than commit this kind of stupidity.
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76 posts 12/5/2007 3:23 pm |
Quoting virginnnose: friends...hi there...yes, it's not easy to say what we'll do in a situation like that...sometimes people act on impulse... actions done out of passion.
thanks for being here.
ur welcome..thanks for this post..pretty funny to imagine but i am sure it is not rare occurance..p.s..i would make sure get digital picture..lol
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2079 posts 12/6/2007 11:20 am |
Quoting lemondrop427: shock maybe....i'm not really sure coz i haven't experience it before & hopefully it will not happen to me..anyway, better tell your partner honestly if you still love & want him/her than commit this kind of stupidity.
lemon...yes thats so true sis...i hope it wont ever happen to anyone.
thanks for dropping by, sis. 
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2079 posts 12/6/2007 11:22 am |
Quoting friends4sure: ur welcome..thanks for this post..pretty funny to imagine but i am sure it is not rare occurance..p.s..i would make sure get digital picture..lol
friends... yes, a picture would come in handy, but a non-digital picture is more binding. ( i forgot what they call them pictures which use film )
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76 posts 12/7/2007 12:27 am |
Quoting virginnnose: friends... yes, a picture would come in handy, but a non-digital picture is more binding. ( i forgot what they call them pictures which use film )
lol..i see u have put alot of thought into this..yeah i also forgot what they are called..anyhow..i never worry such things because life is too short and if we love ourselves then nothing no one does can hurt us..
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33 posts 12/8/2007 4:05 am |
If I was married to the girl, or should I say slut, I'll record it for legal purposes and file for divorce/annulment immediately. If the girl was just my GF, I'll just tell her to pack her things and scram, and tell them both; I don't wanna see your faces ever again!
Life isn't perfect, otherwise its boring!
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44 posts 12/8/2007 6:41 am |
Act like everything is normal, Wait for them to finish.
I have been in this person's shoes. Since she did this to me, I then offered a divorce, to be the best man at their wedding. They accepted my offer since she was hoping for a settlement.
I was honest and at the wedding, I HAD A WONDERFUL TIME. She was pissed at me, (I really did not care). I dance with some very beautiful women. I am still dancing with wonderful women.
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5 posts 12/15/2007 5:31 pm |
Quietly leave if I can control my anger,wounded emotions & feelings,betrayed trust,& broken heart. Hopefully the fire insurance is up to date on the home. Bodies are so hard to dipose of now aday's. Establish an alibi & move on. Hmmm structures can be collasped very easily also if one knows how to take out the MAIN support points ! .........Behavior such as thee describe is why it is so hard to trust friends & choose a 'lifemate'.
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2079 posts 12/31/2007 8:07 am |
Quoting friends4sure: lol..i see u have put alot of thought into this..yeah i also forgot what they are called..anyhow..i never worry such things because life is too short and if we love ourselves then nothing no one does can hurt us..
friends... yes, life is too short indeed...a little bit of self-love is impt to effectively be able to love another person.
i like reading mystery novels where they mention about admissible evidence and stuff. 
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2079 posts 12/31/2007 8:10 am |
Quoting The_Harlequin: If I was married to the girl, or should I say slut, I'll record it for legal purposes and file for divorce/annulment immediately. If the girl was just my GF, I'll just tell her to pack her things and scram, and tell them both; I don't wanna see your faces ever again!
Harlequin... practical and direct to the point.
It's her loss.
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2079 posts 12/31/2007 8:16 am |
Quoting AlbertBaza: Act like everything is normal, Wait for them to finish.
I have been in this person's shoes. Since she did this to me, I then offered a divorce, to be the best man at their wedding. They accepted my offer since she was hoping for a settlement.
I was honest and at the wedding, I HAD A WONDERFUL TIME. She was pissed at me, (I really did not care). I dance with some very beautiful women. I am still dancing with wonderful women.
Albert... i'm not the type to assume or to pry, but it appears as if you were glad to be out of that relationship..as if it was already dead before you actually caught them in the act...
nonetheless, it's good to know that you found some wonderful women to dance with.
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2079 posts 12/31/2007 8:21 am |
Quoting coyotecorey: Quietly leave if I can control my anger,wounded emotions & feelings,betrayed trust,& broken heart. Hopefully the fire insurance is up to date on the home. Bodies are so hard to dipose of now aday's. Establish an alibi & move on. Hmmm structures can be collasped very easily also if one knows how to take out the MAIN support points ! .........Behavior such as thee describe is why it is so hard to trust friends & choose a 'lifemate'.
Corey... u would make a good mystery novelist. 
yes, it is hard to trust and find true friends...and even harder to find a lifemate.
it is just so inconvenient that human beings have basic needs that make them yearn for friendship, and love.
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124 posts 1/14/2008 9:47 pm |
WATCH THEM hahaha!!!
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735 posts 1/19/2008 7:02 pm |
I have always been passive and a cry baby 
So I'll just go. Not my thing to make a scene.
I will be able to get over it after 20 years So wtf.. haha!
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44 posts 1/24/2008 3:22 pm |
Virgin: I worked 12 hour days to bring her family to the US, provide her with better things; made sure I sat with her to listen about her day and what she is concerned about. In the end she wanted the pretty boy toy. NOW !!! She does not have the military ID card, free medical, zero alimony and now does not have my phone number or mailing address. I learned that I like Pop pa e tan and Bang noos for breakfast. I know I misspelled the words. Being alone is not bad.
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2079 posts 2/7/2008 10:58 am |
anak...danda ur latest profile picture...may i borrow? 
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2079 posts 2/7/2008 10:59 am |
Quoting Bebe_kow: I have always been passive and a cry baby 
So I'll just go. Not my thing to make a scene.
I will be able to get over it after 20 years So wtf.. haha!
bebekow... kurak! 20 yrs is a short time anyways. 
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2079 posts 2/7/2008 11:05 am |
Quoting AlbertBaza: Virgin: I worked 12 hour days to bring her family to the US, provide her with better things; made sure I sat with her to listen about her day and what she is concerned about. In the end she wanted the pretty boy toy. NOW !!! She does not have the military ID card, free medical, zero alimony and now does not have my phone number or mailing address. I learned that I like Pop pa e tan and Bang noos for breakfast. I know I misspelled the words. Being alone is not bad.
Albert,
There are worse things than being alone, and I'm glad you like your new life.
Goodluck in your endeavors. And enjoy the breakfast. 
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1626 posts 2/16/2008 7:46 pm |
PRETTY, HAHAHA! did i tell u about this story? it happened to me.. was at a party when i noticed one of my girlfriends and an my then-bf was missing...when i went to the bathroom, out she came followed by my ex. it was an absolutely climactic scene from a movie. i just walked out, drove my car around the village like a mad woman for a few minutes then i came back to the party. i didnt talk to my friend from that moment which lasted for a year. i refused to listen to her apologies. my ex begged, kneeled & weeped. i rewarded him with a couple of hard slaps on the face infront of his friends (which he took open-heartedly, if not helplessly ) i made him pay (literally) for months then i broke up with him! 
my friend and i are cool now. we just laugh about that incident. i know my ex for a womanizer so it wasnt really that hard to get over it.
LIFE is a HUGE PARTY! enjoy it while you're still invited!
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17 posts 7/11/2008 7:30 am |
Well it has happened to me a few times before and I've tried different approaches on different occasions. None resulted in satisfactory outcomes in the long term.
I've never killed anybody . . .
I'm really not expecting it again; my lovely wife is much better person than any of my exs. This will be a good thing, especially since none of previous responese to the situation was particularly satisfactory
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