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Sulei 66M
6786 posts
1/23/2008 6:56 am

Last Read:
2/16/2008 9:31 am

Why Women Do Not Keep Their Promises?


When my blog friend "SunSHineMadz" wrote her blog "Promises", I made a comment on that, saying that it is not only men who don't fulfill their promises or give fake promises or promise what they can't make true, but women too! So, SunSHineMadz, asked me why I don't blog about it! and here you go! I wrote a blog a year or more ago, titled priorities, and mentioned the way girls fall in love according to their priorities! meaning, there is no such a love for love in FFF!! but there are people seeking possibilities and that is according to their priorities in life! for example; if a girl is planning to go to the United States, she on pay attention to guys living in the States! I know girls who chat only at night time of the phil, so tat they meet guys from the USA when it is daytime in the US. There are girls who astonish you by calling you "hun" even before they know your real name! the next day, they forget you totally! some girls are already taken, but they never amend their profiles to say that they are taken, and still keep approaching guys, for a better opportunity! it is true, that no one any more knows who is taken and who is not! therefore, it is hard for a girl to fulfill her promises because that depends on what her fishing might bring her day by day! unless she comes to u with a broken heart and u keep healing her heart until she is totally healthy emotionally , then immediately look for a bigger or better fish! of course I don't generalize here! there are still very good examples that i am proud of them!



marie45 63F
300 posts
1/23/2008 7:11 am

not keeping a promise isn't a sexist issue. it can be done by anyone, regardless of gender. Just like falling in love isn't limited to females only.

Maybe, in general terms, it is the male who always makes promises and don't fulfill it.

don't I sound biased?


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/23/2008 7:35 am

    Quoting marie45:
    not keeping a promise isn't a sexist issue. it can be done by anyone, regardless of gender. Just like falling in love isn't limited to females only.

    Maybe, in general terms, it is the male who always makes promises and don't fulfill it.

    don't I sound biased?

yes, i think u r in biased Miss Marie! which is understood of course! u can't attack ur own gender! but whether in sex, love or whatever, broking a promise is the same whether by women or men. May be because u girls expect the "poor" man should left the load all alone, and some of the guys realize it is too heavy after all! then u accuse hm of breaking his promises! but if he is not complaining in spite of all, why do women still break their promises??


Intruder2urheart

1/23/2008 10:45 am

It's because men are greatest teacher, women learn very well from men...
Hi Sulei, how was your trip? I hope you did enjoy you short vacation...


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 48F
4829 posts
1/23/2008 2:29 pm

hello sulei, promises are made to be broken specially to people who are, in all intents & purposes, complete strangers ..lol


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/23/2008 5:08 pm

    Quoting Intruder2urheart:
    It's because men are greatest teacher, women learn very well from men...
    Hi Sulei, how was your trip? I hope you did enjoy you short vacation...
hello Interuder! u got it right this time! we, men. have taught ladies all devilish things! thanks for asking, i just got home 2 days ago, and had a good trip to china. HK and thailand, it was really short! must go back next May!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/23/2008 5:11 pm

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    hello sulei, promises are made to be broken specially to people who are, in all intents & purposes, complete strangers ..lol
hello "honey" good to see u here in my little world! do u think anybody can make a promise to a "complete stranger"?! let's think together!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/23/2008 5:16 pm

    Quoting  :

wow! lightblue is here again?! I really miss your presence and thoughts together! hope u have been doing well though! and thanks for ur comment! as u usually do, it is a great asset and i envy you for how much hope you have! u never give up!


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 48F
4829 posts
1/23/2008 7:52 pm

sulei.. i am referring to making promises to friends online or even those you might meet once or twice, to me they are still complete strangers until i know them for a longer period of time & have met their family & friends & know where they work.. it just makes sense, right?


JuNLaiNe___ 112F

1/24/2008 2:09 am

Promises are like babies, fun to make
but hell to deliver ....


People don't realize that sticks and stones may break your bones, but words shatter the soul.


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/24/2008 3:54 am

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    sulei.. i am referring to making promises to friends online or even those you might meet once or twice, to me they are still complete strangers until i know them for a longer period of time & have met their family & friends & know where they work.. it just makes sense, right?
"honey" yes!! ur right! can only agree with you! but it is not always like that! most of the girls in FFF wouldn't even release their real identity unless they know u r going to western union them! only then u get their real names!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/24/2008 3:59 am

    Quoting JuNLaiNe___:
    Promises are like babies, fun to make
    but hell to deliver ....
junbug, how do u know that, when u even didn't get the experience of baby delivery?


pinoylover1 74M
1152 posts
1/24/2008 8:29 am

i agree with you Honey that promises made to be broken, not a bad thing to do if you have uneasy feeling...


pinoylover1 74M
1152 posts
1/24/2008 8:38 am

hey bro it sounds like you are having some difficulty dealing with fff girls...so far I'm not experiencing the concerns or issues you have...


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/24/2008 1:08 pm

    Quoting pinoylover1:
    hey bro it sounds like you are having some difficulty dealing with fff girls...so far I'm not experiencing the concerns or issues you have...
bro pinolover, not really! but I observe a lot, and I am one of oldest members of FFF, so I pretend to know more the new members! and I like to draw attentions to some points of weakness here and their, in order to enable guys and girls get a healthy relationships without regretting the outcome of it sooner or later! thanks again bro for your visit and your comments!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/24/2008 1:10 pm

    Quoting pinoylover1:
    i agree with you Honey that promises made to be broken, not a bad thing to do if you have uneasy feeling...
honey will be pleased to hear that, pinoylover! although i wish she would never get a broken promise and i almost sure she wont break a promise unless it is the less bitter of all!


Yanie24w 41F

1/25/2008 4:12 pm

"Promises are like the full moon,if they are not kept at once they diminish day by day”

Have a nice weekend Bro Sulei...


Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught...


Yanie24w 41F

1/25/2008 4:15 pm

    Quoting  :

...yeppI completely agree with this ate...I couldn´t have said it any better

Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught...


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
1/25/2008 5:26 pm

    Quoting Yanie24w:
    "Promises are like the full moon,if they are not kept at once they diminish day by day”

    Have a nice weekend Bro Sulei...

Very true, princess Yanie! thanks for the visit and have a nice weekend


jense26 47F
1441 posts
1/26/2008 6:27 pm

Do not give a promise but do an action... familiarize the term "PROMISE" and forget the word "EXPECT".

Not all words mean something unless it happend...same as, there are actions that dont need reasons.


SunSHineMadz 42F

2/3/2008 8:29 pm

WOW! haha! I guess i don't need to explain WHY my friend! hahaha! the bottom line is that just be wise and be cautious! to know that person you like!

"Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful."


MaÐz


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
2/4/2008 2:29 am

    Quoting SunSHineMadz:
    WOW! haha! I guess i don't need to explain WHY my friend! hahaha! the bottom line is that just be wise and be cautious! to know that person you like!
good advice madz! thanks! will take it in consideration, and hope all guys do the same!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
2/16/2008 9:31 am

    Quoting  :

hello nette! yes, I was talking out of personal experience, and i know some other similar cases! may be I was not lucky enough to meet the loyal ones may be it is the culture differences that creats lots of misunderstanding! but I never generalize! very pleased to meet you, nette! thanks for passing by!