Ever After
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In this crazy and uncaring world, can anyone still find love that's everlasting? how will you know if you've found the one who you could be with ever after? take a chance. that's all there is to it. life is all about taking chances. love is all about taking risks. if you don't make the leap, then you won't go anywhere. think of it as if you're floating in a lake where you're not moving 'coz you don't know whether you'll sink or you'll get out of the water. of course, you're afraid of sinking that's why you're not moving. but that's basically it, you won't know unless you move. if you don't move, you'll be forever stuck in stagnation. so what if you do move and you start to sink? will you sink forever? that's entirely up to you. will you allow yourself to sink or will you try to swim to the shore? take control of your life. stand by your choices and decisions. if your decision leads you to a sink, then you have a choice to allow yourself to sink or do something to get you out of the water. i've never been a fan of the idea of not having a choice. and i'm not about to start to be one. and i'm not a fan of not taking risks either. it doesn't mean that i'm promoting recklessness. one can always take a calculated risk. that's fine. but i also want to leave some out for whatever surprises that life will pull on me. don't think too much. sometimes we just have to feel more and think less. sometimes, think more and feel less. how to make the distinction is something unique for each of us. there is no one-size-fits-all solution to life. to love even more. each answer is unique for each of us. when we do take chances, what matters is we stand by our choices in taking those chances. if our choice proves to be the "wrong" one [wrong, being relative of course], then life should go on, hoping that we won't pick a "wrong" choice again. but again, we can only hope not to. each experience that we go through in life has a different set of choices, has a different notion of a right choice and a wrong choice. there's just no point in comparing past choices as each situation will always be unique. of course, you cannot just dismiss your past experiences. these experieces serve as a guide. but that's just what they are: guides. today's decisions should be relative to today's situations. in finding love ever after, don't think much of what happened in the past. remember that each experience that you will go through will always be unique. they will only be the same or look the same or feel the same if you base your decisions on your past romances. believe in love ever after. when it comes in your life, you will know. when that time comes, that's when you make your decisions...unaffected by your hurts and wrong decisions in the past. only when you take the risks will you get the chance to find love ever after. |
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8/13/2005 9:32 pm |
Let the past experience become a lesson but don't go any further because past is past; leave it that way.Experience is the best lesson in life to make things perfect. You will never know the right thing if you don't know which one is wrong....... Think...think.....think...... if you don't want the same thing to happen again and again and again..... Remember this...... "Thinking makes up decision, Decision makes up action, Action makes up habit, Habit makes your destiny.....your life....
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8/14/2005 6:03 am |
good one! i like the 2nd paragraph especially! a related saying goes: "By all means marry, if you get a good spouse, you will become very happy, if you get a bad one, you will become a philosopher."hehe!!
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8/19/2005 4:02 am |
ouch... bato-bato sa langit... 
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8/20/2005 4:31 pm |
Ate Popi... medjo familiar ba?
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