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Sulei 66M
6786 posts
4/15/2011 8:25 am

Last Read:
5/30/2011 8:42 pm

Her Mind


For years I know her!
Since I joined this site!
For ages I sailed into her mind, trying to understand!
For decades I put my spirit aside, neglected my reason, and denied my feelings trying to be a "third" person, in order to explore her reality, invade her brain, and at times, I admit that I was so excited by the thought of her mind!

The reluctant decent man in me, was always the obstacle!

At time, I knew she needed longer time to be ready to listen! And I thought I were the one having an ocean of patience for her! Yet, I admit now, that women do not mean what they say now!

My fault was, I did not read between the lines!
and instead of attacking her big walled castle, and demolishing all the walls between us, I played the role of the noble gentleman!

Women do not always mean literally what they say at times, specially when it comes to their feeling and desires!
It is not because they lie or not honest, but the "" in them makes them eager to see the utmost in us men!

How many times, and in how many occasions, a beautiful love story see its end in no time, just because we men, don't know how the language of the "" in them!
And only the dark nights know their truth, witnessing the shower of their tears!
Whereas, we, men, hurry back to our caves, creating poems for an imaginary lost lovers instead of letting our horses invade their loneliness!

Women remain, our source of inspiration, and our great obstacle when we fail to understand!!




Bebong2010 56F

4/15/2011 10:45 am

in my point of view you did the right thing
not all women are cryptic
once and a while you will met a few who mean exactly what they say
and gentlemen are always appreciated in most circumstances
but then again... in every rule there is an exception

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/15/2011 4:08 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    in my point of view you did the right thing
    not all women are cryptic
    once and a while you will met a few who mean exactly what they say
    and gentlemen are always appreciated in most circumstances
    but then again... in every rule there is an exception
are you the exception, bebs?


cyntherea39

4/16/2011 4:57 am

Oh well "WOMEN" as they are. Who wanted to understand
them anyway? I myself is unpredictable .


"weird words in a bizarre world"


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/16/2011 5:43 am

    Quoting  :

aloofa, so true! thanks for elaborating! u always makes a difference with ur comments! have a nice weekend!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/16/2011 5:45 am

    Quoting SweetGirl926:
    "Women do not always mean literally what they say at times, specially when it comes to their feeling and desires!It is not because they lie or not honest, but the "child" in them makes them eager to see the utmost in us men!" ... this is true to me this past few days..

    i have been avoiding his indirect invitation. now I'm being straight, i felt awful inviting directly a guy for a date..
sweet, the thing is, there is no right or wrong in such a case! it is personal reaction and preference! it has to do with our within nature! thanks for ur visit, and wish u a happy weekend!


Bebong2010 56F

4/16/2011 2:54 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    are you the exception, bebs?
i always mean what i say except in jest

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/16/2011 3:45 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    i always mean what i say except in jest
i never known u as a jester, bebs!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/16/2011 3:47 pm

    Quoting  :

I never doubted your cleverness, jean!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/16/2011 6:10 pm

    Quoting  :

who knows! we might resume it again when time is tipe for it!


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/17/2011 9:15 am

Sulei,

Just tell it how it is. And see where it leads you w/o beating around the bush. Happy Sunday...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/17/2011 10:44 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Sulei,

    Just tell it how it is. And see where it leads you w/o beating around the bush. Happy Sunday...
thanks Tess! I always listen with great attention to what u say!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/17/2011 6:08 pm

    Quoting  :

hello bro Lickquid, very true and well said bro!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/17/2011 6:09 pm

    Quoting  :

hello catch! nice to hear that, and nice to see u here too!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/17/2011 6:11 pm

    Quoting  :

the expression or the concept?


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/17/2011 6:13 pm

    Quoting cyntherea39:
    Oh well "WOMEN" as they are. Who wanted to understand
    them anyway? I myself is unpredictable .

Mel, we can only try, and there is nothing guaranteed!


eb1209

4/17/2011 10:13 pm

    Quoting  :

I am that woman! ....I always mean what I say...and say what I mean...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/17/2011 10:15 pm

Sulei, I don't want men to be harsh on me...I don't want them to my mind...I want then to "Make love to my mind"... and I blogged about it long time ago..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

4/17/2011 10:16 pm

Take it easy on me, guys... I'm FRAGILE!...Please handle me with care!

Just call me ELZ


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/18/2011 3:17 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    I am that woman! ....I always mean what I say...and say what I mean...
i know that Elz. i am aware of it!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/18/2011 3:20 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Sulei, I don't want men to be harsh on me...I don't want them to my mind...I want then to "Make love to my mind"... and I blogged about it long time ago..
Elz, in your case, i don't think one needs to ur mind even if it is virgin, because it is very clear! it will be much easier making love to it!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/18/2011 3:21 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Take it easy on me, guys... I'm FRAGILE!...Please handle me with care!
soft heart, or soft bones, Elz?


Shadownight2

4/30/2011 4:01 pm

Sulei hallo what a wonderful words in mindmmmmmmm..well the language of love come to our deepest heart..and if I say it I mean it..and I spoke comes from my heart not only from my mouthlove means,sincerity,purity,honesty,faithfulness.etc..etc.etc..but we need to Be true to our selves..like what I say in my blogtakecare

turn your face to the sun and the SHADOW fall behind you!


Shadownight2

4/30/2011 4:09 pm

SuleiI want you me in real not on your mind I would love that and love me foreveroppppsssss sowe just kidding

turn your face to the sun and the SHADOW fall behind you!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/30/2011 4:47 pm

    Quoting Shadownight2:
    Sulei hallo what a wonderful words in mindmmmmmmm..well the language of love come to our deepest heart..and if I say it I mean it..and I spoke comes from my heart not only from my mouthlove means,sincerity,purity,honesty,faithfulness.etc..etc.etc..but we need to Be true to our selves..like what I say in my blogtakecare
shadow i am glad u liked this blog even u dont agree with minds but hanks for ur comment!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
4/30/2011 4:49 pm

    Quoting Shadownight2:
    SuleiI want you me in real not on your mind I would love that and love me foreveroppppsssss sowe just kidding
huh? u in real? shadow?